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I guess I was wrong....I said I don't have many....but here I am posting after myself lol....I guess many is turning into more....I so hope not!!:icon_rolleyes: It is never appropriate or acceptable to just drop by a companions place uninvited EVER. Regardless if you have gifts. Send them by courier or bring them your next booking. That's if you get invited back after pulling a stunt like that. First time for everything at my new place I guess. Shaking my head hard, Shocked and quite Pissed all in one....

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Change is inevitable and necessary to survive. All the boards seem to be stifled and losing relevance these days. Twitter is becoming a worthy option. Clearly can't go back to the old days when participation and interaction was far greater. Lots left when Bill C-36 (corrected) came into effect and have moved on and won't be back. Peace MG

Ideal client definition can be different of course. It depends on the context and the point of view. One of the interesting one I heard: "Ideal client is the guy who comes, puts envelope with money on table, and immediately leaves. And repeats this every week". Lol. If you think it is just a joke - you are wrong :-). Financial domination is one of the forms of BDSM, and such a client is called "cash slave" there. Here is just an example of such a practice: http://www.kalaudiakink.com/findom.html And about other definitions: Fortunateone gave the excellent - clear and precise - definition of a good client. But what I asked about and what that girl meant is something above and extra, "icing on the top" of that good client "cake". Let's assume two things first: 1. All clients we are talking about are good clients according to the definition above. 2. We are talking about professional client - provider sessions only and NOT about any sort of "romantic" relationships or dating client outside the business - nothing about expectations like this. I will give let's say 3 "use cases" with the brief definition of two clients in the each. And any Lady can choose which guy she would like to have as her client (or regular client). CASE 1. Client #1 - 30+ tall, handsome, athletic guy. Client #2 - 60+ guy, not very attractive physically. CASE 2. Client #1 - Happy guy with easygoing personality who can easily keep the conversation going, has great sense of humor, makes you laugh. Client #2 - Shy guy, who is hard to establish contact with and who cannot support the conversation. CASE 3. Client #1 - The guy attractive for you in any way, the TYPE you could date IF you meet him in real life, outside business. Client #2 - The guy who is not attractive for you at all, the TYPE you would never spend time together IF you meet him in real life outside business. Remember? - all these guys are good clients by above definition. And if anyone says that she would prefer to see (professionally) the Client #2 - I won't believe her, sorry, it is pretty obvious. I guess, there is some sort of image of ideal or preferred type of good client who sp would like to see (professionally). Of course, it is personal and very different but I think that girl I asked gave pretty good general definition: "The TYPE of guy with whom you would enjoy time together IF YOU MEET HIM IN REAL LIFE, no business involved".

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I don't agree with that at all. I don't use my work as a way to get dates or new BFs in other words, so i'd never be considering it as a way to look for someone like that. In fact, i'd say that idea is a fairly unusual one. I sometimes think that guys have a different perspective on this that sps do, because we know that it is work, and while everyone obviously (or almost everyone) can have fun at work, the planning, scheduling, cost, and time it takes to be available to meet any client is intensive. From the time we create the ad, to the time we close the door behind them, everything is set up in a way to find that ideal client, or at least, a good match for us. So an ideal client is one who participated in the process. He actually reads the ads, and then selects a few that he thinks are offering (most of) what he's looking for at times he is available at a price he can afford without worry. he then contacts us in the way we've requested we be contacted in the ad. this tells us that he read the ad and is paying attention. because we know he can pay attention, it makes him a safer person to meet for the first time. We have a good expectation that he can not only follow directions to get here in a reasonable time, but can follow the boundaries and services that are being offered. He won't: - ask for a discount because he feels entitled or deserving or because he failed to bring the correct amount (goes back to 'listens well) - show up unreasonably early, expecting us to be ready. or show up unreasonably late without calling ahead to say he's running late. - ask for services that have already been fully explained are not available. - pry into our personal lives. - expect 'hang out' time. or think that finishing on time, within the paid for duration, is 'rushing' or clock watching. no one should expect free time, no sp should feel guilted into providing it. - forget that he is the client, and we are in the provider business, which means that we are expecting to provide the services he needs for a successful completion. We are unlikely to orgasm on command, so being disappointed in that not happening during the session, or being overly concerned or focused on that to the detriment of the preferred final outcome, can be a lot of pressure on the sp. an ideal client can relax and enjoy what happens, and be less worried about what doesn't happen An ideal client repeats. Every time a client repeats is another appointment where we assume this is someone who doesn't have to be screened, doesn't come with worries about boundary pushing or fee haggling. An ideal client keeps his mouth shut about anything that the sp doesn't make public herself. An ideal client doesn't cross the line into being besties with the sp, taking her here and there, paying for this and that, and then getting his feelings hurt because she still thinks of him as a client, not a bestie, so he then starts an online campaign of harassment, trash and bash, and outing her private personal information, name, address, and throws in the same of other people she knows that he met along the way.

An ideal client is similar to a nice dream...a nice peaceful sleep being equivalent to having a good flow with a client where conversations or intimacy is not awkward, demeaning or troublesome in any way. Just like you wouldn't want to wake up out of a nightmare in a panic or upset. Having a nice dream, you almost don't want to wake up but know at some point it will end. Being awake, you will long to have that same dream again at some point. If they actually put me in a great mood during and after they leave, they are aces in my books. That says it all. If I find I have to mentally psyche myself up to see them because of their attitude towards me over time, I stop seeing them. Some SP -client relationships can eventually run their course. If I have a few less clients and instead have great quality clients, it leaves me in the mental head space to attract more great clients if I'm feeling great. I quickly get rid of the presumptuous, condescending fools who think they know who you are after a few visits and because they are paying you, they can give you unsolicited advice, make backhanded insults or treat you like a toy. I was told not too long ago that SPs should be spending more time with their families because we don't do much other than work. Ha! You are the weakest link...goodbye!

My best would be like my first: he was on a business trip and staying at a nice hotel. He was courteous during our texting, did not haggle, and had a pleasant sense of humor. Before my visit he went for a swim and hot tub, so when I arrived he was clean and relaxed. He gave me my donation right away, we had a nice chat and took our time. He acted like we were pals and he was enthusiastic, appreciative, very respectful and conscientious of my well being. And he was... skilled :)

Everyone knows that as a Scotsman I love redheads! So when I found out that Daisy had recently gone independent, I jumped at the change to see her. After a bit of chatting back and forth, we managed to sort things out and get together. Since it was later in the evening, we headed out for bite to eat first and then back to my place to enjoy dessert. ;) Daisy is just a fantastic person! The ease of conversation and mutual attraction to one another, led to an absolutely spectacular evening! She's sexy, outgoing, playful, with stunning looks and a wild side that will leave you smiling. :) I'll have her over again without question. I don't participate as much as I used to in the hobby, but Daisy is worth repeating with!

Happy Birthday to the wonderful Emma Alexandra, You are more beautiful now then I can remember. I hope your birthday dreams and wishes come true.

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I know she has reviews on here and I know she is a member. That's exactly why I went to see her. U know how u get all excited mixed up with nervousness before u finally go see the lady. But when u get there, no more communications, u wait and think maybe she just need a few more minutes but after u called 5 times and she picked up one of the calls but only music playing on the other side. When this happened, it really leaves nothing but sourness, and if ur reading this I am trying to help u avoid this feeling with this specific girl. We talked last week and agreed to meet last Sunday night but then when Sunday came no more replies. Last night she txted me, great, I showered, went to the bank and drove 30 min to her motel. I txted her before I left and when I was on my way, but when I got there 4 mins before our set time 9pm, u know the rest. I went on backpage again and found that 20 mins before our arranged meeting time she posted on backpage again, there were a couple of people seemingly talking about and watching me while I was waiting. I had high hopes, but this is what happened. And the exact same situation happnened not once, but twice. First time was two weeks ago. Anyone who opened this link thinking "how can she be..." I know exactly how you feel, maybe u would have gone back the second time like me, and thats what this post is all about. I doubt she had any bad intentions, even tho it's hard to convince myself. Oh, she replied an hr later "hey sweetie", and then "Sorry I was waiting for u..." right after my countless "I'm here", "u need a few minutes?" and 5 calls. Ya, she gave me this bs the first time too lol I asked for the room number to come by, no more reply and that's the end of the story. Judge for yourself, I still wanna believe she is a good girl. http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/your-favorite-blonde-barbie-doll-forget-her-pick-me-specials-438-794-0567/2546210

Absolutely. And as you've mentioned, the key to the sense of community is that this board isn't permitted to turn into a cesspit of bitching at people. If the ladies don't feel safe and welcome then they'll go away, and once clients realize that what's left is a sausage party they'll follow.

All the best, Emma, on your birthday and throughout the year!

Happy Birthday beautiful

Happy Birthday Emma! Enjoy your day.

Lexy I have had someone do that to me yearss ago and I was so pissed off, my family was actually at my house luckily I answered the door but holy did I tell him about himself, I never heard from him again That is defiantly a big No No for me as well...omg!

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Happy Birthday Emma! Have an absolutely wonderful day gorgeous!!! :D XOXOX

Glad you had a good b-day! Thanks for all your contributions.

There might be someone who can fit into the definition of an ideal client. I am not sure if this has ever happened to any lucky ladies out there. He is definitely tall, dark, muscular and handsome, probably young or most in his late-thirties, conversationalist, an expert in everything about woman and definitely very good in bed! He can get all the random pretty women he wants but very few could actually please him and he avoids commitments. This particular person gets very bored seeing mostly mature ladies and less attractive ones. Once a while he wishes to have fun with our ladies since they are mostly attractive, gorgeous and ultimately know how to please. He is a MALE ESCORT disguising himself as an ordinary client!

It is never appropriate or acceptable to just drop by a companions place uninvited EVER. Regardless if you have gifts. Send them by courier or bring them your next booking. That's if you get invited back after pulling a stunt like that. First time for everything at my new place I guess. Shaking my head hard, Shocked and quite Pissed all in one.... Sorry! Posted in the wrong thread....I usually don't have many:icon_redface:

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then is that not, a rule no big girls, if they don't hire big girls then is that not prejudice.... so is that not a quota no big girls....

I returned to Lyla (CERB) after several years break (due to some circumstances). And I had a mixed feeling about it that time. It is like you return in several years to the neighborhood you grown up in. It is somehow familiar but very different: the other generation occupies it, landscape is changed, familiar faces are very rare. But this friendly and positive atmosphere was the same and that was the most important. Lyla is unique virtual community where providers and hobbyists live together as Ladies and Gentlemen respecting and supporting each other. This community built around escorting but the best part is amazing people you can meet here. I enjoy reading threads, participating in the discussions, asking questions. As escorting itself, this is virtual world, temporary escape from the reality, and this is a good place to come. If this atmosphere is changed there is no sense for me to stay here.

Some of the options are all-or-nothing; for example, I don't want a free-for-all with ad titles (a la BP) but I would like to see the rules relaxed a bit.

I eco all that NSguy says. Where is the line drawn between a review and slander? I always strive to offer the best of me, but one off day and kaput goes my rep? If it becomes like this one bored I see....I will leave. It has language that to me is degrading and disgusting and thats why I have never joined that board.

And i have less interest in a site that allows full nudes, (some) uncensored words and CL style titles and spamming, as well as negative reviews. because all that gets pushed out into the discussion area, and turns it into another freak show like other review sites. I have no confidence in anyone other than mod here to control or deal with bullying, slander and fake reviews, all of which are right now controlled due to the 'don't say anything at all' policy.

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I second all of IrwinX's recommendations. Addictive Barbie, Ms. Manda, Kylie Jane and Charlotte are tops in my books.

As others said, the board should remain unique as is it now. The only thing I've noticed is a decline in participation on lyla since end of 2014. A lot of people have left after the board changed because of the new laws. I understand why the owners had to protect themselves but the laws have changed things with censorship of words. That was the feedback given back to me from the clients I had met from here. They wanted to read reviews that were positive but with more details given. I'm not sure how it could be done but I remember Lyla a few years ago and there was a great community spirit along with participation. If this site were to become just like the others or an "us v.s. them type of mentality then it's goodbye for me. There are other boards out there like that already and we don't need another one. We need to keep Lyla a place where everyone feels welcome.

Exactly what jafo105 said, this is the only social media site I have ever stuck with. I like the atmosphere here and I also like all the ladies that I communicate with on a regular basis.

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Being very new and inexperience to this hobby, I possess a very strong will to become an ideal client. I am not sure why, primarily to ensure a good experience and secondarily the need to build good reputation etc. I would not worry much about the most crucial part to be an ideal client, as I have a personal habit to appear clean and presentable. I was also born with a trait of being gentle and caring. I have not done many sessions to be called an expert, but I would conjecture that the small but the trickiest part to be an ideal client would be to reach a harmonious state, whether or not you and your partner can telepathize each other mind and to reach a balance syncing between your generosity and in receiving an exceptional service from an SP/MA. For example, I love to pamper someone as much as I want to be treated the same way. I refuse to receive certain *** acts but also hoping to get something extra like more intimate caressing, touching, kissing on me legitimately and sweet talking. If this doesn't happen, I feel that I am missing something. So far, the MAs whom I met satisfy most of these criteria hence I usually left them with a small token and wrote them a good reco afterwards. However, to be an ideal client, I also carry too much concern and always confused myself whether or not they work too much on me. Sometimes, I would stop them in the middle of massage and invited them to cuddle with me. The downside of this, I am not sure if some of the ladies I met would feel suspicious and pressurized! Is he too good to be true or is he expecting me to return him a "big favour" maybe not now but in the future? I think sometimes I was being trapped in a certain situation and I wished I would not have done that if I were given a fresh start of the session. So far I have not encountered this, but this could also potentially put me as a client who are easy to be taken advantage of. So based on my current experience, attempting to become an ideal client is good but also could bring harm to the client-provider relationship! In the end of the day, just remind yourself that both feeling of love and hate lie on the same boundary. To reiterate my points above, I guess it boils down to a question whether or not an ideal compatibility (loving each other in many special ways) and a mutual understanding (in giving and receiving) exist between SP/MA and client. It works both ways...

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Trump's inauguration especially his address

Divorce, it's ugly and the only winners are the lawyers. Can't wait till the end.

Just my two cents on this topic... I don't know about you, but I have kids. The thought of showing someone pictures or video of them (their grandparents, or a girl on a date or something) and having an unsolicited text pop up from some crazy chick with a suggestive or inappropriate message is enough to make me want to steer clear of that drama. I know it's slim pickings at the moment, but I'd still rather see no one than meet someone who could potentially ���� up my shit at a later date. ...but definitely, please report back if you TOFTT :). Good luck!

I had this experience at a Montreal massage parlor last fall. I seen their ad on the bp site and noticed this young lady with a sexy body working that day. I book a time and show up at the location ready to go, she asked me to take a shower(I took one before showing up but what the hell I took one anyway). While I was in the shower she comes in the room and lays down on the massage table and looks at me showering(I don't mind I'm a bit of a exhibitionist), I come out dry up and she asked if I would massage her first, no problem I have offered to many ladies before and they often accept. What happens next was a real turn off, she is laying on her stomach so I did her back and her legs and also her bum, 15 minutes go by and then I tell her to turn over, she does. I rub her legs and she is falling asleep so I decide to speed things up and go to her breasts she does not open her eyes and goes picking in her nose for gold, not once, not twice but about 6-7 times. I lost my erection and I packed my stuff and left while she was sleeping and picking her nose.

OMG yes please take care of your personal hygiene As a non smoker (now 4 years yay me) I cannot stand the yucky smell of cigarettes, and I'm not saying don't have a smoke just pleaseeeee freshen your breath before coming to see me and if having a few drinks mouthwash or tic tacs Nothing more unattractive then a foul smell and yes this I'm sure goes for both the hobbies and the ladies