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Some SPs are not into the menus so there may have to be bit of a different dialogue. To be honest, if someone starts naming off an alphabetical list of acronyms, it tells me a lot. I look for someone who genuinely wants to spend time with me aside from what type of services they will receive. When I see a person who lists acronyms, I am hesitant. I understand that there should be some sort of expectations in terms of what services will be received and not received but to me this is very impersonal and tells me what type of client they will be. A first impression is always a lasting one. If the person takes the time to communicate with me in more of a personable way while still being able to get their questions answered, it is more favorable. I am also more patient in this regard as I answer phone calls and texts all day long so I'm used to having more of a conversation. A conversation on the phone with a potential client will always give me a signal in 30 seconds or less if I want to meet them. It is all in the way they speak to me, the way they sound tells me their personality and the type of questions they ask, etc. I pick up on people's energy very quickly whether it's good or bad on the phone and in person. I will never specifically book just by text. It is crucial I hear the person's voice. Don't ask me why but my instincts always tell me yes or no within those 30 seconds. So while I don't have a lot of time, my brain and instincts are processing this info very quickly in how the person is reacting towards me and the questions they ask. I'm sure this works if an SP is more upfront in her ads and you want to confirm these services but we all run our business a different way. I thought it was cute when you put in "Hunnie" but I never use terms of endearment with my clients unless I've met them first. This comes off as very phony when you haven't met them. A different approach will need to be taken once this new bill becomes law.

Anyone else notice that this SP also provides bareback full service?! like seriously what is wrong with some people. http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sweet-sexy-independent-companion-gf-ps-hotels-only-26/1548528 Stay safe guys, I will also be posting one in the unsafe encounters page

I saw that ad the other day too. I just don't get it. I had to reread it a few times just to be sure I wasn't mistaken. How is BBFS a thing? To quote the esteemed Ricky Bobby "it bottles the mind"....

I have offered this advice privately to a few newbies and have been recently asked by an SP to offer the suggestions to the community at-large. Apparently, some of you need a refresher course... :roll: (I also expect that you are like me -- if you are considering meeting an escort who has no presence on CERB then you have done your proper homework to see if she's genuine or a scammer, and decided to go ahead.) Step 1. Be clear in what you are looking for (services, time). Be careful never to solicit. Example A applies if she has not stated her rates on her Backpage ad: Hi, I like DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. If you are free for a HH incall at 2 p.m., please tell me your HH rate. Example B when her rates are already quoted: Hi, I like DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. Can I book you for a HH incall at 2 p.m.? At this point, she will reply saying she doesn't do a service, she is only free at a time later on, or might not respond at all. Let's say she replies like this: Hi hunnie. CBJ only. I start at 3.30. HH 140, H is 200. Step 2. Make the booking and always prompt her to acknowledge by asking the question. Example: I'm OK with CBJ. 140 for HH is OK too. Please book me for 3:30 p.m. for HH. OK? Let's say she responds like this: OK hunnie. C u then. (At this point you have technically booked her in just 2 text messages! Good for you!) Step 3. Now, if you are within 1 hour of your booking, it is acceptable to ask for her location like this: Thanks for accepting my booking. What is your hotel or address? However, a lot of escorts do not like giving out their location if you have booked a few hours or a day in advance. Let her know that you will follow-up, like this: Thanks again, we are confirmed 3:30p.m. for HH. I will text you 1 hour before to ask for your location. Bye for now. (Later on you will text her like this: Hi, we have a booking for 3:30 p.m. Please tell me your hotel or address.) Once you arrive at her location, expect to text her again for her room number (if she's at a hotel), or for her buzzer number and suite number (if she's at an apartment). These same general rules work well if you choose to arrange your date over the phone. Escorts don't want to make conversation with you or answer a lot of questions. Be direct. Get booked. Get laid. Simple. Cheers!

I want a true GFE. If I was into the bar scene and interested in getting a gf, I doubt I would get far if my first questions were if she offers BBBJ or other acronyms. Therefore when I contact a provider, services is one of the last thing I will discuss. Besides telling her a bit about myself, I see if we can match our schedule. No point getting into too many details if timing doesn't work. I love getting to know ladies in the business but don't want to waste their time! As for how I will contact her I will use her preferred method!

To the OP: I think you got your point across succinctly. However, to add to it - it's to stress that if/when the lady accepts your booking request, that you follow her protocol to securing/confirming the appointment. For example, in my case, I do not finalize any bookings by text or email. The client MUST call me from an unblocked number I can call back if necessary. Part of my screening to hear the person's voice and chit chat a bit as intuition plays a big part in whether I want to see them. I give them a general idea of where I am located. Then I will ask that they confirm at least a half hour before the scheduled time so I know they are on their way. Then I will direct them to a designated place to park. When they get there, they need to call for the street address. I will be moving away from answering explicit requests by text or email as I do not want any text message or email trails out there. I have no problem discussing things by phone because it's doubtful LE is going to wiretap my phone. I think people need to relax a bit and wait and see how things are going to pan out with the new bill. In-calls were technically illegal and even agencies were offering them and the police have basically overlooked that for years unless there were problems. So why all of a sudden would they be listening in to two people's private conversations. I am not concerned that much will change. I am quite adept to change and have no problem adapting to whatever I need to do to keep myself and my clients safe.

Carrie, although Lisbeth provides good pointers, I would highly discourage you to use the method quoted above because A) a lot of potential clients will use this to circumvent your basic screening process B) will use it just to get a look at you and talk to you even though they have no intentions of booking C) in my personal opinion, in general, it's a total waste of time D) you will end up drinking a lot more coffee than your body can tolerate and/or that you care to ;) I could add a few more valid reasons but I'll leave it at that.

I was going to say... I actually am completely nervous to answer any email with these abbreviations.... In fact this kind of email I may answer to, but I know it won't go anywhere since there is absolutely no information as to who this gent is at all.. danger!!

Your plan is fine for a menu lady but I know for sure receiving texts like that would scare the Ba - Jesus out of me..

My addition, is that since discussing services etc in public settings is illegal, you are opening yourself up to a potential for charges. Further, you are allowing him to control this set up, meaning that once you set up a public meeting, he is free to tweet out to 20 of his closest friends, one of whom is in the corner filming the entire encounter to put it on youtube. Non appt public meetings are unnecessary. If you feel wary enough to even consider having to meet someone first, then simply decline the appt. There is such a thing as bad money.

I went back today to see sweet Hazel this evening and I wasn't disappointed (I asked Barbs DJ yesterday and he told me she is scheduled today at 6. Thank you Mr. DJ). I was very happy to see her walking in just before 6:00. Came over to greet me upon her arrival and she was happy to see me too. Hazel is a classy very cute short hair brunette with a very soft feminine fair skin which I absolutely adore. I had a very heavenly time with her in the CR. She is highly recommended if you like a classy educated very cute young brunette. When the CR dance was over it was so hard to say bye till next time and let go of her so I kept kissing her even after we walked out of the CR!!. Like any dancer the mileage I am sure would be YMMV. She dances Sundays but she told me she also she dances Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays in the evenings. Thank you Hazel for the lovely time and your pre-dance companionship.

Started with Barbs at 4:00 pm. A few ladies already there that early among them Paris (cute blonde), Brandy (cute blonde), Vanessa (fair skinned brunette), Joy (Tiny ebony), Sabrina (tiny ebony with dyed pink hair) and a couple of others. Had my late lunch or early Supper at 4:30 and a few dances with Ebony Joy (open minded for Barbs standard and she dances at Pigale evenings) and after I saw all the ladies on stage I decided to leave just after 5:00 pm. Unlike previous weekends Jenny (the cerb popular tall blonde) was absent today!!. My two favorites (Hazel (the very kissable cute short hair fair skinned brunette) and Nikki (the pretty faced fair skinned brunette) both reviewed in Barbs thread) were both absent as well!!. Asked the Barbs DJ about Hazel's working days. Will go back soon to see Hazel. Arrived at Playmates around 5:30 (too early for Playmates). Ashley (early starter, slim brunette) on stage) and a few ebony ladies walking around. Hayley (the high mileage tinny cute blonde) and Teasy (the fair skinned cute faced with dyed red hair) (both reviewed in Playmates thread) were absent today again!!!! The Blonde Kim (sexy kitty fair skinned blonde, a bit on over weight side) arrived just before 6:00 but it was time for me to head to another bar. Arrived at Taboo around 6:30 pm. About a dozen dancers (mostly ebony ladies) and half a dozen patrons. More patrons arriving after 6:30 but most don't stick around for long. No stage dance until 7:30 (no wonder arriving patrons leave soon after arrival). Layla (the high mileage very cute fair skinned young girl), Ginger (high mileage large framed natural red head) and Ruby (the very fair skinned, high mileage small boobs natural redhead), all reviewed in Taboo thread) were all absent today!!!!!. I stayed until 7:45 as I was waiting for Pigale to open. Sabrina The very cute faced fair skinned very passive/shy brunette, who is reviewed in Taboo thread) arrived at 7:30 but was taken by another patron soon after coming out of changing room so I decided to leave to Pigale. Arrived at Pigale just after 8:00 pm. About half a dozen young patrons sitting around the stage and another half a dozen at tables. However there was stage dances one after another even with low number of patrons (unlike the other strip bars). Soon after 8:30 patrons started coming in teams. by 9:00 the bar was crowded. Ladies walking around and approaching patrons for dances. I was approached half a dozen times myself but targeted a young lady with a very pretty face (I am very selective on looks). Her name was Mila (from Ottawa). Not very high mileage but tall brunette with very pretty face and slender sexy body. Small boobs though. Two dozen or so dancers (none with fake boobs though so this is a change from the past for Pigale) and about 50 or so patrons and more coming. The number of dancers and patrons were increasing exponentially after 9:30. Had a second Supper (late Supper) at Pigale. No comparison with Barbs. Much better food at barbs for sure. Just before 10:00 it was too crowded and I decided to leave. ET.

Personally no the type of text I like and would refer you to visit. My ads/website for rates/experience

Just goes to show that there is no "perfect" way to carry on this conversation. My comment would be simply be respectful in whatever approach you take and then follow the ladies lead. Just my Opinion

I only keep records of no show/bad dates and the like. I do however keep my previous agenda and a calendar but the most in it is something like "Steve 2hrs at 4pm" and after the appointment I put if I would repeat with this person or not, sometime they are some people that while are not bad dates I just didn't connect

I think probably the idea of outing clients was done in the heat of the moment, and should be taken with a grain of salt. I believe that the ladies would practice discretion in outing their clients as this would ruin their credibility if they did so. As for maintaining a client list, as a business owner they might keep records, although I don't think most do. You must remember that once you surrender the information you don't have any control of it. I wouldn't get too worried though as part of the fee is a guarantee of discretion.

i will say don't worry about EC, it is an advertising site, not an agency or a 3rd party poster. You submit the ad to EC, therefore you are the one posting the ad, not EC.

I just received an email from a guy with his picture saying he doesn't pay for sex but would love to take me out for a couple of beers. Lmao I wrote him back and said " the site you found me on is not a dating site. "

It's already in the warning section: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=632821#post632821 The SP you see in the pictures on BP was one of the SPs listed on TOP-HALIFAX-ESCORTS dot COM and for some reason, they recently removed all the profiles that were on there. I wonder why... Additional Comments: If you Google the phone number used in the BBFS BP ad 902-209-9575 you will be surprised to see what type of information appears in the results. Interesting, to say the least. Plus, this number is being used by a so called escort agency named "Great Girls". See the Yellow pages: http://www.yellowpages.ca/bus/Canada/Great-Girls/100464013.html

Guys who write down a bunch of phone numbers and then call me and ask who they're are calling. Real way to make a girl feel special, NOT!!

Giving someone web site, then they come back with " well what are the rates? I am looking for male/female fun" So I say..." Hmmm, are you sure you read my site? " Then he says doesn't like my attitude! lol

For the most part, that is me as well. The first contact is through the email link in the website or sometimes via pm on boards (provided the SP has that option posted in her ad). In that initial contact is the phone # I will be contacting from as well to save confusion. One thing I would add is that in that first text, my first words are always, "Hello, my name is (insert first name), I am 54 yrs old and live in the area and saw your ad on CERB (or whatever). My handle there is "peacectryguy" Then the other pertinent stuff that was mentioned. I believe it is important to make an effort to show the lady you are on the level and a name and brief description does help in that. If they require more info, they can and will ask but it shows you are placing some trust in them and usually they feel better trusting you. It is a 2 way street.

Thx keep up the reports. My experience with taboo is that high mileage ladies only there in afternoon. Ginger Kiki Talia Diva Carli are the best. YMMV

I'm a member of them all .... I only post on the western / eastern boards when touring, so I'm not involved in the daily discussions. I find on terb people are more honest and I get into less trouble. I can relax, be myself, post honestly and frankly and I get a ton of respect there. You've got to be able to take it when you dish it out. I've had my wrists slapped more than once here ... all well deserved according to the guidelines, but I have to check myself. For someone who's always misbehavin' that's a challenge! ... and not that an occasional spanking is a bad thing :p

They do have one now http://www.stilettogirls.ca

Take all the good points in Carley's quote and add in awesome Chemistry, Genuine person, her looks, amazing sex, she makes you feel like a king, great sense of humour, easy to talk to, nice follow up emails are just a few of the reasons why as someguy describes it you have a lady you look forward to repeat with. Am I describing Carley here, I could be!!!

Basically it is any sex worker who is under 21 (some 25 years), any sex worker who may look "young" (whatever that means), any non-white sex worker, any sex worker not from the area, any sex worker who can't prove they are from the area, any sex worker without legitimate ID (you need ID to book a hotel room mostly so that means someone else booked the hotel room or you paid cash and the hotel accepted, which happens like never nowadays), any sex worker who works with other sex workers or travels with other sex workers, any sex worker who acts in an aggressive manner towards the police, any sex worker who may be in a location that has substances (drugs/alcohol) in the room that they find while searching the room. Once the police are in your room/work location they are free to check almost anything (except a locked cellphone, password protected computer, thumb drives). This is also why it is good to answer the door fully clothed.

Also, the risk of being arrested for public solitation. I would never meet a potential client in public. If they are not comfortable giving you the information you ask, move on. The gems are there. Don't let anyone push you to break you rules because they are uncomfortable.

I think with C36 it'll be dangerous to start talking/texting/emailing about money for services. Keep talk/texts/emails to money is for time and companionship, nothing about sex for money A rambling RG

And what is interesting about this comment is that it is presumed and assumed that trash talking is not just permitted, but encouraged on all the other sites, even the ones promoted as most friendly lol. It should be noted that p/t/m erbs are all the same board admin/owner. If they are communicating amongst each other, that should not really be a big surprise, after all. p erb is simply t erb for out west. Same guy to be contacted if you want to send a message to the admin. This site is what it is due to moderation. no one is undoing the moderator/admin mandates, or permitting hostility. This kind of moderation goes a long way in explaining why certain types of people, who are active on all those other sites, show up here and either leave shortly after, or rarely participate. When you are an aggressive, trollish, baiting, lying, trash talking poster, you have no place on this site. And that is the number one reason you will find more sps participating on this site over any other, regardless of any amount of business they might get. I've seen a dozen of the sps who are very active members of cerb, never or rarely posting on even their own reviews on other sites. That alone tells a big story. Guys come here because if they post a good review, they get a thank you from other guys and from sps. They do the same post elsewhere, they get trashed and attacked. Not exactly hard to figure out the differences, or the reasons why this site tends to have more active members.

Please get rid of your gum before you attempt to kiss or go down on me. And in the garbage please, not stuck to my table.

Oh my goodness, the difference is huge. I tried with merb because I'm in Montreal but the hostility is palpable- between the men and the ladies, and between the men themselves. I never felt like a human being on there. It is very graphic and cold. Cerb is simply this: warmth in my heart. It is so lovely and encouraging and we treat each other with humanity and respect. I have to say that the men on cerb are some of the best men I've ever met, even outside the business. These are men I wish existed more in the real world :) Yay cerb! Thank you for bringing heart, happiness and fun to this industry.

If you are in compliance with the lady's requirements and do not overstep boundaries (asking too many personal questions, sharing too many personal stories with her where she might not feel comfortable, insisting on off-the-clock extended conversing/texting or email, trying to stay over-time or enticing her to stay over time or meet off the clock for free, etc.) there is no reason why you should feel you are taking advantage of her. If you are getting a certain level of intimacy and other stimulation met through the time you spend with an SP without any unrealistic expectations, then I'd say you have a good arrangement. If you feel you are not totally satisfied and crave more, then you might be putting unrealistic expectations on the client/SP relationship. I understand some men do not want to pursue a dating relationship because for whatever reason they don't want the commitment that goes along with it. But you can't expect an SP no matter how gracious she is or how well you connect and get along with her, to give you access to her personal life, or her heart so to speak. Just because we are being paid does not mean we are there just for the money, but I would never want a client to think or expect it may develop into anything more. In some instances, a client and SP may click in the romance department and end up together as a couple, but it's not realistic for a client to see SPs hoping that will happen for him. I am not suggesting that is what you are doing, I'm just putting it out there, that if you think you are taking advantage of someone, ask yourself what you are doing that is perhaps making you feel guilty. I suggest you do a self-check, and if necessary, ask a provider you have been with who you trust who has the maturity to be honest and ask them if there is anything they have observed in your approach or behaviour that might be off putting. Little things that might not seem like such a big deal can something make others feel uncomfortable. Doesn't mean it can't be corrected.

I am writing here because I realized some gentlemen are asking questions about me so I will give you the information. I just transformed a room in my house in a Tantra Temple ( big fire place, exotic decorations, warm atmosphere, candles everywhere. I offer a moment of pure pleasure and kindness. My massage is inspired from the Kama Sutra book of love (exotic technics) and the quality and cares I provide are VIP. I know how to give a good tantric massage because I have 10 years of experience and I learned from Masters in India 10 years ago. What is Tantric? In the beginning it was a movement of protestation from a group of person who believed the divine could be reach by the sexuality. Like we all know, back those days, sex was banned and people were considering it as impure. Tantric is there to prove us that the divine can be reach by the sensual touch and the goal is to get the most powerful orgasm possible (by the lingam and the kundalini). Feel free to ask me questions, I am very friendly and humanist. I am a nice girl, I treat my costumers just like kings. I will make you very happy. I know I am not supposed to write here because it s a review site, but I saw how many people were asking about me. So kindly I answer to you Gentlemen. With love, Liberty

A splendid idea. Here it is. Now, what shall we talk about? To begin with... here's something for the ladies. How can you resist that? :)

Gents (and Ladies) Here's another newbie question but probably everyone is interested to see what you think on this topic. Obviously all of us are aware of the notion of tipping for great service received, however tipping often has customary practices that are unique to the surrounding circumstances. What are the 'best practices' re: tipping in the SP space? For example... - always tip except in the face of worse possible service (like tipping in a restaurant) - only tip if the service was 'blow you away' good (Not a BJ pun!) - never tip because the donations are "all inclusive" (this would seem unlikely to me) And lastly, is tipping generally percentage based (like a waiter or a cab) or a fixed amount based, or whatever you think it was worth based? Sorry to bring up money when so many more fun topics are at hand, but these Ladies deserve Best Practice and personally, I definitely do not want to miss the mark on this important point. Thanks in advance for all of your thoughts.

Hi! I am quite new for this site, as I joked with a service provider I still have my new car smell. Some recent events in my life lead me here, things that I won't get into for this thread. I was referred by a friend, who has had this lifestyle for a quite some time. I, like so many hobbiest came to this site not quite sure what they are looking for or how to proceed. I did read a bunch of threads and picked up on the Do's and Dont's quite quickly. Learning the etiquette for service providers isn't the easiest thing. I found myself challenged quite a number of times. After doing more research I figured out finally that I did want to become a hobbiest. I spoke with a few SP's over the last weeks and decided to book one in via this site (PM). I have a phone, but it's a work phone and it's monitored. Anyways, the following information I hope makes it easier for any other hobbiest that's going through the same motions and train of thought. I followed etiquette to the T with the SP, but once I got there it was entirely different than perception. What do I mean? I am a guy, I'm 30 years old and I love women. I love oral, I love sex, I love it all. Before the service call; I was ready to roll! Happy to try it out.. having a girlfriend for an hour! :) Closer to time, I grew a bit nervous. What if the service isn't as expected? what I am not as expected? etc, etc, etc... I decided to go through with the service and the SP I chose was very good and take her time since it was my first time. Don't get me wrong, the initial shock goes away and you get to enjoy yourself. You get the pleasure you were looking for. As a hobbiest you need to realize that there's no chase for the service. There's no rush for it and that it will happen. That I think was the strangest feeling I got... the expected service was delivered without a chase for it. This might not make sense to any service providers. Anyways, that's just my two cents... I had a great time and I hope the SP did as well. If anyone is reading this, wondering if they should become a hobbiest... make the choice for you. This is my opinion :)

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Hello funadventure, Welcome to cerb, and you have been given excellent advice here so far. I can see from your posts, you have learned to navigate this site very efficiently for a beginner. Good for you! You have proper posting etiquette, and that is appreciated here. From what I can see, you should have no problem posting an ad, and finding your own specific way to screen your potential clients. Each of us have our own methods. Now with the changes our industry will be facing, not only will we be screening our clients, but clients will also be screening new to the scene ladies. With a new lady, many clients will probably choose to only talk about details face to face behind closed doors until they meet you, so it would be wise not to offer nothing but your time as a companion.

Has anyone sent an email to Kathleen Wynne asking her to refer this to Ontario's highest court if/when it becomes law? From my understanding, if the court upholds the bill then it will increase the time it takes to challenge it. Secondly, Alan Young thinks that the communication ban can be struck down immediately, but he wants to wait before challenging the rest of it because he's not sure what approach to take. In short, there's no gaurantee that the court will overturn it. Lastly, Terri-Jean Bedford isn't doing so well. If the court upholds the bill then she wouldn't really lose anything anyway. I have an email drafted, but I think it might be better not to send it and to wait instead. What's the point if thr court upholds the bill

"Are you open now?" What am I? A convenience store? Lol. Some of the things I've been asked over the last few years, I just shake my head and can't help but to laugh now. This came from an SP friend of mine... Him: Are you available? Her: Yes Him: I dont want to pay. Fun is free Her: Would you like to go to work and not get paid by your boss because he thinks you enjoy your job soooo much? Him: No but having fun should still be free. Her: Well I guess you can't argue with stupid Regardless of whether or not someone enjoys their job or not, they are still entitled to be paid. While many SPs enjoy what they do, it is how they make their living. Never confuse her with enjoying her job that she would see a client off the clock because she enjoys it so much. We are also like everyone else. We have financial responsibilities, many women have children, etc. Some people attempt to confuse those lines where it is already apparent to begin with. Posted via Mobile Device

I'm on Cerb, Terb, and Merb, and they all seem to be quite different, but each are useful in different ways. I was actually skeptical about joining Cerb for the longest time, since it seemed sort of like an exclusive club you need to be on the VIP list to get into. After joining on a whim, I realized how wrong I was, and how lovely and respectful everyone, both men and SP's are on here. I haven't really met many people from here..I think only one person? But from the ones I've chatted to, and just reading the threads and recommendations, everyone just seems to be very supportive of each other, which I find really beautiful, because that's so hard to find being in this business. Terb is..well, a whole other ballgame. It certainly has it's perks, since there are a lot of SP's trying to scam or rip people off, and it's good for the men to be able to share experiences such as that with each other, and I think that negative reviews can be a good thing as well, since if you take it as constructive criticism, it can help someone improve in areas where they may be lacking, such as communication, or overall friendliness, or rushing, etc. The only problem I've found with this board though(at least mainly in the Ottawa area I find), is that a large portion of men on there are malicious, nasty, and downright mean. I feel like I'm back in high school with all of the catty girls when reading through that board these days. And the thing is, there could very easily be men lying in their reviews, and yet the guys will pounce on anything negative as a reason to boycott an SP. I actually also know that some agencies will make deals with the men on here, that in exchange for a good review for a girl, the guys will get a discounted session, which isn't a very honest review in the end, since the SP may be very different than the men are painting them out to be. I've very rarely read anything on there that actually speaks as if the SP's are actual human beings worthy of respect. I do have to say though, it provides me my daily entertainment! Or is that wrong to say..? Merb seems to be the same as Terb, though not as exciting unfortunately! There does seem to be way more positive reviews than negative, but that could very well be because there's a lot of good SP's in Montreal? Hard to say.. All-in-all, each board serves a purpose and it's good in way to have that variety there. Posted via Mobile Device

Just goes to show, one mans fantasy is another mans nightmare. :P Just kidding! Hope your fantasy comes true someday!

"In Durham Region, officers interviewed 31 sex trade workers, with an average age of 26, and investigators believe nine were under some level of control. These 31 people represent the highest total for any police service during Operation Northern Spotlight II." I find that they BELIEVED 9 were under some level of control which means they can't actually prove it. What they don't factor in is the tendency for peope to default to the inaction of "it's easier to blame someone else for your actions than own it when challenged" if it's something they haven't reconciled within themselves... cat

Let's chat! xoxo

Zoe I would like to know your opionion on this matter, as you are very intelligent and I am sure have been following it closely. What are your thoughts, observations, concerns etc. I highly respect and value your thoughts on all of this from a SP perspective. Thanks

I know these others like to make fun of your mistake..don't worry about it,book an appt.with either Christine or Leanne and you will forgot all about 1344..we all have made mistakes before,move on and get happy.. Additional Comments: Would love to know as well what ever happened to Leslie..from my time with Leanne I may know why Leslie was let go..if she did more than these other gals then that could have been found out about I guess..miss her though!

I can generally describe it as a sense that we're "on the same wavelength": during our conversations our minds are compatible; we don't agree on everything, and in fact her different perspective is valuable in itself; but we can talk about stuff comfortably and learn from each other. she's made an effort, prepared for the session, and she's fully present during our time together. she's sexually comfortable with herself and with me, generally uninhibited, excitable, engaged, and I believe she's aroused and enjoying herself during our time together. I feel I can share kinks and oddball interests, that she'll likely understand or recognize what I'm interested in and how that works, and if not already experienced she's game for trying. rather than just a sense of "aw heck she'd be a great friend!" (though that's cool too), she invokes an air of sensuality, the ability to seduce, and for undefinable reasons provokes my own sexual response. I leave our encounter with a smile on my face and a bit of a glow. It's really much less about appearance, and more about personal engagement, openness, and comfort as well as the potential for some kind of sustainable, in-synch excitement for future sessions.

Berlin, thank you for starting this conversation with your clear, sensitive and accurate opening post! I rarely offer one-hour appointments, and never to new clients. Instead, I give a bit of a discount for a first-time meeting so that we can spend a relaxed hour and a half, or more, together. A drink, a glass of wine or a cup of tea and some relaxed conversation smooth the way to a very good erotic encounter. Engage me, turn me on, help me reach high arousal and you're welcome to pound away as much as you like. I'll be with you, and I can be as demanding, responsive and energetic as you can, if not more! And if things come to an end sooner than you'd hoped or expected, that's not a problem. I'm happy to cuddle and engage in lots of sensual after-play. In fact, this is often a bonding experience that may increase my eagerness for round two or for your next visit! I do want to say that the jackhammer enthusiast is, thankfully, rare, perhaps because I learned early on, after someone expected a solid half hour of Greek penetration, not to make half-hour appointments with anyone I don't know quite well. Most of my clients are sensitive and attentive lovers, which makes everything better for both of us.