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I have to give Mod credit for all that he has done and the changes he's had to make. Going against this and defying the law here would put him serious trouble despite what everyone out there is doing. I respect him as a business owner. Yes, things have been quiet around here but out of consideration to the board owner and until things have legally changed, I'd rather be feeling monotone than lose this site and a good community. Besides, there are a lot of people out there defying the law already. Why does it have to be done here? Just for a few explicit words to make things seem more interesting? I'd rather make things more interesting elsewhere on my own time in private.

Let's make sure this happens....

As an individual, I feel that I can manage my own risk in this regard and operate in such a manner that if we wake up tomorrow and find that oops.... the new law WILL be enforced, I'm okay. In so far as a corporate entity like CERB/LYLA is concerned, the risks are much greater. Were it my business, I would operate as if the new law were, in fact, the new law until there was an official clear change. It just takes one noisy persistent nut-job to raise a legal ruckus. I only see a few potential nut-jobs each day. CERB/LYLA is potentially exposed to thousands so not a risk I would take were I them. Additional Comments: Monotone looks so much better on me than prison orange. :)

I personally don't think I have any right to suggest or encourage anyone else to operate in a way that put them at risk regardless of how I might assess the risk and I don't think it would be appropriate to put that person into a position where they feel pressured to explain or support why they choose to operate in a particular way. Certainly everyone has the right to decide if the new rules on this board make their involvement here less useful and then act according to their own needs. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Because of my involvement in animal issues and rescue I encounter sadness a lot and often not the nicest people. But sometimes I'm passed on or experience a story of kindness and hope here's the most recent. I hope it brings a smile http://dogjournal.tumblr.com/post/105005012623/firefighter-adopts-dog-who-survived-car-accident I know I'm being redundant but this message is worth repeating-if you see an animal outside in the cold for extended periods PLEASE report it, if it's to cold for you it is for them. If you are giving a pet as a gift, which is really never a good idea, please give it to a responsible and wanting person. If you are searching for a dog or cat or any pet PLEASE adopt millions are euthanized yearly and as we speak, just because there is no room for them. There are all types of dog/cat breeds and other pets available through pounds, shelters, rescue groups. Older dogs are as great and trainable as a puppy and they'll love you the same. Thanks for caring

Ugg to all this new agenda. I guess we are all taking chances , ladies and gents. Open the door and ask questions later. No sense to that at all, however we may be there. Good news to me is the dust will settle soon as police in ever province are laughing this bill down the street. Good news for me as I have a short street! :smile:

I really hope it is just the normal seasonal lulls as too many wonderful people will be hurt if this new law has any significant impact on client bookings. I would encourage all of my fellow Hobbiests to really show Mr. Harper and the Conservatives what we think of their new law but booking an extra appointment in December... what could be better than spending an extra hour with an amazing lady while at the same time showing total contempt for this new law. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Cops may not be allowed to commit sexual acts on duty, but that doesn't mean they don't. Cops commit some of the worst assaults against sex workers. This is honestly the dumbest thing I've ever heard.

I find your thread somewhat offensive. I hate to break it to you, but you communicating sex for money is illegal whether you have handed the money over or not. And this so-called, "if they're a cop, they won't let you touch them" is an urban myth that's been around forever. I am not a cop and I won't allow anyone to touch my boob or pay me at the end of the session to prove I am not a cop. This has not affected my business, because in the past 10 years, I have never had one client ask me to do this ahead of time or when they showed up. You are not going to win over many ladies affection by suggestion clients insist on touching our boobs and paying us at the end. If we advertising companionship only, and gents respond to such ads, there is no need for them to worry about being busted for exchange of money for sex if no sex is being sold. If it's sex you wish to purchase, you won't find ads like that here. That's all I am going to say about this before I get into trouble for being hostile.

I have no problem with the new regulations here on Lyla, and I certainly do not want my clients to be criminals . I also will echo my appreciation for how MOD has gotten through this mess.

I can't speak for him, but I don't think the MOD would appreciate this discussion on Lyla even if certain police departments have not made enforcing it a priority. And until those laws are actually overturned, no one is 100% safe from prosecution. Which is why Lyla.com has taken the high road and is trying its best to stay within the letter of the law. And if "monotone" is the word you want to you, so be it. I think many folks would rather be "monotone" than "explica-tone" right now. Just my thoughts.

For me, the new legislation will not impact the frequency of my visits, but will impact my choice in who I will see. I foresee sticking with the same ladies I know for the next few months (and also because I like them so much). I would certainly be more vigilant in looking up anyone new (reviews, reputation, etc.). I think this new legislation may make it more difficult for those starting out in this business, although I know alot of guys like ''the new girl''. It may be just me, but I believe there are more ladies in Ottawa than before. Either that or I am getting more frisky in my dirty thirties... :icon_wink:

Yes, it is very dead. I think many are aware of the new laws now even though media publications didn't announce it so much on December 6. Guys are being very cautious until they decide if and when they will feel comfortable again. What I've noticed is when they do call for info, it is only for rates now. They don''t say much. It will be regular clients that will carry the ladies over for now. I appreciate all my regulars. :)

The Canadian Public Health Association has just released a policy/position paper discussing the public health perspective to sexwork, and provides recommendations for a public health approach: http://www.cpha.ca/uploads/policy/sex-work.pdf

I am one who generally likes natural breasts. That being said, I know there is a time/circumstance when EB will really help a girls self esteem. Time-perhaps in her 30's and 1 or 2 kids. Circumstance-an average size girl with A or B cups which give her too much of the classic pear shape and she wants to be in better proportion, top to bottom. BTW spinners look best with A's or B's. I take pride in being 1 individual who convinced a spinner to stay with her A cups as there is a large group in the Ottawa IBTC. Within the last year I have come across 2 ladies who got EB. Needless to say they positively glowed afterwards. The smile on their faces was undeniable and I am so happy for them. Where I am not a great fan of EB is when I see a girl who was most likely a C or D and who has gone DD or DDD and looks like something out of a San Francisco strip club. I am happy to say however that this is not happening too much now. I've been in daytime Pigales and seen many A's & B's and maybe only 1 or 2 others with EB's. Same goes for massage parlours, just look at their pics. So, its a trend (only get them if you really need them) that I'm very happy to see. Nothing worse that seeing a girl with gorgeous "B's" going DD or more.

I think a couple of things deserve repeating Under rare circumstance, it may be the perfect gift, but as Cristy said above, owning a pet is a massive responsibility, with a lot of costs associated. Pets become a part of the family, and it is imperative that at least one or two members of the family feel the animal out first to see if they are a good fit. This is another point I completely agree with. I adopted a cat from a shelter, and he is the best animal companion I've ever had. He was already slightly old, but he has given my family immense joy. Kittens and puppies are adorable and oh so cute. But I'd say if you can, check out the older ones, they have more developed personalities and habits. You can see if they are affectionate or the ones that like to stay away.

Large. Small. Bee stings. Fun bags. Pointy. Droopy. Enhanced. Natural. I love them all! Never touched a female breast I didn't enjoy.

I'm of the opinion that the only person who's OPA ion matters on the subject is the lady herself. I have DDs and I'll be getting EB at some point. I like the look. I don't really care how other people feel about ir, I see them more than anyone else and they're attached to me, I get to do whatever I want to them.

As a woman who has an enhanced pair, I'm a bit biased. I love mine and want more of them, a bigger set:) I'll say, once again, it is a shame how some see others as parts and not as a whole person and generalize . Enhanced breasts are as individual as natural breasts. I've seen many and none were the same, just as all natural breasts I've seen were all different. The only similarities, they were all breasts. It is a very personal decision to enhance or change something about yourself and one not to be taken lightly, therefore I think comments directed towards such changes should also be thought about carefully and articulated respectfully. For anyone to say they don't like someone's enhancement that they've never met, I find a bit odd, imo, it's like saying you don't like the taste of something to which you've never tasted. That's my best analogy. However we all are entitled to an opinion as well.(this is not a comment directed towards anyone in particular) To anyone thinking about breast enhancement I'd say, the only down side imo, is that it is never a one time procedure, however there are exceptions. They will, in most cases, not last a lifetime and will need replacing. Silicone is much better than saline, mine are saline, they are soft, luckily, but saline are more often known to harden from capsular contraction and known to be not as soft feeling as silicone. I went from a sufficient c to a d, was expecting a dd, so in your consult make sure your physician understands your desired outcome. I was much smaller when I had mine done, nearly 20lbs, so I think my doc was trying to keep me balanced looking while I was wanting the Jessica rabbit look, lol. So to end, like what you like, but shouldn't anyone see, feel and experience the particular item they are saying they dislike before making a judgement on it?

For you and others in Spa locations may find more growing pains then otherwise. But even us INDY are going threw it too. I find myself loosing more these days then booking. Mainly because I am sticking to guidlines to maintain my rep and keep my regulars safe. Christmas is a hit and miss, I have seen my phone on fire right up to 25th, but I am in a military town so they are away from home and seeking company. I find after Christmas to be a killer! Hang in there, and you are doing the smart thing by using all your talents and skills to give you an edge:) Always put money away for Dec10-Jan 10 I always say:) Best wishes!!!

I'm sure it's a combination of things like Meaghan said. Another lady I know has told me the same thing - it's slow for some. I add seasonal illness to the list as I had the flu for 2 weeks and know of a few others, so I'm sure it is going around again. Also, some guys in the business sector are putting in extra hours to meet year's end and to arrange time off during the holidays. Hopefully, Sylvia, you've been a good girl this year and your regulars will give you some generous Christmas $ gifts and tips.

I think it's a combination of many things. Winter, weather, new laws and Christmas. My experience is that it's no different from previous December's. Still steady and busy/slow at times. Hang in there.

Feeling very sad and depressed. This time last year my mother spent November and December in the hospital. January will be the first anniversary of her death. She died of bone cancer. :(

IMHO whatever breast size a lady, in this business or not, has before getting EB's is none of our business, unless she personally ask us for advice. What a woman does with her body is her own choice and as far as I know if she gets EBs form a reputable surgeon they won't do the operation before having some serious discussion with her! Personnally her personality is a key factor in meeting a lady and whether or not she has EB's is not a factor. After all brains don't reside inside breasts!

It has been quiet $ lately. I work in a spa, and no, it's not just me, its everyone. I'm wondering, is it the new laws coming out that are keeping people away? Is it the spas feeling it most, or indies too? I would love some feedback. I have always been a busy girl, with many repeat clients. And this lull has me so dazed and confused, I don't know what to do with myself. All I can say is thank the lord that I have diversified, and went from exclusively escorting to XXXXXX massage, and now adding phone sex service, and intimacy coaching to my menu.

In the 20+ years that I have seen ladies I could count on one hand the number of disappointing sessions I have had. Obviously some are more fun than others but very very very few have been disappointing. Now that said I have been more regularly seeing ladies (ie several times a month) only for the last year and a half or so and as it turns out the first lady I saw 19 months ago was a perfect match for me.... I still see her and while I would never compare one lady to another as they all have their own special attributes this first lady certainly continues to hit all my buttons and I look forward with great anticipation to every visit with her. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

That's exactly what I do. I can click (if I like) to see if a text has arrived, but I require a password to turn it on to open and read the message. And nobody but myself knows this password.

My phone is set to no audible notification for text messages and has a password that only I know so when i close the case and lay it down it locks... so it's ok to text me any time. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I agree with Boomer that if you are arrested, you don't give them your password. Just say you want a lawyer and shut up. A lawyer may be able to get you off without any charges and before LE has a chance to search the device. If you are not under arrest, then get the hell out of there as soon as possible. You do not have any obligation to speak to LE at all, EVER. Stay silent like you are a mute. The only exception is to identify yourself when stopped by an officer (i.e provide your licence, etc.). If they already have a specific warrant in place, they'll take your phone/computer and get the info/force you to disclose you password. But being arrested will not in and of itself give them the right to access the info on your device, and I seriously do not believe they will even consider getting a warrant just because you are trying to see someone. The Court case being cited in the article had nothing to do with this industry. The privacy issues perhaps fall into our interests, but IMO (as it relates to this industry) it would only be an issue if you are arrested doing something else illegal and they add on an extra charge.

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Personally, I love em all. Enhanced, natural, big, small, it doesn't matter. The only thing I will say is that if they are enhanced, hopefully they are done well and the Dr. is on his "A" game. I hate to hear when a lady has health issues or something because the Doc was thinking about the putt he missed on the golf course. The other thing is hopefully there is no nerve damage and the nipples are still sensitive and responsive. You must still get pleasure from a light touch or nibble. :biggrin:

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Hello to all, As many ladies I am paring down my already small friend list . Most of my friends are very intimate and I hear from them regularly. This evening I am deleting those that do not message me or really hardly know a thing about me. I am always open to my lady friends of this board but gents if you wish to be friends don't just request and I never hear from you again. Friends keep in touch at the very least . Please let me know in the future if you would like to re connect. Kisses Katherine

And thank goodness for it im crawling the walls!! I have time in my hands boys so you know what that means come visit and we will BOTH have a good day! Sorry for the last minute post. Im hoping it won't be a problem to come see my Horney self. Or if following the rules comes see me so i can make both our days!!!!!

I met with Angelina again recently, with some trepidation. I wondered if a second session could ever reach the depth and intensity of the first. I was wrong. Seriously wrong. It was as if I had met up with a long lost intimate friend. The all enveloping sensuous almost spiritual emotion that built during our last encounter was kindled almost instantly. As before it started with laughter and that languorous warm candle lit bath the whispers of things to come. Then the massage. I could hardly contain myself as her gentle probing fingers teased and kneaded. What then followed I was again asked not to divulge graphically. Let me say that I have always enjoyed a power exchange, of restraint and the heightening of the remaining senses that follow when one sense is masked. Angelina brought me to even greater teasing, exploratory heights only then to allow them to gently subside before once again slowly building them up again. I described it before as a roller coaster of emotion and that is just what it was. It was at times light, playful, teasing at other times darker and intense. Following my first post it was suggested that no man could have written a review like that. Well my testosterone levels may be in decline with my age but I'm still, fortunately, still very much male. It was the deep sensuousness of my encounter with Angelina that draws my mind into this almost poetic frame of mind. I cannot bring myself to write a raw functional account as this is just not what Angelina is about. If you value warmth, sincerity, playfulness, sensuality then Angelina has no peer. Thank you Angelina.

The holiday season is normally slow. The problem this year seems to be the new law. The new law appears to have scared people. I should add that several people have called or emailed me to tell me that they are deathly afraid of the new law.

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Some do possess these however it is illegal to discuss the use of and also to offer so I think you're on your own....sorry!

I would say there is more and more competition on this site, and B P... And more and more girls are being aggressive with prices and deals... So the guys may be trying new people, or trying other sites... Competition is always a good thing, because it makes people better at what they do!

When they are no longer a fair representation of what one would expect to see when they meet you. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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fem·i·nism : the belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities : organized activity in support of women's rights and interests This is the true definition and it has indeed been hijacked. Now when many people hear that someone is a feminist, they picture radical man hater out to elevate and destroy. There have been many feminists standing up against this industry, claiming victimization, painting ladies as unable to think for themselves, held back and down by men, forced and coerced. Yet, to me, a real feminist would focus on making sure the women have a right to CHOOSE, have workplace protections and labor rights and that there are laws in place to help those who are victims or need a better life circumstance. Feminism is not about pushing personal morals, agendas and beliefs, it's about giving everyone the right to choose. The right to have the same benefits and pay, the same access and yes, the same treatment. I don't believe that men should be automatically damned in favor of a woman, I don't believe that all abuse is only perpetrated by men or that only men manipulate and take advantage. I believe that we are all people and unique just like every life and situation. I believe in fairness for all, rights for all and in choosing what works for you as an individual. Feminism is NOT a dirty word and needs to be reclaimed. Those women who want to take away rights that don't fall in with their beliefs, feel men should be burned just because they are men and feel that every woman should receive benefit because they are simply a woman, need to be called out on what they really are because they are NOT feminists. Feminism is not just about women, it's about all people.

My rates are $250 per hour. versus My rates are $250 per hour, babe. I'm at a hotel downtown. versus I'm at a hotel downtown, hun. Yes, I see what you mean.

It's only happened to me in Halifax believe or not. I travel a lot and as such I follow FunValerie's advice and get references. In the States most SPs won't see you without a reference or two and I've adapted my own version for my own safety and peace of mind. That is, if the SP doesn't require a reference then it's not a good sign and also usually when you communicate with a SP over several emails or texts you can assess the quality and professionalism of the SP. As far as when you find yourself in that situation my own take is that you're out of luck really, it's unfortunate but a reality sometimes.