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To me I see my MA life as a expression on myself. I have always been a person much in touch with her sensuality. I enjoy getting to know my wonderful clients and sharing a truly intimate experience with them. I share a little bit of my soul with each and every one of them and love the feeling of truly pleasing someone. I made the conscious choice to become an MA, something I had wanted to experience for awhile before I took the leap into the world of Adult Entertainment. Maybe it was a life calling, or just a deep need to provide pleasure. Either way I am enjoying myself and I feel truly blessed to have found such a warm and welcoming place to share a part of myself. Thank you all! Kisses to you all XoXoXo

Points to you for doing the thankless devil's advocate job! :) As you'll see I disagree, but I don't hold your argument against you. I have to say, though, that I don't think you've at all demonstrated that ethics are relative. Instead, what you've shown is that people will do clearly unethical things for selfish reasons. On the subject of the SP trawling for clients on a dating site, it's clearly unethical; she's engaging with other people under a false premise. Worse, it's messing with at least some people where they're probably the most vulnerable. #1 cardinal rule of life: don't fuck with people's hearts. As an aside: on the subject of weapons, it's a different matter entirely. Weapons are tools, and even lethal weapons can have perfectly ethical uses. Manufacturing a gun is no less ethical than manufacturing a hammer. (This is a different issue from how the distribution of weapons is regulated, something for which I'm a determined advocate.) To elaborate on both cases at once: let's say that a meat factory is functioning up to health code, but sees that a competitor is achieving higher profits by cutting corners and rendering diseased cows along with healthy ones. This puts consumers at terrible risk. If the owner concludes "meh, might as well do it, everyone else is", that doesn't prove that ethics are relative. It proves that the owner is a miserable, greedy son of a bitch, and will do something objectively unethical in the pursuit of a buck. And that's how I would feel about anyone who trawls for paying clients on dating sites. Note: No Nazis had their reputations harmed in the production of this post.

Lee... calm down lad. Just a few pointers. 1. It's still cool here. Ass chaps might be best left in your suitcase until your first date. 2. The lady you propositioned at Tim Hortons is not going to lay charges. She does want you to respect the 50 metre restraining order, and she says you can keep her bra. 3. Parliament still doesn't have strippers. No need to get a front row seat in the gallery - no one is going to get naked. 4. You only need to extend your pinky while drinking tea, any beverage purchased at Starbucks and light beer. 5. Barbarella's said you can come back, but you aren't allowed to get on stage anymore and you have to keep your clothes on. 6. They don't make poutine with poo. That's gravy. 7. The maid that you traumatized at your hotel still doesn't offer a happy ending. She's just there to clean your room. Ohhhh.... and they said that you can't keep livestock anywhere on hotel property. 8. The red skinny jeans that you brought last time??? Yea, just don't pack them; they can be a Manitoba thing. 9. Just because it used to be called Bytown, doesn't mean that all the early settlers were sexually capricious. That's By with a "y", not with an "i". 10. Bring money for bail. Just sayin'.

{QUOTE] There is always online support LOL is how everything is made now days!!! hehehe I know what I am wearing but I am not telling!! LOL Yes Vitto Victoria I tried that..... Every time I google Manitoba country boy coming to Ottawa ..... and ... what to wear ? what to wear ? All I come up with is flippers ??? Go figure...

Oh Geez !!! That is getting close now OD ! What to wear ? What to wear ? I am flying in a day early so I can find a fashion coordinator in the Ottawa area. My first time so not sure how to act and must brush up on my Ottawa Cerb Social etiquette. I will practice holding my Bud Light with my thumb and one of my fingers and sipping on it with my pinky out.....I will make sure no holes in my pants and will practice sitting properly with my legs not so wide open.....and I shall practice the waltz and polka to the tune from Kim Mitchell.... I am a Wild Party !! Should be fun .................................................................

Personally I think its wrong...Either you are looking to benefit your business or your looking for a personal piece. You cant have both, but if you are a companion you don't need to be on a dating site with your SP Photos.

The two publications at this link are part of a 3-year research project by Chris Bruckert at U of Ottawa and Tuulia Law, and a community advisory committee composed of Maggie's, POWER, Stella and Stepping Stone. "Rethinking Management in the Adult and Sex Industry" "Beyond Pimps, Procurers and Parasites: Mapping Third Parties in Incall/Outcall Sex Industry" Both of these are comprehensive, valuable publications, providing excellent summaries of the current laws related to prostitution in Canada as well as great analysis of the management models prostitutes use, including agencies, pimps, secretaries, booking agents, drivers and web designers.

Thought this was well worth sharing! Change Your Thinking It will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking.. Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. ... One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.. Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and colour of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every colour and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene. One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days, weeks and months passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.' Epilogue: There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations. Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled. If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy. 'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present .' The origin of this letter is unknown, but please pass it on. Share it with friends and tag them so the cycle continues ... Do not keep this letter ... You could change a life too ...See More

Lee only had to pay for half his stay last time he was in Ottawa. The other half was either in the hospital burn unit or in jail for lewd behaviour. He tried to explain to the police that he spilled coffee on his lap and that he was humping the female snowman to ease the burn. (in Lee's defence, that snowman did look kinda cute... in an inanimate object kinda way.) back to wardrobe.... orange glasses.... I'll set you up with a pair.

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A $40 tip!!

Whenever I am out and about and I see babies or toddlers that are happy-playful-excited..gets me every time, even when I am in the worst of moods.

I would not. The wonderful thing about this business, for both parties, is the NSA thing. When one of the parties has feelings..especially from the start..things could get complicated and uncomfortable..just not worth it in my opinion.

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Hey....just insert "spend" in front of money and that's me ! I quit corporate, I run my own show now, make very good money and found a most enjoyable way to spend :) I used the word hobby for lack of a better term but it is really not to me. It is also not a "lifestyle" either. It is just a part of my everyday life. It makes me a much happier person, I have developed some very nice connections, friendships spent time with some wonderful ladies and along the lines some great sex !! Cheers to sex everyone !!! :chug: It's pretty cool when both the guys and gals "look forward" to seeing each other. I think.

If you met him outside of this and now he wants to pay for your time, if I were in your situation, I would say no and sever ties. Not worth the hassle esp since there are so many great clients out there who don't want anything more.

Many ladies like to actually talk to a new client before meeting them, even if it's just a short call to get the final directions to her incall or something like that. Not all, but a lot do. One other thing to think about with cellphones: if you don't have a separate phone for your CERB-related activities, be VERY careful about what numbers and email addresses you put in it, even temporarily. Many apps now (Google, FB, others) are hugely aggressive about pillaging all the data they can from your phone and linking it up with other stuff; your email address-book will end up in your phone contacts, and then Facebook will take it and recommend friends for you... Any data that you put into your phone can very rapidly end up all over the place and possibly visible to other people, depending on how tight your security settings in various places are, and this can happen with no interaction from you. Caveat fornicator...

When people I care about say something sweet and unexpected. Rainbows on my walls from my crystals Hugs and unlimited love from a child Logging into CERB and seeing some of the posts that are made Taking time to snuggle under the covers before sleep and be thankful for my day....and also think some naughty thoughts to have good dreams!

making people smile and laugh because when they happy i'm happy:icon_smile:

I have to say, being a BBW myself, that your approach in this post may be taken more negatively than you intended. It's wonderful that you are either searching for us confident sexy providers or trying to bring attention to us however using the term heaviest adds labels that aren't in keeping with the sexy women we truly are. Just my opinion, others may disagree. Good luck in any case.

Completely unethical. You go on sites like CERB to seek out professional companions. Likewise, you would go on a dating site to seek dates. To me a SP marketing herself on a dating site is practicing bait and switch advertising. And there is no reason for an SP to advertise on a dating site. Seeing escorts is legal, and escort recommendation boards like CERB are legal. So why a SP would advertise on a dating site where the guys are looking for dates, not escorts, escapes me RG

I have to agree 100% with Emily in this one...

The first sip of Coffee in the morning A warm Sunshiny day Making someone else smile The small pleasures of Life make me Smile all the time!!

A simple but kind, thoughtful and unexpected gesture :) And of course, spending time with my friends, family and pets!

To me, it is everything. It has been a calling for many years although I never listened to it with my heart until recently. I love to give pleasure and to add something to those who see me. For those who truly enjoy what they do, it is an art form. There are so many ways to approach pleasure, seduction, sex and the tease and each one of us adds our own personality to the mix which makes it truly unique and personal. Not only that but to personalize it for the wonderful person we are spending our time with. This is far from a hobby even though the term hobbyist is used. There are friendships and relationships created within the confines of the lifestyle and those are just as vibrant and necessary as any other relationship. Sure, there are those who want a little thrill or enjoyment every now and then but I'm sure they appreciate what they are given. It's wonderful that so many on both sides of the lifestyle have embraced it and made it into the wonderful thing it is today even if old stigmas are still attached. Thankfully we have many wonderful activists, big and small, doing their part to adjust the perception directed at the lifestyle.

Well to me, seeing professional companions is not a hobby. How can intimate interpersonal relations be categorized as a hobby? Stamp collecting is a hobby. This is a lifestyle. And for me this lifestyle of seeing professional companions has taken the place of conventional dating. The ladies who are professional companions are very special. Giving of themselves, as has been said in other threads, body, mind and soul. Even on first meeting, treated like a boyfriend. Yes it is a art form, one only a very special lady can do. It is also a lifestyle I am glad I discovered. It filled a void when I gave up dating. The truth about this lifestyle is far different from the stereotype. It isn't about anonymous sexual encounters. It is a mutually beneficial lifestyle with no strings, no complications, with respect for one another. And seeing professional companions is every bit as fulfilling, to me that is, as was dating A rambling RG

A note from a friend, a post on my page, an exchange of pm's with someone new, or reconnecting with someone I haven't heard from in a while. It's all about friendship.

actually it was not a movie.., was real news LOL http://www.militaryphotos.net/forums/showthread.php?222523-Drunk-British-man-rapes-a-snowman Darn You got cought Lee.. LOL

Jenny's been away for so long that I guess it's not too surprising that she will be "fully occupied". Even when she's really busy, it's still great to see her on stage. Suppose some of us will have to be prepared to be patient.

congratulations I look forward in getting caught up with you postings

Congrats Tracie on reaching your first 100 post, keep them coming!

Recently I saw a movie called "what women want' and it was awesome to watch the see stars like Mel Gibson, Helen Hunt and Marissa Tomei give out such a splendid performance.

It can be both a hobby or art form to many people but to me and so many other people it can be also a way of satisfying one's physical needs and lust. It is a natural desire of human being to have sexual pleasure.

Re: Zoe I have seen her as well...worth the effort to see her. Loves what she does.

Assuming this friend is a client and has romantic feelings towards you that are not mutual, I would completely end whatever type of relationship you have going them. Why pretend to someone that you are interested in them in the bedroom esp when they have pursued you only to find out you don't want that? If it were me, I would find that extremely awkward and would have to sever all ties with them. If they end up just strictly paying you for your time, odds are they will wind up getting more attached and should you decline their offer of a relationship, there will be nothing but bitterness and you will be seen as a woman who was just using him for money even if it was just a business transaction. I've seen things like this happen and have always had to end the SP/customer relationship when I found people took more than a liking to me. I did not want to be put in an awkward situation or worse have some guy pursue me relentlesly when I was not reciprocal about it. Ehtically, you know someone has taken more than a liking to you and you don't want that. Why take his money now even if he insists? You do not want that being held over your head.

Thanks, Claire, for this inspiration. It's brilliant, and so appropriate.

A Steak sizzling on a barbeque Around Thanksgiving and Christmas, the smell of a Turkey cooking An apple pie or apple crisp cooking in the oven oh and the smell inside a Victoria's Secret store...but only because it is a stop to buy a gift before an encounter, and I associate the smell with meeting a lady later on in the evening. RG

Congratulations Tracie on your first 100 contributions. Looking forward to reading many more from you RG

Finding out I'm not getting screwed by the government in income tax, getting a good return this year. Hmmm might have to schedule another play date lol

Stampeders Sweet City Woman RG

I dropped in this week, new owners took over and the place re opened mid week. went Thursday night 6 or 7 dancers one was nearly touching the rafters with legs to her arm pits. Dropped in tonight very quiet, one other guy, but the bartender told me it's the first time they have ever been open on a Sunday. Played some pool and met Ivy another very very tall lady probably over 6' she is 6 and a half in her shoes. (I am 6'4") played some pool and got a few dances, those legs put everything at exactly the right height! And her ass was amazing, well she was amazing. Time will tell but everyone seemed very positive.

I was in the Fort Lauderdale are of Florida over Christmas just this last year. When I was there I decided to check out the MP scene. This was a family vacation so no alone time, but I thought I would try and find the equivalent of CERB while I was there. Most of the body-rub parlours down there, according to what I read, offer table showers for one reason: To weed out law enforcement. The routine seems to be: Pay the nice lady at the door, choose your attendant, get naked, lie down on the table for your shower, and then discuss any extras. Seems it's harder for naked undercover officers to make charges stick down there.

I think most men suffer from low self esteem. But lucky for us the Cerb woman can see beyond our physical looks and provide us with a experience of affection and sensual pleasure. I think they can see beyond our physical appearance and see our inner beauty. That is why I enjoy being with women from Cerb. Thanks again to women of Cerb for being so loving and caring. xoxoxoxox to all of you.

Just wondering if (after your one month free trial) you did decide to go with it? I have long felt that the 2-Factor authentication and the bottomless inbox size combined with all the other nifty features makes it the perfect solution for anyone but particularly SPs (or clients) who don't need their email hacked and the confidential information therein compromised. It also seems more "professional" to have email from your own domain name as opposed to simple gmail, hotmail, yahoo, etc.

When my clients walk away happy. :)

Arriving home from a tour, finding a clean house, flowers on the table and three happy cats.

Has a really hot new duo partner :D

i do have a fantasie it envolves messages, kissing head to toe, just wild sex and then the kinky part that envolves me penatrating her nice ass and a strap on penatrating her vergina and having a go. i think it will be a big turn on to me anyway. i'm weird