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Not that I want to indulge your arrogance, again, but this post is completely unnecessary. Okay, so maybe she is not completely technologically inclined, and doesn't know all this stuff like you do, but do you think that it's okay for you to out her Facebook here like that? What you just described is not everyday common knowledge. Ladies try very hard to keep their identities separate, and I find it very inappropriate and even disrespectful for you to publicly post this, and then call this woman ignorant. The only ignorance I see here is you. I'm sure ladies are just jumping over each other now to take your virginity, knowing how you carelessly use the information of other SPs. Most ladies wouldn't have seen you anyways, given the nature of all your previous posts, and now, highly unlikely. This is a website and community of SPs and hobbyists who support each other. Different opinions and variety is welcome, but your approach and attitude is completely out of whack.

I would honestly have to say having sex is my favorite rainy day indoor activity!!! :69::bddog::Cunning::hump::makeout:

And yet you advertise yourself in your other posts as a "forever-alone virgin." There is wisdom in realizing that you don't know everything. Especially when you're entering a world of which you have no first hand knowledge. The world is nuanced and everything is shades of grey. You would do very well to ponder carefully how you present yourself here. CERB is a very friendly place but it can also be very unforgiving and harsh to those who are disrespectful of the community and its values. By making a blanket judgement and calling all SPs who don't have websites unprofessional, you've just offended a significant percentage of ladies whom you might be incredibly lucky to encounter. Is that really a reputation you want to cultivate? Spend some time. Read the forums. Educate yourself in the style and tone of this community. Perhaps a more humble viewpoint will allow you to use a more diplomatic tone. I'm not saying your opinion is wrong, only that your tone and presentation are harsh. Which is nicer to say? "All SPs without websites are unprofessional and not worth seeing" or "I prefer to see SPs with websites because I feel that I can learn more about them and feel more confident that their services are as advertised."

My suggestion hun is to go Saint John then Fredericton, however, Moncton is on your way to either PEI or HFX, so It is convent. I find in Moncton I have more issues with " bargain shoppers" Probably because there are many agencies and more ladies that are INDY, and have dropped rates too low. Which has off set balance scale. Most Moncton men, if they really want to see you will make the trip to Freddy or STJ too. IMHO . No bad feeling meant for Moncton, lol...I love that city, I am from there:)

PurpleHaze I think it would be wise for you to rethink your approach to this hobby and reason for doing so. Your uninformed opinions and attitude (ignorance) is very apparent. When you couple that with the tone of your writing it comes across as offensive. Social skills (or lack of) translate into the online world easily, sometimes too easily. The true "ladies" in this profession can be found here and deserve to be treated as such. Many of them are articulate, educated, cultured and caring. Most of the ladies I have met, genuinely want to have a great experience "with you". People participate in this hobby for many reasons providers and hobbyists alike are able to come together to provide something for each other, whether it's learning or trying a new skill, time away from a stressful personal life, financial reasons or simply the mutal benefit of enjoying someone else's company. The members on this board respect the ladies for who they are and what they do. In turn the ladies respect us back. All anyone in this hobby asks is that you use some common courtesy and respect each others privacy. After all that is often more valuable then any currency. I have found some great information on this site and met a few wonderful ladies. I spent a lot of time researching etiquette before indulging myself in this world. I believe you should do the same. There is great information to be found here. Also some less obvious lessons learned by just reading the posts of others and observing the kind of respectful etiquette in different threads and how they are received by others. There are other sites out there that tolerate rude uninformed opinions, but the amount of quality ladies is not as proportionate on those sites as it is here. I hope you take some of the advice given from the other members of this board and use it to better inform yourself before you continue with your venture any further, should you want it to be a good experience. Respect and discretion are of the utmost qualities you can give or receive in this hobby.

HIGHJACK ALERT ;) Spank me ;)

Your posts show a lack of knowledge of basic etiquette and discretion involved in this lifestyle. Not only do you come off as arrogant, your post shows your ignorance, and yes, I'm using the word with your definition. We have CERB members here with much more experience in this lifestyle and are much more knowledgeable yet they don't make arrogant posts. They chose to share their experiences and knowledge with others in a respectful manner. You would do yourself a world of good to use CERB to learn about this lifestyle instead of coming across as some know it all. Just publically posting about Facebook and finding a lady's real identity must have all the ladies on CERB wondering how safe and discrete you really are, and how safe their privacy is with you RG

That's funny, because you are actually coming across as a huge arrogant one. So, good luck with that. :)

Be aware of what? "Throat cancer is considered to be uncommon and a small percentage of people with HPV develop cancer because of the virus. The finding does not suggest abstaining from oral or vaginal sex." Pretty sensationalist headline for something that we don't really need to worry about don't you think? Ladies, just so you know, for every pussy onesquared doesn't eat, I'm going to eat two! :-D

Today is the National Day of Action to support Sex workers. I'm sure many people will be participating in the events planned across the country. In anticipation of the Bedford case going to the Supreme Court of Canada, this mobilization is fantastic and very important. I realize that not everyone will be able to participate, but if you can't, I'd like to encourage you to do something positive in support of the wonderful women who work very hard, sometimes struggle, and always enrich our lives in so many ways. To that end, this thread could serve as a place for people to voice that support and commitment. Porthos

As said by the guys before, I believe for what I have read in other threads that this is a choice a living style, gebtlemen single, married or in any kind of relationship can have the freedom to be with the lady of their choice without having a commitment, or lik expressed before drama! In most cases has nothing to do with being "ugly" or "uncapable of meeting a lady" in any other way! I have met so many attractive and intelligent gentlemen being an MA, men that would have no trouble meeting any woman they would like! So yes I am a true believer that hobbying is a choice!

My advice is to meet an SP that you click with and ask if she has duo partners. If you can, meet her separately even if it's just for a half hour if your SPs offer this choice of time slot. Chemistry is important for an MFF to be successful and also to make sure all parties are on the same page both in attitude and service. While this takes time and can definitely be costly, the MFF will be amazing! This is what clients of myself and my duo partner have done and it was a lot of fun since all of us were already acquainted with one another. Or at the very least, myself or my duo partner already knew the gent. If you go into it not knowing either of the SPs, tell them it is your first time and if they are good at what they do, you will be relaxed in no time. Like Roamingguy said, let the ladies take lead and go from there. As for etiquette in a duo, never focus on just one SP. This isn't due to jealousy and insecurity issues, just out of politeness to both SPs as everyone wants to feel comfortable and not left out. Ask all questions before the appt and arrange it in advance to allow for both SPs to be available. And finally...here is a good resource for duo hunting in Ottawa...http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=117343&highlight=partners Enjoy and have fun!

Asking how it works is like asking how an encounter works. Each encounter with a client, even the same client on a repeat encounter is unique. Really your ménage is dependant on the ladies, their chemistry with you, each other, and your chemistry with them. If you have a ménage a trois, let the encounter unfold naturally but let the ladies take the lead. RG

My son and I took our 12-week old puppy to the vet for vaccinations. Juno so enjoyed hearing that she's completely adorable that she didn't seem to notice being stuck with a needle. After that, we went to an outdoor café for coffee and more public admiration.

I had breakfast at my favorite place, with a long time friend. The server there knows my order and always gives me a hard time. Feels like Cheers except its breakfast. Then stopped for gas, and an elderly lady was having difficulty with the pump. Still drives at 83 but her hands are too weak to handle the pump properly. I wasn't going to stop, but something made me. I pumped her gas, and walked into the Esso with her, holding the door. She was ahead of me in line, and told the cashier "I'm going to pay for that nice young man's gas as well as my own". I'm 48. I had only put $20 in, and protested, but she said that was the first time ever anyone had stopped to assist her. Now, I am not fishing for praise telling this story. It really feels good to help someone a little less able than yourself. I think you get more out of it than they do. Free gas was just the sprinkles on the cake!

I usually curl up with my puppy love on the couch and watch some movies. I just downloaded Oz the great and powerful

Harper's got to get his house in order ( and it's in a fucking mess) before he and is government worry about shutting down bawdy houses and challenging whatever comes about from the supreme court decision.

9:00 movie night with my daughter and our Skittles, Starburst & Hot Tamales :) :) :)

Thank you to everyone who has replied so far. Occasionally random thoughts will pop into my head prompting questions to the community. I left this one a bit vague on feedback criteria to see what options are seen. I have always enjoyed the feedback loop especially in situations where there is so many variety and experience contained in the people and this certainly qualifies. Not only are there intelligent, thoughtful smart ladies but there are brilliant men with so much experience and goodness. This is OUR industry and we all come at it from a different perspective. I love the ability to think of something you never considered before. As with anything, if approached correctly and with respect, applied personally and used pro-actively, the sky is the limit.

To me, it's one thing if someone asks for an opinion or some advice. It's quite another thing to have someone offer it, unasked. That said, I don't think that any two clients can expect to have the same experience with me except in terms of the roughest of outlines--as in, dinner + playtime. The quality of engagement is a highly personal thing that depends on our respective moods, the rapport between us and that indefinable je ne sais quoi that happens or doesn't. If I want advice about my business model or some aspect of what I'm doing or considering, though, I would discuss that with one or two of the ladies I know simply because we're in the same business and I think that means we understand a lot of very subtle things about one another and our work that other people simply can't appreciate.

Congrats on hitting the big 500!!!

You just love smacking balls around:) lol

Love minecraft!! As well as many other xbox games, I play when time permits. I was never a gamer but I'm starting to really enjoy it. I'm getting quite good at NBA2K13 :icon_redface:. Additional Comments: I love pinball!! Take me to an arcade, bowling alley or movie theatre and off I go!!

Dunno a thing about Xbox....But I could talk pinball all night ;)

My profile page had visitor #500 today.

Young man, I think you are seriously lacking of knowledge in terms of etiquette and manners. That is obviously what Emily meant by using the word "ignorance". Knowledge is like rasberry jam: the less you have, the more you try to spread it. Now if you don't learn to behave, we will send you back to your mom so she can give you a good spank and send you to your bedroom, with no computer games. If you don't apologize when you go out, you will have no dessert after dinner!

How to break one of the first rule about privacy. You are doing it right! TRUST ME, no SP want to receive a FB message from a stranger saying hey I saw that pic on BP in the escorting section.

Those who know me, know I love silly poetry, so how could I resist Renegade's tempting offer? I have a tendency to go on and on with rhyming verses, so I'll keep it to 4 lines. You'll be so glad that you did Of this I can assure Just look around the site She's here, your perfect girl...

not all sp's like to pre-book. not all customers are able to "commit" to a certain time so they end up not calling anyone at all - assuming that people only see them "by appointment." sometimes they are not sure if they will have the "free time." I don't pre-book with anyone I do not know - I let them know that I work "short notice" & I advise them to call within 1-2 hours of their desired time. many people have to cancel as things can & do change when someone is in town for business. They may have to deal with bosses, dinner plans may change - meetings & training can go into "overtime." there isn't anything they can do about that. schedules have to be "flexible" so I found pre-booked appointments had to be changed - so it was easier to work on "short notice."

But...but....then you miss out on all the delicious pussy flavah....mmm...pussy. "You can eat all you want and never get fat. Where else can you go for a meal like that?" - Madonna

Look, I approach the website issue the same way as you, but try not to be so harsh in your opinions. If and when you do see an escort, especially one on this forum, you might be carrying a lot of baggage that she's going to be extremely concerned about.

As this is a subjective thread, aka one man's meat is another man's poison, I can only speak from personal experience. Truly, many of the ladies who frequent this site are Masters of Oral Arts. He is my list of truly memorable oral encounters... in no particular order. redseductress EmilyJ Sexxxyrebecca Cleo Catra Sara MQ Taylor Munroe Sin Cindy Nicolette Vaughn Peachy Vanessa Vale Hoo Boy, I get around. :givemehead:

My goodness. You're awfully sure of yourself aren't you? I remember being that age once, seeing everything in black and white. There couldn't be any reason why a legitimate provider wouldn't have a website? Perhaps they find their page on CERB to be sufficient for their needs? Perhaps they only do this part time or seasonally? Perhaps they're very tech unsavvy and don't know how to make a website or do web design? Or just don't want to? Making snap judgements about groups of people based on limited information is not wise and only demonstrates small mindedness. --edit-- Oh yeah, one other reason. Some people prefer to be VERY private and low profile. For the same reason some prefer to not show their faces in pictures. You know there are actually escorts who have families and significant others? And some of these people don't know what the escort does for a living? Shocking I know but it's true I promise you.

Just encouraging new members to check out another dimension of the cerb experience by clicking the Social Groups tab at the top of the page. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php There are groups on all sorts of subjects, from travel and different regions of the country, to beer, food, wine and whiskey, to spinners, BBW's, boobies, bums, and even cats and dogs!. And of course redheads, lots and lots of redheads :) It's a good way to meet other members with similar interests, and to exchange information. Most groups are public, so you can just join the ones that interest you after having a look around. Some are private, meaning you have to contact the cerb member who's identified as the group administrator, to get an invitation to join.

I've never had one and am considering giving myself one for my birthday, but how does it work practically? Does everybody take turns? Daisy chain? What if a fella got intimidated? Any dos or don'ts? Inquiring dirty minds need your help!

Dan Seals-Bop http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKpn-GYsKSc RG

Wow! Amazing encounter with such a wonderful cerbie!

Congrats Areez on 500 posts!

Staying close to home, my daughter went to the hospital (precautionary) but not yet in labour. Learning how to use Lightroom, need to get my photos organized.

I am going to the hair salon to do foils and a trim...been meaning to for while but hate to do on a nice day, so today is perfect:)

Piano, your post has given me hope. I honestly have a different issue, but I don't talk about it much. I lost my virginity at 16 to a friend's older sister (passionate, and wild, but emotionally unfulfilled at the end). 2 years ago, when I was a hothead of 17, I had a girlfriend who I often fucked, but without passion. It became robotic, almost making me tear my eyes out (thankfully, I never did, and i'm glad I didn't). I think I'm at the point where I have never truly felt the passion of a good time while attempting coitus. Your post has given me insight to where and what I should be thinking about. Pleasure may last a couple days, but the memories last for much longer. I now realize, that seeing the experience of others, that CERB was a really good place to stumble upon at this point in my life. I'm single, somewhat unhappy (mostly due to pressures at school) and probably need therapy (for my year with the girlfriend I wasn't happy with), but I'd rather spend it on someone who can not only bring joy to my life, but also theirs.

Quite a few of the Bond movies work well... The Spy Who Loved Anal From Russia With Anal Anal Royale (ladies, you should consider adding this to your list of services...) On Her Majesty's Anal Service Assraker The Man With The Anal Gun AnalEye (don't worry, there's a cure) Quantum of Anal

Congrats Areez on your milestone!! always enjoy reading your contributions! Cheers!

Congrats-looking forward to your next 500:bigclap:

One of the most highly recommended ladies here on CERB at one time did not have a website (she does now) She used her CERB profile and posts only and is a lady you would have a great encounter with. I saw her when she had just her CERB profile to go by. She is also a lady who takes her profession seriously and professionally. And I had an encounter with a lady who has a website, but it was one of the worst unprofessional encounters I ever had. Websites are just tools. Being on a board like CERB may be all the lady needs for her business. How a lady runs her business is her business. For someone so new to this lifestyle you certainly come across as very judgemental about how ladies, who have been involved in this lifestyle just a bit longer than you run their business. And just as you can see the ladies' profiles here on CERB to decide who to see, remember, the ladies can also read your posts and decide if they want to see you. Your first impression is being made here on CERB A rambling RG

Is there some tan lines for this lady? I wonder, but let's try to find them, :icon_wink:

It is a great place, having opened about a month ago. I've had the pleasure of meeting Gina, Tya, Rose, Anastasia and Alyssa. You can't go wrong with either of these fine ladies. Facilities are new, clean, well decorated with large showers in each room. Located in industrial park, parking is easy even during the day.

Just wondering if any of you ladies would sell your panties to clients?

I agree, I think that the lovely ladies who has put in their flair for creative and artistic efforts is enjoyed by many. It is nice to know that our efforts have not gone unoticed! It is much like an artist being able to display their work in a gallery. I love the fact we have many different body types that are celebrated in this thread as well! BRAVO!!