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It's only reasonable that a SP could fall for a client. SPs are, after all, human. If the SP puts a stop to seeing you as a client, the reason may well be because the relationship between the two of you has grown to a point where it is putting at risk that element of self-control and self-discipline your SP must have in order to make a livelihood. And that, as everyone should understand, needs to come first. Be grateful that you had the privilege of having shared some great moments with this person, and be graceful. Accept that she is not ready to take it to the next level and that for now at least, your relationship with her, such as it was, has ended. Consent is EVERYTHING. If this person wants you back in her life, she'll let you know.

Their privacy maybe............. We are not on a dating site here...An SP refering to herself at the third person in a Ad is simply using a different writing style to promote herself. Using offensive language will certainly not get you a date with a high CLASS escort. Oh well since we got your word, it must be true then! No seriously, there are many SP offering bbbj, but if you come with the "I'm a virgin" excuse to those who don't, you will not be considered as a potential client.

I must say that I am a bit irked that the perception exists that if a provider does not show her face then she has something to hide. I choose not to show my face as I do not wish to intermingle my private and professional lives. Not deceitful at all nor does it make me any less of a provider than those who do show their faces. Anyhow, do your research, read reviews and begin communicating with those providers who interest you. Ultimately, you and your intuition should be able to determine which beautiful lady will rock you world! Best of luck.

To address your first point, its not only sps bashing one another some of those bashers are men as well. I had my share and spent a lot on a lawyer to find out who, what, when, where . With some success:). Yes I do know who was posting stupidity, because that's what it boils down to, but now what? Because I can go into court and charge these freaks for bullying, slander, and other actions if I chose, but then the probability of the nonsense being played out in the news and not to mention the huge cost justified my decision to let the freaks be. I knew before hand who one was:) Anyway, most level headed people realize that type of posting is done out of jealousy, stupidity and other nonsensical actions:) and is to be ignored, as the many supportive emails I received attested. Sadly though its not only that site that houses people like that as a couple of them are here:) But to more positive points, as far as asking questions concerning testing, I wouldn't mind being asked, and would answer that I do get regular checkups. However that doesn't prove you are sti free and by that I mean I , you, he, she, could contract something the day, or two or three before your test and that wouldn't show on that report. When anyone has more than one partner they have a greater risk of contracting something, it only takes one time with one person. So when hobbying and providing you have to use common sense, safety and know that its a possibility, just as when driving a car, you have the possibility of being hit, or being in an accident, you just have to drive witth care:) Most of us know when someone is asking a question out of concern, politeness and with seriousness:)so when that happens and I have that feeling I don't mind answering.

Here is the discussion that was already ongoing on this topic...good info here! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=135892

Hi jumpinm, Cerb definitely offers a better level of discourse, doesn't it? As for your question, I think this is one of those topics where actions speak louder than words. I wouldn't presume to speak for everyone, but it strikes me that asking an SP about their testing habits is more likely to insult than impress. Instead, read someone's recommendations, message back and forth a bit, do some research. Your impression from that is likely to tell you much more than a question about testing habits. It seems to me unlikely that anyone is going to straightforward answer that no, they aren't safe, or know and admit they're positive for something. And as Summer points out, a test is only valid until the next encounter. Given this, what does asking the question actually gain you? In the end protecting yourself is more about you choosing to engage in safe sex practices. And of course hobbyists shouldn't assume that testing is only something SP's should get done. There's a thread you might be interested in where people discussed questions not to ask an SP, and I think this one popped up a few times in it: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=97946

Just had another great experience, this time with the japanese Horiso at moonbay. She was really nice, lots of dfk, bbbj, rimming, and body licks. Oh yeah and lots of Dfk. That part was so awesome. She had very full lips and very sexy eyes. Very nice body and a great set of natural boobs with amazing nipples Her skin was super soft and her ass was amazing. Wow. I also wish I had booked more time because she is amazing at giving massage. Wow. She really knew what she was doing. If you have the time and money I promise it is most def worth it. She is really sweet and I hope to see her again before she leaves.

So, I have decided that I need to get stuff in my life sorted out and in line for what I want to do in the future. That doesn't mean that I am totally giving up on this wonderful game we all play but I am taking a break. I am making this post because I want to go out with a bang. I will for the next while take recommendations and comprise a list of top two or three ladies I need to see before getting out. So tell me who I really need to see guys! Thanks for your input in advance

I know there are a lot of people here with amazing taste in music from all genres. I have recently found a tune that I love and am looking to build a playlist around. Finding like minded songs is the difficult part so I'm asking your help to make some suggestions. It takes me hours and days to build a new list and I would much rather focus on what this song makes me want to do. Thanks to anyone who gives a listen!

Curing life threatening illnesses. Pharmaceutical companies making billions off those who have cancer. It wouldn't surprise me if there was a cure at this moment but instead, greed takes priority over another person's life.

Absolutely I am giving up DATY ! I am also gonna watch Gone With the Wind instead of porn, quit my job, buy a car with no motor, order hamburgers with no buns, pizza with no crust, eat brussel sprouts instead of greasy bacon, drink mint tea instead of large amounts of beer and wear a speedo and flip flops to my cousins wedding next week instead of my suit ;) or..... I could continue living life and loving oral sex !!!!

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Welcome. That's a nice way (not unlike mine) of looking at it. But here are a couple of things you need to check yourself before you see anyone. A great deal. I won't make any assumptions about your background or how accepting the people around you are, but even in our so called liberal society, we're a very sex negative society. And paying for it?!? Well shit, you must be so butt ugly and undesirable, and the girl must be so desperate for drugs that something like this goes on. <- Unfortunately, that's a common assumption people make about this industry. We are far from treating this industry like any other. And even though most, if not all the men and women here are happy with their circumstance, and enjoy it thoroughly, very few people here have the lucky privilege of having family and/or friends that are completely accepting of what they do. Hence the privacy. I recommend taking a softer approach to finding out the ins and outs of the industry before making assumtions. There are women who offer blowjob without condom (bare back blowjob or bbbj), and some that allow you to complete in their mouth, and some that will even swallow. That is for the lady to decide her comfort level, and while there are some that will advertise all these services, if they see/smell anything off with your dick, say goodbye to all those blowjob fantasies. And another thing you need to remember, there are many people who lie here. You know you're a virgin, you know that you're clean, but for all that matters to an escort is that you're another client, and the exact same precautions need to be taken. Imagine how dangerous it would be to you if the escort you do eventually see just accepts at face value that you're a virgin, would that not make you suspicious that she might have given some allowances to another client that made the same assertion, whether or not it's true. You seem to have so valid reasons for wanting to see an escort, but before you do, please check out the many threads on how to approach your first appointment, how to get in touch with one, etc. And check out the reviews, I know you want your first time to be special, and would like to find someone you are attracted to, hence the face request, but reviews can give you an extremely good assessment of a lady's physical beauty. I can tell you, I have always stuck with well reviewed ladies, and have found all of them to be nothing short of stunning.

I have had 6 or 7 sp's in love with me. Once two of them were literally fighting each other for my attention. The worst part is when the alarm clock wakes me up!

Beat me to the punch! Yes, Redseductress is really in a class all her own. And yes, she really does love to perform and it shows! :D Other equally awesome choices (in my humble opinion) are SaraMQ, MalikaFantasy (occasionally travels to Ottawa) and CleoCatra. In my experience you really can't go wrong with any of these 4 ladies and their love of the act is unparalleled! I haven't yet met Emily J, Layah, Alexxxis (aka: xXxAxXx), Rosalie, or Berlin but I have only read good things about their skills. One thing to keep in mind though, when it comes to "best of" type threads....everything is subjective. What is considered "The perfect bj" for one person, might be "the worst bj" for another. But I have yet to read anything negative about these ladies' skills in this department.

Just because Michael Douglas is a celebrity, doesn't mean he's right! lol

Those who know me well, know this is my favorite activity. Rest assured, this hobbyist will not be giving it up anytime soon. E.

I want to thank all you for sharing some of your stories and experiences. This message board has been a god send for me over the last several months. This thread in particular has opened my eyes and helped me realize that I'm not the fucked up nut job I thought I was. Yes, we are all human, and we can be complex creatures at times. Thanks again.

The only person's sexual health to worry about is your own JMHO but it is rude to ask a lady about her testing and whether she is D&D free just as it would be rude for a lady to ask a prospective client if he gets tested and is D&D free Funny do these issues get raised as much in the civilian dating world,or in marriage/CL relationships...likely no yet STIs/STDs exist in the civilian world and likely an equal risk there too RG

Yes, it does happen, absolutely. Especially when that connection can be so tempting to pursue. This business may be a pleasure industry but you are dealing with humans who have or can develop feelings for other like-mindedly amazing people. It just sucks when it can't go anywhere. I know it hurts, but believe me, she was trying to do you both a favour. Be extra nice to yourself for a while. Spoil yourself for being so damn charming! ;-)

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During my visits to Ottawa, I've had the pleasure to visit Sexxy Rebecca. She is definitely one of the top in this category. I haven't met Alexxis yet but hope to soon.

I know I'm early on this by a couple posts but I couldn't wait! Nicolette, you are a cornerstone in this community. You are amazingly beautiful and up front and so very enjoyable in so many ways. Your candor and honesty have made me smile on more than one occasion and I know for a fact that many others feel the same way. Thank you for sharing of yourself to those of us who have not (nor might ever) have the pleasure of your actual company. You make us feel closer!! Thank you and looking forward to many more ABC's and never ending support!

The world is not perfect, society isn't perfect, rules and regulation aren't perfect. We as human beings are far from perfect. If you could change anything in the world may it be big, small, personal or in general what would it be? For starters I would change a regular work week mon-thur I hate working Fridays.

As stated by PatrickGC, I would do away with money in its entirety because it has done nothing but cause problems since its inception. Maybe we should take a more maternal and human approach and help one another. Even though it would never happen, just think, what would this world be like if everything was free? Rent, mortgage, food, medicine, entertainment, etc?

I like the sun coming through the window and candlelight.

Hi there Gentleman I am 5'4, 115LBS. I have dark brown hair and dark chocolate eyes, my cup size is 32DD and I have a fit sexy body. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=7257&pictureid=46989 I assure you that our little time spent together will be warm, inviting and pleasurable. I know the importance of privacy and confidentiality. Everything that goes on in our session together will be our little secret ;) You can find me this week at Paradise located in the WEST End of Ottawa. Tuesday June 04th from 2:30 to 9pm Wednesday June 5th from 9 to 4pm Thanks Jade xo

I knocked over a full bag of cat treats and they scattered EVERYWHERE. My cat was losing her shit. I was cleaning them up as fast as she was eating them. I just put them back in the bag, dust and all, because I thought to myself, this is a cat that eats her own puke sometimes, what's a little dirt?

Cato, thanks for your efforts on these hottie threads! Some of us here appreciate them!

Thank you for visiting my personal profile. My companionship is well-suited for distinguished clientele who prefer confidentiality and privacy. You will find me a rare, special blend of exquisite beauty, integrity, and solid character. I am well-educated, articulate, genuinely kind, and possess a great sense of humor. I am also ultra-sophisticated, extremely feminine and posses a down to earth charm. I believe in treating people with dignity and respect, as this is very important to me. Taking extreme pride in my body and appearance, I am always impeccably groomed and dressed for any occasion. Most of all, I believe beauty comes from within then shines through on the outside. These qualities are paramount to a true exclusive luxury companion. I prefer to spend time with a very selective, mature man who enjoys a woman with an effervescent personality. I don't take anything for granted that life has to offer. :rockyou: I am a soft-spoken, passionate, and sensual woman who possesses a mixture of incredible sex appeal combined with a charismatic personality. I strive to put you at ease in any situation and this will be evident when you meet me. I enjoy intellectual conversation and laughter. If you are an affluent, distinguished gentleman who prefers a lady with a great attitude and demeanor, and who also enjoys quality over quantity, then I am for you. I like to kiss slowly, forgive quickly, laugh easily, and enjoy every moment to it's fullest. I have a very warm and caring personality that will make you feel like we've known each other for years. I have a college education and can appreciate intelligent conversation. I believe that intelligence, humor, wit, self-confidence (somewhat humbly so), resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn are incredibly important qualities to have and share so I tend to gravitate toward those who possess them as well. I would like to think that I'm the kind of woman who can awaken passion and stimulate the imagination. And I can only hope that others enjoy my company, as much as I will appreciate theirs. :milleunenuit: HERE UNTIL 9pm :shehot:

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I have to say, I have been taught all my life to be early, as it is impolite to be late, so not being early goes against my life teachings but I understand the need for punctuality in this business and will govern myself accordingly.

....it seems to happen in the movies - anyone remember "Pretty Woman?" well, welcome to the real world! I've been around and yes, it has happened. I've also seen a lot of women have their time wasted by someone who was not sincere and who just was tired of paying for company. it will happen & the relationship will last if the guy is honest & does have genuine feelings for the woman, if he is generous, helpful & treats the lady right. (and vice versa) today's "customers" complain about being broke, hating their job, having no job, seem to really resent paying for company, etc. -- so it gives one the impression the guy is looking for sympathy and hoping to score a meal ticket or be rescued by a "rich" woman. for women that are not rich (& even those that are) this is hardly a turn on & not someone you are likely to develop feelings for.

Omg.......there is no right question and answer. It's not like Star Trek where none of us have gone where no man has gone before. Research, trust, and CERB. On top of that, play safe and smart. I liken this lifestyle to flying a plane. The instructor has as much to lose as you......their life.

Congrats on a huge milestone! Keep em cumming ;)

Marvin Gaye - What's Going On http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ph0aELhsQoc By the way, this is a rare live version of Marvin singing at the Motown Anniversary. It shows what a fantastic singer he is... his range, expressiveness, tone, smooth to raspy, improvising on the melody. When I close my eyes and dream that I can sing (I can't :( ) this is what I'd want to sound like. Robbie Robertson - Show Down at Big Sky Bruce Cockburn - If I Had A Rocket Launcher Bruce Cockburn - It's Going Down Slow Bob Marley - War/No More Trouble

I would like to change how people drive. Geez so many bad driver out there, make me wonder how on earth did the pass their drivers licence.

It is VERY common on either side that when emotions become involved, the person with the emotions steps back to provide some breathing room to give clarity to what they're feeling. Unfortunately the only advice I can give you is to deal with your own feelings of losing someone you considered a friend. You have to respect the wishes of the SP to step back. At this point there is no way to maintain a professional relationship. That doesn't mean that might night change. Feelings change and if she realizes that what she was feeling is different than what she thought, she may open that door again. I wouldn't count on it but it's always a possibility. I assume feelings are not mutual because of your comment so maybe take a look at other SP's and find one that interests you. Good luck, it's not an easy situation to have to deal with.

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I would love to have this section option in NB...should I PM MOD and ask? We have a terriable problem around here with this, and seems to sneak into our dicusions much too often.

From the movies my first was Claudia Cardinale followed by Bridget Bardoe then Raquel welch and the incredible Catherine Deneuve ! on tv Elley May clampet, Jeanne and the first Married woman to ever get a rise Samantha,s on bewitched ! plus her hot "cousin" Serena lol

In terms of creativity I've thought that Emily's use of her toys to be quite cute and creative. Although I'm a little concerned about the big black one down in the left corner. Yikes! Additional Comments: Here's another one from Nathalie Lefebvre and her vintage black and white album. The cropping of the photo to just show the delicious curve of her bottom and arch of her back combine for a fantastic erotic image. Additional Comments: Another picture that I've always felt was a beautiful image was this photo of LolaCherie. The lighting is soft and natural and evokes the sense that this was a picture that was taken without her knowing. However, the smouldering sideways glance and her face framed by her arm combine for a very sensual image.

Our own sexy JessicaMassage: She has several pictures :) These two don't really have reflections, but they do have mirrors. And they are a pleasure to the eyes :)

Miss Cleo Catra .... Meow baby Meow :)

Go Fishing! Be that "anonymous" donor Have a property that produces it's own power, crops and such. And Zombie proof of course

Just one change: rewire the human brain to remove the common, petty human instinct for tribalism. "Us vs. them." "My stuff is better than your stuff." "Our sports team is better than their sports team." "Our city is better than their city." "Our country is better than their country." "Our religion is better than your religion." If you step back and consider the planet as a whole, these things all look so trivial and ridiculous. We could accomplish so much more if we started working on shared goals, and treated all human beings as part our own very extended family.

In my case, it's a bit different... I am recently out of a 17 year relashionship. I do not in any way want to even date right now, or any time soon. Still have needs to fill... and to be honest, most of the girls I have met are nicer, more affectionate and just plain more fun then I have had in my life!

The white shirt...