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Unfortunately as long as there are people, there will be ego issues. Mean and rude comments come from places of fear. fear of not being good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, rich enough etc. Don't let it feed your own personal fears. Feel compassion for whoever is stuck in that loop and acting out because living in fear is no fun. Report it, forget it and surround yourself with goodness. Don't give anyone else the power to make you feel less than divine!

I think you mean transgender, rather than transsexual. It's a little more inclusive, and less medicalized. https://www.glaad.org/reference/transgender Additional Comments: Well, firstly, let's not make assumptions about what the "majority" wants. What you find completely normal may seem strange to someone else, so let's not be judgypants about sexual partners or activities. Secondly, the gender of the person is being revealed; they identify as a woman, and their gender identity is female. Gender and sex are two different things. Someone's sex is their classification at birth, generally based on their genetic makeup and internal/external reproductive organs. And thirdly... what is a "real" woman? What is a "real" man? Is it our sexual organs? Our genetic makeup? Whether we act in a way that conforms to society's ideas about what is feminine and what is masculine? I'll stop with the rambling, here's some fun pictures :)

Don't know the content of the message, nor the sender, but if inappropriate in language/tone, you should report it to Mod. Just click the report icon. That's what I do Don't let negative people get you down, focus on the positive people in your life instead RG

I love quotes :)

I know it's been said already but definitely report it. Many assume that the rules to Cerb do not apply to pm's. That they are private and therefore people can say whatever they like. This is simply not the case. The expectations are the same in pm's and this person has likely had other complaints. After reporting them, forget about them. This person is simply not worth your time.

Unfortunately, there are a few mean people in the world. They will try to bring you down, make you feel bad and questioned yourself, but you know better... You know who you are! You know you are a good person. Do not let his affect you. You have many friends here!

Emily, there is a lot of good advice here. Listen to it. Surround yourself with the people that love and repect you for who you are. Report the abuse to the mod, its your right of defence. If it were me I would want to know, and I would want to be corrected. As for why people do things to hurt? I recently wrote a post and believe the first 3 quotes apply. http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=579813&postcount=568

Ug. Easier said than done, but try not to let it get you down. You know that's exactly the reaction such people want so don't give them the satisfaction! Instead--if you deign to spend any thoughts on them at all--think about how miserable their life must be that this is how they act.

As Rg said if the pm was sent from here you should report it to mod and as Rebecca said -we all go through this stupidity, it's not worth questioning. I have a "secret admirer" that likes to malign my looks from time to time, and has spent an enormous amount of time trying to prove me to be opprobrious, lol . Girls like that and that make fun of or joke about looks are jealous, plain and simple, guys that make rude remarks are also jealous or pissed because they can't have you. Know your worth, people can only get to you if you let them. Ignore it if it happens again, it's just not worth worrying or caring about. Karma always takes care of these idiots anyway! My admirer has been hit by karma time and time again, lol!

Hi Emily, It's unfortunate you received this rude message. Try to ignore those rude people and focus on the positive. Remember that there are plenty of people who appreciate you! Hope you have a great day, you are beautiful! Finch

I wonder if it is boredom or is it that it is easy to take things for granted when they come too easily? There is something lost when you can fulfill all of your sexual desires and fantasies without the art of seduction. Much of the excitement doesn't come from the sexual acts it comes from the anticipation and the dance to get there. An experienced provider will ensure the dance of seduction is a part of your session. Its seems the limits in this industry are fading or are shifting. It's imperative that the girls have boundaries. Not just to protect themselves but to protect the mystique of the provider. If it becomes just about the items on a pick list of services the excitement will fade quickly. If you know how every session will play out and everything that will happen there is no seduction that occurs. The excitement of mutual touching and teasing is missing. The need to seduce a woman with your charm and personality is unnessecary if you have already picked your menu. Even though this is a service, we are humans and without maintaining the art of seduction something is lost. A percentage of guys want something a little more than drive-thru sex. Maybe you are one of those guys and just have been looking for something a little more cerebral. Less is often more! Kelly xo

I wanted to add that he was probably pissed because you didnt reply right away after his first message. Some people thinks than the world revolve around them. We also have a personal lives! It happens to me once to get insulted after I refuse to see somebody and then he saw me posting an add right after. Some guys just cant get turned down so they have the need to insult us.

I only wanted to add to my last post that neither "SP" nor 'Tim Hortons Employee" are bad professions. They are equally good, honest jobs. This person is definitly sick and should be ignored emily.

"No one is better than me and I am no better than anyone else" .Albert

I recall an incident at the local Lawblows. SO & I were waiting in line at the Express Checkout (1-16 items). We were behind some fellow who had a HUGE order & for some reason, he decided he wanted to use the Express line. As the cashier was handling his order, he proceeded to start chewing-out the cashier. He felt there weren't enough cashes open to handle the surge in customers, so he was justifying his need to use the Express. British chap. Reasonably well dressed. Entitled. You know the type. Well folks, my SO is not a person with whom you wish to fuck around with. She works with the public & encounters all types of assholes. She knows how to deal with assholes. She has performed in community theatre & has an actor's ability to project vocally. She's also a semi-professional singer with a wonderful, expressive range. Since we were next in line & in close proximity to Mr. Entitled, Hooo-boy, she tore a WIDE strip off this particular asshole. The performance was award winning and quite impressive. I'm sure the whole store, parking lot & neighbourhood heard her eloquent, verbal ass-kicking. Mr. Asshole didn't have any reply. He was totally in shock. His balls quietly rolled out the bottom of his trousers along with a weak stream of urine. He shamefully loaded his purchases in the cart and bailed (without his nuts, I might add). Ms. Cashier had a slight & grateful grin as did the others waiting patiently in line (we're Canadian after all...we're very polite). Haven't seen that particular asshole in that store again. Hold your heads high. Here's to people who will stand-up for what's right and fight to reduce assholery around the world! Protect yourself - have an advance plan to bring dirt bags to earth.

more often than not, rude remarks or comments like that, come from people who have low self esteem, and are unsure about themselves. generally the best thing to do is ignore them, as they are clearly lonely and fishing for attention. besides no one has the right to judge anyone.

The subject of child abuse and spousal abuse brings great concern to me. I grew up witnessing both. In Ontario, The Child and Family Services Act recognizes that each and everyone of us holds a responsibility for the protection of children. It does not matter if your facts are accurate or just mere suspicions - You must report them to the Children's Aid Society (CAS). They have tried to make reporting as easy as possible. In most major cities (Ontario) you can call "4-1-1". That is a very easy number to remember. http://www.oacas.org/childwelfare/report.htm http://www.children.gov.on.ca/htdocs/English/topics/childrensaid/reportingabuse/abuseandneglect/abuseandneglect.aspx

Absolutely. Yes. 100%. In fact you owe it to yourself to do so if you even suspect that she might be under 18. Remember, the onus is on you to be sure, and they won't accept "I didn't know" or "she told me she was" as an excuse. I can think of few faster ways to ruin your life than to be caught with an underage sp. As far as the privacy thing goes, tell her beforehand that you expect to see proof of age. She can put tape over the name and address if she likes. you simply need to see the picture with a date of birth. That isn't to say that all sp's will embrace the idea. If she declines, then that's an even better reason not to take the risk. It may cost you an encounter, but the risk is too great otherwise. Cover your bases and your ass. Just my thoughts. Mikey

Why is this person on cerb if they send messages like that?. I agree with everyone else you should report it to a mod.

Well unless I'm reading the ad wrong, or someone is posting the ad for her (which raises a bunch of red flags right there) check "other ads by this user" Same poster advertised on Mar 10, 2014 5'3" 110lbs 34B 19 But the poster advertised on Mar 21, 2014 5'7" 160lbs 36J 21 Now is that how BP works? Are these women managed, well pimped and it is the pimp who is the poster of the ad on these two women? Or am I being paranoid? Don't have any answers, just to me at least not being a user of BP this seems a tad suspicious, to put it nicely. That's why I stick to CERB Anyhow, take my post for what it's worth A rambling RG

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Note to self. Don't leave here for awhile and then come back to this thread....it's a long one. Chin up, everyone. Life's tough for all of us at times. Life's tribulations suck at times, but they define who we are. If they didn't bother us, there's something wrong. If our troubles didn't bother our friends, there's something wrong with our friends. We're a good bunch on here, over all.

The market has changed so much lately. There used to be a smaller number of good to excellent SPs. Now the same number is there, but they are adrift in a sea of bp flotsam and jetsam. It takes a lot more work to find the good ones now, and it has almost become TOO much work. For some it's an adventure. I've taken the easy way out, stick with the sure bets I know. Re the NDP: I am a lot more angry about the wholesale robbery going on a city hall. No matter what you read in the papers it is actually way worse. I know some senior guys there. People are scared to say anything because they can get fired and lose everything. All the senior management are keeping their heads down and waiting it out. Canadian Museum of Human Rights=$350 million and counting=$1000 bucks or more out of every household in Manitoba. All for a frikkin vanity project for the Aspers. $350 million would fix up a lot of schools and put decent housing and water supplies on a lot of reserves. But cocktail parties and tax writeoff dinners are more important for some people I guess. The Tories are just as bad. Different bunch of crooks but we will still get robbed. MPIC and other Crown assets will all be given away at pennies on the dollar to Tory backroom boys.

I went to see Trisha 2 weeks ago for the first time. She is absolutely Fantastic! She came and greeted me in a very nice revealing outfit with a nice red thong. She is everything you expect from her pictures and i would even go far as to say she is hotter than her pictures indicate. She has a great intoxicating smile just like her cute soft lips and her soft body. She had very few restrictions and kissing was allowed. She is guaranteed to make your day feel better. Msog is a service that was offered which was great! She was submissive at first but when she got into it she was guiding my hand and showing me what to do and the positions were great. She started off on top, then we switched to missionary then doggy, cowgirl and i finished in a spoon position. She was absolutely fantastic! She never once looked at the clock and knew how the human body works, she was so good i saw her again in less than 24 hours. Definitely a recommend i plan on seeing her every week from now on!

well, I really want to punch the inconsiderate parkers!! and actually feel hatred (except Cristy, she gets an exemption and is allowed to park anywhere, but on that, it's just a car luv, just a car)

Hi Emily: I fell sorry for you. You're a sweet, smart and beautiful girl. I enjoy every second with you. Don't let some je*k to ruin your day. You take care and hope to see you soon again.

It's funny - those that send these types of rude and crude comments ALWAYS beg down the road for you to see them. The quickly realize that they made a big mistake, and can't fix it. Other ladies won't see them and then they swing back around and decide that you are in fact the one they really want to see. Better you found out right away what type of jerk he is and don't have to see him. I am always grateful when they show their true colours right away. I don't have to deal with them. Sorry this happened - you are a beautiful woman and don't deserve this type of trash. xoxo

Man, the scrutiny you girls are being subjected to these days seems ridiculous !!, Why people cannot get it that your chosen profession is a sex worker, and the fantasy you are selling is your looks, body, Experience etc..., you wouldn't send these types of negative outbursts to other workers in other professions ?? You are not there to be ridiculed, scrutinized, and treated disrespectfully. #loser #getalife #realitycheck

my take on these things are a lot of people are just so full of hate an anger with there own lives that they lash out at anything or one around them to hurt and try to bring them down to there sad level ...so don't take it personal just be glad your not like them chin up be happy

cool night out. Nicely organized again, gentlemen. ladies and lobster rolls, both tasty.

It's been awhile for me. Life interferes and no matter how intrigued I am, time is an issue. Whenever I become slightly bewildered, I think of three things. Who are the reputable ones from my home area? Who have I met with and connected with before? Which ladies from CERB are travelling this way? Tried and true always beckon to me in times of uncertainty.

I also wanted to congratulate mistert and loneskater for putting together another awesome social. As well I would like to thank all the lovely ladies who were there and those I had the opportunity to chat with. I'm already looking forward to the next social.

I don't make recommendations and since I am 500+km from ottawa I would not know myself... but you should post another thread asking other members for suggestions on your interests.... but I suggest you use a little more detail and maybe use the word breasts rather then "tits" (it just sounds a little nicer and wont offend anyone). Being a gentleman goes' a long way here. Using words like tits and being over superficial and generic 'beautiful blonde with big tits' no one will reply as no one will take you seriously, they will think you are a 12 year old boy and report you. Just some tips to help you get started here.

Penelope:http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=35208 Katherine:http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=29603 Simply amazing duo!! Penelope first came to my attention through a fellow CERB member as someone that I'd be interested in seeing. Boy were they correct after I viewed her profile and website. She is a very beautiful lady who carries herself with a gentile grace and charm. I was pleased when she posted she would be coming to Halifax for a couple of days. I quickly sent her a PM so I wouldn't miss out on seeing such a lovely lady. Penelope is a real treasure. After a few more PM's we were able to arrange a date and time that would suit all three of us. I am glad I had the chance to meet her. She is simply amazing!! As the time neared for our appointment I was getting butterflies as I haven't had a duo in awhile. Without going into too many details, as each encounter is different for everyone depending on a variety of things. Shortly after arriving where we deceided to meet, Katherine met me at the door and led me into the room so that I could meet Penelope for the first time. What a site it was. ;) Penelope is a very beautiful lady sporting a few tattoos that look very good on her. After chatting for a bit and some lite refrehments, well, let's just say we really enjoyed ourselves. ;) ;) Penelope is a bit shy at first but once you get to know each other better, watch out. lol. Both Penelope's and Katherine's skills are out of this world. I highly recommend seeing either of these wonderful ladies alone or together should you get the chance. They are both truly amazing. ;) :D They are sure to leave you with a smile on your face that will last for days to come. ;) (I know I still am. lol). Thank you Penelope and Katherine for a memorable duo. I definitely will repeat when given the opportunity. Absolument une expérience mémorable ;) Merci pour tous.

Two hands working will acheive more than a thousand hands praying.

Back when a lady named Mandalay Bay was working, I celebrated my birthday by going to Aquarius with her. We had a great time and a very memorable birthday,

A great job as usual by mistert & loneskater produced another fun evening! The ladies looked lovely and a good time was had by all! The lobster on a bun was delicious!

Just got an email from my boss who's planning to take the rest of the day off! That plus I have no meetings scheduled for the day means I can listen to my music, surf Cerb and chillax for the rest of the day. There are times when I love my work and there are days when I don't give a crap. I find as I get closer to retirement, the don't give a crap days come more frequently. If the afternoon turns out to be warm(ish) and sunny, I may find a reason to 'work' from home, who knows? :confused0024:

Well this was my first and def not my last :) I had a blast me the lovely ladies and getting too know them. Thanks gentleman for doing a fine job, and too all the girls I just want too say WOW!!! Can't wait for the next

great job loneskater and mistert it was awesome

A big thank you to Mistert and Loneskater...you guys rocked it again...It was such a wonderful evening :) Looking forward to the summer social...:D Bianca xoxox

Thanks again gentlemen for hosting another fantastic evening for us, I was glad to be able to attend. Your party planning skills are amazing!! Giving you both a BIG HUG and a few kisses for all your time and effort into making the evening a success. I am off to drown myself into my maple basket - which can also double as a weapon (thank you for always thinking of everything:) Till next time xoxo Emily

I am new to this hobby. Amd have very limited time to indulge. It is the reason I joined cerb. I want to find the right lady for my next appointment. These comments are discouraging.

Tom, I think I love you. Your attitude through all of this is awe inspiring. I hope you continue to win this fight in mind, body and spirit. Xoxo

I have a fully interactive and a non interactive duo partner. Both are great girls that I have a lot of fun with but surprisingly enough I've had a few clients request a scenario where there are two women there for his and only his pleasure. I see nothing wrong with this and don't really prefer one over the other. I have a fantastic time with both of my duo partners and actually dated the one I have non interactive sessions with now. Posted via Mobile Device

For me, there is only one definition of a duo, AKA a three-way. That is to have the pleasure equally shared by all three people. Good sex is about sharing pleasure, not about only receiving it. Great sex (at least great 3-way sex) is about enjoying the the giving, receiving, and active participation of all three people, the gender of who is pleasuring who is unimportant. BTW, the same applies for great 2-way sex!