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Here's to the staff at Barbarella's, not an easy job, glad to hear the bouncers back to work.

I don't agree with that at all. I don't use my work as a way to get dates or new BFs in other words, so i'd never be considering it as a way to look for someone like that. In fact, i'd say that idea is a fairly unusual one. I sometimes think that guys have a different perspective on this that sps do, because we know that it is work, and while everyone obviously (or almost everyone) can have fun at work, the planning, scheduling, cost, and time it takes to be available to meet any client is intensive. From the time we create the ad, to the time we close the door behind them, everything is set up in a way to find that ideal client, or at least, a good match for us. So an ideal client is one who participated in the process. He actually reads the ads, and then selects a few that he thinks are offering (most of) what he's looking for at times he is available at a price he can afford without worry. he then contacts us in the way we've requested we be contacted in the ad. this tells us that he read the ad and is paying attention. because we know he can pay attention, it makes him a safer person to meet for the first time. We have a good expectation that he can not only follow directions to get here in a reasonable time, but can follow the boundaries and services that are being offered. He won't: - ask for a discount because he feels entitled or deserving or because he failed to bring the correct amount (goes back to 'listens well) - show up unreasonably early, expecting us to be ready. or show up unreasonably late without calling ahead to say he's running late. - ask for services that have already been fully explained are not available. - pry into our personal lives. - expect 'hang out' time. or think that finishing on time, within the paid for duration, is 'rushing' or clock watching. no one should expect free time, no sp should feel guilted into providing it. - forget that he is the client, and we are in the provider business, which means that we are expecting to provide the services he needs for a successful completion. We are unlikely to orgasm on command, so being disappointed in that not happening during the session, or being overly concerned or focused on that to the detriment of the preferred final outcome, can be a lot of pressure on the sp. an ideal client can relax and enjoy what happens, and be less worried about what doesn't happen An ideal client repeats. Every time a client repeats is another appointment where we assume this is someone who doesn't have to be screened, doesn't come with worries about boundary pushing or fee haggling. An ideal client keeps his mouth shut about anything that the sp doesn't make public herself. An ideal client doesn't cross the line into being besties with the sp, taking her here and there, paying for this and that, and then getting his feelings hurt because she still thinks of him as a client, not a bestie, so he then starts an online campaign of harassment, trash and bash, and outing her private personal information, name, address, and throws in the same of other people she knows that he met along the way.

Past words always comes back to haunt... http://www.trumptwitterarchive.com/#/ And this is who the American people voted for? They will soon regret it along with the rest of the world.

Phoenix@Barb's! 'Nuff said... :)

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It's been a very long time since I had an experience that exceeded my expectations. Vanessa is a bright and friendly young woman in her early 20's. She has a remarkably beautiful face. One could just sit back and admire every detail. Eyes so dark you can see your reflection, lips plump and soft, smile dimples...I could go on! She has a very beautifully curved body with a tiny waist. Her skin is tight, tanned and flawless. I won't go into detail about her services and fee, but it should suffice to say that I would repeat!! A rare opportunity for those seeking that one of a kind experience with an extraordinary woman. A gfe experience I won't soon forget!!

Hello everyone . I will be returning this monday . Looking forward to all the fun we are going to have . I will be posting more info as to what my availability is like , Incall??, etc. in the next couple days Also some brand new updated pics !!! This will probably be my last blast - so to.speak . I am intending on retiring . I hope this will bring some memorable moments I can take with me . xoxo

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I eco all that NSguy says. Where is the line drawn between a review and slander? I always strive to offer the best of me, but one off day and kaput goes my rep? If it becomes like this one bored I see....I will leave. It has language that to me is degrading and disgusting and thats why I have never joined that board.

And i have less interest in a site that allows full nudes, (some) uncensored words and CL style titles and spamming, as well as negative reviews. because all that gets pushed out into the discussion area, and turns it into another freak show like other review sites. I have no confidence in anyone other than mod here to control or deal with bullying, slander and fake reviews, all of which are right now controlled due to the 'don't say anything at all' policy.

When i've talked to guys on the phone asking about this or stags (and yes, obviously they are not reading ads otherwise why would the thought that an over 40 yr old would be their best choice) i tell them the same thing: call an agency, no sp in her right mind should ever agree to go to a room with a group of guys in it all on her own. if they want to pursue this, then look for an ad that the sp is offering duos with a friend, because then they can book the two of them. and neither is on their own. i also mention if an sp does agree, then they should expect that she is being accompanied by just that kind of security already mentioned lol. i also think dancers who are also escorts would be ideal, because they can actually entertain a group of guys and also do private dances and of course as they are sps, do the extras for those who want more. with sps you don't necessarily get that entertainment / dance factor, so basically just the services. personally, if the OP is also thinking of an 'evening' , then the group should be thinking to spend thousands on each sp. i don't think any sp should even consider it for under 2000 if they are there for 4 or 5 hours maximum with 8 to 10 guys, probably should get more, of course, but just doing quick math to throw out a number

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A few of us just know intuitively that she'll return sometime in the future. ;)

Probably best way to help, as a client, is start mentioning to the managers that there aren't enough black girls at the club, and you prefer seeing a more diverse group etc. Least confrontational option and it will hopefully be taken seriously. Sadly I'm not in the best of positions to influence a change either (not running a club or working there myself) but maybe talking to other white dancers and asking for a bit of help here and there (can you give me a shift? Etc) and if any girls agree that the BGR is stupid, they can offer you the occasional shift... I mean, hopefully you'll be allowed in especially if no one else will take that slot.

As others said, the board should remain unique as is it now. The only thing I've noticed is a decline in participation on lyla since end of 2014. A lot of people have left after the board changed because of the new laws. I understand why the owners had to protect themselves but the laws have changed things with censorship of words. That was the feedback given back to me from the clients I had met from here. They wanted to read reviews that were positive but with more details given. I'm not sure how it could be done but I remember Lyla a few years ago and there was a great community spirit along with participation. If this site were to become just like the others or an "us v.s. them type of mentality then it's goodbye for me. There are other boards out there like that already and we don't need another one. We need to keep Lyla a place where everyone feels welcome.

There are already many review sites out there, most of which I choose not to participate on, but that is my preference. Although I understand that from a business perspective, there may be some short term gains from opening up the rules in terms of attracting more advertisers, I think the loss of differentiation that you have built will be a detriment to the site in the long run. The site would become just one of many voices fighting for the exact same audience. The few times I have checked out other sites, I have come across people badmouthing this site. (Normally from people who have been kicked off of this site I'm guessing.) I always shake my head at this. Why do you want this site to be exactly like the one you are on? You already have that site. What's wrong with a different option with different rules that attracts different people? Why does one format have to be 'better' than the other? What's wrong with being different? I think a lot of the ladies would be the first to leave here. Why would they stay in a place that allows people to badmouth them? I wouldn't. Once they leave, most of the discussions will revert mainly to just that. Badmouthing others. Most of the regulars here will drift away next. (Those of us who enjoy the civility of the site.) Basically you are left with building a review site almost from the ground up, as you have lost most of the traffic you have built already. In short, I think that there is room for both types of sites in this market, and this site has a leading position in 'recommendation only' segment. It would be a shame to see that thrown away to become one of the many, when it is a leader in its own segment.

So as many of you are aware lyla.com is up for sale and we do have a few interested parties. The most serious offer so far is a company outside Canada who already owns a number of similar successful boards. They will probably change this to a full on review board if they purchase it. What are your thoughts on that (I know many of you have wanted that for a long time now and we never did it for a number of reasons, it was a BIG conflict of interest with EC and we always tried to stay positive for the industry but honestly when CL and BP took off we probably should have jumped ship ourselves but held to what we thought was right and here we are selling the site a few years later). None the less, the sale is not set in stone but to help any potential buyers how about we (as a community) tell prospective buyers what we want to see here? Not sure it will help or not but I am sure it wont hurt.

My Sweet Lord, I love MeganDancer so much. A truly professional, career dancer. Her game is strong. Her physical charms are many, and I will list some of them for you here: - petite - beautiful round face with very edible ears and neck - nicely enhanced breasts with pronounced and thick nipples - lovely, medium length, dark hair that she pulls out of the way for the dance - her ass is on fleek - not too thin, but definitely not chunky (Goldilocks zone) - nicely trim and in terrific, athletic shape - very flexible In the champagne room, she is small enough to curl up in my lap and give a good show. She is just a pleasant woman to have spinning on me like a top. Her perfume is very mild and doesn't stick to me like some others I've experienced. That's very important to me. Yes, I've given her the sniff test before taking a tour in the back room. When I give her a hug, she hugs me right back. Hard. The first time we met, we took to each other easily and fell into chatting like old friends. She is very approachable, if she hasn't gotten to you first. She loves to wear expensive and classy outfits. That's not a bad thing. It shows pride in her work and that she is willing to invest in the tools of her trade. Her choices are always amazing, and her purposeful look as she struts around the club is as much a turn on as her fantastic body. She is confident, like a lioness and I am her prey. This woman is the entire package. I wish ... but, no. I'll live with her being my fantasy. [emoji7]

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It is probably no coincidence when I look back that my last post on here was on election day in the United States. Yes I am Canadian but the result of that election put me into a tailspin. Today I have to dump this off of my shoulders even if only for me and if not a single person reads it or replies. My personal therapy. Where to start. The election result itself is very distressing. I know that many people did not bother to vote and I know that Hillary won the popular vote by close to 3 000 000 but I also know that millions upon millions of our American neighbors did vote for him. Whether it was because of desperate financial situations, or it was a total disgust with the political norm and politicians or that many people are or can just ignore misogynist and racist behavior or who knows what, millions of people consciously chose Donald Trump. As months have gone by since his election and now only days have gone by since his inauguration, my profound concerns about the United States and Canada and the world grow. They say that a little knowledge is a dangerous thing but I am a very amateur historian with my primary interest being that of the rise of Hitler and Fascism in the 1930's. I know, I know, so may are saying that this is different. Well I hope that you are correct. Never again? Well, here we are. Lies repeated so often that they become truth, suppression of the press, selecting a group for the people to focus their hatred on, nationalism in the sense of everybody has done wrong by us, insulting other nations, sending refugees back home and on and on there are so many similarities. Fascism by any name. Prime Minister Trudeau has been one of the first world leaders to stand up for human dignity. I know that we cannot save everyone, we can't, but we can at least say that we will do what we can. We will not say the hell with them as the Americans have done. His father when he was Prime Minister had the quote about sleeping beside an elephant. It was true then and equally true now, but regardless I believe that Prime Minister Trudeau should not visit Washington nor invite Mr. Trump here. If Trump visits I will be there with my sign. In Canada we did good. Harper is gone and was sent packing with his tail between his legs. It's looking like the Conservatives are going to replace him with our own Trump, our own extreme right wing evangelical with Kelly Leitch or Kevin, O'leary. I hope not but if we do, remember that at the next election. Back to the initial topic. Where will things go from here? Isn't it crazy or ironic that for the first time ever an elected politician is doing exactly what he promised to do. Having Steve Bannon in the White House while removing the military and intelligence agencies from the inner circle cannot end well. The question is ultimately and I fear sooner rather than later, whether American police and troops will fire on their own people or not. I can see their own Tienanmen Square. In Trumps words, "Sad." To end on a really positive note, I felt really good the day after the inauguration with the women's marches not only all across the United States but all over the world. May all of this be wrong, but i am fearful. See you in Ottawa with your signs. It's good to back. MN2

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For your information, this is a Discussion Section. The last two posts are recommendations and would have been more suitable under the Recommendation Section - https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=245240 Ooooops... I meant the two posts preceding Amber's.

I second all of IrwinX's recommendations. Addictive Barbie, Ms. Manda, Kylie Jane and Charlotte are tops in my books.

Her "tagline" on her CERB profile reads, "sensual, smart, sweet and naughty", and while it's certainly accurate it is perhaps also far too modest a description. This is my first review on CERB--despite being a member for years, I didn't feel that any of my previous excursions warranted a review. Not that they were bad, but nothing that knocked my socks off. Then I met Amber. I saw her ad on backpage and was immediately impressed by her attractive photo introduction, a confident and no-nonsense writing style, which gave me very clear expectations of what I could expect--and even with those lofty expectations she exceeded them. The location was within convenient distance to downtown, she greeted me at the door with a warm smile and offered a hand held guided tour of the meticulously clean apartment which concluded with us slipping into the bedroom for a memorable hour... and which if time allowed could easily have been all afternoon. I felt an immediate connection with her, she was responsive, playful, and everything she said she would be ... smart? Evidently so. Sweet? As apple pie. Sensual? Abundantly. Naughty? To the perfect degree. I would add another word, "stunningly beautiful" and while that could easily describe her looks -- it's really about praising the whole package. She is radiant and a delight, and so much more... if you're reading this Amber, thanks for a wonderful hour spent in your company, I certainly look forward to more.

Another big fan of the lovely Megan. I had the chance to spend some (very high) quality time with her yesterday, and I'll absolutely be continuing in the future. She's a lovely young lady, very enjoyable to watch on stage, and chatting with her tableside is fun and engaging. In the champagne room, she does a wonderful show, and as far as I'm concerned she can twirl around me forever. I guarantee you won't regret any time you spend with her!

Disturbing to hear that a member of Barb's staff was seriously wounded outside the club (apparently trying to deal with a situation that started inside) last night (1/31). It's always very upsetting to hear of this kind of violent incident. http://ottawacitizen.com/news/local-news/two-men-wounded-in-separate-downtown-vanier-stabbings

Hey guys, I'm at Barefax all week. Today until Saturday I'll be arriving from 6-8 daily. I'm still wanna meet most of you I did this at barbs last week but I'm doing it at Barefax this week. For every 4 dances I will give you one free if you mention Lyla.com. Just an incentive to meet all my Lyla buddies. Can't wait. Xoxox Chrissy

To put a fine point on this topic, what we're really talking about is race profiling. That's really dangerous material for discussion. EXTREMELY FLAMMABLE. I'm not a moderator, nor any kind of influential voice here. Still, I'm going to ask that we keep in mind to keep our conversation civil. Take a few deep, calming breaths before hitting that submit button. The BGR is a real thing. I also happen to believe it is a real problem. We've been posting about how much we disagree with it, that it shouldn't exist, and how to possibly use it since it does. Maybe we should try to actually DO something about it. We've (I've) heard from those affected by it and how it impacts their ability to work. It suddenly occurs to me (duh) that posting something here on a fairly obscure message board isn't going to do diddly squat to fix anything. We're just slapping each other on the back for being morally upright. The people who are actually affected by the BGR won't be able to convince anyone to change it for the very reason that it exists. If you are a patron of a club where this rule is in effect, talk to the manager or the owner and see if you can get it struck down. I have no idea if that will be effective, or change anyone's mind. You won't know until you try. One easy and fairly anonymous way might be to call the club and ask if they have a Black Girl Rule for scheduling. If they say yes, tell them that you'll start coming back again when they don't. Repeat. Boycotting is meaningless if nobody knows why. Deep, calming breath ...

I made the mistake of agreeing about a bad experience but said mine was worse and also received a strike. I thought it was unfair because it was only about showing up late, terrible attitude etc. The last month or so I have contemplated just repeating with those I know because things are getting worse. If your respectful in this arena you make friends and a couple of mine are very upset about the latest scam which most of you know is ads that are designed to outright steal by asking people to email transfer an amount prior to meeting. Most people on here will only laugh but newer people like a friend of mine can be talked in to it and girls I know that are well recommended are telling me it is really starting to have an impact. I wont list ads for fear of a strike but when I only copied half a description ( ads with a lot of different script, blocks etc are made so they wont show up with others as often if you do a general google search) I found the girl in three different provinces on the same day. My friend said when he messaged a few in Fredericton Friday night that three wanted a deposit. He said well some of what they told me made sense because they want to make sure you are serious LOL - "I said if you told the girl I will give you half the donation now and the rest tomorrow what do you think the reply would be , give your a shake" For us this is funny but judging from the ease in which I found dozens of ads, all looking like they are comping from the same scammers this has the potential to seriously impact the real girls. My advice to my friends was to immediately put in your ad " No upfront donation required as I am real, offer incall and will greet you at the door (almost all the ones I saw asking for ETs was outcall only) My thinking is that if a dozen or so well known girls mention the point that it is unusual for ET's the amount of new guys falling for this will drop off dramatically. A second strategy I suggested was to buy the days news paper and put it in your ad as the cost for a month will be recovered if it makes one person feel confident that it will be a positive experience that might not of. Along the same idea is a pic of them with something known to that city , or cloths that reflect the city. If anyone has anything to ad I welcome it, as my friends enjoy what they do and one said it has impacted her a lot and she didn't see how she could do anything about it. As we know it is the anonymity of this industry which has lead to the new scam with ET requests ( at least it was never common) It is because our two sides are remaining too quiet about it and I feel we should make most everyone quickly be able to point out the scam ads in our area so they stop being an enormous problem and not let them harm so many casual hobbyists that they cause many of them to stop out of frustration. Comments ??

In the world of consulting/engineering you can have a project done on time, done right and done on budget but you can never get more than two out of the three.

I hope you're right, Nicolette, but I have trouble imaging the Republican Party actually taking a stand and impeaching him.

This is the only Canadian escort recommendation site I feel comfortable and safe on. That is both clean and respectful of everyone. If the future owners change the current friendly atmosphere of the site, I will probably drop out completely from following and participating in the hobby. This is the only social media type site I have ever stuck with --- that is saying a lot. I am still hopeful that the liberal government will correct the last government's blunder regarding this profession.

My best would be like my first: he was on a business trip and staying at a nice hotel. He was courteous during our texting, did not haggle, and had a pleasant sense of humor. Before my visit he went for a swim and hot tub, so when I arrived he was clean and relaxed. He gave me my donation right away, we had a nice chat and took our time. He acted like we were pals and he was enthusiastic, appreciative, very respectful and conscientious of my well being. And he was... skilled :)

I had the pleasure of meeting Harley recently, the Uber-hot, Russian born platinum blonde with the distinctive sleeve tattoo.I took her for a dance but have to say the part I liked best was just having Harley curled up next to me on the bench seat, looking so hot like a Viking warrior-goddess chick, I mean, this girl is arm-candy to the extreme, and the way she just gently caressed me as we watched the stage show , a girlfriend experience that really warmed this old hillbilly's heart...ahh the simple pleasures..

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Thanks for your input "Kilt Boy". It should be fair. They should have a handful of blacks with a handful of whites or make it equal ratios. I think every guy has his own preferences and some don't even see colour as a factor. How does the club decide what their patrons will like when we all don't like the same things? The idea that they think "white males" only like "white females" is so dumb. Because I could personally tell you how many "white males" have crowned me as their goddess. I don't see colour, I think we're all beautiful people. Plus, most people come to a club to have what they don't have at home. Example, I've noticed most black men will come for a white dancer. Ugh I hate referring to people as colours.

One girl at a party in the middle of nowhere with a group of partying guys sounds like a tall request. I suspect it will be hard to find a girl who will agree to this if it is not a client she already knows and trusts. Maybe I'm wrong. Who knows? I just think that it will be hard to convince someone that you can guarantee her safety in this situation if you have not already established a relationship of trust with her.

I'll take your advice KB. She can put together a great look.

CMJEast is starting to get less girls in the east again. Got to visit the east guys. If you want them to keep bringing the girls to the east. Good thing that Vibe is there also with very beautiful girls also.

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