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It's only reasonable that a SP could fall for a client. SPs are, after all, human. If the SP puts a stop to seeing you as a client, the reason may well be because the relationship between the two of you has grown to a point where it is putting at risk that element of self-control and self-discipline your SP must have in order to make a livelihood. And that, as everyone should understand, needs to come first. Be grateful that you had the privilege of having shared some great moments with this person, and be graceful. Accept that she is not ready to take it to the next level and that for now at least, your relationship with her, such as it was, has ended. Consent is EVERYTHING. If this person wants you back in her life, she'll let you know.

Their privacy maybe............. We are not on a dating site here...An SP refering to herself at the third person in a Ad is simply using a different writing style to promote herself. Using offensive language will certainly not get you a date with a high CLASS escort. Oh well since we got your word, it must be true then! No seriously, there are many SP offering bbbj, but if you come with the "I'm a virgin" excuse to those who don't, you will not be considered as a potential client.

I must say that I am a bit irked that the perception exists that if a provider does not show her face then she has something to hide. I choose not to show my face as I do not wish to intermingle my private and professional lives. Not deceitful at all nor does it make me any less of a provider than those who do show their faces. Anyhow, do your research, read reviews and begin communicating with those providers who interest you. Ultimately, you and your intuition should be able to determine which beautiful lady will rock you world! Best of luck.

To address your first point, its not only sps bashing one another some of those bashers are men as well. I had my share and spent a lot on a lawyer to find out who, what, when, where . With some success:). Yes I do know who was posting stupidity, because that's what it boils down to, but now what? Because I can go into court and charge these freaks for bullying, slander, and other actions if I chose, but then the probability of the nonsense being played out in the news and not to mention the huge cost justified my decision to let the freaks be. I knew before hand who one was:) Anyway, most level headed people realize that type of posting is done out of jealousy, stupidity and other nonsensical actions:) and is to be ignored, as the many supportive emails I received attested. Sadly though its not only that site that houses people like that as a couple of them are here:) But to more positive points, as far as asking questions concerning testing, I wouldn't mind being asked, and would answer that I do get regular checkups. However that doesn't prove you are sti free and by that I mean I , you, he, she, could contract something the day, or two or three before your test and that wouldn't show on that report. When anyone has more than one partner they have a greater risk of contracting something, it only takes one time with one person. So when hobbying and providing you have to use common sense, safety and know that its a possibility, just as when driving a car, you have the possibility of being hit, or being in an accident, you just have to drive witth care:) Most of us know when someone is asking a question out of concern, politeness and with seriousness:)so when that happens and I have that feeling I don't mind answering.

Here is the discussion that was already ongoing on this topic...good info here! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=135892

Hi jumpinm, Cerb definitely offers a better level of discourse, doesn't it? As for your question, I think this is one of those topics where actions speak louder than words. I wouldn't presume to speak for everyone, but it strikes me that asking an SP about their testing habits is more likely to insult than impress. Instead, read someone's recommendations, message back and forth a bit, do some research. Your impression from that is likely to tell you much more than a question about testing habits. It seems to me unlikely that anyone is going to straightforward answer that no, they aren't safe, or know and admit they're positive for something. And as Summer points out, a test is only valid until the next encounter. Given this, what does asking the question actually gain you? In the end protecting yourself is more about you choosing to engage in safe sex practices. And of course hobbyists shouldn't assume that testing is only something SP's should get done. There's a thread you might be interested in where people discussed questions not to ask an SP, and I think this one popped up a few times in it: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=97946

Just had another great experience, this time with the japanese Horiso at moonbay. She was really nice, lots of dfk, bbbj, rimming, and body licks. Oh yeah and lots of Dfk. That part was so awesome. She had very full lips and very sexy eyes. Very nice body and a great set of natural boobs with amazing nipples Her skin was super soft and her ass was amazing. Wow. I also wish I had booked more time because she is amazing at giving massage. Wow. She really knew what she was doing. If you have the time and money I promise it is most def worth it. She is really sweet and I hope to see her again before she leaves.

So, I have decided that I need to get stuff in my life sorted out and in line for what I want to do in the future. That doesn't mean that I am totally giving up on this wonderful game we all play but I am taking a break. I am making this post because I want to go out with a bang. I will for the next while take recommendations and comprise a list of top two or three ladies I need to see before getting out. So tell me who I really need to see guys! Thanks for your input in advance

I know there are a lot of people here with amazing taste in music from all genres. I have recently found a tune that I love and am looking to build a playlist around. Finding like minded songs is the difficult part so I'm asking your help to make some suggestions. It takes me hours and days to build a new list and I would much rather focus on what this song makes me want to do. Thanks to anyone who gives a listen!

Curing life threatening illnesses. Pharmaceutical companies making billions off those who have cancer. It wouldn't surprise me if there was a cure at this moment but instead, greed takes priority over another person's life.

Absolutely I am giving up DATY ! I am also gonna watch Gone With the Wind instead of porn, quit my job, buy a car with no motor, order hamburgers with no buns, pizza with no crust, eat brussel sprouts instead of greasy bacon, drink mint tea instead of large amounts of beer and wear a speedo and flip flops to my cousins wedding next week instead of my suit ;) or..... I could continue living life and loving oral sex !!!!

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Welcome. That's a nice way (not unlike mine) of looking at it. But here are a couple of things you need to check yourself before you see anyone. A great deal. I won't make any assumptions about your background or how accepting the people around you are, but even in our so called liberal society, we're a very sex negative society. And paying for it?!? Well shit, you must be so butt ugly and undesirable, and the girl must be so desperate for drugs that something like this goes on. <- Unfortunately, that's a common assumption people make about this industry. We are far from treating this industry like any other. And even though most, if not all the men and women here are happy with their circumstance, and enjoy it thoroughly, very few people here have the lucky privilege of having family and/or friends that are completely accepting of what they do. Hence the privacy. I recommend taking a softer approach to finding out the ins and outs of the industry before making assumtions. There are women who offer blowjob without condom (bare back blowjob or bbbj), and some that allow you to complete in their mouth, and some that will even swallow. That is for the lady to decide her comfort level, and while there are some that will advertise all these services, if they see/smell anything off with your dick, say goodbye to all those blowjob fantasies. And another thing you need to remember, there are many people who lie here. You know you're a virgin, you know that you're clean, but for all that matters to an escort is that you're another client, and the exact same precautions need to be taken. Imagine how dangerous it would be to you if the escort you do eventually see just accepts at face value that you're a virgin, would that not make you suspicious that she might have given some allowances to another client that made the same assertion, whether or not it's true. You seem to have so valid reasons for wanting to see an escort, but before you do, please check out the many threads on how to approach your first appointment, how to get in touch with one, etc. And check out the reviews, I know you want your first time to be special, and would like to find someone you are attracted to, hence the face request, but reviews can give you an extremely good assessment of a lady's physical beauty. I can tell you, I have always stuck with well reviewed ladies, and have found all of them to be nothing short of stunning.

I have had 6 or 7 sp's in love with me. Once two of them were literally fighting each other for my attention. The worst part is when the alarm clock wakes me up!

Beat me to the punch! Yes, Redseductress is really in a class all her own. And yes, she really does love to perform and it shows! :D Other equally awesome choices (in my humble opinion) are SaraMQ, MalikaFantasy (occasionally travels to Ottawa) and CleoCatra. In my experience you really can't go wrong with any of these 4 ladies and their love of the act is unparalleled! I haven't yet met Emily J, Layah, Alexxxis (aka: xXxAxXx), Rosalie, or Berlin but I have only read good things about their skills. One thing to keep in mind though, when it comes to "best of" type threads....everything is subjective. What is considered "The perfect bj" for one person, might be "the worst bj" for another. But I have yet to read anything negative about these ladies' skills in this department.

Just because Michael Douglas is a celebrity, doesn't mean he's right! lol

Those who know me well, know this is my favorite activity. Rest assured, this hobbyist will not be giving it up anytime soon. E.

I want to thank all you for sharing some of your stories and experiences. This message board has been a god send for me over the last several months. This thread in particular has opened my eyes and helped me realize that I'm not the fucked up nut job I thought I was. Yes, we are all human, and we can be complex creatures at times. Thanks again.

The only person's sexual health to worry about is your own JMHO but it is rude to ask a lady about her testing and whether she is D&D free just as it would be rude for a lady to ask a prospective client if he gets tested and is D&D free Funny do these issues get raised as much in the civilian dating world,or in marriage/CL relationships...likely no yet STIs/STDs exist in the civilian world and likely an equal risk there too RG

Yes, it does happen, absolutely. Especially when that connection can be so tempting to pursue. This business may be a pleasure industry but you are dealing with humans who have or can develop feelings for other like-mindedly amazing people. It just sucks when it can't go anywhere. I know it hurts, but believe me, she was trying to do you both a favour. Be extra nice to yourself for a while. Spoil yourself for being so damn charming! ;-)

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During my visits to Ottawa, I've had the pleasure to visit Sexxy Rebecca. She is definitely one of the top in this category. I haven't met Alexxis yet but hope to soon.

I just flung peanut butter onto my curtains because I was dancing with the knife in my hand. Okay, now post some of your own silly bloopers.

I got flowers from sweet girl today:) Well ok she's only 5 and they were dandelions but it was cute and funny.

A dress, a jeans, a t-shirt, a tailleur, fashion is a matter of taste and anything can be sexy, it all depends on the way you wear it. And after all, the best in fashion is when this happens....

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I'm including a previous thread from two other members who were candid enough to share their experiences. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=89049 The ladies of CERB do not participate in B&S scams and those who do are generally caught. The MOD"s here are serious about keeping this a safe and sane place for everyone. Most ladies here are in the business seriously and have good business standards and practices. Having said that, some do not show their face because they have lives separate from their professional lives and do not wish the two to cross. Some have other jobs, family who wouldn't understand or numerous reasons. Not showing their faces is a legitimate choice for them. If, to you, this is not acceptable, you will need to research those who fall into your guidelines. Please do not judge people on whether they would show their face or not. I'm not sure you would want your face posted so everyone knows you're a hobbist. You must be new to CERB and not have explored much of this site. The ladies place ads here to titillate and excite and we like to get a little creative. Just because it is written differently does not mean there is a pimp involved. Research reco's, profiles and talk to other hobbyists. You will gain more insight and better information this way. Most ladies here have recos' and participate in some way. As for a photo of the occasion, you will have to speak to specific ladies and ask them. Many would not allow this to happen for their own safety. Pictures are proof that could end up anywhere and be used in many ways that are not acceptable. Again, ask! BBBJ again are the preference of the lady, so ask. Only YOU can determine who you are attracted to and whether they meet your needs. Communication is key. I will offer one small piece of advice based on your thread, some of what you said comes off rather judgmental and negative. Most ladies here are wonderful with newcomers and with new to sex partners as well. They are welcoming, warm and have your best interests at heart. Talk to people, start conversations, ask questions and above all, make sure this is the right route for you. Read threads on what makes a good client and be that person. Good luck with your search

So I am pretty sure most other CERB members here also browse a few other more anonymous sites to see the local postings. I noticed on one of those sites recently the immaturity of a few ladies who bash each other on the regular... A few of the comments started talking about STIs and one even seemed to post as a fake client saying they picked up an STI from one of the girls... anyway, that is not my question. I am wondering from all that drama, what is appropriate to ask or expect of a SP with regards to their STI testing and other precautions they take? I know someone is going to post that you should ask what you want to know and if they won't answer, then don't see them, but from an SP perspective, if someone asks, are you offended? are you happy they are being cautious? Would you even bring a test result if someone asked you to prove your last test? This entire SP world is pretty mysterious to most of us, so I am just looking for some thoughts from SPs (and also hobbiests) about what seems to me like a mostly unspoken area of the encounter. Thanks

The purpose of this game is to find pictures within the cerb site of women and reflections of themselves in the mirror. Just a reason to go thru albums for fun. It's like looking for Waldo :) Here are some of EmilyJ's pictures:

Also it depends on what you consider to be the "quality of hotness" of these girls? If you're after girls that have big implants, and platinum hair, then yes The Mate won't compare to Pigales. But there are a lot more "natural" girls here.

I'm not insulted at being asked. It does however, give me a clue into the type of person they are. The responses I usually get when I ask them when they were last tested is usually "well, I don't need to get tested, my girlfriend got tested last week, and she's clean, so I don't need to be tested" or "I don't have any symptoms, so I know I'm good to go". Usually those that say these things will also add "I don't like condoms, so can we do it bare back?". Great pre-screening in my opinion.

Definitely warm sunbeams through an open window. Like to be able to see everything .....but no need to be under a spotlight. Other factors like weather,time of day etc. don't matter much at all for me. The time/weather is always right....

For those on the run who may not have time to read everything I've copied below, I'll cut to the chase. The Oral Cancer Foundation states "We wish to be clear. Infection with even a high risk HPV virus does not mean that you will develop oral cancer. Most people's immune systems will clear the infection before a malignancy has the opportunity to occur." Michael Douglas is correct that there is a growing relationship between HPV and oral cancer. However he's incorrect in stating that it's likely to be the cause of his cancer. Michael Douglas' greatest risk factors were smoking, alcohol and age. For those under 50, HPV may be replacing tobacco as the leading risk factor. However, only about 1% of those infected with HPV will develop cancer. ________________________________________________________________ The following quotes are taken from The Oral Cancer Foundation, which advocates for research, patient support and public education. "Tobacco use in all its forms is number one on the list of risk factors in individuals over 50. Historically at least 75% of those diagnosed at 50 and older have been tobacco users... When you combine tobacco with heavy use of alcohol, your risk is significantly increased, as the two act synergistically (together). Those who both smoke and drink, have a 15 times greater risk of developing oral cancer than others." "Historically the majority of people are over the age of 40 at the time of discovery, it is now occurring more frequently in those under this age. Exact causes for those affected at a younger age are now becoming clearer in peer reviewed research, revealing a viral etiology (cause), the human papilloma virus number 16." "It is the foundation's belief, based on recent revelations in peer reviewed published data in the last few years, that in people under the age of 50, HPV16 may even be replacing tobacco as the primary causative agent in the initiation of the disease process." "The human papilloma virus, particularly HPV16, has been definitively implicated in oral cancers, particularly those that occur in the back of the mouth... HPV is a common, sexually transmitted virus, which infects about 40 million Americans today. There are over 130 strains of HPV, the majority of which are thought to be harmless. Most Americans will have some version of HPV in their lifetimes, and even be exposed to the oncogenic / cancer causing versions of it. But only approximately 1% of those infected, have a lack of immune response to the HPV16 strain which is a primary causative agent in cervical cancer (with HPV18 ), cancers of the anus and penis, and now is a known cause of oral cancer as well... It does not appear that the HPV16 viral cause acts synergistically (together) with tobacco or alcohol...HPV16 represents a completely unique and independent disease process." "So we wish to be clear. Infection with even a high risk HPV virus does not mean that you will develop oral cancer. Most people's immune systems will clear the infection before a malignancy has the opportunity to occur. It is likely that the changes in sexual behaviors of young adults over the last few decades, and which are continuing today, are increasing the spread of HPV, and the oncogenic (cancerous) versions of it."

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It' was a tie for me back in the 70's between Yvonne Craig as Bat Girl or Debbie Harry from Blondie both where always present in my mind and pasted to my my walls!

Just thought I would post an opinion from the married guys. I prefer no scent at all for obvious reasons as it becomes a little hard to explain why you have eau de? on your person after a long day at work. I generally ask the sp for ltd to 0 scent prior to our meeting. Hopefully a shower is available just in case to erase the evidence. I want to continue this hobby as long as possible and avoiding unwanted scents is important for this purpose. Thanks for asking.

Katrine Cannon, she sure looks great in the mirror :)

Ottawa's own Gina :) A nicely framed portrait of a beautiful woman :) I like the way the doorway frames the picture.

And Kellyxo has these pictures that are very sexy: Nice Landscape picture. Can you see the flowers behind the body :) And her newest post, Nice colours in this portrait :)

I came across this set by Maison Close and thought of Genevieve: Unfortunately it's an older collection, but the Belle de Nuit collection is nice, too.: http://www.maison-close.com/collection-belle-de-nuit/

Jeans.... forever

I actually want to add a BIG thank you to all the members who have started posting quality posts. In the last 24 hours I have seen 10 times more moderated (new member) posts and a lot of good quality comments coming in! So to all those who are sharing and contributing thank you. I know I am venting a little as it upset me with the people complaining. I felt I missed the most important part of this and that was to thank all the people who needed the push to post and have started to join in the conversations and community. Welcome.

I do not know who invented that, but the "thong" bring something quite interesting to fashion.

The biggest things I hate being asked..... Do you live alone? You then start thinking, am I going to have some stalker watching my every move? I understand the question "are we going to be alone", but to ask a personal question about my private life is none of your business. Do you have any STD's? Can I do you bareback then? As I dont have any STD's, I certainly will not do bareback, especially with someone I have never met before. That is why I DONT have any STD's. Because I will not do bareback with guys who are willing to take a stupid chance with someone they dont know, especially in this business. Especially when they say they are clean and you ask them when the last time they were tested, and they say never, I just know I am clean. Well, I go for regular testing to make sure I am clean, why wont you?

I've never understood a lower rate for oral only, maybe some ladies' mindset is different, but it seems to me that oral is more intimate than vaginal in a lot of ways. I've known women (on a personal basis, not pay-for-play) who don't want to receive oral until they knew me better - too intimate, they said, though who knows. Anyway, IMHO, asking to pay less for oral only is just being cheap, or its someone who is used to quick and dirty street prostitution in their car. Not judging, just sayin...

Strange title: you may want to consider writing Has anyone met Autumn next time... Best, toine

i pay my accountant by the hour - i pay my lawyer by the hour -i pay my house cleaner by the hour- all professionals -why would your services be any different- except more enjoyable