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I have offered this advice privately to a few newbies and have been recently asked by an SP to offer the suggestions to the community at-large. Apparently, some of you need a refresher course... :roll: (I also expect that you are like me -- if you are considering meeting an escort who has no presence on CERB then you have done your proper homework to see if she's genuine or a scammer, and decided to go ahead.) Step 1. Be clear in what you are looking for (services, time). Be careful never to solicit. Example A applies if she has not stated her rates on her Backpage ad: Hi, I like DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. If you are free for a HH incall at 2 p.m., please tell me your HH rate. Example B when her rates are already quoted: Hi, I like DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. Can I book you for a HH incall at 2 p.m.? At this point, she will reply saying she doesn't do a service, she is only free at a time later on, or might not respond at all. Let's say she replies like this: Hi hunnie. CBJ only. I start at 3.30. HH 140, H is 200. Step 2. Make the booking and always prompt her to acknowledge by asking the question. Example: I'm OK with CBJ. 140 for HH is OK too. Please book me for 3:30 p.m. for HH. OK? Let's say she responds like this: OK hunnie. C u then. (At this point you have technically booked her in just 2 text messages! Good for you!) Step 3. Now, if you are within 1 hour of your booking, it is acceptable to ask for her location like this: Thanks for accepting my booking. What is your hotel or address? However, a lot of escorts do not like giving out their location if you have booked a few hours or a day in advance. Let her know that you will follow-up, like this: Thanks again, we are confirmed 3:30p.m. for HH. I will text you 1 hour before to ask for your location. Bye for now. (Later on you will text her like this: Hi, we have a booking for 3:30 p.m. Please tell me your hotel or address.) Once you arrive at her location, expect to text her again for her room number (if she's at a hotel), or for her buzzer number and suite number (if she's at an apartment). These same general rules work well if you choose to arrange your date over the phone. Escorts don't want to make conversation with you or answer a lot of questions. Be direct. Get booked. Get laid. Simple. Cheers!

I think with C36 it'll be dangerous to start talking/texting/emailing about money for services. Keep talk/texts/emails to money is for time and companionship, nothing about sex for money A rambling RG

Started with Barbs at 4:00 pm. A few ladies already there that early among them Paris (cute blonde), Brandy (cute blonde), Vanessa (fair skinned brunette), Joy (Tiny ebony), Sabrina (tiny ebony with dyed pink hair) and a couple of others. Had my late lunch or early Supper at 4:30 and a few dances with Ebony Joy (open minded for Barbs standard and she dances at Pigale evenings) and after I saw all the ladies on stage I decided to leave just after 5:00 pm. Unlike previous weekends Jenny (the cerb popular tall blonde) was absent today!!. My two favorites (Hazel (the very kissable cute short hair fair skinned brunette) and Nikki (the pretty faced fair skinned brunette) both reviewed in Barbs thread) were both absent as well!!. Asked the Barbs DJ about Hazel's working days. Will go back soon to see Hazel. Arrived at Playmates around 5:30 (too early for Playmates). Ashley (early starter, slim brunette) on stage) and a few ebony ladies walking around. Hayley (the high mileage tinny cute blonde) and Teasy (the fair skinned cute faced with dyed red hair) (both reviewed in Playmates thread) were absent today again!!!! The Blonde Kim (sexy kitty fair skinned blonde, a bit on over weight side) arrived just before 6:00 but it was time for me to head to another bar. Arrived at Taboo around 6:30 pm. About a dozen dancers (mostly ebony ladies) and half a dozen patrons. More patrons arriving after 6:30 but most don't stick around for long. No stage dance until 7:30 (no wonder arriving patrons leave soon after arrival). Layla (the high mileage very cute fair skinned young girl), Ginger (high mileage large framed natural red head) and Ruby (the very fair skinned, high mileage small boobs natural redhead), all reviewed in Taboo thread) were all absent today!!!!!. I stayed until 7:45 as I was waiting for Pigale to open. Sabrina The very cute faced fair skinned very passive/shy brunette, who is reviewed in Taboo thread) arrived at 7:30 but was taken by another patron soon after coming out of changing room so I decided to leave to Pigale. Arrived at Pigale just after 8:00 pm. About half a dozen young patrons sitting around the stage and another half a dozen at tables. However there was stage dances one after another even with low number of patrons (unlike the other strip bars). Soon after 8:30 patrons started coming in teams. by 9:00 the bar was crowded. Ladies walking around and approaching patrons for dances. I was approached half a dozen times myself but targeted a young lady with a very pretty face (I am very selective on looks). Her name was Mila (from Ottawa). Not very high mileage but tall brunette with very pretty face and slender sexy body. Small boobs though. Two dozen or so dancers (none with fake boobs though so this is a change from the past for Pigale) and about 50 or so patrons and more coming. The number of dancers and patrons were increasing exponentially after 9:30. Had a second Supper (late Supper) at Pigale. No comparison with Barbs. Much better food at barbs for sure. Just before 10:00 it was too crowded and I decided to leave. ET.

And people have to understand that it is and always has been a possibility, bill C-36 or not.

I'm on Cerb, Terb, and Merb, and they all seem to be quite different, but each are useful in different ways. I was actually skeptical about joining Cerb for the longest time, since it seemed sort of like an exclusive club you need to be on the VIP list to get into. After joining on a whim, I realized how wrong I was, and how lovely and respectful everyone, both men and SP's are on here. I haven't really met many people from here..I think only one person? But from the ones I've chatted to, and just reading the threads and recommendations, everyone just seems to be very supportive of each other, which I find really beautiful, because that's so hard to find being in this business. Terb is..well, a whole other ballgame. It certainly has it's perks, since there are a lot of SP's trying to scam or rip people off, and it's good for the men to be able to share experiences such as that with each other, and I think that negative reviews can be a good thing as well, since if you take it as constructive criticism, it can help someone improve in areas where they may be lacking, such as communication, or overall friendliness, or rushing, etc. The only problem I've found with this board though(at least mainly in the Ottawa area I find), is that a large portion of men on there are malicious, nasty, and downright mean. I feel like I'm back in high school with all of the catty girls when reading through that board these days. And the thing is, there could very easily be men lying in their reviews, and yet the guys will pounce on anything negative as a reason to boycott an SP. I actually also know that some agencies will make deals with the men on here, that in exchange for a good review for a girl, the guys will get a discounted session, which isn't a very honest review in the end, since the SP may be very different than the men are painting them out to be. I've very rarely read anything on there that actually speaks as if the SP's are actual human beings worthy of respect. I do have to say though, it provides me my daily entertainment! Or is that wrong to say..? Merb seems to be the same as Terb, though not as exciting unfortunately! There does seem to be way more positive reviews than negative, but that could very well be because there's a lot of good SP's in Montreal? Hard to say.. All-in-all, each board serves a purpose and it's good in way to have that variety there. Posted via Mobile Device

I've looked at the other erb sites and will not participate on them. Too much fighting Imo. I love cerb because it's a place where providers and hobbyists can interact in a civilized and adult fashion. I have friends on this site.

To the OP: I think you got your point across succinctly. However, to add to it - it's to stress that if/when the lady accepts your booking request, that you follow her protocol to securing/confirming the appointment. For example, in my case, I do not finalize any bookings by text or email. The client MUST call me from an unblocked number I can call back if necessary. Part of my screening to hear the person's voice and chit chat a bit as intuition plays a big part in whether I want to see them. I give them a general idea of where I am located. Then I will ask that they confirm at least a half hour before the scheduled time so I know they are on their way. Then I will direct them to a designated place to park. When they get there, they need to call for the street address. I will be moving away from answering explicit requests by text or email as I do not want any text message or email trails out there. I have no problem discussing things by phone because it's doubtful LE is going to wiretap my phone. I think people need to relax a bit and wait and see how things are going to pan out with the new bill. In-calls were technically illegal and even agencies were offering them and the police have basically overlooked that for years unless there were problems. So why all of a sudden would they be listening in to two people's private conversations. I am not concerned that much will change. I am quite adept to change and have no problem adapting to whatever I need to do to keep myself and my clients safe.

Carrie, although Lisbeth provides good pointers, I would highly discourage you to use the method quoted above because A) a lot of potential clients will use this to circumvent your basic screening process B) will use it just to get a look at you and talk to you even though they have no intentions of booking C) in my personal opinion, in general, it's a total waste of time D) you will end up drinking a lot more coffee than your body can tolerate and/or that you care to ;) I could add a few more valid reasons but I'll leave it at that.

Also, as has been explained to these guys MANY times, what is LE hold on the sp? she can legally advertise, she can legally host incalls, so what exactly does he think can be held over her head as a potential threat in order to cooperate with LE to do this? This is a level of paranoia and fear mongering that has absolutely no place in this discussion or in the terms of the C36 itself This kind of paranoia is designed to create issues now for all the established sps as well as any new ones, imo, and completely pointless and without merit.

And what is interesting about this comment is that it is presumed and assumed that trash talking is not just permitted, but encouraged on all the other sites, even the ones promoted as most friendly lol. It should be noted that p/t/m erbs are all the same board admin/owner. If they are communicating amongst each other, that should not really be a big surprise, after all. p erb is simply t erb for out west. Same guy to be contacted if you want to send a message to the admin. This site is what it is due to moderation. no one is undoing the moderator/admin mandates, or permitting hostility. This kind of moderation goes a long way in explaining why certain types of people, who are active on all those other sites, show up here and either leave shortly after, or rarely participate. When you are an aggressive, trollish, baiting, lying, trash talking poster, you have no place on this site. And that is the number one reason you will find more sps participating on this site over any other, regardless of any amount of business they might get. I've seen a dozen of the sps who are very active members of cerb, never or rarely posting on even their own reviews on other sites. That alone tells a big story. Guys come here because if they post a good review, they get a thank you from other guys and from sps. They do the same post elsewhere, they get trashed and attacked. Not exactly hard to figure out the differences, or the reasons why this site tends to have more active members.

I don't think the risk of this behavior increases because of this new law. If you were dealing with reputable SP'S. Just my opinion

When making a booking and telling me you don't want FS so you should get a deal. Your paying for my time not what we do. It still takes the same amount of time to prepare. I'm not a menu girl. Please don't ask us how much for this or that. It doesn't sit well.

I've seen other hobbyists make reference to sps telling authorities who their clients are and really don't understand where this is coming from. Where is the logic of this? She makes no money from this, looses her clients and can't make new clients. Why would she do this? I sure as hell would never "help" the authorities get prosecutions under this law.

If you are in compliance with the lady's requirements and do not overstep boundaries (asking too many personal questions, sharing too many personal stories with her where she might not feel comfortable, insisting on off-the-clock extended conversing/texting or email, trying to stay over-time or enticing her to stay over time or meet off the clock for free, etc.) there is no reason why you should feel you are taking advantage of her. If you are getting a certain level of intimacy and other stimulation met through the time you spend with an SP without any unrealistic expectations, then I'd say you have a good arrangement. If you feel you are not totally satisfied and crave more, then you might be putting unrealistic expectations on the client/SP relationship. I understand some men do not want to pursue a dating relationship because for whatever reason they don't want the commitment that goes along with it. But you can't expect an SP no matter how gracious she is or how well you connect and get along with her, to give you access to her personal life, or her heart so to speak. Just because we are being paid does not mean we are there just for the money, but I would never want a client to think or expect it may develop into anything more. In some instances, a client and SP may click in the romance department and end up together as a couple, but it's not realistic for a client to see SPs hoping that will happen for him. I am not suggesting that is what you are doing, I'm just putting it out there, that if you think you are taking advantage of someone, ask yourself what you are doing that is perhaps making you feel guilty. I suggest you do a self-check, and if necessary, ask a provider you have been with who you trust who has the maturity to be honest and ask them if there is anything they have observed in your approach or behaviour that might be off putting. Little things that might not seem like such a big deal can something make others feel uncomfortable. Doesn't mean it can't be corrected.

well looks like im her 1st to give a reco for this hot little blonde :) Khloe & I exchanged PMs a few times over the weekend. She requested that I call the spa to book my time, and I did. I arrived a few minutes early, Khloe greeted me at the door in sexy lingerie. she looked stunning. she guided me to the room, I got undressed, and a few minutes later she arrives. we took a nice shower together to start, then it was on the table for the massage. we chatted about many different things, she is very polite, and friendly, and her massage skills are awesome. halfway through it was time for the flip. got some great bodyslides, and it seems the time flew by so quickly we were just about done. as I stated before, she is a hot little blonde, an ass that wont quit. I plan to see her again. thanks again Khloe :)

"Are you open now?" What am I? A convenience store? Lol. Some of the things I've been asked over the last few years, I just shake my head and can't help but to laugh now. This came from an SP friend of mine... Him: Are you available? Her: Yes Him: I dont want to pay. Fun is free Her: Would you like to go to work and not get paid by your boss because he thinks you enjoy your job soooo much? Him: No but having fun should still be free. Her: Well I guess you can't argue with stupid Regardless of whether or not someone enjoys their job or not, they are still entitled to be paid. While many SPs enjoy what they do, it is how they make their living. Never confuse her with enjoying her job that she would see a client off the clock because she enjoys it so much. We are also like everyone else. We have financial responsibilities, many women have children, etc. Some people attempt to confuse those lines where it is already apparent to begin with. Posted via Mobile Device

:biggrin:Can we take a number ??

Thanks everyone, I did go ahead with my first appointment on Friday and had a good time. It takes quite the leap to get over that initial shock... :)

I travel a fair bit and have used all these boards depending on where I am but I've never really thought about the differences. I live in TO but I do find that I'm on cerb more often just to check in see what's what. I use the other boards to get info but I come to Cerb to just for fun.

It's YMMV of course, but try some of the girls at Angels Touch/Paradise. I could recommend SabrinaR, but she's not everybody's body type.

Just goes to show, one mans fantasy is another mans nightmare. :P Just kidding! Hope your fantasy comes true someday!

MASSIVE difference. I have use all of them because I tour the country from time to time. Cerb is really friendly and SP are really accepted. But it is a recommendation not a review board which could make a difference Terb: Brutal as hell. I have to use it because I am base in Toronto and that's where I get the most of my business. People are mean like no tomorrow Merb: Not as bad as terb, but a lot of cheap people. Bitching in French and English. Perb: friendliest of the t/m/p board. Caerf: the most friendly board out there, not as active as terb, but guys seriously thanks each other for the reviews and community seem good. Business wise it doesn't seem to give me a lot of hit on my website, but heck it's free for indy SP to advertise hope this help!

I don't have a lot of experience with the other sites, but it seems to me that the main difference is that cerb is a recommendation board, not a review board. Negative comments are not welcome here. This makes for an environment that is much more welcoming to the sps themselves. Keeping the bashing away means we can have more open and meaningful discussions. Nobody wants to hang around in a crowd where there is constant bickering, or where they are getting bad mouthed by someone with an axe to grind. Just my thoughts on the subject.

Sorry if this has been posted already, I did a quick scan and didn't see it. Police released the suspects image as they believe there may be other victims out there. Ladies please take a look. http://toronto.ctvnews.ca/arrest-made-in-death-of-sex-trade-worker-1.2056524

Well said Angela! Took the words out of my mouth:) I can also reiterate, that perhaps you are asking too many questions of a personal nature with her? I too, get very uncomfortable with that, and it could cause a small wedge between us. Keep conversation fun and lively, with humor and yes some serious chats is intriguing as well. But if you begin to dive into her personal relationship questions, such as " well doesn't he mind that you do this? Or " how to hide it from your kids?" well it would defiantly a loss of romance and adventure for the lady. One element many men miss, is that most ladies, when preparing for our date we switch into out alter ego. Much like an actor would. I call it " Sophiafied" lol...So by getting into deep personal questions, I loose my alter ego and get into my "me" mode and then I find it difficult to jump back into the sexy, seductive creature that I created for "Sophia" It is not a lie of who we are, but a more pronounced version of our sexy side. Another aspect to be an escort, is that for the most part we are givers by nature. This means, we much rather you spill your stress and worries on us if you need to talk about things in your life that are upsetting for you. Often lending an ear and shoulder if needed. I have had many of my dear clients unload their worries on me. Some heartbroken and shed a tear. But as a professional, I would never do this to a client. Never would I unload my inner most vulnerabilities. Because, we are here for YOU, you are the center of our attention and focus during our time together. So why do we all that? Well for my ownself, I truly love my work, and although "Sophia" is an alter ego, she is still another version of who the real me is. So in staying true to my real self being a giver it is not just a façade. I have a friend, the poor guy is so sweet and nice but always becomes the "friend or just like a brother" from most ladies he meets. But you see, when he meets ladies he wants to dive into their ways of thinking. Becoming like a confidant to them, helping them threw issues.....then before you know it, he missed the mark on when to make the move on them, and now is viewed" oh your just like a brother to me". So as you can see it also can happen in the "real world" too. But in our professional mutually beneficial escort relations, it can happen much more quickly to loose that moment. And that's when you begin to feel like your being "used" or vis versa. There certainly times, even with a good provider that chemistry just doesn't seem to be there. Not much can be done about that but try to enjoy the time and move on. And certainly there are providers that will make you feel like just a wallet rather then a man, that is a live and learn scenario. Maybe think of it this way, when you book time with a lady, think of it as your "man's spa day". It is just a retreat for you to treat yourself. Nothing more then a way to relax and have that human contact.

I think this may have been mentioned before, but nothing turns me off more then when the guy can clearly tell I'm enjoying myself and stops to say "you should be paying me for this!" or when they're leaving, "I'm going to see you again, but I get a discount next time!". Well thanks for killing the mood, jeez :P Also, when they send a message at about 5 or 6 in the morning, and since I'm very much not awake at that time, by the time I'm up a few hours later I've received a bunch of "???", "hello?", "did I do something wrong?". Posted via Mobile Device

Crackerz, book Emily J or Rebecca. Or if some other girl, make it clear when texting her exactly what you want. In my experience, the vast majority will tell you right away what they are willing to do, and most follow-up unless you are not clean or have some sign of a disease (which sounds extremely unlikely in your case)

Howdy ladies and gents. I guess I didn't do a good enough job promoting the return of the diary. I simply jumped on the thread that had 3,600 views stating that the diary was down, and changed the link in my signature along with a few discrete ads on CL. In the last few days I've received numerous PMs and emails from folks that didn't know about the new diary's return and new address. Guess I should give myself a failing grade on marketing the return of the cowboy's diary. It was down for a number of weeks due to some apparent issues with the terms of service, but after all the kind support and encouragement from the many readers here from cerb and other venues I decided to setup shop at a new home on the internet... if you haven't been there yet, check it out and bookmark http://www.cowboysdiary.info, be sure to tell your friends and family too. (ok maybe not your family) pardon me for this shameless plug :)

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=196668&highlight=kelsey I had seen Kelsey's ads on BP for a while and also read a few reviews - some favourable and some neutral so I contacted her on cerb (Starbright). We exchanged a number of messages and I asked her to send some real pics which she did. The pics she sent were more than enough for me to want to follow up with some personal experience. Definitely a tiny little spinner! Five feet nothing and no more than a 100 lbs. Dirty blond hair, perky little tits, very slim and tiny and a cute face. She looks young but is of legal age. After seeing her pics, we exchanged texts and lined up a visit with this little minx. Hotel location was ok and easy to get to. Entering her room, I was greeted by this little spinner dressed in stockings and lingerie that I had requested - wow I was ready! We started with some LFK and moved onto DFK. She quickly got down to just her stockings and me down down to nothing over some very easy and pleasant conversation and kissing. She immediately went down and got personal with my cock and oh how she can suck - deep throat and this little thing she does on the head in her mouth - absolutely yummy! After enjoying her skills, I dove on into partake of dinner at the Y until her nectar was running and that very little flower had opened. She really seemed to enjoy the fingering and tongue combination. Did I mention she is tiny and tight? Back and forth with DATO in doggy with some accompanying bbbj and I was ready. Dressed him up, lubed up that tiny little ass and began to fuck that tight little butthole while she rubbed her pussy and moaned and writhed with what seemed pure desire. I pounded that little butt while she pushed back and then switched to CG to see how well she could ride him in greek. She can ride! After a while I flipped her over onto her stomach and continued with the greek experience until I popped in the cover in that tight little ass. We lay there for a moment and then she began a massage sitting on my my legs while I was face down. Kelsey did loosen up my back and relaxed my body completely - she has strong hands and it was a great massage. Then she whispered in my ear that it was time to continue. I rolled over and she went to work with Mr. J again while I rubbed her pussy and clit which was wet. As soon as he was up and ready, she covered him up and moved to the edge of the bed in doggy, looked back over her shouler and asked me to fuck her pussy. I slipped into that wonderful, tight pussy while looking down on her back and that wonderful spinner ass. I pounded that little box while she pushed back and looked back with those eyes until she gasped and I exploded at the same time. Wow - she is great! Kelsey never watched the clock and never asked to hurry things along. The hour was perfect and she delivered! I'm going to repeat many times with her. Kelsey is really the typical GND and classic spinner. Tight, young body with a youthful innocence and she is enthusiastic and genuinely enjoys what she is doing! Tristan :bddog:

I've been seeing advertising on BP from thisw agency. The girls look hot. Did anyone meet any of them and, if so, how was the experience?

Different personality types enjoy different online environments. Some people like to laugh all day, others prefer to debate. Some use the boards to socialize, some only for research. One thing I have learned throughout the C-36 process, is that we're all better off when we work together, rather than fight against one another. Several times this year - we've been able to make an impact because of our ability to share info on forums across the country. The Happy Hooker campaign, and the amount of emails received by Terri Jean Bedford are proof of that. :D

There are ladies provide Wonderful Companionship and Magical Memories, but a look at their websites, not a mention of a menu at all. Most ladies I see don't even have a menu.. Companionship, and this is just my opinion, is more than looks and a menu of services. A lady's personality, chemistry/connection, what is undefinable, makes for a Great Date. Again, just my opinion, menus will have to go out the window once C36 passes. Ladies will have to redo their profile and websites removing any mention of menus and being prostitutes. Websites like that I can see drawing attention, unwanted attention that is. Guys, well those menu focused will just have to understand about C36 and realize advertising services will be a thing of the past A morning rambling over coffee number two RG

Very nice review E.T. Sounds like a great afternoon. I spent some time with Mila last month at Barbs she's everthing you said pretty and very sexy. I haven't been able get to the club when she's working. Keep the reviews coming

Attempt 2 at soap making; purple clay and orange colouring swirled in.

Be polite and respectful. That will go a long way in every experience of life!

Finished dinner (homemade Caesar salad...btw note to self, lo carb diet or not, next time put croutons in the salad) Dishes done, kitchen cleaned up Now feet up, changed to sweat pants and a hoodie, lounging,enjoying a hot coffee, berries and surfing CERB RG

This is the hardest thing for us clients to figure out, imo. It seems that every SP has a different deal when it comes to texting vs. calling. Personally, I get disgusted with texting in my business dealings. Some of my customers will shoot texts back and forth 20 times and I find it annoying. I think if there are more than 2 texts, an actual conversation should take place. However, many SPs that I have contacted use text only so I go with the flow. I do try to ask in my initial contact what method of contact is preferred so as to avoid this particular turn-off but it doesn't always work when she says, "whatever works for you". :icon_biggrin:

Cerb......fun friendly great place for information on all sorts of ladies and topics. Terb......very often a sandbox with people throwing sand at eachother, but still some good information Merb... Mostly montreal stuff Posted via Mobile Device

Greetings Everyone! My name is Skylar & I'm a petite brunette with booty here to meet all you wonderful Cerbies I've been hearing so much about! I'm available next on Monday from 4pm-10pm for an up close & personal in the flesh meeting you are sure to love! I have experience as an exotic dancer and some of you may know me from Pigales? I'm open-minded, sweet & fun and so far I love being in the massage industry cause I'm AWESOME at it! :wink: We have beautiful rooms with showers to play in here at Vibe and I am looking forward to getting you naked & on my table soon! (So much fun!) My AVAILABILITY This Week Is: Monday: 4pm-10pm! Tuesday: 10am-6pm - Rare Daytime Availability! WED/THURS OFF Friday: 2pm-10pm Saturday: 12pm-8pm & Sunday: 12pm-8pm Please call Vibe at 613 680 8059 to reserve your time with me! You can visit my new profile & see more pictures too: Click Here! & Check Out My Brand New Recommendations HERE! xoxo Skylar

I highly doubt that LE are posting ads at this time, as it is not even a law yet. It would be counter effective for them to do that at this point. With that said, this is why new ladies will have a hard time breaking into the scene. IF LE did post ads, ya I can imagine they would be too good to be true, hot 23 yrs, blond, busty....but also ads would have to stating "sexual services" or you would have to ask for "sexual services" to build a case on you. If you don't ask for that, or respond to an ad that advertises it, then they have absolutely no case and would move onto the next dude who may not be so wise. Even on that note, they will bait those who are trying to pimp the girl, or the ones going after " barley legal" ads.

Well, to be blunt, they are there because of the exchange that you do. But then, so are you. You wouldn't be there if it wasn't for the exchange, in other words this is a mutually beneficial arrangement. There is nothing wrong with mutually beneficial arrangements between consenting adults. Most sps do this because they are people who are able to be morally open minded. They wouldn't last long if they are judgmental, or if they were self judgmental for their choices. Many clients are also morally openminded, and non judgmental. It is possible to share time with people that are friendly, fun and seemingly intimate, but are really only sharing conversation in a nonthreatening environment. This is a good thing, and will benefit you in your everyday life. Take and enjoy the experiences, and the sharing, and don't try to put a label on it. I assure you that the majority of sps do not feel taken advantage of in these mutually beneficial arrangements, they will only feel that way if something changes in the agreed upon exchange.

"In Durham Region, officers interviewed 31 sex trade workers, with an average age of 26, and investigators believe nine were under some level of control. These 31 people represent the highest total for any police service during Operation Northern Spotlight II." I find that they BELIEVED 9 were under some level of control which means they can't actually prove it. What they don't factor in is the tendency for peope to default to the inaction of "it's easier to blame someone else for your actions than own it when challenged" if it's something they haven't reconciled within themselves... cat

Hi FunAdventures, One thing you may want to do is take a look at many of the websites other ladies have up. Each person has their own rules but you'll get a good idea of the range of methods people employ. "No blocked numbers" seems to be the most common three words you'll ever see on an ad. Some ladies will only meet with a guy if he can provide her with references from other ladies he has already seen. Others require a gent to provide his real name and occupation first. Others just require to be able to talk on the phone first or even just message so they can get a sense of the person and use their intuition. I don't think I'm revealing any secrets here since these are all things you'll see publicly on different websites and ads, but at the end of the day you get to decide which rules make you feel safe, and don't feel like you have to back down if anyone pushes back against them.

Good looking mature lady, good massage, I would compare it as similiar/same service as at 1360. Nice atmosphere. Restrictions as per main st. I will repeat.

I am writing here because I realized some gentlemen are asking questions about me so I will give you the information. I just transformed a room in my house in a Tantra Temple ( big fire place, exotic decorations, warm atmosphere, candles everywhere. I offer a moment of pure pleasure and kindness. My massage is inspired from the Kama Sutra book of love (exotic technics) and the quality and cares I provide are VIP. I know how to give a good tantric massage because I have 10 years of experience and I learned from Masters in India 10 years ago. What is Tantric? In the beginning it was a movement of protestation from a group of person who believed the divine could be reach by the sexuality. Like we all know, back those days, sex was banned and people were considering it as impure. Tantric is there to prove us that the divine can be reach by the sensual touch and the goal is to get the most powerful orgasm possible (by the lingam and the kundalini). Feel free to ask me questions, I am very friendly and humanist. I am a nice girl, I treat my costumers just like kings. I will make you very happy. I know I am not supposed to write here because it s a review site, but I saw how many people were asking about me. So kindly I answer to you Gentlemen. With love, Liberty

Not to be rude but until you are a confirmed SP with pictures in your album and a recommendation from a reputable source here on Cerb, many ladies will be reluctant to answer your questions. Until you have a established more of a history as an SP, some may be wary of these types of questions as there are many people affiliated with the media who want to do these kinds of stories about the adult industry. And they are NEVER fair and balanced!

Was in Thurs. aft.....not much going on. I did see Jenny very briefly between her CR visits. Also met Paris that was the highlight!

I found us a Van driver........ He's a retired pilot / bus driver...... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yACWE3CzmYQ

All I know is that the street I live on runs east and west. Anything beyond that is new to me. I like exploring new things! ;) The cost of the ticket is fine with me too.

After reading some of your remarks I would like to make a comment not sure if this the proper place hopefully it is OK, I figure this has being stated before and is definitely worth stating again as a hobbiest that tries very hard to make sure I go to your website, read everything to make sure I am doing everything correctly before and after contacting you we do appreciate the garbage and I mean garbage you have to deal with, anyone I had the privilege to visit here on Cerb has being nothing but awesome awesome, Thank you:)