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It's now been 24 days that I have stopped smoking... I have been thinking about quiting for a long time but any smoker will know that we need that extra motivation. Well I was so sick that I gave myself a good kick in the butt.... I don't miss the taste or the smell but the habit is hard to get ride of... If you have stopped smoking, what kept you away from it and kept you motivated. I need some positive comments to keep me going... Bring it on cerbies! Bianca

I love swimming and do it 4-5 times/week. Each session lasts between 30 minutes to 1 hour, it is a great exercise. My rule is to go anyway, even if the weather is awful, if I am tired or if I feel a bit under the weather. In those moments I just do what I can do at my pace. And yes, the sauna afterwards is a delightful reward ;-) The idea of exercising changed for me the day I decided that I would enjoy working out, that I would not do it to lose weight or to look better but for my well-being only, physical and mental, and that I would no longer follow programs that would make me sweat like crazy as if I were in a boot camp.

Carnal [kahr-nl] adjective 1. pertaining to or characterized by the flesh or the body, its passions and appetites; sensual carnal pleasures. 2. not spiritual; merely human; temporal; worldly: a man of secular, rather carnal, leanings. Cuddle [kuhd-l] verb 1. to hold close in an affectionate manner; hug tenderly; fondle. 2. to lie close and snug; nestle. noun 3.act of cuddling; hug; embrace. www.SweetEmilyJ.com

Sew weave clip inside near the temples and behind where your ears would be at the nape of the neck. They are about 60 cents at any beauty supply, tiny combs about the size of a looney. Should sit nice and snug then...

Receiving a four hands massage (female and male hands) under a warm rain, not far away from a beach to hear the sound of the gentle waves breaking, and smelling the delicate perfume of Angel's Trumpets floating in the air... Of course, this massage leads to some other wonderful pleasures. I am ordering it for Christmas :-) Your turn... http://www.tropicalfloridagardens.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/angels-trumpet-peach.jpg

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There are people who offer a cuddling service that is not a code or euphemism for anything else. It's honest to goodness fully clothed cuddling. The fact is that physical touch is surprisingly uncommon these days. Yeah, some of us may hug our friends - to varying degrees ranging from half-assed hug to a proper embrace - but a lot of people out there don't get much in the way of physical touch aside from when they are being sexually intimate. Most other species use touch for social bonding and stuff, and then there's us humans where touching has become something we have reserved almost completely for baby-making. Casual touch, cuddling, and physical closeness with others is absolutely something people are feeling the need for, and it says a lot when people can make a successful business charging people just to be non-sexually close to you. I still think it is a pretty silly euphemism for other things...

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Don't ever let anyone judge you for what you like... you know as long as you're not hurting anyone ;). I love the cuddles, that shit's awesome. If someone mocked me for it I'd tell them to stick it where the sun don't shine.

Aliens. Two different aliens.

I was a member of the old Lyla's list. She (Joyful Spirit) is a legend and a hero ahead of her time. I regret never meeting her in person. I can't remember my handle on the old board, but it may have been esoterica. I'm glad to see the old name back in use.

i've smoked for years quit a few times but always started again last time i quit for 9 weeks lol had some issues to deal with but i'll quit again. You feel alot better when you quit i only found it hard for the first couple days hard not to have a smoke with a beer they go together. Good luck with the quitting keep us posted try chewing toothpicks lol works for me

I kinda think people should have the right to live their life any way they like... if monogamy works for them great if not that's fine to. To each their own. Just my Opinion

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Ah, MightyPen you have succinctly phrased it: enforced monogamy. The roots of marriage were less about love and more about business and survival. Couples married because it was a good move to merge business, acquire "huge tracts of land" (c'mon Monty Python fans.... I know yer here!) and other such things that had absolutely nothing to do with love. Understanding the historical motivations for marriage and the modern romanticized twist it's been given (finding "the one" watch this video for more on that bullshit concept) is key in understanding why it's become such a prevalent part of our modern mythos and why it's essentially not working anymore. Of course, it also doesn't help that in this day and age, another person is a click away. So we've become a bit more demanding and I dare say narcissistic when it comes time to our expectations from our potential mates.

Yeah... enforced monogamy is the product of a society in which people are viewed as property, and relationships are contracts for that property's disposition. And yup, religion was the moral institution for the longest time and enforced the principle of monogamy with the careful logic of all religious edicts: "because I say so". Now that those kind of external moral guardians are fading away, we're each left to decide for ourselves how we want to live our personal, romantic, and sexual lives. Monogamy is now just one of many choices available. BUT... I think most people would agree that to be ethically poly, you need to be open with your partner; everyone has to be on the same page in order to participate equally as a consenting adult. I'm thrilled to bits that people are exploring this freedom to find what works for them. But at the same time, monogamous relationships are still entirely cool for a lot of perfectly healthy and liberal-minded people. And such voluntary monogamy can be a source of enormous strength when the relationship is healthy, functional, and satisfying. It's all about how particular people are wired up, and what they need and expect from their relationships. We're human beings, and enormously diverse. So those needs, and what it takes to meet them, are naturally all over the map.

You are quite right... thank you for taking the time to tease out all the details so as to ensure that we all were reminded of the obvious as opposed to focusing on the actual point of my initial post... if the lady was trustworthy before the law when there was also illegal activity involved why would we trust her less now? Just my Opinion

Baby, it's cold outside, so let's heat things up inside. Join me for a flirtatious afternoon of eskimo kisses and soft caresses. I'll curl up in your lap and my long auburn hair will hide us from the rest of the world. Come out and play Tuesday afternoons at Barbarella's, 11:30am until about 6pm. You can also catch me at Barb's on Saturday, December 6th from 1:30pm to 7pm. XO

you need to keep your wine 5km from your house ;) here's a great workout for everyone to try ... the 12 day accumulator workout. It might look easy at first glance but nope! Start with a minute plank on day one... ADD a two minute wall squat on day two... ADD a three minute bridge ... etc. By day twelve you'll be taking back the thanks you just gave me lmfao.....

Saw Avah last night. For some reason I've never heard of her before but she's quite popular and busy at paradise. Formerly from ALO and AAA. Booked my usual 45 min at $65 door fee. Looks: I would say she's got this Amy Winehouse/Kim Kardashian thing going: black thick hair, dark makeup, some tats, kicking body, natural D's, not spinner not fat, just perfect. Awesome ass. Session was pretty awesome. Firm BS, using all her weight on me that felt great. Then she does this thing where she turns over so her back is contacting my back and she slides everywhere with butt rubbing on my back. Nice. Then I flip and she's front to me and flips again so her back is facing me. When I look in the mirror it looks and feels like RCG. Tons of oil, holy shit. Throughout the whole thing I'm actually thinking "I hope I don't slip inside her!" Lol. OK guys, I will say only this: her menu is extensive. PM me if you don't understand what that means. I left satisfied. Damage was on par with what I'd expect. Repeat: sure. However, I'm not sure if I'd repeat every time with her. I'd have to be in the mood for her energy level. Her attitude was amazing, and she's not shy at all. Closest thing I've ever had to what I'd call PSE in a MP setting :). If you're in the mood for a bad girl, go see Avah.

Saw this ad on BP and was wondering if anyone had any experience? http://winnipeg.backpage.com/BodyRubs/satisfying-body-massage/2276963

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I'd like to share my fantasy, but the Conservative government would probably be very angry at me. Nothing to do with C36. But all consensual!

Glad to hear you kicked the habit.. Smoking that is. You may have quit smoking but you are smoking HOT !! I must say. I only wish I could quit. I cough way to much I've been smoking way to long. We all hate giving our money to the government and what do we do smoke. I tried e cig just to have something in my hand going to my lips. It's that kind of habit. Good luck Bianca I hope it works for you. I see you are in my home and native land. The Rock !! enjoy..

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Congrats Bianca - you beat the addiction part. The rest of the battle is behaviour. Changing behaviours takes about 2wks to kick-in. I was a pack a day guy for about 20yrs. Got fed up with the smell & expense. Used the patch & was very grumpy for a week. Without a doubt, I enjoyed the smoking but accepted that it was time to stop. For a couple of weeks after I quit, I smoked a pencil when I got the urge. Stupid, I know....but it got me through hard moments (didn't do it in public either). Hang-in there kiddo. The urges will go away with a bit of time. Had any smoking dreams yet?

I know that I am just adding to what has already been said about this beautiful woman but I can't help but be amazed and grateful for the time I've been able to spend with this lovely lady. When you look at her pictures, it is easy to feel somewhat intimidated but as soon as you talk to Victoria, you realize that this lady is just a down to earth, wonderful person to be around. When we use phrases like beauty being "skin deep", it does not apply to VJ. She is indeed the personification of beauty inside and out. I love our time together and hope to have many more chances to spend time enjoying the company of this lovely lady. Thank you again, Victoria. Have safe and happy travels and a very Merry Christmas.

I've received the four hands massage twice before, once with two ladies and once with male female. The male female one led to other wonderful pleasures both straight and gay. My current fantasy involves having a submissive lady that I can spank and then have her provide me with pleasure starting with the licking and sucking of my toes.

My comment about the macho thing was a just a little playful fun. I seriously could care less what anybody thinks of me. I outgrew peer pressure many years ago. And RG, I'm with you on the "total" experience.

That's too bad. I was there for lunch on Friday and she wasn't in at that time either. I rate her very highly. She's pretty intelligent and most definitely the girl-next-door type. I spent a few songs with her a year ago and the experience has ruined the experience for me completely. Unbelievable sensibility and interest in giving you a genuine glimpse into how she operates. I feel I got into it deeper with her in 15 minutes than I have with most in my life. She has unbelievable skill in how she welcomes and excites you without making you think she's hustling for your wallet. It would be nice to cross paths with her again.

I have been smoke free for many years now but took several attempts to finally kick the pack a day habit. I got to a point where I really wanted to quit and did it cold turkey, no nicotine gum or patch. Avoid being around other smokers when they light up, the temptation can be hard to resist so avoid situations that increase your cravings. You are off to a great start, take it one day at a time, I know you can do it Bianca!

I've always wanted a four handed massage. Massages are at the top of my list, i get one weekly because I find them so divine. Actually are there any places to get one in Toronto? The only place I saw them advertised was Thailand, but most spas weren't available for walk in appts for those so I missed out. On my to do list for sure. I love that fantasy.

When I do it my neck hurts, and watching a lady squirm in delight does NOT make me feel great. It feels like its a chore, better to enjoy getting good stuff then to give. ( even worse - I'm the best at making women holla !!! I know how to make a woman drip with desire )

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Well, earlier today I had a lengthy post all typed up in response to this thread but it seems somewhere in there I had a word on the censor list. Couldn't find it and just gave up. Oh well, the point of it was that this has all been discussed so much, I'm just tired of it. Those of us with somewhat rational minds are all more or less in agreement that things are very unlikely to change a whole lot for those of us who already use our big brains. As for the main topic of this thread, I cannot see any lady giving up her clients under any conditions and I honestly don't see L.E. even trying to get one to.

I remember my first time squirting it happened because I with my second partner after losing my virginity, and he was much older and experienced than I was and we were drinking so I was "relaxed" and he pretty much f* me really hard and push me past that point of wanting to stop because I felt like I had to pee or something and ever since than I've been able to squirt as I got older and more experience I've learn to control it and play with it lol. That was my first time..

If your website is found to advertise ANY sexual services we must place your website URL on our CENSOR list as we can not knowingly advertise it. Anyone currently or previously offering any sexual services in exchange for money you need to stop that! (The government says so!!) We are actively reviewing websites advertised on lyla.com to ensure all websites comply with the new laws. If you are found to have any sexual references on your website that could be considered prostitution you will receive the following message and your site will be blocked. You can ask us to review it at a later date but we are busy so if you force us to block it instead of updating it and saving us all that work then we will take our time allowing it back! if you choose to comply and wish to promote your revised site here. It is in your best interest with this new law to stop offering any sexual services as it is now illegal for anyone to advertise such services.

Well I have been pretty well MIA for about five weeks I believe and it had not a thing to do with the new foolish laws coming into play or reconsidering things. It had everything to do with being sick. The first few days I thought it was a flu - well, nope. Some sort of virus that knocked me for a serious loop! You know how one looks for the light at the end of the tunnel, well there were a few days when I was looking for the infamous white light. :) My highlight is therefore that I am finally feeling better. Not all done yet, but I am more than ready. Wow, Cerb sure looks different but I'm not going anywhere. :)

Probably just the same type of guys who object to being screened/verified. And they believe their privacy is most important. More important than a lady's safety and security RG

I mean NOT advertising here at all. Not just advertising non-sexual services. I mean just being a regular member and ceasing all advertising on CERB completely. Couldn't I just be a regular participant (mostly I'm concerned about SP access). Or would CERB still ban me even if I don't advertise at all? They are not doing anything illegal by allowing me to exist.

Not at all. Sex is important to me, both as an act and as a set of associated ideas and meanings. But I'm not always preoccupied with its pursuit, and my interest in it doesn't inhibit my enjoyment of many other things in my life. Because I'm curious about sex in multiple contexts, escorts are a great way to explore with manageable risk. It's variety where nobody gets hurt. I can see how someone who's less intrigued by sex might find that hard to understand, but that just makes us different... not one of us healthy and the other sick. I think sex addiction is a real thing for some people -- when they can find pleasure in nothing else, and sexual desire overtakes and dominates their lives. But most of the time, I think the term is just thrown out as a prudish moral judgement -- even upon one's self -- that treats sexual curiosity and a love of variety as "addiction". Families are small these days. If someone had six kids instead of two, would we label that person "addicted to children"?

Personally, I usually just would signal them with a wave or a smile. If they're too far away, I'll ask the waitress to ask them if they'd like a drink or a shot. Those usually work for me. On the rare occasion I'll be more bold and walk up to them myself and ask them over. If a girl comes up to me I'm not interested in, I'll politely tell them I'm just there for the drinks or the show. Sometimes I'll say I'm waiting on someone if there's a girl I know that's in that will come sit with me at some point. If they get insistent (or pushy), I'll just keep saying 'No thanks' with a smile. I try to remember that they are there to make money, so I like to see them make the effort to see me. There are some that do, some that don't, and it's reflected in the way the encounter proceeds. If they do try while I'm not interested, leaving in a snit will guarantee I won't ask you over ever (and I don't let it bother me, cuz all she's trying to get is your wallet in the end anyways).

At Pigale normally I have a big selection of girls to choose from. Within the first 20 mins or so my eyes wander and scan the floor to make a mental list of those that match my selection criteria (friendly, gnd type and most importantly naturally busty). I also take height into consideration as I am of average height (5.7") and most girls will tower over me with their high heels. Next I try to make eye contact with them and smile. If someone is too far away, I wait and if she comes within a reasonable range I do a gentle wave of fingers, palm and smile. She gets the message and stops by my table more or less immediately. And I proceed from there. If someone is too far away and I have waited for a long while, I simply walk up to her, smile and politely ask her if she will be free for a dance. I used to be shy the first couple of times I went there but have learnt that the best course of action for me is to try the modus operandi outlined above. It has always worked. Simply be polite and smile for that is the key. If you don't like a girl who has come to your table, simply smile and politely say that you are waiting for someone else. Ignore her responses, expressions and let it not ruin your fun time. Get negative reactions out of your mind immediately and focus on the list of girls that you think will give you a good time in the CR and smile at them and be polite. This has worked very well for me even though I am an OK looking, middle aged uncle type guy. ;-) Also you can ask a girl to remove her shoes in the CR if she towers way above you with those ridiculous shoes that they wear. Some will comply. Bottomline: Just appear pleasant, jolly, happy, respectful and most importantly horny. And have a good time.;-)

From Luscious Lilly's album But this is my favourite picture, the colour and the contrast are nice. plus the sexy little girl on the table :)