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This probably should be in the Highlight Of The Day thread but it's a biggie. I was informed by my doc today that I no longer have cancer. The pathology report following my surgery showed that there was cancer in 20% of my prostate but the margins were clear. The blood test I did last week returned a PSA value of 0.0. And that all translates into Bingo, we have a winner! There will be future periodic PSA tests to ensure that all stays good but for now, I'm going to enjoy practicing saying "I do not have cancer." Happy Dances for everyone! On the house!

It would be a nice gesture to explain the situation however you are under no obligation to do so. This is one of those grey situations because social media is such a broad outlet. Using FB as an example, you can be friends with people on there just because they are friends with your first cousin once removed best friend and they made a comment you like. Doesn't mean there is personal friendship. You also have to remember that most ladies are discreet and non judgmental regarding the situations of people so the situation may be a null point to the lady in question. Only you have the full scope of the situation and have to feel comfortable with the decision you make. It would also depend on whether the lady in question is someone who has built a reputation or some transient. That would impact your risk assessment. Good luck with everything.

No, nope, nooope. Are they using their work name on there? Does it seem like a personal page or is it quite obviously for business? If it's geared towards gaining clients, then you're right. If not, or there's no indicating factors showing that it's for business and you just recognized their photos, then please pretend you never saw the profile and move along. I have and still do have a profile on a dating website, and some of my photos are similar to my ad ones so some people recognize me. I have also started talking to men, gotten to know them, told them personal things about myself, and then told them about my work only to have them say "uh, are you just on here looking for clients? Because I don't want to pay for anything..". I have had guys book with me, and cancel when they find my profile because they are "more interested in pursuing a relationship with me then meeting through my work". Unless(and this is a big unless) they make it obvious in their profile they are searching for clients, then this is their personal profile, and the last thing they probably want is to be disturbed by guys who are just looking for a sneaky way to get with an escort without paying. I'm sure I'm not alone in saying I like to keep my personal and work life completely separate, and there's nothing I hate more than being approached by guys on dating sites who only messaged because they recognized my photos and think I'll be easy to sleep with. Most companions aren't "searching" or trying to find clients, they search for us not the other way around. Posted via Mobile Device

I've been around this game for a long long time and have found no real value in the reviews or recommendations from the various sites. I take everything into context as far as comments are concerned. If some one doesn't interest me then I won't pay any attention to reviews or recommendations at all. If some one does I might or might not, over the years you develop an ear as it were to whom you might be interested in then after that it becomes individual diligence. Reading how folks interact and present themselves for me often tells more about the person than any thing else and plays a part in my decision making process. Peace MG

Considering the source of where these posts are originating from, it's pretty much a no brainer to take what's being said with a grain of salt. It's obviously someone's attempt to discredit you for whatever reason. I would trust that gents can see right through this. The mere fact you have glowing recommendations on this board only goes to show you that for every bad thing being said about you, the good outweighs it 10-fold. The "I'll cut the competition down so I can get more business" model is fraught with so many negatives that if they were to use that energy to promote their own business instead of cutting you up, they wouldn't need to worry. I have had it happen to me and it's not fun, but try and keep your chin up Sophia and bear them no mind. They aren't worth it. But you are so worth it!!

Well as a human being, I'm hardwired to be judgmental. But as a critically thinking human being, I also know that often when someone's spitting venom, they're hardly keeping to the facts. So it depends on what was said and how it was said. If was written out as a calm, rational account of an occurrence then it's going to seem a lot more legit than some slavering rant. If it looks like it was written by someone who is pissed off, you can be pretty sure there's at least some exaggeration and at worst outright lies being told. Also you have to consider the source. Does a poster have a reputation for being a demanding child who pitches a fit (writes a scathing review) every time things don't go their way? Or is the poster generally reasonable and understanding that a bad experience isn't necessarily anyone's fault? The source can tell you a lot about what biases may be at play. And usually it's fairly easy to spot ladies who are trying to run a smear campaign with bull-crap reviews. Those tactics only come back and bite them in the ass because most clients aren't stupid and won't even visit a lady who pulls that stuff. Barring anything that I would consider extreme, I generally rely on my own experiences of people. Hearing what others have to say can give you input, but again, that input is often only a portion of the whole picture. That's how I approach things like that. Also interested in what others think. Additional Comments: YES!!! That's precisely my way of thinking.

being able to enjoy the nice sunny weather....

Just say "I saw you on a friends social media app and as I want to keep these two worlds separate, and although I am sad to say it, I think it's best we don't meet"

The intent of people on dating sites is so wide ranging that even if an sp was using it to promote their business, it wouldn't even crack the top 10 forms of internet dating insincerity. There are people who want one night stands pretending they want to settle down, there are people using fake photos, there are people pretending to be different genders ... hell, there are so many forms of disingenuous behavior on the average dating site that trying to list them is an exercise in futility. All that said, I've used them in the past (with varying levels of success) and have learned that you have to accept that there's a pretty low ratio of people you will actually be interested in, but that's just a price you have to pay to try to find romance in the modern world. As traditional avenues of meeting people go away, the net has become a fairly convenient (even if not always reputable) way of finding romance. This may come as a surprise to some people, but SP's also have lives outside this world, and shocking as it may be, they want to be cared about, appreciated and loved the same way the rest of us do. As good of a client as you may think you are, a hobbyist can't fill that void, and if you're human, odds are, true intimacy will be somewhere on your hierarchy of needs.

Just a thought but why not PM the ladies and ask THEM what they're looking for? Seems to me that the best way to get answers is straight from the source.

Enjoying a good lunch with a couple of good lyla friends. Life is good! :D

No information other than the number belongs to an agency named VIP or on here it's Lady and Lace.

Offering any discount or special, in the long-term is bad for our business. 1. It implies you're not doing well. 2. The clients who paid the special rate won't pay the full rate, so any increase in clients is temporary. 3. The lower your rate the more clients you have to see to pay your bills, which means you burn out faster.

Getting reacquainted with Lyla after a brief Hiatus ~ happy to be back in the "loop"! :)

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Congrats on the freash start Barbie. Its refreshing to have someone be so forth coming. I am sure it will make a differance to many who may have been hesitant to book. Additional Comments: I think it's equally important to mention thanks to elias902. We use these threads to gain information to better insure we are meeting safe people and that the info given is a good representation of what is offered. It's unfair to ask others to share their experiences/provide info, only to make them feel like they are being racked over the coals when they do. This is a selfish post as I often use info from these threads to aid in my booking decisions. However, no one statement will make or break it for me. After all experiences and expectations varry. So lets save the conjecture and keep these boards a safe and open to communication. Also remeber, issues can also be delt with by private PM. Or, send the prossional in question a copy of the link they are mentioned in. They can then clarify on the thread if they choose to. (As it worked with this situation) These ladies are more then able to stand up for them selves, as are requlars who vist them often. Cheers, -J

I was blown away from this spinner, very petite, I almost lost it a couple of times, very nice, definitely going to repeat over and over. Don't pass this one up boys, before she gets popular.

Not sure this has been mentioned. Duing my last visit at one of the satellite walk-in clinics for my regular tests, the nurse told me - Effective May 11th, 2015 drop-in services available to youth aged 29 and under. http://ottawa.ca/en/residents/public-health/sexual-health/sexual-health-centre For anyone else, the only clinic open for these walk-in tests will be at the main clinic at 179 Clarence Street. It's no big deal, but I am more familiar with my regular walk-in clinic.

What the flying fuck is WRONG with people? Incest is better than accepting your child's sexual preference?!?!? I don't want to live on this planet anymore.

Updated! (I'm such a crappy blogger!) June 3, 2015 --This is gonna be a long one. Many years ago, a man I'd entertained a few times when visiting Toronto asked to buy me dinner before our meeting. I agreed. During our meal, he pitched an MLM scheme at me. I wasn't into that sort of thing, and I let him know it. Disappointed, he tried one last strategy: "Oh. Well, do you have any friends who, you know, have better business sense than you do?" See More

And here's Addictive Barbie! Thank you!!

I've been talking to her quite extensively and she really wants to atone for her past issues. Very honest open and candid with me. I think very mature at her age. I plan to see her for sure.

I will be available this week until Sunday I am Brooklyn Styles, your enticing and inviting entertainment & massage provider. Please call or text for quickest response ( ask about my website) 506-588-0397

I'd second , third , fourth ..well you get my drift. The best Truro has to offer by a mile. One of the true sweethearts in the biz.

Again I can vouch for her sincerity. We have chatted quite extensively and gotten to know each other well. She is very open and honest with answering questions and has never made me feel that I'm wasting her time. I'm really looking to seeing her soon.

If you are looking for someone in that area I would recommend Maraena Blackwell. You wont be disappointed.

Might just be me but this doesn't seem like the best plan on a whole host of levels. Peace MG

I know financial limitations can really suck (and not in a sexy way), but the sooner we accept them and move on, the better off we are. There are some actresses in the adult film industry who tour as service providers, and while there are a few I crush pretty hard on, I have resigned to the fact that I'm not going to be spending a weekend with the Brea Olsens of the world, and that's not really something to cry about, it's just a reality of my financial situation. And as an interesting side note, for people who are afraid to give out their personal information to a provider, you should check out the application form you have to fill out to see some of the adult film actresses - banks don't require as much to mortgage your house :p

If you decline to take my offer to wash your hands before starting the session, don't be surprised when digits are off the table.

No one likes dealing with a shitty customer, so why are you making excuses for one? It's really simple: do not ask for discounts EXCEPT SOLELY IN CASES WHERE IT IS CLEARLY ADVERTISED. If you don't see it advertised in a companion's ad or website, don't ask. Pretty easy. Since grocery related analogies are your thing, here's one for ya: Grocery stores do price-matching if another store has a special on. Companions don't. Capisce? Good.

Enjoying a beautiful day full of sunshine, butterflies, flowers and doggy kisses. I'm in Heaven!! :)

Planning the rest of my June travel, posting ads, emails....

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I believe there is a strong correlation with social media and instant gratification with today's younger generation. I'm old school. In my day, we were taught to respect people and that asking for something in any given situation that wasn't being offered was considered very ignorant and rude. And if you did do such a thing, well the consequences were definitely not a good outcome. Nowadays, it seems as though none of this applies. I really do think advancements in technology have changed the way we converse with people. Everyone wants to text now and sometimes even getting a customer to phone to give location details can be like pulling teeth. I suppose the same can be applied with expecting discounts. Being good looking, young or hung do not pay my bills. How is that supposed to help with my quality of life or my business or anything else for that matter? I'm offering a service, not looking for a boyfriend so none of the above apply in this situation. I do not discriminate when it comes to a person's looks in my business. Being polite and hygienic are the two most significant characteristics an escort will look for. It's what some people want, when they want it and they want it now! There is a new generation of clients stepping forward in this industry but there are certainly self entitlement issues going on there that I do not see with more mature gentlemen.

It's been many months since I had seen Violet. She had not been advertising for a while. I text her to see if she was still around. She text back that she was and I booked her for a noon session. When she opened the door this afternoon, I was greeted by a sexy looking Violet in a sexy outfit. She immediately gave me a hug and kiss. We went back and spent a few minutes catching up. I took a quick shower and returned to chat a bit more. We started kissing and she is a very passionate kisser. Things got a bit more passionate and fun. Everything was great as usual. Things are always better once you get to know each other and can relax around each other. She is a very beautiful and sexy girl with a great smile. Easy on the eye's and eager to please. I plan on seeing her many more times. She is planning to join Lyla.com once she has overcome some technical difficulties. More information on how to contact her can be found on her website, just google 'wild violet escort'. She only see's a select few clients a day and has many regulars. There's a reason why many return. If you see her, tell her Someguy sent you :)

It might not seem much to you guys but today I managed to install an air conditioner at home on my own. Had never done this before, and as a petite lady, it was not obvious at all for me. Had to fight with the big hose a bit though (no pun intended ;-) And it seems to be working because... I am cold now! Proud, but cold. Ah ah.

Hi I'm living in Pembroke now please when calling mention cerb also I rarely check mail so to book today call or text me I'm friendly fun I Start with a massage 5"7 115 petite and very pretty perhaps your visiting are Lovely city. ... What a great way to unwind so book with me today this is a Ottawa # 1 613 793 2219 see you soon

I had the lovely pleasure of spending time with the stunning redhead Bridgette today. She is always amazing, great conversationalist, great company... in a class of her own. She is worth going to Barbs for.

about Barbie? Turns out she's a nice girl who went through a hard time.

Recent lesson learned!

Well Barbie, its nice to see you have been doing better and have joined Lyla. I have sent you a PM ;) Additional Comments: Looks like ill be seeing her today :)

Hello I want to thank you for saying u enjoyed yourself I truley aim to please all of my clients and any of them that have seen me recently within the past 4 months would tell you they have not had any problems with me I will admit when you saw me if I threatened to punch u I am honestly very sorry I have been clean now for half a year and I feel ashamed for any issues that may have happened before I have changed and my loyal regulars for the past 2 years have told me I have changed into a perfect woman now I just wanted to write this to appoligize and say I love what I do and it really does show I want our encounter to be amazing I am real 100% I could email pictures to you if you email me at sweetsexyblonde69 gmail I am jus a young tiny beautiful lady with a body designed to please I take pride in how I please and will shock you with my talents my intelligence and my kind heart a sweetheart that outside of work tries to please everyone and put smiles on everyone's faces my incall is at a downtown small hotel where I live I am respectful and quiet and don't disrupt anyone they don't give me any problems the staff has become like family I'm sorry for the long story I just wanted to again apologize and maybe show you a little bit how I am I try making every one as comfortable as I can thank you if u actually read this thank you kisses xox barbie

I don't understand why this topic would bother you so much. The fact there appears to be many misconceptions about why you and your colleagues use these sites suggests there is a need for this discussion. What better place to have it than here (especially here). I certainly feel better informed because of it. Let's not turn someone's curiosity into something it isn't.

I'm on dating sites myself and totally agree with the other ladies...my pic are totally different and I show my face there...that's my personal life! Bianca

Does anyone know if ANY of the ladies on the site are genuinely looking for dating/relationships? I have a daughter who is signed up on a couple of places and the last thing she wants right now is a serious relationship. That's her choice. You've stumbled upon an artifact of someone's private life. Let it be.

I agree with the 2 ladies above, I was on a dating website at one point and some of my pictures were the same as the ones I use in my ads. However this was a personal page and not work related, using my real name/information. I don't mind being approached on the websites as long as we are not discussing business as again it is a personal page and I prefer to keep my work and personal life separate as well :)

Perhaps a special section only accessable to people with a history of good on topic posts where the rules on identifying are a little looser? Initially limited to a very select few and then additional members who meet a post count and nomination criteria ( have a provider vouch for them perhaps) and then stand for election to the area might allow for free exchange of information while protecting the providers? Might also serve as incentive to some posters to makle more positive contributions to the site as well. Just thinking off the top here.

She advertised as 28 but when she responded to my email it had her real name. I looked her up on Facebook and she has a wide open profile and I saw she is really 38. I understand a lot of ladies lie a little bit about their age but ten years is pushing it. Question is what else is she lying about.