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I am also in a wheelchair so I found this interview and the responses positive and informative. 🙂

Coming soon...it will be the safest entertainment available !

Facts: Masturbation relieve stress, A study proved that men who ejaculate more then 21 times a month are less likely to develop prostate cancer. Release tension Enhance sleep quality Boost concentration Elevate mood Relieve menstrual cramp Alleviate pain Improve sex Myth: Blindness Hairy palms Impotence later in life Erectile dysfunction Penis shrinkage Penis curvature Low sperm count Infertility Mental illness Physical weakness

There are sex moves from porn that many of us would never want to recreate and for good reasons. If you watch porn like most of us do(don't lie we all know you do), some scene can't be replicated or duplicated. Slapping her face with your penis, I tried that once and the look on her face said it all. Lubing with a loogie....I once was with a new lady and she was dry, she didn't have any lube so I offered some spit and she refused because some guy grossed her out by trying to get some spit from the bottom of his throat...I mean WTF ! ATM, need I say more? Or even when doing a duo don't switch from one lady to the next without changing the protective cover...right? Do you have any to add to the list...I invite the ladies to chime in and share stories

Degrading dirty talk/abuse unless its requested (to each their own) Double dipping.. no... just no... Choking...I understand where @NotchJohnson is coming from but definitely must be with an experienced person Urinating (though that may be a turn on for someone..) Random Anal inserts... stay safe. Oral Gagging... again approval and experience matters with everything Rough Sex.. time and place for it but as @lydiahardwood mentioned, knowing my partner can walk decently normal the next day lol Also agree for the future, clear consent would help the next generations learn better then to cross unwanted boundaries, but so should parents be having these chats. Spontaneous bondage... I have had a new-ish fling tell me to lay down for a massage only to find her tying my wrists together... though her agenda was to rub ice over my body and I enjoyed it, we were not at a stage I expected it. I was glad it was only ice and only my arms, if it were whips or wax I may have went into defense mode lol @Allie Zeon what is your take on this all?

Oh gosh....one of the best interview to date. I want to comment more but you both have covered everything. Thank you 💕 Yes, pretty impressive indeed!

I said "Hello" to Beatrix telling her the "Hi" was from you. She responded with a..... A Rambling Response From Beatrix (and me 😊)

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Highly recommend: Rake and Wentworth... Both TV shows but oh so good. I put Wentworth right up there with Breaking Bad in quality, never a dull moment.

Hey Lyla, I have seen a few providers in Halifax over the years, some of whom allow rimming (I give they recieve). Does anyone have a recommendation for an SP (or an SP who would like to advise) who enjoy this/or have experience with it? Thanks!!

Such smart women, both of you! Love the questions and the answers from the younger generations. Hello! Look how articulate and smart they are. Will comment more. I'm still busy feeding my animals this morning lol

It also doesn't give you hairy palms. The fact that my palms are pretty much the only parts of my body that aren't covered in hair is proof!

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Oh, gawd... where to start? Double-dipping? Yes, they do it in porn and it's probably safe enough... but you don't get the see the hours of decidedly unsexy cleaning that goes into making sure you can do that without getting infections all over the place. Choking? From what I've read, this is becoming a huge problem. There's an entire generation of men that have grown up believing that grabbing someone's throat while you fuck her is an entirely normal thing to do. Fingering? If you go at someone's ladybits the way they normally do in porn, you're going to hurt her. This is why an increasing number of providers just don't allow it at all. Spit? If the number of "spit is not lube" posts I see on Twitter is anything to go by, this is another big one. And honestly, all the rough sex you see in porn. Hopefully that was all negotiated beforehand, but we keep reading horror stories about people who go beyond what was agreed on shoots. And even when that doesn't happen, it doesn't help with the people who get the idea that you can just start the slapping/jackhammering/whatever else without talking about it first. And on a less serious note: a lot of the positions in porn look really uncomfortable to me. But I guess they're driven by the need to let a camera in to see what's going on, which isn't a concern for most of us.

I get the feeling that these people have been on (or seen what happens on) boards, and just decided they don't want any part of that scene. Which is a shame. Thanks! Actually, for me this is probably the thing I like most about boards: we can have this sort of conversation. The main alternative for communication these days seems to be Twitter, and you just don't get it there. There's a lot of stuff which is too complex or nuanced to go into a tweet. And the other problem with Twitter is that anything you say kinda disappears into the void very quickly; it flies though people's timelines and then... nobody will ever see it, unless they make a point of going to your profile to see what you've been saying. But here, I can respond to a post from five days ago as easily as one from five minutes ago, and I don't miss stuff that happened when I wasn't online.

I love this post , I wish it was a tweet I could retweet into the Universe and make it go Viral!

Thank you @Mikeyboy @clearbluesky15 @Phaedrus @waterat For the time and attention you have given to my interview . @Mikeyboy I am so with you in the appreciation of @lydiahardwoodit is so nice to have found a board that is a civil and positive place , without the toxicity that a few boards have . It is truly refreshing . @clearbluesky15 Yes I agreee it is important for both client and Service providers to remain open to discussion in this civil way to facilitate learning how to be better as Providers as well as clients too . @Phaedrus I am sorry to admit that a few people have mistaken me for one of those ladys, the "all boards are toxic" type , but that has never been my beleif or attitude . My mind does not paint in broad brush strokes , generalizations or stereotypes, I was fortunate last summer to use the London Sugar board in Ontario and the Caf board in Calgary , on my cross Canada Tour , and I did enjoy both of those boards . I looked forward to beng on the east coast and being active here on Lyla . I was attempting to go coast to coast but , the East Coast was closed or I would have been active in the maritimes for a few weeks , one day I will make it . @waterat #1 thank you so much for such a great reply , first point , Love learning all of this , it is brillant. #2 Boom ! , YAY!!! #3 you pretty much summed up what a lot of newbie or ( urgent ) clients do to thi own determent . They simply rush the process and or settle then post negativity that is often unwarranted , if they did thier homework they would not get scammed and or find a better fit . I need help with the "Leolist is not our friend " ? part of your comment ?,I love Leolist I am legit and reputable , and I think my ad stands out as so on there, so I love how easy it is to screen the men contacting me from there , by thier approach lol , its not hard to tell the men that did not do thier homework ,so I kindly educate them , so they can be better clients for me or other ladys in the future . Whew I did it , was kinda nervous , I have often and recently had my words twisted beyond reognition, so I do have a little apprehension and anxiety replying to new people . BARE lol with me , nothing I say is ever written in stone , I reserve the right to change my mind , and break the unspoken internet law of including typos lol wink wink .

First off, a thanks to @Ava Maria Love for sharing her thoughts and insights with us and, again, to @lydiahardwood for conducting these interviews, This one gets directly to what I feel is the heart of the lyla community. The answers to these three questions all identify the merits of lyla that deserve our support and engagement. #1 Benefits of lyla membership identified. I'm assuming advertising is still free on lyla - in the past, agencies and massage businesses (and the providers who worked there) were charged some sort of 'commercial' membership fee - identified by a username in red. @Yourfrenchlady (company account) is the only example I've noticed and I think that's a recent change. Many of my local SWs stopped visiting lyla as they rarely had 'traffic' generated from the site so I doubt it's sensible to charge for advertising but with more recommendations, more advertisers and more respectful discussion; the value of this 'non-toxic' recommendation board would be enhanced. #2 Boom! #3 I notice this sliding into the lyla forum mostly due to clients who haven't done their homework, have unrealistic expectations and simply import toxic review board culture. The source of much of this comes to us via leolist which, while having some sort of a business relationship with lyla, is not our friend. I don't mean to step away from the thanks expressed in initiating this comment, nor as a hijack, but to promote some discussion. Cheers, waterat

Thanks, @Ava Maria Love - it's great to get a provider's perspective on this stuff, especially given how unpopular boards seem to be in general. Whenever I see boards mentioned there does seem to be a general approach from providers that "all boards are toxic". I can see why people would say that, but it's good to know that not everyone believes it. Boards can choose to be as toxic (or not) as they like, depending on what the people running them choose to allow. This is very good news; if we have more SPs coming for this, maybe a few of them will feel inclined to post in the main board while they're here...

Another well done interview. Thank you @Ava Maria Love for highlighting this important topic and thank you @lydiahardwood for helping to keep this site a civil and enjoyable place to be.

THANK YOU @lydiahardwood for giving me a voice , and a warm welcome your site . and thank you to @NotchJohnson @StephanieMystique @500 Pound Gorilla @Allie Zeon for taking the time to read and share yout thoughts . it is nice to be a member of a community like this one here on Lyla , where I am able to share my opinions , without having to fear personal attack .

Can’t agree more!!!!!

Thank you for putting this together! This is a great read and I look forward to having you apart of Lyla @Ava Maria Love. Your voice and passion will be a great contribute to moving Lyla to be the space we all want it to be.

Thank you @lydiahardwood for inviting @Ava Maria Love to tell us her opinion on social media pros and cons. It was very interesting. to read.

@Ninja83happy for you that you have found great providers that can fulfill your needs. Everyone needs to be happy sexuality. I’m all for that. Unfortunately if you are disabled, trans or women, I might not be the best choice. Unfortunately I’m straight, I wish I could be born bisexual 😢

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Seriously, you guys are the best. I do my best to keep looking forward, we can't let the bad stuff/people break us. This year has been a whirlwind of a year. I think I may be getting to have some closure soon. I wouldn't have been able to keep my head up with out a bunch of amazing people in my corner. Thank you to all of you! My vote for this month is @charlottequinn123! There was enough times (whether she knows it or not), that she has been able to help keep me going. Between our fantastic duos (Thank you to the amazing men that have made them happen), being there to let me vent or just let her talk away over a cup of tea. She is one amazing person to help lift everyone up.

Hi guys, I've seen her post all the time, almost daily. The posted contact number seems to be a US number. I'm assuming it's just another fake ad. Can anyone confirm one way or the other? Thanks!

Square isn't adult friendly, and I believe will close our account should anyone report us, as well as make it hard to claim our balance when they do. Too risky for my liking Chargebacks are also an issue, which is why some of us don't absolutely hate the other platforms that allow us to process payments; even with the hefty charges that we have to pay to use them, unwarranted chargebacks are more easily avoided with the middleman. Joe blow may not care about screwing over an Independent sp for 300+, but one tends to reconsider when it would come with a ban from his beloved site

Providers offering a discount or anything special in exchange for a recommendation are breaking the rules of Lyla. Recommendations & positive reviews should come naturally, if the SP is paying for them they are SHILL (fake) and not warranted. Guys... please report any post or comment where a provider offers a discount of any kind in exchange for a recommendation. We don't want fake recommendations here (it does none of you any good). Providers should earn the recommendation naturally. Thank you for understanding! Lyla xx

Also this is a new member, someone who isn't a seasoned hobbyist so perhaps it might have been nice to pm him as to appropriate questions instead of a somewhat public scolding. Yes he is a new Hobbiest, but alas we have a NEW TO THIS SECTION on a whole range of topics and subjects as well as etiquette. Posting a thread asking ladies what we think of BBBJ's? lets see here, if we don't like them we wont offer them. And who gives the best - that is like beauty - in the eye of the beholder....There is NO correct answer to this as this answer will vary depending on the person. I was in no way giving a public scolding, but if you can figure out how to make a post, you can also take an hour prior to posting anything and get knowledgeable in regards to things. While you make not take offence to the questions asked some of us do...And like yourself we have he right to post our opinions and thoughts as well.

Might I suggest looking through the recommendations for Halifax...it may, and I say may, be mentioned in some ladies' recommendations although many do prefer to leave intimate details of an encounter private But discussing intimate details of an encounter publicly on a board, seems IMHO somewhat inappropriate. And reiterating Emily's point, isn't who's the best really subjective A rambling RG

Dont really think that is an appropriate question, as services depend on the lady offering them and what one finds the best another may not.