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I find it funny how some members of the other board and some members who are members of both boards always manage to put down CERB recommendations. No negative feedback allowed on Cerb doesn't mean that every recommendation for every single lady is sugar coated. I find the comment I quoted above in bold is disrecpectful towards the gentlemen who take the time to write recommendations and for the ladies who receive them. My two grains of salt ;)

Another difference between the two boards is unlike the other board, Cerb has the mechanisms in place to stop one person from using MULTIPLE accounts. Which stops a disgruntled client (or competitor) from starting and perpetuating a smear campaign. (If memory serves... even a long term member has been caught doing just that..) Kim

As a long time member on both boards, and on the Montreal board too, but hardly use it anymore,I lurk over there and have a different handle, the one in question. I find it amazing how guys over there and are members here (who might even been booted off here) have two different stories to tell about women and this board. I got a name for people that act in that manner "Two Faced" I use to sit back and laugh at all of the crap they were throwing this way at this board (still do, mainly it is the same culprits) and at ladies,and members of this board that post recommendation like myself, they show little lack of respect. It has been said numerous times, that "GUY #1" is NOT the same as "GUY #2" , hence the YMMV, chemistry, being a gentleman gets you a lot further in this hobby. BUT not only in this hobby but in "LIFE IN GENERAL" act like an asshole with an lady, then expect to treated like one back, and in life asshole's really can be a pain in the butt. Is there benefits having the 2 boards? MAYBE To a degree, its just too bad that some over there are not given the boot off there for their continued, lack of regard for "women" and then they jump down guys that may have something sensible to say. This topic has come up many times, about both boards, but it is amazing that it is the same characters that stirred up shit here, that do the same over there, but I'm sure they continue to seek ladies here on this board. I will laugh my ass off, when perhaps some day ALL SPs in Canada MIGHT have a reporting system as in the USA, a reference check for guys ( such as P411,Whitelist etc etc) Lets see how many of you so called gentleman get dates if that ever arises in Canada. Anyways, My Sunday morning rant, but I really don't like guys that talk from both side of their mouth. PEACE OUT!

It is interesting how postive recommendations are equated with sugar coating but negative reviews on other boards are equated with honesty and "the truth". In my experience lots of negative reviews on other boards tend to be just as dishonest, where the client uses the power of the review to "get back" at someone. On this board, the absence of recos says something. I've had bad experiences following the advice of positive reviews from other boards. Instances where I scratch my head and wonder if i saw the same girl that was described in the tons of glowing reviews. I've also seen ladies on this board who have received negative reviews elsewhere, but great recos here; and have had a very positive experience. My experiences with ladies recommended on this board have all been positive. That's not a bad record. I'll stick with the sugar coating, it's fun to lick off. Porthos

I am very much in agreement that there is room for both boards. I have always used more than one board when doing my research on who I would like to see. This goes back to when I was only seeing sp's in Montreal and would use multiple boards to seek information on a lady who had caught my attention. Personally I have never really had a "bad" experience in Canada with sp's or ma's. There have been times where I have not connected with a sp, but that did not warrant going on to the other board and writing a bad review. These things happen and everyone needs to understand that, and in my view it really isn't a big deal when you do not connect with someone. I write recommendations because I want to, not because I feel I have to. When I do write one, I do not put a lot of information on what happened between the sp/ma and myself because how things go for me may not be how they go for someone else. It wouldn't be right for me to write a long winded tale about what went on. All this is going to do is set other guy's expectations to be the same, and that may not turn out to be the same experience I had. That certainly would not be fair! If I did run in to an extremely negative experience, I would write about it in the warnings section of this board. Make no mistake, I do not have an issue with publicly saying something if I am ripped off. I would post it on the other board and most importantly, pass the information on to Cowboy Kenny so he can post it in the Diary. This is all just my opinion, of which everyone is entitled to one.

Recommendations and reviews can only give so much information. They can tell you that Mr. X enjoyed his time with the paid companion and would gladly return. But there's no guarantee that Mr. Y or Mr. Z will feel the same way. Sometimes the two parties "click" very well, and sometimes they don't, through no fault of the client or the companion. Mr. Y may be able to describe what he wants when he sends e-mail, but have a hard time discussing sexual things when he's face-to-face with the companion and her comfort and encouragement may not help him feel more confident. It's possible that Mr. Z may have had unrealistic expectations about the encounter, about the companion or even about his own performance. This is likely to be the case if his interaction with the lady has been limited to finding out if she's available at a particular time on a certain date but has s said nothing about what has led him to contact her, specifically. I hope that all gentlemen understand that telling us we're beautiful is meaningless! If the thing that prompted him to contact her was that he loved an outfit she was wearing in a photograph, because sailor suits or sheer lace or body paint bring up cherished memories or private fantasies he's never shared with anyone, believe me, the lady would very, very much appreciate knowing it! If he likes some things she's written here, or something she's described on her website because it made him think or made him laugh or he learned something new, she'd like to know that, too. I always urge people to take negative reviews with a pound of salt. Far too many of the negative reviews are written by men who have a hostile agenda. Check the other posts they've made and notice how often they say the same kinds of things about many ladies. Notice, too, how often they may write bad reviews about particular kinds of companions who don't meet their dream ideal. You might wonder why, if he has a strong preference for ladies in their early 20s, he went to see Ms. Q knowing that she's is in her 40s or why, if he prefers busty ladies he chose someone with small breasts. Boards go through mood cycles, too. Saying unkind things about curvy women and BBWs has had an up-surge in popularity recently. While there are plenty of men who prefer these women over the others, a wave of negativity discourages anyone from posting positive reviews about those ladies. After a couple of months have gone by, the hostility may be focused on women who are well-groomed but don't shave or wax, or on women with tattoos, or women whose English isn't perfect, or women over 35. If a companion has been well-reviewed many times but the reviews seem to have been negative recently, accept that negativity with great caution! There have been a number of successful campaigns launched against highly esteemed companions simply because they have such good reputations on those boards and someone has decided it's time to bring them down a few pegs. Some women have been driven out of business by concerted attacks of this kind launched by a small group of men or by one or two people who use multiple accounts to post multiple negative reviews. These men's real complaints are usually that the lady in question declined to meet with them for reasons of her own or that they think her fees are too high and couldn't get her to reduce them. And, as was pointed out, above, since those other boards don't monitor multiple accounts, sometimes other ladies also form shill accounts in order to disparage the women they consider to be their competition. The best way to find the paid companion whose company you will enjoy most is to take some time, do some homework, and exchange some thoughtful messages with the ones who interest you. Be clear and specific about your interests and preferences. If you have particular boundaries, please say so at the beginning! For example, my home is an inappropriate place for someone to visit if they have a severe allergy to cats. I mention pets on my website, but I'm not upset if a prospective client has overlooked the information. By all means, tell me that you have an allergy and I will either decline the meeting or suggest another venue.

To those guys that insist on asking if I am a cop, I want you to think about your question. If I was an undercover cop, would I tell you the truth and say Yes? If I was an undercover cop and you wanted me to kill your wife for money, if you asked me if I was a cop, would I tell you the truth? No, of course not, I would lie and say I am not a cop. Touching my breasts would only give you an assault charge if she was a cop. I think you need to realize that if you are worried that your sp is a cop, dont discuss business in public, dont pick her up on the street corner or a hotel lobby. I am not a lawyer, but my understand of the law in Canada is that if you are not soliciting in public, if everything is being conducted behind closed doors in a private place, you are ok. Not sure if others are noticing an increase in these types of questions, but I just have to shake my head. Cops lie all the time, especially those that are undercover. Just incase you are wondering, no I am not a cop, I am not an undercover police officer or any other combination. I am just a sp who works alone, will never work for an agency and trying to makie some money on something I love doing. I only advertise on CERB and will never do a call in public (ie, your car is very public), or in the washroom of your local restaurant etc... Have a great day!

Brief and to the point mrgreen. Sums it up perfectly. On another note, in every debate different points of view exist and are expressed otherwise it is no debate but a collective agreement!!. A few people have expressed support for the other board (and a few who haven't but have been or admitted to have been long time members of the other board!!!) and its usefulness and that is our view. Supporting the other board does NOT mean opposing this board in any form or shape. It is just looking at both sides of the coin or debate. No body is stirring up problems here either, it is just a debate between civil adults. No body said anything differently than what has been said on terb and if it is somewhat different choice of wording or phrasing or style of writing (in between lines rather than straight out) is because of certain limitations as per rules on cerb that doesn't exist on terb regarding negativity and as I said we all have to respect that when posting here.

All of these platforms have obvious strengths and weaknesses in my opinion. Experience has shown me to not to necessarily "buy" the recommendations or reviews I read on any of them. Personal choices and tastes tend to be so individually subjective and I've read rave recommendations and came away shaking my head afterward and I've read reviews that were very obviously mean spirited, unfair and not balanced at all. So are things sugar coated....sometimes, are things mean and unfrair...sometimes. Personal due dilligence will always be the key for me. Peace MG

Interesting. I had one less than stellar session that I had mentioned in one of my stories here (without naming names). I looked her up on the other site and what do you know? Page after page of people who had a very similar experience to me. So it wasn't me or a YMMV thing. That makes me feel a lot better actually. I'm still new to the hobby so I'm often worried I've done something wrong. I think I won't make that mistake again. You're all right that reviews should be taken with a grain of salt (on both sites) but I agree that having multiple resources available is a good thing. Additional Comments: Wow, even more cool. I looked up everyone I've seen so far (it's a short list) and all the other site reviews are just like my experience. It would seem that I've been very lucky to meet some pretty awesome women so far. I just hope Taylor Monroe forgives me for all my craziness when I first was getting into the hobby. She was obviously a little more than I could handle for my first time. :-D

Other board has it advantages too, A combination is the best of the both worlds. This board is mainly to find good providers and the other is useful mainly to avoid bad ones. I know what you are saying and believe me I dislike negativity too and I hate hurtful reviews but having a bad encounter like a provider who falsely advertises her services, looks or age or resorts to bait and swicth or breaks her promises or rushes, or an uncaring money hungry or drunk or drugged provider (especially a new provider who no body knows) or the no shows time and money wasters or more importantly an unsafe encounter (like someone with a pimp around, someone who robs or fights or threats or block your way out and many examples of unsafe encounters) and moving on without speaking out about it then will create more victims in the future and those victims may well be members of the community you care about. Why I call them victims because most of us work very hard for our money and some have hard time saving for that single encounter and are really excited about it and then wasting all that on a bad provider and worse even having an unsafe provider is really unfair to say the least. It was mentioned that we should do homework or research to avoid bad encounters. I couldn't agree more. But for any successful research we also need to have the best of available resources to do research and those resources in this hobby in my view absolutely includes cerb as most important step to find the potential desirable or compatible provider but in my view it also includes at terb, infact i would said especially terb to check and see if the potential compatible provider has also same compatibility on the other board where dislikes can be commented too and of course lets not forget Cowboy's diary as another good resource to avoid bad or especially B & S or unsafe encounters. I also agree completely that communications are very important. Communicate extensively with provider you wish to meet. Detail your likes and dislikes and your expectations in writting but this tachnic only works with honest providers.

I don't use the review board at all. I only use the recommendations here. I know I don't think other peoples recommendations are suger coated. I do know they look at them from their own experience. I have seen a lady who had recommendations from here. I know I would not go back. As far as I am concerned there is always a chance that there just happens to be no chemistry between a lady and myself. It could also be how she runs her business is just not the experience I am looking for. I do look at the recommendations to see if a lady is receiving them though. I know some ladies do not want them written, however I am checking to see if someone has said that they enjoyed their experience. No recommendation is ever going to be foolproof since it is just one persons experience. There is always going to be that chemistry factor between 2 people in place. I do worry though if I see a lack of recommendations. I also know I much prefer the idea of recommendations over reviews. I don't think any person needs to be trashed by someone who might have a grudge for something that is actually their fault and not the ladies.

I love my celebrity smut but I found this story in Star (yes I have a subscription) that according to Michel Lohan; Lindsay is having money problems as no one will hire her with her on going legal battles so she has been working as a high class escort for hire. I just couldn't help but Grin :D I have the same job as Lindsay Lohan :D the article also details how Lindsay has been spotted with various billionaire playboys such as one Prince who had paid her$100,000 to join him at a New Years Eve party in London. And one of my favorite parts of the article was when they had added in a remark from a friend of the family that Lindsay being an escort is basically no big deal. She needs cash to pay her bills and as well that Lindsay believes the work will keep the thespian skills sharp and as a true actress she won't turn down good money to act a certain way.

You're also missing a key factor in your economics. It's like sports stars. Their career is shorter than the regular person. A $60 grand (by your calculations) a year job might sound like a good haul to you , but consider you have to retire much younger. Also, I could be wrong but 10 clients per week EVERY week is probably pushing it. Some weeks might be higher but summer weeks are usually low due to family vacations if I recall being mentioned before, so some of those weeks would probably make the average lower.

it was a beautiful day for a drive as a few of you know ... I am taking a year or so off and I am about to head off on a three month drive around the USA I have made a promise to myself to slow down, enjoy the scenery and avoid interstate highways whenever possible today I decided to practice ... I drove highway 7 from Toronto to Ottawa ... I haven't been east of Peterborough on 7 since I was a baby (so I don't remember that) ... I set the cruise control for 10 km/h over the limit and had a great drive and I guess it should not be a surprise, but the drive only took about 30 minutes longer than the race along the 401 would have, and I did not feel as tired as I usually do when I got out of my car at the hotel fantastic !!!

Some of you will understand this one as it is one of life's great pleasures. Painting without having to worry about doing edges or having to have a drop cloth on the floor. :)

Communication is very important. In addition to the information which RG recommended, you need to ask your original SP (the one you have seen before) for her agreement to provide the reference before you give out her name and contact information. Very often, she may not remember you, so providing some self-description or other info. is advisable.

Full agreement-ness is in effect. To amplify some points: I like to her the sounds of a woman's building climax muffled by her thighs tightly clamped over my ears. :thedeed: I like to hear the smack and slap of hot sweaty skin driven to the point of near exhaustion by a lust so profound it might be unnatural. :bddog: And I adore the sounds of a sloppy wet blow job when performed by a depraved fellatio enthusiast. :aol_fellate: Long live the sounds of lust!

I'm sad to say that you've all been way too PG-13 with your choices!! So I'll rectify that immediately :p In no particular order my favorite sounds are the noises a lady makes as I bring her to orgasm :Cunning: , the sounds of naked skin slapping against naked skin :aol_doggystyle: and the sounds of a perfectly wet and sloppy bj being performed on yours truly :bj2: There, now that's better! As you were.

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man ... that is a tough ordeal you are going through. I had the big C last year and was lucky enough to get it out of the system with 6 cycles of chemo and a targeted therapeutic drug - I know the roller coaster my man, hang on in there and your positive spirit will conquer this adversity. We can only deal with those things we can control so focus on those positives! For all cerbites, I can't say enough great things about the Ottawa Hospital Cancer Centre - although I think you are getting treated somewhere else liquorman? Perhaps the Cerb community can put a cancer raising program together? Our hospitals need the donations for both research and facilities.

Not only kids and pets but a spare blanket or some warm food for the homeless as well. There never seems to be enough room in the shelters this time of year.

We should point her out to that guy who wanted the most exclusive highest costing SP. I think she would qualify.

I just wanted to thank all the contributors who've made this such a useful and popular thread.

Really dude? Do you have a single post where you aren't just asking for a pm? Go out and find out for yourself!

i feel the same way mister, im not married (not familar with the term lol) never have, and never ever will!!! but it kinda sucks that in order for me to get laid, i have to pay for it. but its whats inside that counts, and im fine with doing this hobby. ive met more than a few great ladies here, and plan to meet more in the future :)

Why do you not feel bad about it? Because you're a Man baby yeaaa! Seriously, we need sex, it's in our DNA. Also, variety is the spice of life. As long as you control your hobby and your hobby does not control you I think you'll be ok.

Well... Since the question was asked and I'll be visiting soon, I thought I should answer your question... Me me me lol ;) G xox

Sadly, a large majority choose not to write anything even if it's just a reco like you mentioned above (short and no details) and even when they admit to enjoying reading recos and benefitting from them.

As a not-quite-so-newbie, I'm still shocked by it on a regular basis. Don't worry. I've never got the impression that the ladies are foolish enough to think we're all the same. You may be judged on your mistakes... but rest assured, you won't be judged for anyone else's.

It's easy to make claims that can't be verified, and that may be the whole idea behind not mentioning a name. Caveat emptor.

Probably. But I suspect the point is not so much to have a good time while you're with her, as being able to spend the rest of your life bragging about having fucked someone famous.

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I have alway's said my clit is in my throat! This is something I love to do which is why I created a session around it. I enjoy seeing how long I can go for and even better how long I can make someone last. All I need now is to have another sexy women to join me :) Two lips on one... That would be fun!

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My prayers are with you, keep the good fight going!

I'm so so so sorry to hear that you are still going through this. Cancer has defined the past year of my life as my mother is currently battling it. This I am glad to hear that you are so determined to fight. I believe that this is half the battle. Fight it with everything you have and believe it can work. The human body is a miraculous thing. It has an amazing ability to heal itself but the brain is in charge. Stay positive my friend.

This brings back some fond memories of my little dog. One winter day, I had the booties on her and we set out to do some cross-country skiing. The weather was not cold, and she had pretty thick fur. She followed me as usual. After about 30min. of skiing, we got home, only then I noticed she had only one booty left on one of her paws! Had a good laugh - but had to go back to the trail and collect the lost ones.

Great advice (as always) Cristy. My sixteen year old dog spends a total of about two minutes a day outside these days, but its amazing how many people will leave them out all day. It's cold out there people.

drinking beer rather than drywalling ... seems to me this should be in the highlight of the day thread. Porthos

Yes that is my pooch sitting proud on that stool. she can also walk around the wall ledge of my basement apt like a cat. Most definitely a character herself and worth keeping indoors and protected from the elements like she is family :)

It depends which Board you are writing on. On this Board everything is sugar coated so recommendations are taken with a grain of salt, so it really doesn't matter how you do it. On the other Board you would have zero credibility if you ran it by the SP/MPA first. On the other Board, readers expect the unfiltered version;both good and bad.It doesn't mean that you can't be gentle in any criticism as everyone has feelings. Hope this helps

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Greetings all! First, thanx again for the continued good wishes, prayers and support, it is REALLY appreciated. Thought the game was won.....but the "big C" made an unexpected comeback. So, after having the "pic line" taken out last week, was called on Monday and told "not so fast go back to the plate as we need to pitch again". Basically, the bone cancer has not receded as originally thought, the chemo has probably created a delaying action. Sooooooo, back in they go. All things being equal, they will cut me again on Feb 6, using this "laser knife" to try and carve out the beast like they did with my jaw in 2011. I was told there seemed to be a glut of one-armed paper hangers, so they are going this route. I'll keep my hair this time, every grey strand. So onward and upward, always better than the alternative!!!! My posts after Feb 6 will be done by the hunt and peck method of keyboarding so will be less prolific and probably utilizing single syllables!!! Bring on the beast, let's kick it's ass. I want to be three-putting by August! Thanx again all. TL

Someone actually PMed me and suggested it too. That's a fantastic idea. He also mentioned that being too detailed might set expectations that cannot always be met by the provider which is unfair to both client and SP. I think perhaps I should stick to the style of dancing around the details. In many ways, I think that it's more challenging to say things without saying them. Teasing with words. Paint a picture in your mind rather than on the page. Fun. Man I love this site. You guys are the best.

Your last line is your answer and the gentlemanly thing to do. You are right some of us appreciate recommendations and some prefer not to have them. Just as some gentlemen like to write them and many don't. I would think anyone would appreciate discretion and being asked before you do reco. There really is no need to be explicit if you want to recommend, unless your sp requested you to do so. Again if you feel the desire to let everyone know your encounter details discuss it with the sp and she will tell you what she is comfortable with you divulging.

A baby laughing !! it will put a smile on you face every time no matter how you might feel.

I think this guy is just full of crap. He's not a cop. No cop would waste their time to threaten you like that (especially mentioning children). Emails are traceable. He was just pissed-off that you wouldn't meet him. You might consider reporting him to the real police on the thought that he's impersonating a police officer. What do you think? Most folks want to avoid the drama though, but it might alert the cops to a predator.

Totally eager to learn about her as well.....those boobs look AMAZING.

Still nothing...does anyone have any details on this one? PM me or post reply please :)