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Freshly taken from NEW BRUNSWICK!!!! O Canada.....lol

I'm definitely not into the butt stuff personally, but I do have a variety of toys. Mostly variations on the fleshlight style stroker, but also some other fun things. My most recent purchase was the wevibe verge. It's quite the fun little toy, and even better with a remote partner. Hey, a guy has to have something to warm him up during these cold winter months.

For Sale: A Lovense Max toy Approximately 40 hours of usage. Definitely not stretched out. Battery still holds full charge. Recently detailed. Original upholstery and paint. I'll include a pine air freshener to give it that new toy smell.

Damn it! @OldandNerdy you need to advertise your yard sales here on lyla. Get with the program, man! Admitting my age and ignorance: I thought ngl was referring to natural gas liquids..... and I prefer to wash my 'dishes' by hand :)

People have no idea what our dishwashers go through! Haha... this is such a great picture!

@lydiahardwood I wasn't aware that you had so many toys in your night stand drawer to do this in your dishwasher.😂

After installing a bidet at home and people started to know about it I was hearing stories about how some guys use the water jet to excite the prostate. And before anybody ask....no I did not try it and will not shoot water up my bunghole.

Never really experimented with toys while solo play. But did very much enjoy when my ex used her vibrator on my package. Never really thought about using a vibrator on my own. But it would be enjoyable.

Oh @Allie Zeon - thank you - there's nothing better than a picture provided by a lyla lady, especially one I know. Don't throw your back out ..... if I could get to NB I could help with the pictures and at least four other items of housework, if you catch my drift! @NotchJohnson: Amen!

Definitely looking forward to that !

Wow! Just amazing!

When I can't have sex I look for ice cream, that usually solves that problem. I have had 2 special ladies that inserted a prostate massager in me with my consent. I have to say that it was not that bad. I also agree that in this day and age there should be no more judging of people because of what they practice (except if it's illegal) and with whom they do it with.

Met with Rose French today. What a wonderful experience . Small in stature but a body that is so sexy with curves and so very fit. Made me feel I was the center of her universe . Great skills true gfe , just a sweet down to earth gal . Another gem from YFL . I will see her again for sure . Never felt rushed . Can't wipe that smile off my face

A lot of what I love....side boob, body suit, booty scoop, sexy etc.

AAAMENNNN! Absolutely lovely!! Thanks Allie! So looking forward to the next pictures! You do a wonderful job of continually updating your website with info, pictures and videos!

A long, long time ago in my youthful exuberance I tried that. It was not very fulfilling or even good. It was in the garbage a few days after.

Can we claim the inflatable doll as a sex toy for men? I have never owned one and mostly will never either because how do you hide this from a wife to begin with(for myself) and what if you find yourself in a relationship with someone you love? Will they understand the reason behind? Second, if anyone here has/had a doll, I have a question, does it squeak or can it hold your weight? What is the feeling you get when you put it in it's(no gender here) mouth or bottom parts. Does it feel the same (I doubt very much). I only see these useful at a bachelor party only....prove me wrong.

I can understand the insecurity part. Men, for all our outer bravado, machoism or whatever you call it, are for the most part, insecure about themselves. I do think guys should think about the pleasure more and not worry over the trivial things. One thing about the stimulation of "tools" is it helps to overcome the de-sensitization caused by the condom. I think most guys if they thought about that would be more open to it. Just my thought on it though.

I LOVE this topic and it's certainly enjoyed reading these perspectives! I have never been aware that men have been shamed for masturbating but I suppose there are a lot controlling significant others out there. Something else I have noticed talked about for one gender but not the other. Most of us suffer the grips of control in one form or another. I have never understood why someone wouldn't want to explore with their partner but perhaps that's why I'm still single at my age. No regrets and I enjoy my freedom quite well. I also enjoy exploring and happy to hear that there are how many hobbyists who are not afraid to step out of their comfort zone! Moreso that trans providers are explored and appreciated. Helping others explore a mindset I have been shamed most of my life for is one of the largest things I enjoy about this work and why after a decade of an attempt at mugglelife I have returned! I do however prefer to keep this playtime discrete as sadly there are still quite a bit of stigma surrounding it. Perhaps I should be considering a spectrum of toys when I do my shopping? This cat is curious how you guys would feel if providers had different types of toys for you to explore on your parts as well as our own? Do you feel it could add to the experience or would most of you just prefer to play with real flesh? I adored @Greenteal mention of oils and lubricants to help things slip in a little more comfortably. I am a lady who gets incredibly wet and still appreciates how easier things can glide with a little help. Lately I've been practicing with infusing my own with CBD to help relax things even more 😽

Her nightstand IS a dishwasher. She is a very efficient girl afterall

We have the opportunity to speak out and have our voices heard. One step forward, is a win for all of us. "Petition to the Government of Canada Whereas: The Supreme Court of Canada (Bedford v. Canada, 2013) found laws that violated sex workers’ Section 7 rights to "security of person" to be unconstitutional; Bill C-36, the Protection of Communities and Exploited Persons Act, passed in November 2014, denies sex workers of their Section 7 rights to "security of person" in a roundabout way by criminalizing the purchase of sexual services for the first time in Canadian history; Bill C-36 puts our most marginalized members of society at risk of being beaten, raped and killed because criminalization hinders their ability to seek assistance from law enforcement and puts barriers to accessing health, safety and other benefits available to workers; Bill C-36 hinders workers' rights to negotiate the terms of employment; Amnesty International has called for decriminalization of consensual sex work, including laws that prohibit associated activities, based on evidence that these laws make sex workers less safe and provide impunity for abusers because sex workers are often too scared of being penalized to report crime to police; and Amnesty International has stated that laws on sex work should focus on protecting people from exploitation and abuse, rather than trying to ban all sex work and penalize sex workers We, the undersigned, citizens and residents of Canada, call upon the Government of Canada to repeal Bill C-36 to ensure all Canadians, regardless of their chosen profession, are not denied their constitutional right to security of person." https://petitions.ourcommons.ca/en/Petition/Details?Petition=e-3132

I have indeed signed it when I saw the link on Twitter. But thanks for posting this Phaedrus. We really need this industry made safer and better for all involved and this is a positive first step. I only hope rational minds in government can prevail and not be coerced by do-gooders with no concept of the realities.

I have done this while entertaining and it is insanely pleasurable. It helps create certain experiences for those who may be too introverted or shy for group situations. Provided the toys don't spark insecurity which I find can happen. All valid feeling that should be respected and considered. I was born and raised in a small place and have felt most of these barriers. A lot of them I have been working on for decades to overcome and feel proud when I see others brave to do this work. I can also understand not wanting to jeopardize their comfort to do so. Toys perhaps we could reframe as tools as they are glorious for intensifying the pleasure of all genders, but intensity also is not for everyone. I will get working on adding more variety when I can ❤️

@Kitten, I like that idea of a variety of toys. Obviously, not all guys would be into that and would be more about the flesh to flesh touch as you say but I would find a combination of both to be very stimulating. I was with a lady once who used her vibrator while I came in from behind. Kind of a man/ machine DP if you will. Not only did the combination give her great pleasure but I found the tingle of the vibrator on me to be a huge turn-on.

I miss The Fax ; been going there since the early 80's ; it's my oasis in the middle of cold boring Ottawa, I'm so grateful to all the beautiful young ladies who have been so kind to me over the years. I love hanging around out front on the sunny sidewalk on a spring day , sometimes a dancer will show up and join you for a smoke , they looks nice in their street clothes too. Remember the roast beef Fridays ? omg that was a good meal, you've got big screens, cold beer, air conditioning on a hot day, and lots of gorgeous girls running around in skimpy outfits, not the mention the staff there , to all the staff over the years I would just like to say THANK-YOU !! and I hope The Fax will continue , it's the best place in Ottawa !

thanks. i have a small but nice perky butts.....but i have a hard time to take it with the best angle. Will try again tomorrow. Stay tuned:)

This is actually a good topic to explore and talk about in a rational, intelligent manner. Most of us men have been programmed from an early age by our fathers, peers and the overall male patriarchy that masturbation and especially butt play are some terrible, evil thing. We are taught that if we find pleasure in anything that involves having something in our anus, it means we are homosexual. As I have become more experienced and sexually self aware, I realize that most of this is a fallacy based solely on homophobia. For me, masturbation has always been enjoyable and for the majority of my life, a necessity. As someone that was single for a very long time and only married for a short time, relatively speaking, in middle age, finding a sex partner wasn't always easy. I did alright but I didn't really discover this wonderful lifestyle until my 50s. After discovering this world and exploring my sexuality deeper including my introduction to transgender, I realized that I can be a heterosexual male but still enjoy other aspects that have always been taboo. After I realized this and quit worrying about the trivial nonsense, I not only enjoyed the company of some very lovely transgender escorts but also bought myself an anal vibrator. I have also enjoyed some strap on play. Those and also having some companions give me a prostate massage has really opened my eyes to great experiences. I have found that stimulating the prostate has greatly enhanced my orgasms and frankly, the ejaculation is much greater. I now realize that the programming was flawed and both masturbation and butt play should not be feared or dismissed. Maybe not for everybody, I know but relax and don't be afraid to try new things, I say. Sorry if this was a little long winded, my friends. Cheers all and wishing for an end to covid and a healthy dose of sex for all, lol.

published @ Saint John telegraph today March 2nd (daily paper)...written by @times-transcript Moncton...read the article & what's your thoughts.... I disagree with the heading "Girls under 18" besides of the rest of the whole article....as stated " Much remains unknown"....

My reference is to the 3rd Canadian Division who were fighting the Nazis in The Netherlands. The Germans flooded the ground to slow or drown the Canadians. The Canadians overcame adversity. The Nazis called them water rats. The Canadians kept the moniker. My dad was one of them. Years later I saw a veteran's licence plate and it paid homage to them too. He was not there but I still left a thank you note.

Done Thanks Phaedrus RG