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I guess I was wrong....I said I don't have many....but here I am posting after myself lol....I guess many is turning into more....I so hope not!!:icon_rolleyes: It is never appropriate or acceptable to just drop by a companions place uninvited EVER. Regardless if you have gifts. Send them by courier or bring them your next booking. That's if you get invited back after pulling a stunt like that. First time for everything at my new place I guess. Shaking my head hard, Shocked and quite Pissed all in one....

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Change is inevitable and necessary to survive. All the boards seem to be stifled and losing relevance these days. Twitter is becoming a worthy option. Clearly can't go back to the old days when participation and interaction was far greater. Lots left when Bill C-36 (corrected) came into effect and have moved on and won't be back. Peace MG

Ideal client definition can be different of course. It depends on the context and the point of view. One of the interesting one I heard: "Ideal client is the guy who comes, puts envelope with money on table, and immediately leaves. And repeats this every week". Lol. If you think it is just a joke - you are wrong :-). Financial domination is one of the forms of BDSM, and such a client is called "cash slave" there. Here is just an example of such a practice: http://www.kalaudiakink.com/findom.html And about other definitions: Fortunateone gave the excellent - clear and precise - definition of a good client. But what I asked about and what that girl meant is something above and extra, "icing on the top" of that good client "cake". Let's assume two things first: 1. All clients we are talking about are good clients according to the definition above. 2. We are talking about professional client - provider sessions only and NOT about any sort of "romantic" relationships or dating client outside the business - nothing about expectations like this. I will give let's say 3 "use cases" with the brief definition of two clients in the each. And any Lady can choose which guy she would like to have as her client (or regular client). CASE 1. Client #1 - 30+ tall, handsome, athletic guy. Client #2 - 60+ guy, not very attractive physically. CASE 2. Client #1 - Happy guy with easygoing personality who can easily keep the conversation going, has great sense of humor, makes you laugh. Client #2 - Shy guy, who is hard to establish contact with and who cannot support the conversation. CASE 3. Client #1 - The guy attractive for you in any way, the TYPE you could date IF you meet him in real life, outside business. Client #2 - The guy who is not attractive for you at all, the TYPE you would never spend time together IF you meet him in real life outside business. Remember? - all these guys are good clients by above definition. And if anyone says that she would prefer to see (professionally) the Client #2 - I won't believe her, sorry, it is pretty obvious. I guess, there is some sort of image of ideal or preferred type of good client who sp would like to see (professionally). Of course, it is personal and very different but I think that girl I asked gave pretty good general definition: "The TYPE of guy with whom you would enjoy time together IF YOU MEET HIM IN REAL LIFE, no business involved".

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I don't agree with that at all. I don't use my work as a way to get dates or new BFs in other words, so i'd never be considering it as a way to look for someone like that. In fact, i'd say that idea is a fairly unusual one. I sometimes think that guys have a different perspective on this that sps do, because we know that it is work, and while everyone obviously (or almost everyone) can have fun at work, the planning, scheduling, cost, and time it takes to be available to meet any client is intensive. From the time we create the ad, to the time we close the door behind them, everything is set up in a way to find that ideal client, or at least, a good match for us. So an ideal client is one who participated in the process. He actually reads the ads, and then selects a few that he thinks are offering (most of) what he's looking for at times he is available at a price he can afford without worry. he then contacts us in the way we've requested we be contacted in the ad. this tells us that he read the ad and is paying attention. because we know he can pay attention, it makes him a safer person to meet for the first time. We have a good expectation that he can not only follow directions to get here in a reasonable time, but can follow the boundaries and services that are being offered. He won't: - ask for a discount because he feels entitled or deserving or because he failed to bring the correct amount (goes back to 'listens well) - show up unreasonably early, expecting us to be ready. or show up unreasonably late without calling ahead to say he's running late. - ask for services that have already been fully explained are not available. - pry into our personal lives. - expect 'hang out' time. or think that finishing on time, within the paid for duration, is 'rushing' or clock watching. no one should expect free time, no sp should feel guilted into providing it. - forget that he is the client, and we are in the provider business, which means that we are expecting to provide the services he needs for a successful completion. We are unlikely to orgasm on command, so being disappointed in that not happening during the session, or being overly concerned or focused on that to the detriment of the preferred final outcome, can be a lot of pressure on the sp. an ideal client can relax and enjoy what happens, and be less worried about what doesn't happen An ideal client repeats. Every time a client repeats is another appointment where we assume this is someone who doesn't have to be screened, doesn't come with worries about boundary pushing or fee haggling. An ideal client keeps his mouth shut about anything that the sp doesn't make public herself. An ideal client doesn't cross the line into being besties with the sp, taking her here and there, paying for this and that, and then getting his feelings hurt because she still thinks of him as a client, not a bestie, so he then starts an online campaign of harassment, trash and bash, and outing her private personal information, name, address, and throws in the same of other people she knows that he met along the way.

An ideal client is similar to a nice dream...a nice peaceful sleep being equivalent to having a good flow with a client where conversations or intimacy is not awkward, demeaning or troublesome in any way. Just like you wouldn't want to wake up out of a nightmare in a panic or upset. Having a nice dream, you almost don't want to wake up but know at some point it will end. Being awake, you will long to have that same dream again at some point. If they actually put me in a great mood during and after they leave, they are aces in my books. That says it all. If I find I have to mentally psyche myself up to see them because of their attitude towards me over time, I stop seeing them. Some SP -client relationships can eventually run their course. If I have a few less clients and instead have great quality clients, it leaves me in the mental head space to attract more great clients if I'm feeling great. I quickly get rid of the presumptuous, condescending fools who think they know who you are after a few visits and because they are paying you, they can give you unsolicited advice, make backhanded insults or treat you like a toy. I was told not too long ago that SPs should be spending more time with their families because we don't do much other than work. Ha! You are the weakest link...goodbye!

My best would be like my first: he was on a business trip and staying at a nice hotel. He was courteous during our texting, did not haggle, and had a pleasant sense of humor. Before my visit he went for a swim and hot tub, so when I arrived he was clean and relaxed. He gave me my donation right away, we had a nice chat and took our time. He acted like we were pals and he was enthusiastic, appreciative, very respectful and conscientious of my well being. And he was... skilled :)

I've met Katie several times and all I can say is WOW. The first time I saw her, was kind of by accident cause I had texted a few girls that night and kind of got confused with who I was meeting, but boy was it worth my wild. Seen her a few more times since than, and believe me if it would permit, I would see her everyday if possible. She starts off with a little conversation (she's very easy to talk too) and finding out what you like to do during your visit with her. She gives a great massage and her hands are like magic. She's so good with that massage that one time, I almost fell asleep cause she's that relaxing. She uses a non scented oil and it's great. Once the massage over we got down to a little business and it was great. She's got a sweet tight pussy, and gets wet during daty, and you can tell that she likes it. Without getting into much details, I will say that she's awesome and loves what she does. Once finished, she's totally discreet and makes sure that all is good before you leave. She makes sure to wipe the oil off your back and remove any possible sighting of lipstick or lip gloss on your skin for us guys who need to be discreet. She is totally great.

Pleasure can be an elusive concept; some people enjoy experiencing the fullness of the moment while others feel a strong sense of temporary completeness. I experienced both today with Ashley quite vividly. The candles and soft music set the tone, but the combination of her beauty, personality, charm, wit and sensuality lingered throughout the session. Sometimes the pace was slow and drawn out; alternatively, the pace rapidly escalated. It was hard to identify where one phase ended and another started. Time with a strikingly beautiful woman like Ashley can be remarkable, especially one who can heighten all of your senses for pleasure in an imaginative and most unforgettable way.

It is a question to Ladies (and maybe to Gentlemen as well). What is your definition of ideal client? There are several threads here with the discussions how to be a good client, what to do or not to do for this. And most of discussed qualities (like being on time, being polite, respectful etc...) are obvious qualities of normal business client who is interested in the business deal. But escorting is very personalized area, being polite and respectful is not enough for being attractive and expected to return. I ask you to look from this "personalized" point of view. I asked this question one girl several years ago. Her answer was: "It is easy. The ideal client is the guy with whom I would get intimate in the real life, outside the business". Do you agree with such definition?

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Actually that is not Ally Faye, I've seen both girls and would repeat with Ally Faye all day!!! They're both pretty, both brunettes but Ally is proportionately smaller and a great little performer. I also saw Miaa once. It was a duo with her and her friend Ashley...but not the same Ashley that this discussion has started for. Both Miaa and her friend Ashley were smoking as well. So Again Ally Faye is Ally Faye and is a different person then Both Ashley's and Miaa's friend Ashley (the one she advertised duos with) is also not the same person as the Ashley this thread started for. :)

I know she has reviews on here and I know she is a member. That's exactly why I went to see her. U know how u get all excited mixed up with nervousness before u finally go see the lady. But when u get there, no more communications, u wait and think maybe she just need a few more minutes but after u called 5 times and she picked up one of the calls but only music playing on the other side. When this happened, it really leaves nothing but sourness, and if ur reading this I am trying to help u avoid this feeling with this specific girl. We talked last week and agreed to meet last Sunday night but then when Sunday came no more replies. Last night she txted me, great, I showered, went to the bank and drove 30 min to her motel. I txted her before I left and when I was on my way, but when I got there 4 mins before our set time 9pm, u know the rest. I went on backpage again and found that 20 mins before our arranged meeting time she posted on backpage again, there were a couple of people seemingly talking about and watching me while I was waiting. I had high hopes, but this is what happened. And the exact same situation happnened not once, but twice. First time was two weeks ago. Anyone who opened this link thinking "how can she be..." I know exactly how you feel, maybe u would have gone back the second time like me, and thats what this post is all about. I doubt she had any bad intentions, even tho it's hard to convince myself. Oh, she replied an hr later "hey sweetie", and then "Sorry I was waiting for u..." right after my countless "I'm here", "u need a few minutes?" and 5 calls. Ya, she gave me this bs the first time too lol I asked for the room number to come by, no more reply and that's the end of the story. Judge for yourself, I still wanna believe she is a good girl. http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/your-favorite-blonde-barbie-doll-forget-her-pick-me-specials-438-794-0567/2546210

Absolutely. And as you've mentioned, the key to the sense of community is that this board isn't permitted to turn into a cesspit of bitching at people. If the ladies don't feel safe and welcome then they'll go away, and once clients realize that what's left is a sausage party they'll follow.

I hope you have a very Magicial Day Emma:)

All the best, Emma, on your birthday and throughout the year!

Happy Birthday beautiful

Happy Birthday Emma! Enjoy your day.

Glad you had a good b-day! Thanks for all your contributions.

There might be someone who can fit into the definition of an ideal client. I am not sure if this has ever happened to any lucky ladies out there. He is definitely tall, dark, muscular and handsome, probably young or most in his late-thirties, conversationalist, an expert in everything about woman and definitely very good in bed! He can get all the random pretty women he wants but very few could actually please him and he avoids commitments. This particular person gets very bored seeing mostly mature ladies and less attractive ones. Once a while he wishes to have fun with our ladies since they are mostly attractive, gorgeous and ultimately know how to please. He is a MALE ESCORT disguising himself as an ordinary client!

It is never appropriate or acceptable to just drop by a companions place uninvited EVER. Regardless if you have gifts. Send them by courier or bring them your next booking. That's if you get invited back after pulling a stunt like that. First time for everything at my new place I guess. Shaking my head hard, Shocked and quite Pissed all in one.... Sorry! Posted in the wrong thread....I usually don't have many:icon_redface:

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then is that not, a rule no big girls, if they don't hire big girls then is that not prejudice.... so is that not a quota no big girls....

I eco all that NSguy says. Where is the line drawn between a review and slander? I always strive to offer the best of me, but one off day and kaput goes my rep? If it becomes like this one bored I see....I will leave. It has language that to me is degrading and disgusting and thats why I have never joined that board.

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Exactly what jafo105 said, this is the only social media site I have ever stuck with. I like the atmosphere here and I also like all the ladies that I communicate with on a regular basis.

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Being very new and inexperience to this hobby, I possess a very strong will to become an ideal client. I am not sure why, primarily to ensure a good experience and secondarily the need to build good reputation etc. I would not worry much about the most crucial part to be an ideal client, as I have a personal habit to appear clean and presentable. I was also born with a trait of being gentle and caring. I have not done many sessions to be called an expert, but I would conjecture that the small but the trickiest part to be an ideal client would be to reach a harmonious state, whether or not you and your partner can telepathize each other mind and to reach a balance syncing between your generosity and in receiving an exceptional service from an SP/MA. For example, I love to pamper someone as much as I want to be treated the same way. I refuse to receive certain *** acts but also hoping to get something extra like more intimate caressing, touching, kissing on me legitimately and sweet talking. If this doesn't happen, I feel that I am missing something. So far, the MAs whom I met satisfy most of these criteria hence I usually left them with a small token and wrote them a good reco afterwards. However, to be an ideal client, I also carry too much concern and always confused myself whether or not they work too much on me. Sometimes, I would stop them in the middle of massage and invited them to cuddle with me. The downside of this, I am not sure if some of the ladies I met would feel suspicious and pressurized! Is he too good to be true or is he expecting me to return him a "big favour" maybe not now but in the future? I think sometimes I was being trapped in a certain situation and I wished I would not have done that if I were given a fresh start of the session. So far I have not encountered this, but this could also potentially put me as a client who are easy to be taken advantage of. So based on my current experience, attempting to become an ideal client is good but also could bring harm to the client-provider relationship! In the end of the day, just remind yourself that both feeling of love and hate lie on the same boundary. To reiterate my points above, I guess it boils down to a question whether or not an ideal compatibility (loving each other in many special ways) and a mutual understanding (in giving and receiving) exist between SP/MA and client. It works both ways...

Actually the pics in the ad "prettiest Barbie" I believe are her, I recognize her mouth. And the hair is the right length, colour etc. But she or someone on her behalf is posting multiple ads trying to cast a wide net. Not cool. And besides, I don't think her presence in this industry is your independent college girl trying to make a few extra bucks to cover tuition. I don't want to contribute to that dark side of the industry where people are lost and/or being taken advantage of.

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I have always allowed guests 19+ but I think I have to now change this. Anyone that I see 19+ I would obviously still see as I know them and I am comfortable seeing them with that age range and those with references but these new potential clients that I have encountered lately are timewasters, fake bookers and I just refuse to deal with the games. I understands nerves and immaturity but come on, WTF??? If you contact a companion to book and are to arrive and then play around, I have no time for that foolishness. Don't book and waste a ladies time when she could have booked a legit real client. I am low volume by choice and certainly not Walmart with a revolving door and only allow/invite a max of 2 guests per day to visit, if that. I will think for a few days and possibly up my visitor booking age restriction to possibly 24+ but anyone I currently see under that will not be under that restriction and are still welcomed to see me. I'm easy to talk and communicate with and I am open to hearing any potential clients concerns and work with them but gheeshhhh! I think a change is in the future with age restriction for new clients. I usually don't deal with this BS but I guess I was due! Sorry for the rant but I just had to let it out....

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I had this experience at a Montreal massage parlor last fall. I seen their ad on the bp site and noticed this young lady with a sexy body working that day. I book a time and show up at the location ready to go, she asked me to take a shower(I took one before showing up but what the hell I took one anyway). While I was in the shower she comes in the room and lays down on the massage table and looks at me showering(I don't mind I'm a bit of a exhibitionist), I come out dry up and she asked if I would massage her first, no problem I have offered to many ladies before and they often accept. What happens next was a real turn off, she is laying on her stomach so I did her back and her legs and also her bum, 15 minutes go by and then I tell her to turn over, she does. I rub her legs and she is falling asleep so I decide to speed things up and go to her breasts she does not open her eyes and goes picking in her nose for gold, not once, not twice but about 6-7 times. I lost my erection and I packed my stuff and left while she was sleeping and picking her nose.

I think if we were being totally honest both ladies and guys would prefer to see the face of someone that are going to meet... I don't think it's only about seeing how attractive the person is because like others have said I think you can tell a lot about a person by seeing their face... the eyes and facial expression are the most expressive part of a person. All that said I have come to clearly understand over the last few years just how hard and mean this industry can be... I know ladies who have gone through horrendous situations in their lives because some asshole decides to ruin their life or the lives of of loved ones.... because of this I Have no expectations about any lady using her face picture as I understand exactly how risky that can be... as clients we need to be respectful of the balance ladies have to make between their personal an business lives and frankly until society stops making moral judgments on this industry we need to just accept how the lady wants to present herself. Just my Opinion

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