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As a companion who charges in the price bracket that seems to bother you, I'm going to weigh in on how absurd your thoughts sound. I have charged $350+ an hour for 5 years, I have NOT raised my rates yet real life expenses keep up going up. Airfare is at a high, advertising has gone up and all the little life expenses have increased. I offer an experience, a life escape and genuine connection with those I meet with. I open myself up and put myself in a vulnerable position letting strangers (albeit screened, yet still strangers) into my personal space and allow them to share intimacy with myself. YOU have NO right to tell any woman her donation is two high, whether she is charging $200 or $600 an hour, its not your right to complain or question it. YOU have NO idea what it is like to work a day in my shoes and to be honest I doubt you could handle what any of us do in a week let alone a day. The average NICE suite in Ottawa during the week is $250+ a night and why would one just book a normal room when they are spending a few hours with an individual? I really don't feel like fighting for the only desk chair in my room with the gent I'm spending time with. As well to be a quality upscale companion, one won't be booking at the super 8. The experience, The company and the location all weigh in on this aspect. I'd love to see the reaction of the gents I spent time with when I tell them to come see me at motel 6 :) I have had several professional photos shoots over the years, the average price being $1800 for all but one of them and even then it was over $1000 in the end. Im sorry but in business, when one is selling an elite item such as themselves, you don't settle for a $500 photoshoot. Im not calling you naive, however if a woman has invested in professional photos best to assume she's invested in herself and her donation will most likely reflect that. Its people with the thoughts and ideas such as yours that appal me, you have never been an escort, sex worker, companion or courtesan - you have an opinion and a one sided one at that. Because I charge more per hour, does not make me a "gold digger". Far from it, I am very generous with my time and with ensuring that my guests leave happy I spend hours everyday on emails, most that are just on social levels saying hi or where are you this week - and all this is unpaid - yet I would not change any of it. And yes myself like many others took offence to your first post and your second one - I can't imagine what answer it is that you are seeking?

If you'll all forgive me, I'm going to digress into a meta-post for a moment. Some folks have expressed the opinion that we really shouldn't be having this conversation and rates should never be questioned. I agree that it's inappropriate to question any individual provider's rates, but... I think there's significant value in having a conversation about rates in general. I've seen it in the past, but I don't think it has happened recently. That means there's probably quite a few people who are reading this for the first time and, therefore, benefiting from it. Yes, the rates can look pretty high, especially if you're new to the industry - but as Pete said, if you think they're bad here, take a look at what you'd pay south of the border. What we clients often don't understand immediately is how much time providers spend on things for which they don't get paid directly (which hasn't been talked about much in this thread), and how much money all the behind-the-scenes stuff costs. I'd like to thank the ladies who took the time to give us some idea of that - and Mia in particular. Guys, remember: the person you're spending time with is like a swan. She may look serene and beautiful on the surface... but there's a hell of a lot of paddling going on underneath. Okay, that's enough discussion about the discussion. As you were!

So what? You think we are in it for love or something? lol

Hello fellow Lyla Members After being here for five years, making my 1000 post yesterday plus seeing a little negativity lately I feel it is a good time to share my more than amazing experiences since 2010. If your a new member I will be giving some tips for having some fun visits, most of them have being written here many times. Before I met anyone I always tried to learn as much about them as possible, I read their bio's here on Lyla then check to see if they had a website. In my first letter I always tried to be as polite as possible giving the Lady as much information as possible at the beginning then more afterwards if a visit got booked. I never questioned her rate for companionship and if possible I brought along a small gift if it was possible. If the time I visiting someone was around a special time I always tried to be prepared for that like a Birthday, Valentine's Day or Christmas. My heading "Expectations" can be an elephant in any room. One of the biggest reasons I feel I had amazing experiences pretty well each and every time after doing my homework was I always brought the biggest smile with me and then go with the flow. In life everyone wants to be greeted with a smile, our ladies here on Lyla are no different. My second tip is respect, my parents drilled this into me, there comment was, respect is a two way street you give and you get it back, I have always treasured this with the ladies I have had the privilege to visit here on Lyla. The two simple words smile and respect can make any visit spectacular. Going back to the word expectations, I guess what I am trying to say I never really had any, I was indeed a very curious man and in thinking back if I have had any they were surpassed a hundred fold. At this time I would like to thank a few ladies that have being more than kind to me since I joined here. I will mention mostly ladies in my area that I have visited a couple of times plus a traveling lady I seemed to connect with a little more than others. Two of the Ladies I got to visit early in my adventures were Emily Rushton and Cara Silver, these two ladies gave me the confidence to enjoy my future visits, thank you ladies. Other ladies I am so grateful to are Katherine, Lady Sophia, Jocelyn Ardenne, Jordan Munroe, my visting Lady from Montreal Gabriella and last but not least Miss Carley Chase. At present I have made the personal decision to be quiet in visiting with one exception. I know the problem of mentioning names is someone could get offended, if I had the pleasure to meet you and not mentioned your name I do remember pretty well every one I have had the pleasure to meet so thank you for visiting PEI. The sole purpose of this post was thank all the ladies I have had the supreme pleasure to meet since joining plus try to give out a few hints/tips on why I feel I had nothing but a splendiferous time over the last five years, ladies thank you immensely. In closing gentleman, smile, be respectful, try not to get great expectations in your head and go with the flow, when you then look back at your visit I am sure you will be more than happy plus pass any expectations. Triple HHH

Ya...I just got stood up on a confirmation:( What I find most odd is that our comunication only started 2 hours ago? Why oh why do ppl do this? Like how much could change in 2 hours that u cant send a simple txt? So now I am out that fee plus turned away one! It happens to the best of us..provider and hobbiest. Shake my head and move forward is all I can do. No point in letting it ruin your day, just wont give a second chance unless a cancelation fee is offered. In hobbiest case, if the lady aplogises allow her the oppurtunity to make it right for you. Additional Comments: Yup just had my second no confirm with not a word of cancelation or an I am sorry txt.! Wow If I was insecure....I might think I am being toyed with?? Off to the hair salon I go....spend more cash on being the perfect ME I can be! Sigh....at least I dont count nickles or dimes yet!

While I have some problems with the way the OP asked his question I think I agree with Phaedrus that some benefit can come out of the dialogue in terms of helping people understand more about what's involved in working in this industry and that there is a lot more to it than just showing up for an hour. Additionally reminding ourselves that regardless of what the rate of compensation is people deserve to be treated with respect for the choices they make for themselves is important. Just my Opinion

Considering that we cannot have threads about ladies who have ultra low rates and /or undercut....not sure why it is ok to discuss those who choose to market themselves accordingly.

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Well how nice of Lady Sophia to mention lovely ladies. But oops, she neglected to mention herself. She travels though Moncton on a regular basics and I am sure with the right incentive she might be convinced to visit you. Be grateful if she does as she is New Brunswick's Queen of Hearts !

I am so so so tempted to add this today: For f-ck sake, for once that ladies can have THE job in the world where they will ALWAYS be paid MORE THAN MEN, knowing all the unbalanced/unfair salaries out there between men and women, and a man still wants to complain about it?! Yeah, our price is our price. But if we want to be very practical about it and cut it down to how much it would cost minimally in an hour, why not trying this exercise? I am sure we will go OVER 300$/hour very quickly. Alright, here it goes: - A regular massage by a registered therapist or in a beauty spa by a non registered therapist, nothing else, is between 75 to 125$/hour and more. - The cost of paying personal company for people who need it (for example seniors or disabled people whose family pay for individuals to provide them with company, meaning talking with them only, not offering any care, just checking if they are OK): minimum of 15$/hour in Ontario. - The cost of education that distinguishes a lady (I tend to think that we are not stupid, whether we have diplomas or not. Intelligence and an elegant attitude, as well as having the ability to entertain guests is not related to studies we might have done or not, but if we have, it is another cost that can be considered in trying to "making the price right"). Most of us have degrees or are studying. So the cost of having stimulating conversations with a lady thanks to education (sometimes compared by some gentlemen as talking to a therapist): minimum of 120$/hr - The cost of location: MINIMUM 200$/night. Minimum. If we talk about upscale location, it goes up fast. - The cost of personal care: although we are beautiful, we do not wake up with our hair, make up, nails, skin looking nice and smelling good. We need to take care of that. Hair dresser, nail salon, tanning salon, beauty spa, products, perfume etc... Name it. These services/items are very expensive. Let's say: 200$/month minimum - The cost of clothes and shoes and lingerie, bags (you do not want us to wear plastic bags, don't you?) very expensive. You don't want to see us with the same outfits all the time? No: minimum of 200$/month to renew wardrobe and lingerie. Just one piece of lingerie can cost 200$ ! - The cost of a gym membership (we have to take care of our body!): let's keep it simple, if we go to the YMCA: minimum 55$/month - The cost of special toys, accessories, anything related to play and protection: these stuff are expensive, especially if we specialize the type of games and toys: another 200$ minimum /month (my personal minimum expenses in this category) - Cost of hygiene products at your disposal, laundry to offer you fresh and clean towels, bed sheets, and buy new ones if needed etc...: 80$/month (my personal minimum expenses in this category). - Drinks or appetizers that can be offered by ladies to gentlemen in some meetings: I sometimes offer crackers, cookies, drinks. Let's keep it minimal with non alcoholic drinks: 30$/month (my personal minimum expenses in this category). - The cost of professional photo shoots if a lady does so: the average cost for such a photo shoot session ("package") is 1200$ (I have looked on a few websites, this is the average cost I noticed, it can be more or less, of course) - The cost of advertising: a minimum of 50$/month. It can go over 200$/month and much more depending on when, how, where the lady advertises, and the frequency/numbers of ads purchased. - The cost of travels, to go to you in the same city, or if a lady is touring. Between plane and train tickets, or gas, it can go up very quickly: varies a lot from a lady to another, obviously. From her rent cost if she hosts only, to several thousands of dollars in a month if she travels all the time. - The cost of communication tools and time involved in communication with you (not only "you", of course...): monthly phone package, website, internet etc... Hard to put a price on this as it can vary a lot but, it is more money again. My minimum cost: around 115$/month, not counting the time put into communicating with gentlemen. I must be forgetting some other costs here for sure! Add all these costs, and you will understand that it is not only about getting up in the morning, putting panties on, and posting an ad randomly somewhere and voilà! Nope. It does not work this way. So, yes, how surprising that it takes money to make money! But most most most of all: what is the real cost of one hour spent with someone who will take care of you wonderfully and make you feel special? How much for this? We give the most precious of ourselves at many levels. Breaking it down to money only does not even cover it all! And about expressing an opinion: it is not about the fact that the OP expressed an opinion in the first place. It is about HOW the OP expressed this opinion. Very different! Having a degree in communication, and being proud of it, I believe that it makes a huge difference when considering discussing such matters.

Discussing SP or MA rates in public is just rude. We do not have to justify our rates. Too expensive? Shake it off, and pass to the next.

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Hi folks, I had been seeing the same SP since 2008 - at least once a month. Always a pleasant experience for both, so I thought, until...... Our latest date didn't happen. I arrived at her incall location, waiting in car park and texted her, as per our usual routine. And waited.. and waited. Zippo. Having other commitments later that evening, after 45 minutes, I texted her and said I was leaving. Later, I got a short text that she "felt horrible" and that she got the day mixed up. Stuff happens. The no-date was disappointing. I could understand if this was a first time date and we got the wires crossed, but after seeing the same woman for 70+ dates and getting no apology or explanation, was much more disappointing, even hurtful to an extent. I didn't expect any special treatment or anything, but getting absolutely nothing was unexpected. Perhaps that was my error - not managing my expectations properly - even after so many dates. I'm all for second chances (and more). But when the SP doesn't provide an explanation and emails/texts go unanswered, there isn't much else to do. CM

I have seen her, and I had a very good experience. Not a clock watcher, gave a few free extras. She also provided personal recommendations Additional Comments: There are a lot of good reviews on her, plus she provides personal recommendations.

First time back in awhile and my first thought is.........fuck, I'm glad I wasn't drunk and opened this thread. Prices in this biz are all over the place. I have paid 180-300 per hour and have regretted not a one encounter.Would I go higher? Actually, I would go higher before I'd go lower. Unless a lady is just getting into the business and looking to build clientele, there's a chance for a deal on an undiscovered gem, but it's a crap shoot. For the record, my most memorable encounter was my most expensive one...........and I repeated, and will again. Tried and true works for me. Vegas would chew me up and spit me out. Now.......back to the rum and the blizzard in NS.

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Hi all! Just an announcement on what to expect in the next while. For the next few days I won't be able to book any appointments. Under the weather physically and need to rest up. Now, in the next coming months I will be offering a discounted rate as I am looking to move in a more adequate environment. I am looking to move to an apartment that is much more comfortable for myself and anyone that I host to. I'm looking to live in the south east area, still close to where I am currently located. Sorry for any inconvenience in advance. Can't wait to be better! Peace and Love ,Brody

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Your original post clearly indicated that based on your opinion paying more than $240/$260 for a hour with a lady in this industry was not good value for YOUR money ... fine you are entitled to your opinion but let's face it your approach to expressing that opinion clearly took a swipe at ladies who charge more and frankly that undertone is clearly articulated in your "golddigger" comment... no wonder you place such a low value on spending time with these ladies you have such a low opinion of their character. You may not agree with their business approach and you may think that they are not worth the money they are charging but how about at least showing some respect for them as people... they like you and I are going about their lives trying to support themselves and their families. What's the outcome you are looking for from your post??... it appears you have a very strong opinion about what ladies should charge... what their expenses should be... and every other facet of THEIR business. Perhaps you want the job as customer ombudsman for the Sex Industry the guy who will stand up for all us poor little guys who are getting taken advantage of by the big bad ladies in this industry... Let's get real the majority of the ladies in this industry work extremely hard to make a living... you have heard several of the ladies outline their expenses and frankly very few leave this industry rich... sure it pays for school or supports their family or allows them some extras that their regular job does not allow for. The professional ladies in this business have made a choice to take control of their own employment... to decide for themselves how they work and when they work... they offer a very personal and intimate service to us men so of course they should be free to decide what they want to charge you or I or any other guy for that matter does not have to agree with that price... they can make a different choice that reflects their personal situation. Just my Opinion

Lemme break it down for you: Upscale incall location : $1200-1500/m (Toronto) Nice lingerie: $240 (how much the last lingerie set I bought cost) Professional photos: $350-$1000 every 4-6 months Website design: $200-$1000 Personal grooming (waxes, manicures): 1 wax every three weeks=$65; manicure: $30-60 (every two weeks) Time spent doing admin: between 10-15 hours a week--this includes updating and interacting on social media, answering emails, updating ads/website etc. Advertising: A base ad on EROS is $60; Turd charges something like $75 for three weeks. A burner phone for work: Ugh, I don't even know. MONEY. It costs MONEY. That's close to $2000 grand in expenses ON THE LOW END OF THINGS. Or did you think we all rolled out of bed perfectly coiffed, manicured, plucked, waxed with magically free incall spaces waiting for you to call us? On top of which, none of us need to justify our rates to you. Please crawl back under the rock from whence you came.

that's like asking why one car manufacturer charges $35,000 for a vehicle and another charges $350,000 for a vehicle. The answer is (drum roll please, lol) because each is different in their own unique way. There are many factors to consider when looking at someone's rates. Location, desirability, looks, experiences, and much much more. What our rates are is up to us to have, and generally speaking, most of us are in the same range. If you are looking for a luxury experience, then you are going to be looking at luxury rates. Just like as in a $35,000 vehicle isn't going to have the same features as the $350,000 one, you get what you pay for.

I must have the worst luck. LMAO! I spoke for most of the afternoon yesterday with a well known SP, arranged an appointment and was ready to go this morning. I even booked the morning off. I texted when I was told to and no answer. Time of the appointment came and went. No reply. The SP has great reviews on LYLA/CERB. Answered every question they asked and even referenced another SP I use. They contacted her and verified. Everything was good to go. Time of appojntment......no reply. Any time I ever was going to be late or something came up I have always let my SP know. Not let them hanging. Maybe they had something come up or even changed their mind. That is ok too. Just let me know so I am not waiting around. Additional Comments: I am almost tempted to quit this all together. If I am curteous to them, all I ask is the same?

It isn't up to you what an sp can justify charging. You can choose which ladies to see or not see, but please do it with some class. Judging and calling someone out publicly for the value she places on herself is uncalled for. Just move on if she is out of your preferred price range. Clearly not everyone agrees with your assessment of her value or she would not be able to charge that price.

Our rates vary ... maybe some charge more because they provide a different type of service...I do charge extra for fetish request... My best advice to you or anyone for that matter if the rate she charges is too much for you then just thank her for her time and move along and find a lady with a more reasonable rate that suits you...there are plenty women with a variety of rates and services It's whatever works best for you...

To the OP, bear in mind, a lady has the right to choose whatever rate she wishes - it's her body, her time, her choice. If you don't like it you have two options: 1) Save up until you can afford her rate 2) Find someone who is in your price range However, please don't complain; it's just bad form.

Dude ... you are gonna get eaten alive in this thread. Why does anyone in any trade charge more than anyone else?(hows that for a wordy question?) If the market will bear your prices... why not? Some girls really are THAT hawt and THAT good.... dudes will pay it.

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I've been following this site for a long time now, and it is amazing how often the same, issues, concerns and complaints come up. Things that should be obvious often are not. I thought it might help if I compiled a summery of some of the more common concerns for the newbie section. Hopefully it will help get some of the new gents to the hobby off on the right foot. There may be some here that don't apply to all people or situations, but these are some of the more common ones I have seen over the years: 1. Do your homework first. Nobody likes to have to spend time writing out answers to questions they have already provided answers for on their website or ad. 2. Be respectful during the initial contact. Being abrupt or rude is definitely a bad start. 3. Don't be too explicit. The laws are such that everyone is restricted in what can be said. Some are more careful than others with this, but remember that you are simply compensating for her time. That's all. Asking for anything more specific will often get you no reply at all. 4. Don't haggle. This is not a flea market. Nothing kills the mood faster than telling someone that they are worth less than they think they are. If she is out of your price range, move on politely. 5. If you have to cancel, let her know ASAP. Life sometimes gets in the way of the best laid plans. Their time is their source of income and they have promised some of it to you. At least give them some notice if you won't be able to make it. If you can't give notice, consider offering to compensate her. It has already cost her the time, whether or not you were there. (E-transfers can make this super easy.) ....And just not showing up without letting her know at all is so incredibly disrespectful and uncool. (and a sure way to get yourself black listed.) Just don't do it. 6. If you are sick, cancel. Nobody wants your illness. (But see number 5) 7. Hygiene -It shocks me how often this one comes up. It is for your own benefit to not have her repulsed during your time together. Take a shower and brush your teeth as close to the appointment as possible. If you can't, then ask if she has shower facilities. Many do. (But remember it is on your time.) oh... and wear deodorant! 8. If she asks you to take a shower before hand.... take one. It means one of two things. a) She has a policy that all clients take one, or b) you smell. Either way, it is the same answer: Take the shower if she asks. 9. Respect her time. This means being on time, but not early. Not always easy to be precise, but do what you can. If you are late, don't expect that she will let you stay later to make up for it. Also, don't expect her to be ready early just because you showed up early. Remember, you have an appointment. Respecting her time also means leaving when your time is up without having to be asked over and over. 10. Have the envelope ready at the beginning of the date. Don't make her ask. It kills the mood. I just place it on the dresser or table as I walk in. They can address it or not as they see fit. Of course, all of these points can be summed up with two words: "show respect". If you use that as a guideline, you can't go wrong. I know there are some points that I have missed and some that not everyone will agree with. Remember, this isn't my list. It is a compilation of the most common concerns I have seen since I started following the site. Feel free to add to it if I have missed any.

I know of a few hotels near the police station in Saint John, and they are all high end hotels. Not sure about the other cities, but if in SJ, don't worry. Its funny, when I book a hotel, the last thing I worry about is "is there a police station nearby". I look at parking, door access, quality of hotel etc. Yes, I feel you are over thinking this. Go and enjoy.

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Yup and agree! But after that many years you would toss that away for something that may be out of her controll ? That is harsh man! Have you given her a chance to make amends or no? Maybe I am wrong.....?? Too bad she did not iffer a make up?? After 2 txt 5 min after the designated time..then againnat 10 min after the said time...I give up. I then called...went to my hair appt( cause wont make it thier prob) no answer...then after 30 min he calls...I declined his call cause now I am in my hair appt. He says was in ditch...ohhh so at 1:10 you could not inform me??

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Personally, this thread is no different then the negotiating thread. It was closed for a reason. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=141558

While the OP is entitled to his opinion along with everyone else, life is too short to complain. It's just arguing for limitations. See someone in a price range that a person can afford and have fun. :) As the saying goes,"You can't have champagne on a beer budget." Some people enjoy every sip of that champagne after they pay $300 + for a bottle of Dom.

To get to that 'average' of 200-240, it means that there is and will be rates that are under 200 and over 240. It's just math That's really all you need to know about rates and why some sps charge over 300. Expenses tend to increase, not decrease. My rent is only up 100 since i first started, but i'm sure others have different experiences. 5 years ago the number one advertising was all free all the time, when that was shut down, sps had to move onto paid sites. In my area we got lucky, replacement sites were busier or as busy and still free. until they were not, and their rates got higher and higher, then charged in US $ and went up with the exchange rate. When i started using BP, it was 1.00 & 2.00, before the big change it had been raised up to 10.00 per ad. now you have paid options which are low, but recently they increased the new lower rates by charging in US$ no more Cdn pricing. all expense increases are absorbed by many sps, meaning their profits are decreasing. but really simply increasing rate by 20 bucks an hour would cover most of these increases, and yet as a favour to clients, many sps do not do that increase that they really need.

I can appreciate your point of you, and yes, staying safe must always be the first concern... For both sides. A service provider just started another thread asking if gents would be willing to pay in advance (a deposit more than a full pay). I also would like to travel West. But we go far from home, in a city we don't know, we have no feed back or very little concerning clientele, and we're not even sure it would worth the trip. I am sorry, but in those conditions, not much ladies are willing to travel...

Just see someone that fits in your budget ;) ;) ;)

One of the great things about wild threads like this is that you get to see the providers with the most intelligent answers. Intelligence is a turn-on, and helps narrow down the providers you would see. :icon_twisted:

Her rate is clearly posted.

This happens to me about twice in a year and I feel for you Jeff, it is very frustrating. I live over 1 hour from any major city in my area and I booked a 2 hour meeting with a special lady last summer, took time off work and showed up a bit early so not to miss my appointment. On her last PM she told me where she was staying, found a parking nearby her hotel paid the parking for 3 hours as you never know how long it will be, texted her about 5 minutes ahead of our meeting waited for a reply, nothing. I waited in the parking lot for 1-1/2 hour and I got fed up and left. She texted me when I was almost home and said she was sorry and gave me an excuse. She is a very well known SP on here and it was not my first time seeing her and I don't know if I will see her again. I hate having a back up plan and calling another lady at the last minute to book like that.

Hi!! <3 My site under construction: http://www.vipchristina4u.com (New videos and more to come soon!) I will be available for incall and outcall from my hotel downtown Halifax Monday Feb 8 until Friday Feb 12 at noon, before making my way to New Brunswick! My schedule: Monday Feb 8 (Early evening onwards, after I check in - In/Out) Tuesday Feb 9 (Flexible Times - In from Downtown Halifax hotel and Outs) Wednesday Feb 10 (Flexible Times - In from Downtown Halifax hotel and Outs) Thursday Feb 11 (Flexible Tmes - In from Downtown Halifax hotel and Outs) Friday Feb 12 (MORNING ONLY, before I check out - In from Downtown Halifax hotel and Outs) My rates (For single dates or for couples): 120hh 200hr 300-90 min 350-2hrs (I charge for time of our date only! No "extra" fees or whatever... everything included =)) I'm 5'10, 23, in shape, very small waist and large hips - hourglass with a bit of a booty LOL. I have long platinum blonde hair, pretty face, always groomed nails and try to keep a tan on my lightly freckled body! 36DD-24-38, enhanced but told I'm very natural feeling (I was originally a full C) I'm very open-minded, happy and friendly! I enjoy playing as much as I do talking and cuddling! If things get really wild I tend to be submissive and let you drive. I guess we can't list specific things anymore, but I am open to most safe activities and willing to try a lot of things =) I have a lot of great reviews (Thank You <3 <3 <3) on here if you want to read them first. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=197925 http://lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=5160 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=9828 PM me or email me [email protected] if you want to setup a date! =) <3 Kisses, Christina <3 xoxo

If they don't specify in their ads or website, go ahead and contact them. Many of us love seeing all races.

I agree how you greet each other sets the tone for the rest of your time together. Priming is the word used, I believe. I have a couple elegant, sexy and very ladylike dresses I wear to greet clients in. They are classy, cocktail style dresses which suit my personal style very well (I just can't pull off the stripper dresses and tawdry look .. it's so not Kate but others can pull off the more modern styles beautifully). My lingerie is on underneath. I greet clients this way because on the off-chance a neighbor is in the hallway and sees us, I look like I'm ready to go out on a date or a nice dinner out. Also because it helps set the tone of "I am a woman, not a sex doll", which is important to me. And getting a client to unzip my dress is a fun way to help create the "girlfriend" atmosphere, at least insofar as my personal way of doing things goes. Depending on nerves and "feel" I either hug them right away or show them in and then hug them or move in to rub their shoulders. Sometimes I kiss right away, sometimes I don't. I go by feel and sometimes a client seems nervous so I slow down the physical connection a bit and ease them into things. Very rarely I get a bit flustered from attraction to a client and forget to be "Kate" and revert to my awkward, overly chatty self, completely forgetting that I'm supposed to be a seductive woman and not this dorky girl. So if I'm awkwardly blathering on during our session and making really lame jokes it's actually a good thing. I don't really have a set way that I greet clients. Maybe I should kiss them sooner. I will try kissing my clients when I greet them for the next week and see if I like the results.

I am upfront on my website about what I offer and do not offer, and I remind my guests during our first session together. If at any point a gentleman is unclear about something, I find it very respectful when he asks me. I dislike the "I'll just go for it and see if she stops me" approach. Please, just ask. Communication is key to a wonderful experience together!

IF YOU CAN NOT GET THIS MESSAGE TO GO AWAY AFTER READING PLEASE READ THE BOTTOM OF THIS POST. ****************************************** PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO CIRCUMVENT THE CENSORED WORDS! ****************************************** I am sure by now many of you have noticed a number of words have been added to the censor list. I know it makes the site very hard to read but instead of jumping ship and moving to another country like other adult boards are doing we have decided to instead conform to the new laws. This means 1) No one can ADVERTISE that they offer prostitution related EXTRAS if you offer this off the site that is find as long as you do not LINK to a site offering such things or offer them here. To conform to the new laws we can not to allow you to ADVERTISE such things here on cerb or advertise a website or blog or ad somewhere else that offers such things. If we find you are linking to a website from cerb that offers such things we will need to BAN your site from linking from cerb. Since people will ignore the law and try to post ads offering such things on cerb we had had to add certain keywords to the censor to ensure no one posts ILLEGAL things. Unfortunately this takes away from the discussion area. Now it is NOT illegal to discuss prostitution or related ACTS but I am not sure how the law will see it if someone is posting that they are a ESCORT (Not offering any PROSTITUTION related extras) and some guy posts saying "Oh, She did such and such with me!" (Guys like to brag when they get something extra that was not advertised....) 2) People may start to try to CIRCUMVENT these words. This will get you SUSPENDED or BANNED as you could put the website in jeopardy. Anyone seeing anyone trying to be creative (offering to do stuff like "squeeze the juice from a hot dog", "Suc the icing off a rooster" or "go in and out of grease for extended vacation" .... you get the point! Please REPORT THIS and DO NOT QUOTE IT! If you reply to it with a quote and do not report it you may also get a warning. 3) Some words are standard words such as O U T C A L L and S E R V I C E and these had to be censored as well as they could be taken the WRONG way and we are being EXTRA VIGILANT at this time to ensure cerb stays within the boundaries of this new law. 4) Use your .... people, don't brag about extra things that may or may not have happened when in private with someone. Just share that you have a nice time, you will see her again and focus on the nice things. More to come but I am asking for help with CENSOR words as well. Please report any ADVERTISEMENT posts that HINT or BLATANTLY SAY they offer PROSTITUTION RELATED EXTRAS so we can ADD to the CENSORS and protect the site. IF YOU CAN NOT MAKE THIS MESSAGE GO AWAY.... Your browser settings are probably not accepting cookies. Switch to another web browser or change your settings and see if it helps. A INCOGNITO browser will probably also cause this issue as well.