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Until you have a rapport with a lady that you are repeating with, pay before. Yes you run the risk of having them run off or not getting what you paid for....but as already said, that will be last money that lady ever gets from you. Once you have a working relationship and they know you will be back, it becomes less of an issue plus the lady is more relaxed and the timing of the money becomes a non issue because you both know it's there and will be paid. It's about respect on both sides of the transaction, and that goes a long way in BOTH leaving satisfied.

One thing I have learnt over time is this, ALOT of ladies are not comfortable in a social situation with a client. NB is a SMALL place and one never knows who they may run into in public. How do you explain to someone you know who you run into in a restaurant that you're out with a friend when he looks like your dad (this is only an example). I, for example will not spend time with anyone in public that I have not previously spent time with. I need to feel comfortable with who I will be in public with as well as that we are a "good fit socially". Understand many gentleman do not get the no PDA's in public and once that happens a lady is less likely to want to go out in public with someone. Social situations are built on trust and compatibility. Find a lady you enjoy, visit with her on her terms and then ask her if dinner, casino and a date is possible.

Being in Halifax....cant really beat that....

I just had a guy completely flip out because I told him I won't do bare bjs. Started berating me, telling me I was ugly, fat and that his friend said I smelled. How he bet my family would be proud of me when they find out what I do. All this because I said no to bare in a province that is issuing warnings about syphilis being on the rise. Really?! There's a turn off. Someone that can't respect someone for being careful about what they do.

Are you aware that you have to pay for their time even if it's just dinner outing? Maybe that's the reason why. I don't think any lady wants to hang out and not have their time compensated .

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Easiest safe word system to use is one that is used at most public functions and even among mist privately. The traffic light system is super easy to remember. Green = all good, keep going Yellow = slow down need a breather Red = everything stops and we talk about what triggered the red after aftercare is done. Aftercare is essential when doing scenes no matter how hard or how soft. Could be just cuddling after or needing certain things. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me. I've been both sub and Dom. I am also a part of my local kink community and mentor others.

Always, always at the beginning. This goes beyond etiquette and you have to appreciate what a highly charged topic this is. Think of it from a lady's perspective and paying after is basically holding a threat over her head the entire time that you won't pay her. That isn't a recipe to help with chemistry. And truly, far more often the lady has a whole lot more to worry about from the unknown client than vice versa! Pay for your time. If you don't enjoy it then don't repeat.

I have been increasingly concerned that the discussion in the massage section may lead to problems for the providers. Especially the places that do other salon services. Escorts control their phone and location. Massage parlors such as bw, to/eb, Nevada's all have specific licenses but when the place is catering to a whole other clientele for other services I really think we need to keep our conversation much more vague. Some providers are students and I really worry that too much publicity through this review board could have negative implications for them. We have been in my humble opinion too free to identify some locations Although we have to be members o be on here it is not difficult to join. Our identity is very protected but some providers of massage can be left exposed by these conversations I see a big difference in what we should discuss depending on how the provider advertises

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Given the staggering number of possible planets out there (so many that's it almost impossible to wrap one's head around the number), statistically speaking I'd be shocked if there wasn't other life somewhere. I'd be equally shocked, however, to learn that it had actually visited earth. So my guess is aliens...sure...but aliens with the technology and desire to travel all the way to earth to see what they can learn from anal probing...I'm thinking no.

Maybe start out in baby steps...get to know the lady, let her get to know you. Trust doesn't happen overnight. It may require booking a conventional date or two in the privacy of your hotel room to get to know a lady, and she gets to know you. Plus it allows the trust required to go out socially to be established. Nothing prevents you on those first couple dates relaxing, having conversation over drinks, maybe order room service. Once the lady gets comfortable with you and trusts you she may be inclined to go on a social date with you. Of course discretion is important. In a smaller city, the lady (or you) might not want to run into anyone who knows you/her. I know for myself there are a couple cities I would stay locked up in good and tight in my hotel room. Only because I wouldn't want to run into people I know and have to answer questions One other thing, if you meet a companion who would like to go out to dinner with you, discuss with her ahead of time restaurants she might like to go to. Nothing worse than showing up at a steakhouse and your date is a vegetarian Good Luck RG

The only answer, of course, is "we don't know." There's no reason to imagine we're the only life that's arisen in the universe, or even just our galaxy. The buildings blocks are everywhere, and there's nothing unique about our sun or our planet. So, are there other civilizations in the universe? I just about guarantee it. But are there any in our galaxy? Hard to say. The Fermi paradox is all about "given all the time and space that's been available, there should be lots of alien civilizations around us; but we should also be hearing from them, and we're not." The spans of distance, and of time, between the stars are so huge that it wouldn't surprise me if that meant no two civilizations capable of communication would ever overlap. Maybe we're the only extant civilization in our galaxy; there could have been others before but they've since died out, and others will arise but only after we're extinct. Little blossoms of civilization, popping up all over the galaxy... but never two at the same time. It's a good argument to eventually set up automated beacons somewhere like Pluto, designed to keep broadcasting out into space in every direction for a billion years. Maybe that way, long from now, someone will come and lay a few flowers at our civilization's tomb.

Maybe the issue could be resolved by making that kind of date arrangement, but you meet at her incall location. Maybe the problem isn't doing this kind of session, but that you are trying to get her to meet, discuss, & be paid out in public. (which has always been & still is more illegal) Just make the arrangements, meet at her location, & you both go out together to dinner, casino, whatever after the payment has been dealt with.

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If your in Charlottetown after eating there last weekend I would recommend visiting Sim's Steakhouse.

Weeding and mulching a couple of gardens. Biggest commitment was my time. Nice to see the change which can be made by a couple of hours of focused labour. Should continue to enjoy the return on this investment in flowers until the frost sets in.

Boxers (grey and white plaid) to go with the cool of the evening after another warn day.

Rain all day long....made it hard to run errands....

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I would look into You tube, it has some good DOM training. I have done this, and found it helpful to find the inspiration needed and spark some creativity. You will want to start saving some tools to have a good play box ready. The hardest part is to determine if your sub knows fully what they want and don't want. Many THINK they want this or that, then when time comes they do not. Safe words, wavers and consultations are very important.

I wasn't asking about degrees or difference there. I asked if you'd be okay with her sleeping with others -- paid or not -- provided there was no "emotional involvement". My point is that is it's not usually the cheater's ideas about cheating that will determine the impact on the relationship; it's the other person, the one who was lied to, who will do that. No; it works for you, singular. We don't know if it works for you, plural. Your wife has not been consulted. No, it's your, singular, marriage. It's not your wife's. She's not aware of what her marriage is; she thinks it's some other marriage, because you haven't told her otherwise. It's possible that you're right, and she's happier not knowing. It's also possible that she'd rather know so that you can both get on with more honest lives with other people. Who knows? I will point out that it's my experience that people are first-rate at rationalizing things to justify behaviour they've already decided upon. Look, my only points are these: if you feel no guilt about sex outside your relationship because you don't feel attached, then that's fine. If you recognize that you're still engaging in infidelity, that's good. As long as your wife doesn't find out, things will be good. But you're putting your relationship at substantial risk, repeatedly, even if you don't think seeing escorts is a big deal. If your wife does find out, I doubt she'll be interested in whether there was emotional attachment or not, no matter how important a distinction that is for you. Beyond that, it's maybe worth examining what one means by "guilt", what triggers it, what doesn't, and why.

I am very glad to see everyone posting here in a positive way on this thread as it had potential to go very bad. I think londoncapers got his answer.

payment up front has always been proper etiquette, and I've been doing just that for over 10 years. I've had my share, and learned by experience, of the 'oh I forgot my wallet in the car' scenario and had the guy leave 'after' the fact and never return, therefore getting a freebie. I've learned since then. Sure there are ladies that do run off with the money, but you can't paint all ladies with the same brush. There are going to be experiences that are not exactly up to your standard or expectations, but we ladies also suffer from the 'lack of sensuality' from some clients. We go through with some experiences even though we don't want to. As it's often said on here, your mileage will vary. Chemistry is something that is very important to me when meeting with a client. I have turned down secondary appointments with some clients as I feel the chemistry just isn't there for me. For other clients I have had, they are just not into what I give, all they want is the 'wham bam, get in, get off, get out' scenario, which is not what I offer. Looking for ways to pay afterward is going to get you a lot of response in this forum. We all tend to look after each other. I, for one, will take payment afterwards for those clients which have a history with me. They are trusted clients and I would bend over backwards for them to fit into their schedule, so I give a little in this manner. Under no circumstance whatsoever would I ever accept payment afterwards from someone I have just met. Trust is a two way street in this business.

I never even thought of paying afterwards, i understand you don't want someone to run off with your money, but like cinelli said if you stick with known, reviewed ladies there is nothing to worry about. Always pay first or in advance. After spending time with some of these ladies, it's hard enough remembering my first name :P

One of my friends, a newbie to this, has had two ladies run off with his cash recently. Maybe that's a Winnipeg thing that outsiders don't understand. Be careful who you are dealing with and stick with known, reviewed ladies. I stick to the same ladies and pay before, during or after. No big deal, we have mutual trust. With touring ladies paying in advance secures a spot.

I've always paid at the beginning of an encounter, sometimes, actually more so now, I pay even before the beginning of an encounter...I pay the lady weeks/sometimes months in advance via email money transfer When I started in this lifestyle this was explained as the proper etiquette to follow for payment Whether you have a great, good, fair or poor experience is moot, you are paying for the lady's time and companionship. Sometimes whether an encounter is great,good, fair or poor depends on the lady, more often than not it depends on both you and the lady...chemistry/connection is important and that takes two. Irrespective, my experience is the lady gets paid at the beginning of the encounter. She shouldn't have to worry if she's going to be paid. And no matter how good or bad a date is, she gets paid, so why not pay her up front to begin with A morning rambling over cup number one RG

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Why have some posts in here been deleted? Someone used very racist language, and that + all references were removed? I'm not saying that Ottanon is correct for what he has said, but now it just looks like it's one-sided.

has anyone seen Lucy at Jade spa. would like some info on prices and extras provided please. send me pm please, and thank you

Happy Birthday! Best wishes on your special day!

Happy GiganticFantastic Birthday to you Kourtney!

Happy Birthday Kourtney, hope you enjoy your day !

Wishing you a Happy Birthday Kourtney :) Hope you have a awesome day :) xoxo

I highly recommend Britney and Christina!!! Damn great massage from each and both are sexy hot!!!

I'm shocked that nobody mentioned Rodney's Oyster Bar in Toronto. If you love seafood like me, I would highly recommend you try it.

In Ottawa the Mongolian Village is by far my favourite! It's a build your own stir-fry type of place, you choose your veggies, meat, noodles, sauces, etc and the cook it up for you :) Plus with free soup and rice, how can you go wrong?! PS - they deliver now too! Posted via Mobile Device

Definitely the silver spoon in Ottawa, it has the best thai curry I've had... nothing in Toronto or Montreal compares :(

Ottawa Flying Piggy's on Bank st or Vittoria Trattoria on the market or on Riverside

Meaghan, first time I have disagreed with you on anything,its so distressing! Vitos is better than Il Pomodori,really?

From my recollection, the photos are very accurate. She has very light skin with great complexion

I've met this lady twice and was quite satisfied both times. She is ver attractive and friendly. I would recommend ignoring that jerk on CL that keeps bad mouthing her. He's full of crap as far as I'm concerned.

In Ontario 10 charges under new Criminal Code have been made for pimping and 4 charges have been made in ontario for advertising the sale of sexual services. none of the charges in ontario are "purchase of sexual services" but thats ontario.... Saskatoon has been going after guys and i am not sure how many charges and not sure about other provinces.

I first noticed Karma and Cleo's separate adds awhile ago, and noticed they were providing duo's. I've never had that experience and was obviously intrigued (have probably fantasied about it my whole life). These girls are great as a couple, right away you're put at ease by the way they interact and chat. They're into each other and they included me perfectly! Both girls have recommendations separately, and Cleo is a member of this site. Hardest part is telling which one is better... but I don't have too they're both fantastic!

Of the ladies mentioned here, I've only seen Jordan (twice), so I can certainly recommend her without hesitation. Meaghan and Miss Manda have great reps and are on my "Just-Gotta-Love" list. ;) Looking through the recommendation section here, and on BP, will give you a couple more possibilities, I think.