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NEW LOCATION! 613-899-5879 Text only Now only available downtown at a LUXURY condo. Heavens Playground just expanded..... as a DUO on FRIDAYS with the brand new, young petite sexy spinner HAILEY HEAVENS....My Dirty lil Sister. (Pictures to come, But description for now- below) Reduced Schedule now in place. I am only available for playing on Monday and Thursdays as a one on one experience, and Fridays as thee next top DUO...... YOU be the Judge ;-) So if you're ready to Roar, Drool and Slurp..... Then Giddy Up- Text Me for availabilities. (Currently Booking for June 5th & 6th) Services YMMV TBD ;-) But definitely include, FULL body Massage, Nude Reverse, Mutual touching, Bodyslides, Shower together, etc etc (NO FS) HOURS 1030AM-5PM Monday, Thursday and Friday (These days may change- so feel free to ask) RATES 120-30Mins, 150-45mins, 180-60mins (Duo rates are the same $ each girl) ABOUT ME I am quirky and flirtatious, I enjoy great conversations and if you bore me- I will tell you ( I expect the same really). I enjoy playing vinyl records and music is a definite must while we are together (Lana Del Rey, Cat Stevens, Bob Dylan, Mumford and Sons, Rihanna..... I am a music slut) I am a total pleasure whore. I will trick you into massaging me..... so beware ;-) I am also a shower hog, but you can watch haha. With all that said, I absolutely will give you my undivided attention for the duration of our date and we can get lost into our sexual deviance together ;-) TEXT ONLY 613-899-5879 HAILEY HEAVENS Is a sweet, young, bubbly 24 year old girl. She is 5 feet fuck all. 100lbs. Short dark hair and piercing blue eyes. Tasteful Tattoos. And a personality that lured me to her instantly. She aims to please.....and LOVES to be pleased. We practice everything we know on each other first.... and a few more times, just to be sure ;-) Did Hell freeze over? No.... But, Heaven just got Hotter.

My breasts are big and natural. They have hang, are sensitive and fun to play with (I know because I do). If some exclude me because they're not perky and whatever... to each their own. My breasts are fair game to those who see their value.

Okay, I'll admit it: you've got me. I have no idea whether this is sarcastic or not.

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I am appalled at some responses and attacks the OP is getting for asking a valuable question. I am sure he isn't the only one wondering what to do in this situation. He did not name who the lady was or which Spa was involved so he had every right to ask this question in public. Many have provided great responses which are different on how to handle this situation which is fine. We all see things differently and that is one of the purpose on the Board, to exchange ideas about the business so we can all improve our knowledge of the industry! Maybe some need to be reminded this is not the other board where we attack other members and call them names. For the one that think he is stupid for asking, shame on you and look at yourself in the mirror. You might not see perfection! Nobody here is forced to agree with everyone. However this Board is about respect, learning and not being intimidated for asking a valuable question. DO NOT FORGET!

They are the part of the female body most often critiqued, sexualized and lusted after. Some will comment to augmented breasts as being fake, some will comment to saggy breasts as being gross. Many of us are so hard on one another and can cause some to want to change, to feel insecure or unworthy. We are made to believe by todays standards and the media that they should be big, round and point to the sun. But in reality they are as different as our faces and age doesn't dictate their perkiness nor does a body type dictate their size-ie: a larger woman will have larger breasts and smaller will have smaller. Natural or augmented all breasts are beautiful, but should we put as much importance on them as we do? After all if a woman were to loose hers, due to illness, accident or however, should she then feel less than a woman? If you go by todays standards and ideals, she might, but there is far more to making a woman feminine, beautiful and worthy than her breasts, especially in many other cultures. I wonder why North Americans base so much importance on them? What's your opinion and do you? Are breasts what you think make women sexy, beautiful and why? Be honest;) http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php I will add the biggest reason that caused me to want to enlarge mine was to look more like what the media, magazines and advertising depicts as beautiful breasts, along with growing up with a father and brother, male friends and boyfriends, who I often heard talking about breasts and that their opinions were larger was better. Some of my decision was also based on the fact that and for whatever reasons beyond the above, visually, I find that large augmented breasts look more beautiful than smaller or larger natural breasts. It's sad that as women we can be made to feel less than by such unrealistic standards, yet many of us can be.

Ahh but this rides on the assumption that married SP's hide their chosen profession from their spouses or partners, as their partner would "feel bad". While it may be rare, there are SUPPORTIVE spouses and partners in the industry... And even some who are aroused by what their women do. As RG would say... Just a rambling :)

"If married men are more likely not to get attracted then why is the divorce rate so high in this country? I wonder if the stalkers in this business are all single?" I do know of one man that did leave his wife for an escort, but I think that's a rarity. More often its the wife that ends the marriage after she find out what he's doing. Men see escorts because they want the best of both worlds... Good sex and a blissful domestic life. Its rare to get both with the same woman. Well, that's my reason anyway. I have no intention of leaving my wife. I like her actually, we get along well, we go out regularly, I get along with her family, we have 4 wonderful children (teenagers and adults)... the only complaint I have about her at all is that she doesn't want as much sex as me... In fact she doesn't even realize how rarely we have sex... She never believes me if I tell her its been over a month (she will say, no I'm sure it hasn't been that long). I have a couple of escorts that I consider friends, but I do not view them romantically. We have a great time together, we talk, we joke around, one even let me paint a picture of her, but I have no interest in leaving my wife for those gals (and vice versa). I think divorce is more common with affairs than with escorts because its much harder to keep an affair secret and they often have an emotional component with the other woman. I believe that the divorce rate would be a lot lower if people would focus on getting the sex they need from a professional, rather than from an amateur affair.

One of the elements that brought me to this profession is the sheer number of UNhappily married men. Many men are married to women that they love, or did love. But the pressure of both working, not having time for each other, mortgages, naughty children, aging parents, and long commutes take their toll. A man faces the back half of his life wondering if it were all worth it. They probably haven't had sex in years. He wants to feel like a man again. But if he has an affair, he is going to lose half of everything. This is where the courtesan/mistress comes in. Compensation is the best thing ever. It keeps the lines drawn succinctly in their relationship. I didn't say that love won't creep into it! We are all human. But cash helps. True story: if the man left his wife, he'd lose the house - so he slept in a bath tub for over 2 years. A man sneaks downstairs when his wife is asleep to get on the net and "talk" to a woman with blood in her veins. Sneaking around in their own homes! And if they are busted, they are called monsters. We all need love, affection, and a damn good badabingbadaboom. Life is very good; lets enjoy!

I absolutely agree! While I often say with tongue in cheek "I love HMOPH's!" it is completely truthful. Happily Married Other Peoples Husbands make up my favourite guests for so many reasons. It's a perfect fit for my preferred business model, the ME (mistress experience). It means I never deal with the bad habits, annoying idiosyncrasies and daily grind; that is left for the woman who will inherit his estate and I get to enjoy all the delights without the trials and tribulations of day to day routine. I never have to worry they are going to arrive in a mood, never deal with him not pulling his weight around the house and he'll never steal my covers in the middle of the night, every night. I don't have to pick up his dirty laundry, deal with his family or struggle with keeping the passion alive. These parts are non existent in the relationships I indulge in. HMOPH's will never assume to be a part of my life outside of the negotiated parameters, never arriving in the middle of night thinking I will welcome him in, never assume an invite out for dinner off the clock is an acceptable thing to do. They seldom see blurred lines when paint is neon yellow clear. In my privileged experience, HMOPH's is always positive, he's always happy to be here, I'm always glad he is here. Our time together is focused, we ONLY do the important stuff like touch, talk and feel in an honest, nonjudgemental way. We spend time together knowing how truly precious that time is; we both savour every moment and when it's over we are grateful to have experienced it. We look forward to the next visit without it being a painful yearning or need. It's having all the best parts of a relationship without any of the head aches or heartbreaks. So yes Delilah, I LOVE married men... cat

"Are breasts what you think make women sexy, beautiful and why?" To that question I can honestly say no. Now, if you'd asked are breasts one of the things that can make a woman sexy, then I probably would say yes. There's no way I could deny that I absolutely love breasts. And yes, for me at least "the more the merrier" but I've never met a breast I didn't like, regardless of size and shape, and just like most things there's different people that will prefer all different sizes. But as much as breasts turn me on so do another 100 things about women! Many of them are other physical attributes: nice eyes, nice legs, nice smile, nice hair, nice ass, nice feet. Everybody has at least one nice feature! And then there are the non-physical traits which are at least as sexy if not more. I don't care how perfect I think your breasts are, if you're a cruel person, I'm not going to find you sexy! But a generous person, one with confidence or a sense of humour or sincerity, that's always going to be attractive. So yes, I like looking at breasts. I like touching them even more. I find them a huge turn on, and the bigger they are the more I'm turned on. But breasts aren't what makes a woman a woman, nor do they determine her value as a person, and even if tomorrow every breast on the planet disappeared, I wouldn't have any problem still finding ladies plenty attractive!

I removed the nasty comments that are not in the spirit of the cerb community.

I think I've done Greek a total of about 5-6 times in my pooning career. Tried different techniques. I've researched, thought about, imagined, fantasized...etc, but as you all know, variety is the spice of whatever. Conclusions: Gentle is good Loads of lube is good Protection is good Toys can be good Positions are good (limited experience here) hmmm...what else is good? To be honest, I just don't have a lot of experience to bring to the table. Are there are Greek Goddesses & Gods out there who have wealth of understanding & joy to share? Is Greek an absolute must-do or a mysterious, dark secret reserved only for the true explorer?

http://www.withoutwax.tv/2012/02/21/what-does-being-sarcastic-say-about-you/ Sometimes we may read things here with an undertone that hints at sarcasm, and quite possibly it is intended as such. I found this interesting read that may help those who feel the need to use it, as it explains why and what sarcasm says about those who need to use it.

The spilled milk story reminded me of me letting the milk jug slip out of my hand one time and pretty much drenching the whole kitchen floor. My roommate at the time says "hey you missed a spot over there". We both laughed. I guess the expression "no use crying over spilled milk" makes sense. No use getting upset or angry about it and if there is an opportunity to make a joke, I'm there with bells on. Also, it's not so much what the person says, it's how they say it, and most importantly how WE choose to take it. I like to roll with the punches whenever possible. Life is too short to get hung up on trying to find hidden meanings in things or automatically assuming another person has an agenda.

Mmmmmm Greek! Bring on my toga! I love it and have for a very long time. For me, it's about a good lube and guiding the initial approach. Of course, it's also about being relaxed. If you're not relaxed, it is definitely much more difficult to accomplish and not as pleasurable. If it's something that you've had bad experiences with (as a woman), my recommendation is toys, varying sizes. Learn your own body and reactions and then you'll be much more open and comfortable with the exploration of a partner. There are times I crave it and times that a little tease and penetration with fingers makes everything else feel so much better and more intense. It is a very intense pleasurable experience and I indulge whenever I can. Like anything else, it's a personal thing. Love it, hate it, tolerate it, feelings about it are as individual as people. I do believe that there are many people who would probably love it but their experiences haven't been good because of having a partner ignorant of what they're doing. I also whole heartedly believe that men should at least solo sample this as well. The ass has so many amazing nerve endings that not exploring it because of whatever per-conceived notion they have about it, is a shame. In closing....I love me some butt!

I think like anything it's something that you either like or don't. Something you'll find erotic and be turned on by, or something you won't . I too have only tried it a couple of times, the first being unsuccessful, the second barely;) I don't think it'll be something I'll try again, it hurt to much:( To those who enjoy it-enjoy. For those wondering it's at least worth a try. For those not interested, that's fine as well. It's healthy to explore eroticism and to experiment with sex, between consenting adults. If you don't how else will you know what you'll like or dislike and what you are good at and not so great at.

An over zealous puppy smacking his head into my jaw. Bruises and swelling :(. Not so bad now but I looked like a victim of abuse all weekend! Additional Comments: An over zealous puppy smacking his head into my jaw. Bruises and swelling :(. Not so bad now but I looked like a victim of abuse all weekend!

That stuff always boggles my mind. I definitely could see that being a huge no-no for you ladies. Honestly, why some guys are so lacking in self-esteem that they have to talk about, send pictures of or anything else of their dick is sad in a way. Seriously, do they not understand that you women have seen all sorts of them and are not impressed in the least. Additional Comments: Oh and as for the L word and getting possessive, can't understand how some people don't grasp the concept of boundaries. Absolutely crazy, imo for that to even get into the consciousness Not that I couldn't like one of you ladies a lot if we were intimate on several occasions but liking someone and being a friend is okay. Know where the line is and don't go near it. Tongue in cheek, I do say my little guy does "love" pussy, lol. Of course, he can't make life decisions or get jealous so it's all good.:dncdick:

Cristy we have never met unfortunately. To answer your ?? In my opinion breasts do not make a woman, a woman makes a woman. I like all breasts.. It is the woman's personality that makes her sexy and attractive. I can tell there is no need for you to change anything about your appearance you are just beautiful the way you are. Unfortunately I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you but you look amazing. Woman are all beautiful the way they are. Sometimes changing the way one looks etc.. gathers the wrong attention.. Unfortunately the media is to blame for the majority by stereotyping woman and men in some cases.. Cristy you are beautiful the way you are don't change a thing..

People who justify their own ill will, hatred, and judgement lack the courage to question the source of their fear. No one is capable of making you upset without your consent Additional Comments:

Dancers who take not being able to count to new and ridiculous heights. I can deal with adding the odd song, but two songs becoming... six? Ferfucksake...

I don't know what you don't feel like you fit in! I have found your contributions to be quite lovely. However I respect your decision. You have to do what's best for you :) Take care, PisaqLove. I'm sad we never got to meet. I wish you all the best!!! Xoxo

I am both sad at the many things that are bandied about in the media from ignorant and hurt people while I am also thankful for the may blessing that enter my life. Mementos are all about the focus!

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Honestly, I don't pay much attention to married or single, for me, it's about the PERSON who shows up at my door and what energy they bring into my oasis. Everyone has a reason for seeing an SP, something is needed or wanted. Single or married, I care about the person that shows up and their story. Everything else is part of the connection story and is written as life progresses. I appreciate the time and energy given to me, the pleasure and enjoyment, the energy. To me, it's not about the label, it's about the person.

Certainly a sexy woman with great breasts will catch my eye but lots of things about women can catch my eye.... to capture my interest and my willingness to engage I need more than just great tits. For me the beauty of a woman is very intangible.... it's that wholeness that encompasses how she acts and how she carries herself... it's her self assurance and her knowledge that she is sexy that I think makes her sexy regardless of how she looks.... Just my opinion

Well to me my (well now ex) fiancé was the most beautiful woman in the world, and definitely she wasn't busty, actually she was (hate using the phrase) but flat chested.....but she was beautiful to me. Right up to the point she got pregnant with another man's baby I had an encounter (if you want to call it that) with an escort (if you want to call her that)...beautiful, could be a swimsuit model, busty, if she walked in a bar, guys would get whiplash from turning their head. Beautiful right up to the point she stole from me.....so yes physically beautiful, but busty or not, ugly on the inside, no character A cross section of women I have had encounters with, most busty to some degree, every recommendation I have written, well they are all beautiful (search my recos for London, Toronto, Kingston, Ottawa).....every lady I recommended is beautiful, busty or not. And while more ladies than not are busty to some extreme or not, by the same token, do you think if all SP's were polled, do you think there is a higher than average amount of busty women in the SP community compared to women overall (is that making sense???) Looks get someone in the door, for me, bust size while attractive, isn't the absolute requirement for beauty, nor is it needed to get in the door so to speak But it's that inner beauty, that quality that she could show up mascara running, hair in curlers, wearing old sweats and a tshirt, and she's still beautiful, that keeps her in the door, you want her to stay, that's what matters A rambling RG

The question being do nice breasts make a woman sexy? The simple answer is Nice breasts are sexy but no, they are not what makes the woman sexy, per se. Now, I won't lie. I love, love, love breasts. Big titties, little titties, round titties, oblong titties, perky titties, saggy titties. I love em all. But true sex appeal for me goes much deeper. I've said it before, I know, but intelligence, class and that inner beauty and spark are where the sexiness come from. The outer shell, as it were, while being visually enticing and exciting is only the first part of the overall package. It catches the eye but not necessarily the brain or the libido for me. Just one man's opinion. As for your augmentation, Miss Cristy, they are spectacular but I would wager you would be just as sexy with your natural breasts. Your intelligence and obvious kind heart would make you sexy no matter what, imo. Jus sayin.

Great post, Tracie :) Well said! I guess we can easily apply this to anyone who trys to negotiate our rates... Not only to the men from the province of Québec. Because let's face it, there are hagglers everywhere, no matter where they are from or where they live. Again, thank you for your post :) Much appreciated! From a proud French Canadian woman from Montreal, Québec xox

Wow this is getting so far out of hand it is ridiculous. Lets start with the fact that despite claims to the contrary, no spa in Ottawa, licensed or not follows the regulations set out by the city. Other jurisdictions are more explicit in stating that attendants should not touch the genitals etc of the client. Nowhere in this country is it legal to get a hand-job from nude employee. Whether or not by-law and the police turn a blind eye is a different matter. So now we are talking about "conventions" and breaking house rules. That is a totally different matter. True if word got out that a spa was openly offering FS then maybe LE would scrutinize more closely, but that is merely a supposition. If you feel that being a snitch is the way to go, and you want to turn an employee into the boss then go ahead and do it. It is not something I would do. Of course the word would probably get out, and I don't think many people would trust you much any more, or ever try and be a little generous with you. If you feel uneasy about an offer, tell the person offering you and then put it out of your mind.

This one is particularity fitting for me the last 2 days " I have learned silence from the talkative, toleration from the intolerant, kindness from the unkind, yet, strange I am ungrateful to those teachers!" Khalil Gibran

Maybe the question should be reversed and say why u do not write a recco? Having been in this business for so many years I am now more incline to repeat often with a lady I like. If u write a recco every time, when you have seen a lady more than 10 times , exclusively, on a very regular basis it will appear as you are shilling since not many are that regular. At least not many talk about being that regular as they are usually not the type to brag. In addition a lady's reccos have significance if they are written by many, not just the same guy. Finally what is more important, having someone write a recco, move on to the next one on his to do list, and wirte a similar recco or having someone show his appreciation by being a regular? Its all about what u make of it!

I enjoyed talking with you as well Zorro1990 and am thankful for all the times we shared together! I am going to be back and here to talk anytime! Thinking of you P.S..... you guys are all awesome and always there for me. I appreciate you guys so much! xoxoxoxox

I can live with CFS and CBJ. I have never had a BBBJ so I don't know what I am missing there. But I could not go without daty. Even the concept of protected daty seems like - whats the point. To give up kissing - not going to happen. Practice good hygiene several times a day, and talk openly with your doctor on a regular basis. Stay educated, play safe, choose SPs and other sexual partners wisely, and decide what risks are acceptable for yourself. IMO. Final word - respect the other persons boundaries and limitations. Do not question their choices or push them where they do not want to go.

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

When you are in a session and getting multiple texts from the same person and they start to get really rude and irate esp if I'm on an hour or appt or longer. I don't answer the phone when I'm with someone and I'm only one person. I wish that I could have a secretary but I don't. When you tell someone you don't negotiate or give discounts and they act self entitled. I don't want to hear about financial sitations either. It's none of my business and I don't wish to have someone put that on me. People serial texting or calling. I had someone text me 58 times the other day when I was visiting in the hospital! No joke! Picture texts of a person's junk. And..."How much for just a bj?"... "I'm young and hung". Sorry that doesn't pay my bills. lol.

Cut-off season, my favourite time of year! :)

The weekend is over now lets have some fun!! Suggestions... ;) I offer a full body deep tissue massage to help you relax and de-stress from your week. Of course a body slide will help get your attention, make the blood start to flow. A light touch to help awaken the senses.... Does this sound good so far? You can come and help me play out the rest of the story. Other services offered: Foot fetish Showers Duos Couples Reverse massage I'm a curvy, blue eyed, tattooed gal who loves the touch of a sexy man. I love teasing and hearing the sounds of pleasure. Come and be part of my fun. :wink: My schedule for the week of May 26-29 Mon May 26 9:00am to 10:00pm Tues May 27 9:00am to 4:00pm Wed May 28 9:00am to 4:00pm Thurs May 29 3:30pm to 11:00pm I'm at Angels Touch today from 9:00AM to 10:00PM, call 613-274-7073, email [email protected] or pm me to book some time together. __________________

It's nice to hear that SP'S like Married guys....lolol... i figure anything that makes me more attractive to sexy p Beautiful ladies can't be a bad thing... That said... I know a lot if SP'S don't like to share if they are married or in a relationship because, I have been told, some clients like the idea that perhaps they could land the lady in real world.... for me.... i love when I year a lady us married....I am not sure I can explain it but there is something sexy about fucking another man's wife....and even more sexy thinking about the wild sex that they must have.... yea I am pervert... i have even though I would love to see the SP really fucked by her hubby....after all I assume he really knows what she likes..... talk about inside info.... so being a Married SP....works for me. Just my opinion

JoyfulC- That's a perfect example of what some will say and or do to save their own asses and not caring a darn for those they cause trouble for. Sorry you had to experience that, sadly, he's not the only mofo!

RG, in spirit I think I agree with what you're saying, but I think I also get the difference Fortunateone is outlining. Consider this, at Home Depot workers have to wear a harness and a helmet if they are going to retrieve anything from the upper shelves. It's a regulation of their workplace safety. However, in my personal life it is not illegal for me to get up on a step ladder without such equipment to reach something, no matter the height. In keeping with the comparison, I could say I have friends who are less trained and cautious than the Home Depot worker and at even more risk of injury at home. Now, we all know such comparisons can be riddled with troubles, but I think that's the sort of difference Fortunateone is discussing...that commercial sex work--in places where it is treated as a business like some others--may also have safety standards. I'm sure you can find plenty of examples of rules and laws you have to follow at work that you don't in your personal life (even when the personal activity is potentially more dangerous) I don't profess to know enough about the topic to discuss whether New Zealand's model is good or not. In fact, I think I'd say I'm generally against any such government regulation. I certainly agree with you that often SP's are unfairly held to a standard that others aren't, and that interactions with them are, if anything, less dangerous than a random bar hookup. And no doubt sometimes regulations that are put out for "people's best interests" do often hide a moral agenda. That said, if something is formally commercialized, it's not necessarily inconsistent to see regulations applied at an industry level that aren't at a personal level. What those regulations should be and what is fair or right is a whole other question of course. :)

I'm definitely a fan of oil over cream for it's slip and slower absorption. I favor organic cold pressed oils. They allow the skin to breathe with healing properties that are highly beneficial. What I like about these oils is they can be customized with a few drops of a natural aromatherapy scent if requested. I have two types of coconut oil. One is in my kitchen to add to smoothies and to condition my hair and skin. I love the tropical scent. The other is unscented for massage purposes only. A few recipes for making home made massage oil. http://www.ehow.com/way_5267938_homemade-massage-oil-recipe.html

Like I said in responses to your Pms..Good for you !its great that they are attractive to you. You started the tread with a strong opinion about the québécois clients..Which seem by posts that you resented them for a while..Like we say in French ""une crotte sur le coeur" in last 2 days you met nice québécois ..Good You say they are attracted to you.. Good not sure what else you want me to add to your tread:icon_question:

Why Repeat? If your first meeting was fun and you enjoyed yourself. If there is a connection or chemistry. You need a second date to see if there is something there. If there is, you see her another time. By now you should be comfortable with each other, know each other likes and dislikes. By now you may have form a bond or friendship. She can now let her guard down. Feel more comfortable in your presence,know that you like her and will not hurt you. I find that each repeat visit get's better and better. Each one leading to another one and hoping for further new experiences. By now, she may offer you services that she limits the chosen few. While it is fun to meet new women, there is no guarantee that you will find a connection or have a good time. Where as with being a repeat client, you know what to expect and who know's what may develop in the long run. A bond may develop where, you can confide in each other's secrets that you cannot share with others. Recently I've started repeating with girls that I have seen many times before and each time it get's better and better. What are your thoughts or experiences on the benefits of repeating with the same women?

Browbeating an SP into doing something she is dead set against seems like a recipe for disaster. Guys like that are idiots. Maybe they enjoy the idea of making someone do something they don't want to, whatever, but they aren't going to have a great session. Kudos to you for sticking to your stance.

Agreed, what goes on behind closed doors between two consenting and naked adults is their business. Problem is some girls offer some services whereas others don't and guys sometimes expect that it's the same across the board. I worry about the MA's who have to deal with pushy clients expecting more when they only provide basics.

I'm all for BBBJ's, Daty, specially kissing, I also accept and respect whichever SP I'm with decision to be covered or not. Not to insult any party either SP or Patron but the old saying goes, Buyer Beware. Again no insult meant as I am one as well. Do you wash your hands after going to the washroom, I do. It is just one step in personal hygiene.

Theres nothing like taking control, non stop until he cant control himself and explodes deep in your throat.