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Like this picture? Want to see it in person? I'd be happy to perform for you, but please no tickling. This requires extreme concentration and if I fell on you then you'd have to deal with me lying on top of you in nothing but a...oh wait. I understand your motive now. Naughty Natalie here, an ultra petite young woman who loves good vinyl, climbing ropes and dangling upside down from them, singing along to Bowie in the car, blinding men with my beauty and being humble. I'm 27, 5ft, 100lbs, size 5 feet, red hair, green eyes, big smile and a rockin butt. Want a chance to effortlessly throw me up against a wall with one arm? My availability this week is as follows: Tuesday: 11:30 - 2 Wednesday: 11-2 Thursday: 9-11 To arrange a time, please contact me through email at [email protected] along with your Lyla handle. I prefer email as it helps me stay organized and allows us to speak more...candidly. Wink wink. All you need to bring when you arrive is a dashing smile (don't worry, I won't judge you on your level of dashing, just try your best) and $250 for an hour of play time. Also, please let me know if you have any requests for outfits. I love rising to a challenge, whether it be a super hero costume, dinosaur onesie, 80's aerobic instructor or fancy cocktail dress and nylons. And because I'm so humble I will let you know that I'm very well reviewed here and elsewhere so feel free to do some research! Tech skills impress me.

Over time I've seen a few posts, tweets, etc from different ladies essentially stating "If you ask me for a menu, you won't be spending time with me." Here's my thing....without going into details I have a physical restriction which prevents me from engaging in all the activities one normally comes to expect from seeing an escort. And it limits me to only participating in certain activities. Rest assured they are considered "safe" activities by most SP's, but not all SP's provide them. Also, a big reason I participate in this lifestyle is to live out certain fantasies and fetishes I have that a lot of "civilian" girlfriends may not go for. Again, they are "safe" fetishes and fantasies, I'm pretty vanilla lol, but still not things that every single escort provides. Hence, if I need to I will inquire beforehand if those services and/or activities are available. I do respect a lady's right to personal boundaries...which is why I ask beforehand....but given my own restrictions and fantasies, if I show up without first inquiring only to find out that what I had in mind is not available, not only will I have wasted my own time but the lady's as well. Often times a lady's ad and/or photos will grab my attention but then a disclaimer of "don't ask me for menu items" prevents me from contacting them. So to the ladies who have issues with being asked for menus, I pose this question to you: Is there a difference between "asking for a menu" and inquiring about a specific service or services? I understand that inquiring in a rude or disrespectful manner is one thing...but if I inquire in a respectful and polite manner (which I like to think I do) if X or Y service is available, will that also automatically get me blacklisted as someone who "asks for a menu"? I totally respect a woman's right to determine how she is approached or contacted, but I guess I'm just looking for clarification on what is considered "asking for a menu". The language used in this lifestyle is often open to interpretation.

I visited a lady for almost two years before I moved back to the US and now, I still keep in touch and I have returned when I have the chance and spend as much time with her as I can and I am very much looking forward to see her again in the Spring. She has become my best friend and confident and she dominates my thoughts and desires...! If only I was younger I would not hesitate to try to seduce her into spending our lives together!

27 feet of jute rope....(learned how to do a Shibari corset tonight.. and yes... relax...pictures will follow as soon as I am pleased with the look/colors) ;) .....and a gargantuan bowl of really good Hot & Sour soup & dumplings

I will speak for myself, as not everyone feels the same way. I wrote a blog once about feeling like a McDonalds drive thru. "I'd like a ... And ... And ... And ..." "Would you like to supersize your order?, drive to the first window please." The funny thing is, what they want is what I love, but I felt like I was being broken down into a sum of parts and not looking at the whole experience. So, when the laws changed, I decided to take control of how communication was done. It's not that I have an issue with LE, but I finally have the ability to determine what is and is not acceptable. Yes, I loose out on some invitations, but they are the ones I don't really want to meet. Personally, I would approach it with first asking if she would like to have a discussion about how you envision your encounter. That is completely different then someone texting me out of no where saying I want X, y, and z. It can be a bit of a shock when I'm expecting "hello, my name is ..., how are you doing", vs "I want X, y , z. So, if you open the communication first, ask if she is interested in a discussion, you will find that she might be open to the discussion. Good luck.

Please stop that. It doesn't help. No. Just religion. Let people choose how they want to make sense of the world. If they go on to harm someone, then punish the offenders for that harm. As many people have been saying here, people who do harm were pretty much predisposed to do harm anyway, and the reasons they proclaim are just handy excuses. Lots of twisted people have done really terrible things in the supposed name of perfectly good ideas. I think this betrays a misunderstanding of how people work, and what purpose religion serves for the vast majority of people in the modern world. People are social creatures, and for most people our primary day to day preoccupations are social and emotional -- NOT intellectual. We want to love, be loved, and live in a world that makes emotional sense and assures us of purpose and belonging. For a lot of people, this is the need that religion meets. Most people aren't concerned with religion for its dogma, but for the community and shared sense of meaning that it provides. Science isn't intended to meet social or emotional needs; it's an intellectual pursuit that's only concerned with identifying the (comprehensible) mechanisms of the external world. And for that purpose, it's the most effective tool that the species has ever come up with. But if you approach human experience and understanding from an exclusively intellectual and scientific viewpoint, you will miss an enormous range of experience that's derived from being not just a mind, but a whole organism, and just one member of the whole, often irrational human community. Most people take bits and pieces from many different viewpoints to serve their various needs. They end up with something that isn't always logically consistent; but it lets them the live fulfilling, fully engaged lives that were their goal in the first place. But some people -- let's call them fanatics -- wall themselves off from such lives and cling to just one viewpoint. Sometimes it's religious and emotional; sometimes scientific and intellectual. We should feel badly for both cases.

Hi there. I thought this would be an interesting topic. I have not met too many SP's yet. Just 2 younger ones and 2 older ones. However i have found the experiences to be different. Younger ones seem to be in it for mostly the sex. They are wild and try to get it over quickly. Not as much chatting and foreplay. Older SP's offer more companionship and erotic experience. They are slower and tease more and want to make the sex last longer. Then they cuddle more. As I have not had many experiences yet. Can I get your opinions on whether you find SP's experiences different based on their ages?

Happy birthday beautiful. I hope you have a great birthday.

I repeat with the same Lady all the time, for all the reasons mentioned. I have been seeing the same Lady of and on for years now. I love seeing her we have fun together we have good conversation and Great you know what together. She is beautiful has a great figure. Every time I'm with her it's like the first day we meet each encounter just kept getting better and better. I am comfortable with her we laugh and just have a GREAT time.

bonjour messieurs i am available today until 8pm for fun and sexy times. i offer a non rushed session full of surprises... soapy shower body slides reverse massage sensuality and so much more.... all you need in one room with one MA recommendations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=37195 txt at 613 261 4169 or call at 613 820 8887

It is very hard to tell... most of the ladies are professionals and don't let their emotions show. Let's keep in mind that this is a business after all. For me, the basic rule is that if I enjoy myself and feel a genuine connection then most likely she is enjoying her self too. If you see a little spark in her eye, a smile that lights up the room and you get a slow and affectionate goodbye hug then maybe, just maybe, she likes you ;-)

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turn off is when I take the time to answer an email promptly (within a few minutes) and I NEVER see anything back from the sender, so frustrating. What do you think we are doing, just sitting around waiting for email requests to come in? or was 2-3 minutes of a wait too much for you?

Went here the other day and received a great massage. Was told there are four different attendants who provide massages. PM me for more info.

I have had great encounters with ladies of age 19, 20-something, 30- something and even a 40+. To me, it boils down to how attractive is she to me, the chemistry between us, the connection, mutual respect and like someone says, whether we are on the same page or not.

Not sure what's better... a severing of ties with someone you have feelings for... or reconsidering things but understanding it's so very complicated on so many levels...

I do believe its all chemistry between yourself and the person your with, in my situation the lady I fancy most is 29 years old, we had a great chemistry from our smiles on day one and it's amazing how it justs better and better on each visit, so in my opinion age is not the reason I continue to visit someone:)

Sunday the entertainment begins all week until Friday Evening. Lady Sophia has joined me and we have many plans for your enjoyment. Perhaps you would like to experience her signature 30-30 ? Enjoy 30 minutes with both of us beauties and then choose one for the remaining 30 minutes of private time . You may see us separately or have us to entertain you together! PM or Text. Katherine 902 456 8694 Sophia 506 261 7313

I think it's more of a personal preference(I don't mind light kisses but I do not like the tongue down my throat) and I will not kiss just anyone...I think it's best to ask her if she does or not so there are no misunderstandings!

kissing is great, the only time it isn't is when you come see me with smokers breath, yuck. Asking is always best if you are unsure, but indeed, kissing is a great part of a date. I just don't like it when someone tried to stick their tongue all the way down my throat forcefully, it should be passionate and caring, the kind that you should be getting from your significant other ;-)

Since we are into 2016 I now have 18 months of happily repeating with the same very special lady I still get butterflies before entering her room, she excites me like no other plus it just gets better and better, I am a very lucky man.

@plea You have to decide which is the stronger thought: not wanting to ask or wanting the intimacy of kissing? Regardless be respectful. Among others, I can recommend kissing with April at Vibe - she snared me with one passionate kiss at a lyla social and I've seen her numerous times since!

I would love to find a good MA that also likes to kiss, that kind of sensual massage would be amazing but I've yet to have a massage that offers it (I don't want to ask). I'm clean, well groomed and have very good hygiene so I would hope that helps.

I passed yesterday. I try . No extra

I was asked by a special lady to go shopping for lingerie for her and she wanted my opinion on whatever she tried. This got me very excited. We then went for a nice meal where she took off her undies and handed them to me under the table saying that she did not think she would need them for the rest of the evening. I don't remember what I had to eat at the restaurant but I know what I had for dessert. Going shopping for lingerie with a sexy lady : $00.00 Taking her out for a meal : $65.00 Getting her undies and having her as dessert: Priceless Many other nice things were done like extended hours, cupcakes with nice notes written on the wrapper on my way out, given an extra that is not offered on her list of activities etc...

Thank you Charlotte! I can guarantee the young guy In question was HIDEOUS. And that's me being nice. Lol

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Compare and contrast.. :)

Youre sweet thanks for taking your time for this reviews

Dear gentlemen's, I'm Vicky French an independant companion (Previously with Mgf) and i'm coming back to Halifax this Feb 9 to 13th!! Incalls/outcalls. Sensual & passionate experience I'm a warm woman, easy going, fun, refreshing, naughty, bubbly, open minded & eager to please. I offer sensual, passionate session & excelent massages. Love romantic dinner, fine wine, champagne...Sexy, classy and a perfect companion for dinnerdate or longer rendez-vous. check out my raving reviews on Caf & Lyla board & Perb!!! Stats: 26yrs old 5'4", 115lbs (spinner) 34C(Nat)-24-34 Light brown hair & green eyes Special introducing donation: Hh/160 1hr/240 1.5hr/400 2hrs/500 4hrs dinnerdate/750 You can prebook Now!! Email: [email protected] Website: http://www.vicky-french.com Text only:438-896-5022 Hope to hear from you soon, Vicky French xoxox

Sounds really good till you get too many guys who just want to skype and never book anything, hope it works.

Good afternoon, Thank you for a great time back in St. John's. It was lovely to enjoy the island hospitality. I hope to see you again soon. xoxo Emily

I'm not into the drama, stuff, that said, there was new member that attempted to use the handle pistol pete...(space in between), on this board. That said, he has (handle) been removed from members list.I also received a email from a provider that told me if I changed my email addy, which I have NOT. If a lady is contacted by ME, and those ladies that know myself, I will introduce myself through a PM or DM (Twitter) or email, once communication is set up, I will give my contact number, and THEN send same (contact number) back to them through PM,DM email to confirm it is ME. Your safety and mine is paramount to take these necessary steps to enjoy a successful,mutual enjoyment together. Thanks, and be safe ladies. ;)

Here's the link: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=225195&highlight=Gina

I use to have sleeping issues, but I developped a very healthy routine before going to bed, and it works! I was on sleeping pills for sleep walking (creepy, I know) and sleeping issues, but this is how it goes... I always go to bed at the same hour. 9:30 for me, could be later for you... Light snack around 8:30 (Berries and fresh cream, or cream cheese bagel with a glass of milk, usually) At 9:00, I shut down EVERYTHING in the house. Absolutly NO INTERNET ACCESS from this point. No TV either, or playing on my phone. No alcool either. It contains a LOT of sugar that could prevent me from sleeping. I keep a little night stand light with a 40watts bulb to read a little it. Just for 15-20 minutes. If I wake up during the night, I stay up for about 10-15 minutes before going back (or I take this occasion to have some lazy fun...). When I go in my bed room, whatever the time of the day or the night, I leave my problems at the door. My room is a calm and peaceful place. A refuge. I don't want any negative energies where I sleep. Problems will still there when I wake up, and I will be able to solve them in the morning, with a fresh and peaceful mind, ready to attack my day. I wake up at 4:00 in the morning, fresh and ready to start my day.

[quote name=Voluptuous Touch; Yes' date=' no running water in suite is a bummer. I do fill up a fresh basin of water in a clean, washed bowl (I have several I change up and wash them well when the day is done) but I guess the "floaties" (omg that sounds terrible, lol!) you saw was when I would wash my own hands after your session in it first. Rookie mistake, yikes! I will have two bowls now instead, to ensure that doesn't happen again! Cancellations should not be an issue anymore. I ran into a series of unexpected events that were out of my control but should all be worked out now. [/quote] Thank-you for taking the time to explain. My sincere apologies for assuming the same bowl was there all day. I go for a lot of massages and like I mentioned earlier, yours is the very best . Cheers D.

After meeting a lot of SP's and mostly MA's, I find I relate more to the women that are over 25 more, then the 19 year olds. Women over 30 are more experience and know how to tease and are more intimate I find. But there are some young women that know what they are doing. But like a fine wine, some women get better with age :)

My experience based on seeing ladies since embarking on this lifestyle in July 2010 has less to do with the ladies' age than their attitude. Fortunately I've been very blessed with the ladies I have had encounters with, and the age range of the ladies I've seen has been 25 to 50 years old. I've been with some wonderful ladies in their 20's, 30's 40's and 50's I've had (no names, and none were CERB members btw) horrible encounters with ladies in their late 20's, 30's and 40's Encounters have to be based on a ymmv factor. And you can get a idea of the type of lady you'll meet if you read her posts/profile/website and any subsequent emails...that will determine much more what type of lady she is and whether you two will be a match rather than profiling on an older experience vs younger SP basis A late night rambling RG

Chanel Honey, Advertising as an SP is like having investments... you have to diversify your advertising. I'm not sure if you just advertise here but that is not going to cut it if you are looking for stable appts everyday or even just a couple of times a week. You also have to continually create a stronger presence for yourself whether it's through multiple adult sites and/or a website. There are free websites that cater to the adult industry. When I returned to the business I really wasn't thrilled with advertising on CL but I gave it a try. While I have changed my schedule from what it used to be a few years ago to accomodate other obligations in my life, I have also switched gears by catering to a different group of clients by offering half hours which I never did before. It was always 1 hour appts. I honestly thought CL was going to be bad but I have met some really nice clients there and they have been gentlemen to me. Sure, there are some times wasters, no shows and the wassup guys but those people are easy to identify. I rarely encounter them. You should give it a try. You have nothing to lose. Also take into account that July and August are the slowest times of the year while September and October have always been the busiest. You also create your own world whether it's postive or negative energy. Try to keep a positive attitude.

A lot of experienced sps do take scheduled time off during the summer months. Or at least a more limited availability, in order to take advantage of the weather! At the very least, the days you do work will be busier than if you are just ready as per usual. I think the mod is fairly accurate about the usual slower times. The no show thing tho, I can guarantee that most sps already use some sort of verification, and the same thing is happening. (most do not accept block call appts, so the # is for sure there). The best thing to do is to limit the info given re: address. Give out a general area, then the street address when they get there, then when they are at the street address, the rest. that way you don't waste too much time and energy giving out full address info to someone who may or may not arrive, and who has to travel 30-45 minutes to get there too. You allow the time wasters too much power over your schedule if you give out too much too soon. Time wasters are very common -- they collect addresses, they try to book you for times with no intention of showing up (possibly in order to make their fav sp the one guys go to see because you are busy. Just don't give anyone the power to waste more than about 30 minutes of your time, and always offer the next caller a callback to fill the space when someone no shows). The other thing is the 8 month thing. MOST new sps do not realize that they are busy because they are new and THIS WILL NOT LAST. The only way to deal with this is to make bank during those first 6 months, work smart, and prepare for the slow down becuase it WILL happen. Many clients are not big repeaters, especially ones found thru review sites who specifically like to see the new girl, then move on to the next new girl.

Most of the ladies do not have MBA's so expecting them to do what mainstream business's do (In the way they operate the business) is not realistic (Wrong expectations!) Mainstream business men and women with either a business education or years of being in a professional business environment learn certain "rules" for successfully marketing a and operating a company. These are things you LEARN over time but can benefit greatly upfront if you learn them early. For Instance... Such things as.. downturns (How to anticipate and how to ensure security) never admitting your slow (sales are down) most business professionals know NEVER to do this (Always say your doing great) ROI (Return on investment - how to make 10.00 into 100.00) landing a deal (Market, Sales Pitch and HOW TO seal the deal!) Addressing your customers needs (It's not always about the sex or the looks - the personality is very important and the way you make your customer feel is very important) phone sales (Mannerisms... not to answer the cell phone while driving or with screaming kids or yelling friends... or loud music playing) Time Management scheduling Follow Ups Repeat sales (Return clients) etc... A lot of the ladies learn this over time and trial and error... (and that can hurt a ladies reputation before she even gets started full swing). Things many people who work in mainstream business assume are common knowledge or obvious choices allude many people who have no formal business experience - and it's easy to forget that at times. This business has no prerequisites, you do not need any business skills to make money as a provider but if you had those skills you could make a LOT MORE money. A few of the ladies over the years have had MBA's and they usually excel rapidly and really do well in the business... and really you do not need a MBA to learn these things. Most are common sense but often overlooked or viewed as not as important. The most successful ladies are the ones who have the ENTIRE PACKAGE (Sell the fantasy, polite on the phone, never miss appointments, treat the guy like he is a god, have lots of fun and enjoy people).... It may just be a big act or illusion ... or it may be the lady really likes her job (Either way the customer should NEVER be able to tell the difference). If you do this you will rarely have slow times as your "Regulars" will keep you busy during these off season times.

This is a very common thing with the ladies... Always looking for the "Reason" the business gets slow at times and always looking for answers as to why they get no shows and cancellation more at different times of the year. Most NO SHOWS can be stopped by screening your calls properly. Use the Caller ID and CALL BACK the number to verify it. Most guys will not pull a NO SHOW on someone without having the decency to call and properly cancel if you have their number. They know that come appointment time one very upset SP is going to give them a call asking WTF! It's not 100% but it sure helps for those who screen calls. It also makes the call a little more safer as that phone number is now a connection between the guy and the lady... I doubt someone dangerous is going to want to leave a number that can be traced back to them. Most of the ladies look for reasons when things are slow. I guess most of us do that when the business we are in takes a drop in sales/traffic/work load/etc.... You can spend a good portion of your day trying to figure this one out but it's not really worth the effort. It's WAY easier to just plan for these lows (Put some money aside for the slow periods) and just accept that this is part of EVERY business and it will happen. Stop stressing out and trying to point a finger at what you think is causing the slowness as your just going to convince yourself of something that is probably not correct. We have been tracking patterns in this industry since 1996 and the answer for this is... (Drum roll please)... It has no pattern EXCEPT for a few obvious LOW spots. 1) The end of Aug is SLOW every year! (Kids out of school, getting ready to go back to school, family summer vacations, etc...) This is the most popular summer weekend in the tourist industry!! 2) 1 week before and 1 week after Xmass (No need to explain this one right?) New years day too? NOT... 3) January/February for 2 weeks every year (We sum this up to winter blues and getting your credit card statements from Xmass! but we never know what two weeks it will be but for sure 2 weeks around this time it does drop... one year we did not see this and come April we saw a real low drop for 2 weeks and that was obvious weather patterns (Long winter/early spring ... warm winter/cold spring etc...) it does effect this business and you never know when this is coming exactly... so just put some cash aside for these times. 4) First nice weekend of spring (A lot of the ladies take this time off too) 5) Thanksgiving, Easter, Valentines, long weekends, really large sporting events (etc)... they also effect the business. The rest has NO identifiable pattern. You can try to blame it on the economy as a low economy brings more people into this business causing more competition and the overall amount of "Recreational money" the guys have gets a lot smaller so yes the economy does effect it but a low economy BUT it also brings more guys (New guys) in to the mix as well so it's not hit as hard as one would assume. Remember money and sex are the two big things couples fight about... When the economy drops and the money gets tight the stress levels go up, the fighting between couples goes up and the sex stops!! FACT OF LIFE... and I hate to admit it but that is good for this business for all you ladies!! When economy starts to get good again business will decrease a little at first! It's OPPOSITE of what everyone ASSUMES! As for NO SHOWS... This time of year it will obviously be higher. Kids are still home from school, Family vacations, relatives coming for visits, back to school shopping, etc.. etc... and all those people taking time OFF work for family vacations makes other people have to work more (Overtime to cover shifts, higher work loads, etc) it's all relevant.... A lot of LAST MINUTE things come up this time of the year for the "Family Man" and well... kids and family (for most people) come first so recreational visits take a back seat so stuff will get canceled more this time of year. Picture this... The guy is all ready to come see the lady he has chosen and the door bell rings and it's his brother or uncle or who knows who just "DROPS BY" for a visit... URH!? Probably with his annoying kids and wife... (Many of us have been in similar situations) This happens EVERY YEAR... Come September 17th (Or around that time) once the kids are back in school and the routine is back... things will pick up. Summer sucks as a lot more things can get in the way or throw a guys schedule off. Don't spend all your time looking for reasons why the business slows down.... it happens to EVERY PROVIDER & EVERY BUSINESS ... It can not be busy 100% of the time and it does take a little planning and anticipation.