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Don't let it get you down nor should you let someone else's stupidity(referring to c36) decide how you live and play. Lyla is a great resource for information and for selecting responsible and safe companions. There are many intelligent and well informed ladies and gentlemen here that often post as to what's new, changing and how to proceed since the new laws have come into effect. Peruse the site in full:) But as I posted in another thread, part of Harper and his squads scheme and hope is that they'll scare many respectful and unnoticeable consenting adults out of this industry, don't fall for it and let that happen to you. You'll be fine as long as you stick with legal aged non-drug using professional companions. As the two things I mentioned are illegal and will more likely attract law enforcement/complaints. We are all here, or we should be here , to protect, indulge, educate and help one another through this. Keep smiling it's still safe, fun, and your RIGHT to enjoy consensual adult companionship:)

wow, that is harsh to deal with. Some people will never learn. Not your fault at all. Do yourself a favor though, right-click disable any of your pictures. This way it prevents people from using your pictures for purposes like this. Some info, 'defamatory libel' under Canadian Tort Law http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Canadian_Criminal_Law/Offences/Defamatory_Libel Knowingly stating false accusations is libel. Don't let it get you down, we're all behind you :-)

From my point of view, no, nothing has really changed and I am no more concerned than I was before bill C-36 was proclaimed. If you practiced safe hobbying before, I think you are fine.

I can tell you that if you are seeing known and established independent providers, then you are fine. Law enforcement is not interested in escorts or their clients. Their focus is where it always was... The street. This isn't great for those who work on the street, but truthfully they are likely used to it. Just be smart about who you see, relax, and enjoy :)

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I feel yah Jenny! Cancellations are bad enough, but NO shows are the absolute worse! Very disrespectful, I waited an hour and a half, just today for a client, and that was even after a telephone confirmation! When I finally got ahold of him, he said he got lost, and decided to turn around and go back home! Ironically enough, I had given him Specific directions, and where I reside is maybe a population of 12,000! Excuses Excuses!! So I have now blocked his number! As for my cancellations, I am Thinking of implementing a fee, to add on to our next encounter, many of my clients are regulars, because I do live in a small area town,so I'm Thinking that's the best way to handle them! Oh, I loved your statement about burning the pay check!! Your so right girl,, so right!!! We just have to keep going, and figure out the best way for each of us to handle the cancellations!! Hugs girl

The answer to your question lies in the fact that there are still posts happening

When I met Eden at the recent Social and had a chance to chat with her, I knew immediately that I wanted to see her again. Eden/Nymphettt has a good website and contacting her by email was straightforward. Eden is such a beautiful young woman - a lovely face, big brown eyes, a gorgeous mouth and luscious lips that call out to be kissed. Soft, brown skin, full, well-proportioned natural breasts, a narrow waist and a lovely round bum. Eden is a sensual woman who loves to be caressed. Touching and caressing her is pure pleasure! I reserved two hours with Eden because I wanted us to have time to talk and get to know each other a bit. So we talked, and we laughed, a lot - about life and love and travel. And we had some very warm moments together that I will never forget! It was wonderful to hold Eden in my arms. She is so much more than a pretty face and a beautiful body - the presence of a woman - the warmth of the sun - oh my sweet lord! I'm sure you know what I mean ;) I loved my time with Eden and look forward to being with her again! I highly recommend Eden/Nymphettt to anyone who is looking for a companion who is beautiful, sexy, sensual, smart and fun! A very classy young woman! Respect, of course, is a must. bellafan

Being rushed...nothing s worse than paying for an hour and feeling she just wants you to leave and when you do realize your hour service was actually 35 minutes. Another huge turnoff...blatantly obvious disinterest and no conversation, trash talking other MA's/S ' s etc

Just one word of caution, when a lady books a client and gives the building address, only give the guy the buzz code. Do not give them the apartment number and tell them when they do buzz up to NOT address you by your working name as others may be coming through the front door. If your real name is on the buzzer list, ask the building management to change it to "occupied" because of privacy reasons or a former relationship gone bad. And if you have a monitor on the t.v. to watch people come in, even better. This way you can see if they come through the front door when you buzz them in. Anyone can claim to be in the area but if you want to take it one step further a landmark like a strip mall, gas station close to your place with a payphone will suffice. There are gentlemen out there who jumped through my hoops because they respected my safety. And I appreciate that. :)

I am sorry to hear that and I understand your frustration. But Unfortunately there is only that much you can do about it. It is impossible to discern if someone is cancelling because of a genuine reason or not. Some really good ideas have already been mentioned. I would recommend the following:- - Repeat offenders or last minute cancellations: after two or more last minute cancellation or reschedule, Just stop booking them. if they don't respect your time, they don't deserve it. - 24 hour cancellation notice policy where applicable, otherwise a small "cancellation fee" gets added to your next time. Now you can be a little lax with your regular clients vs new clients. But I would let you decide that. But this is the nature of any service providing profession. Don't take it too hard and like cristycurves mentioned look at the good times :)

Disrespect is disrespect... I see nothing wrong with asking repeat canceling client to either pay a deposit or pay full in advance. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

It pisses me off EACH time I hear of stories like this, but there is always rotten apples in a basket. I truly hope this did'nt scared you off the hobby, since we are far more well reviewed ladies out here... But one thing I REALLY appreciate is the calm and respectuous tone you used. No names, no details... If you see somebody asking for details about this girl, you can always help by sending a PM to whom is asking, and yes the B&S section would be a way to go. CK is a very good refferal aswell, but if it was a VERY dangerous encounter, you can always ask MOD about it... I would host you with great pleasure (if I was around), since you have a true gent behaviour... I'm sorry this happened to you.

Slight hijack... for those guys who don't feel inclined to leave extra in the envelope for whatever reason, writing a reco usually seems to be appreciated. It helps the rest of us out, too :)

One of the pics doesn't pass tineye. If one doesn't I would be doubtful of the rest.

Hey ladies what is a major turn off when someone is looking to book a time with you ? One thing I absolutely hate is when someone texts me and says....What's up? Like really lol that will not grab my attention First impressions mean everything and I prefer a gentlemen being respectful and courteous when inquiring about my ......... For an example; Hello how are you or Hi I am .... and I am interested in knowing more about you and your ........!......so much better

Welcome new members and visitors. This section is for Lyla newbies (New Users and people new to this industry). Here are some steps to get you started... 1) Please be sure to read the RULES and FAQ. We try to keep this as up to date as possible so answers to most of your initial questions should be found there. 2) When you sign up as a new user, your first 5 to 10 posts will be manually moderated by us. This stops spammers, abuse and any negative slander that we do not allow here. It can take up to 24 hours excluding weekends and holidays to approve your posts so please be patient with us! 3) Take some time to thoroughly read this section. We have included some great posts here from our members and made them sticky so they show at the top of this section. Feel free to jump into the conversations - that's what Lyla is all about! 4) This is a community and we are all working to make the community better. Your contributions and participation in the discussions should be positive and enjoyable. We do remove negative comments as this is NOT a review board or a place to air your dirty laundry. Please do not use Lyla to slander, call out, fight or flame anyone. SPREAD THE LOVE, THE WORLD NEEDS MORE OF IT! 5) Please no promotion of sexual services here. You can advertise escort services, but no explicit sexual acts. That includes abbreviations. 6) In the words of Thumper... "If you do not have anything nice to say... don't say anything at all". This is the Lyla policy and anyone who breaks this rule is given a suspension or banned from the site. No warnings. Thanks everyone and enjoy the forum! Lyla xx

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Today I had the opportunity to confront myself. I went to a local bakery on Elgin St. and purchased something for $2.95. Not a large amount, however, I believed I gave the owner a 20$ bill. Once back in my apartment, I'd realized that I gave him a ten. I went back to this gentlemans bakery and proceeded to explain what had happened. I apologized for MY MISTAKE, as I really thought I gave a $20. I gave the gentlemen his correct change, I actually thought about not going, as I was tired, feeling lazy etc., when I realized, hey, you'd not appreciate this in a reverse scenario. Hands down decision. Happy ending: the gentleman was happy for me wrestling with my conscious. It was a great, up lifting moment. Sometimes it pays not to be lazy, when you see the happy, enlightened face of honesty.

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I have no info on agencies in your area but can give you advice when calling one. When you call an agency you'll most likely always deal with an agent on the phone, part of the reason girls work for agencies is so they don't have that responsibility. They also tend to have drivers which should also be discrete. when you call don't ask what's included, this is a red flag to most agents. As what's included and legal is for you to pay for their companions time. Not very informative, but that's where things stand. But be assured that reputable agencies will only send out courteous and accommodating companions. When you call just introduce yourself politely for EX: "I'm Mr.b looking for some company. I'm staying at hotel 5 star, who would be available to join me here". Also, research your chosen agency, many are reco'ed here as are their companions. I hope this helped, stay safe and have fun:)

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Certainly the new laws have added to the risks associated with this hobby but I think it is important that these increased risks be kept in perspective... Prior to the new laws there were risks legal and otherwise that we had to negotiate we were able to do that before and we certainly can now. Do your research... meet with established well know ladies and ensure you keep your communication clear of comments that might cross legal bounds... This law will not be the end... Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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Yes, last minute cancelations are a real pain! Thankfully, I don't experience them too often, but, sometimes, they come in waves and that is frustrating because it can make a whole day a practical write off. I find this especially true for me because I build in a generous amount of time between appointments for self care...relaxing, making sure I make time for meals, etc., etc., so, not only is the timeframe of the appointment lost, but also any potential appointments one turned down in the planned 'break times' in between...So, a last minute cancellation on a one hour booking can potentially result in pretty much a whole afternoons income lost. I find the following things to be helpful for me: For new and repeat clients booking days and weeks in advance, I ask for confirmation of a date the day before by or before 4pm. If I do not receive confirmation, I assume the date is not a go ahead and open up my schedule for other bookings. I have had a few people get frustrated with me over this if/when they lose their opportunity to see me because they failed to confirm on time, but pre bookings are not an automatic right. They are a privilege and also something I greatly appreciate but only when a gent respects my time and confirmation protocols. Otherwise, it defeats the purpose of pre booking. And, if contact is initiated first through email or text, I ask for that to be followed up by a phone call AT THE TIME OF RESERVATION, even if it is weeks in advance, and this also goes for when I am visiting Ottawa. While it does not prevent time wasters, or cancellations or no shows in general, it increases my confidence that the intended booking is sincere and makes the interaction more personal. I have actually had gentlemen tell me that the phone conversation makes them feel more accountable to respecting my time and more excited to see me because it is more personal...also meaning not waiting until the last minute to inform me of a cancellation, but rather telling me in advance even if they think they may not be able to honour their appointment because they do not want to lose out on the chance to see me in the future. For my Ottawa visits, I have had a few gentlemen come across as somewhat irritated that they would have to call me weeks in advance of a date in order to reserve a time with me. However, I stick to my protocols and most totally understand why I ask for this call. The call not only lets me know they are a sincere about booking, it lets me assess how they come across, and if I want to take the appointment at all. If someone sounds like a jerk, I don't want to block off 2, 3, 4, 5, hours of my time, only to find out the day before that I don't want to see this person. Similar to what some of the other ladies in this thread have stated, I also ask that a check in happens an hour before meeting. If I don't hear from a gent by then, I know things are a no go, and because I accept same day appointments, often from regular and repeat clients, many of whom are spontaneous about checking in about my availability, then I am able to give them the appointment time or at least a start time shortly thereafter. I know some ladies do not provide same day appointments due their business models that work for them (total respect for that), but I find that offering same day appointments really helps me on a number of levels. And, for sure, cancelations happen for very real reasons, and so I take that into account, but if it becomes a repeated issue with a given client (due to an unpredictable schedule), and say, it isn't too last minute and it is someone I am choosing to see again, I may say that I prefer if they check in with me same day to inquire about my availability and if we can work something out, then great. If someone cancels on me last minute, with few exceptions, (here in Kingston) I ask for a $100 cancellation fee payable at our next appointment if I choose to see them at all. For some, they will refuse to pay and just never call back, but for those who have already seen me, more often than not they will pay the fee. This helps to offset lost income, and also increases the likelihood that they will honour their bookings and/or at least to provide me with more advanced notice when they cannot make an arranged meeting time in the future. Have I potentially 'lost' clients over staying firm on my protocols, sure. But, they are not the client base I want and it prevents a lot of headaches and frustration for me. And, even with all of this, last minute cancellations still happen. Jenny, take a little comfort in knowing it is not you. We ladies know what you are going through. Hugs! Anna

I've always said, tipping is not expected, but appreciated.

Generally speaking I have already liked my guest before we have even met. I spend some time chatting and kibitzing well before a date, I don't know what my date looks like but by meeting time its all immaterial. I have talked , emailed so much its a certain good time . The connection has been made and it all appreciative after I open the door!

I do not consider any appointment as being confirmed until the client calls a minimum of an hour for prebookings and half hour for same day bookings ahead to let me know he's on his way at which time I will give him the address of my visitor parking. When he arrives there then he needs to call again for my unit number.

Things do happen but if I can i always try to give 24 hours notice and re schedule. If it's a re occurring problem I agree with the comment above...deposit isn't a bad idea at all.

Amberxx what you say on desensitizing is Exactly what my favourite lady told me 2 days ago. Talk with your lady, listen, learn and your encounters will get better and better.

Hang in there girl we all feel your pain on this one ,for me the real butt burner is the ones that don't bother to cancel and just no show but I agree this is happening much more often now not sure why. I find getting them to call the hour before as suggested earlier helps but it isnt fool proof. Good luck and drop me a pm anytime if you have question or just need to bend an ear.

It sucks, but sometimes cancellations are legitimate and a fact of life Speaking for myself, I cancelled last minute on a touring lady due to illness. What I did was still pay her in full for the encounter...why should she be out plane fair, hotel fees etc due to my illness Another time I had to postpone on a lady but when I re-booked a few weeks later I increased our time together and increased her tip...for the inconvenience What I would suggest, is first implementing screening/verification for prospective clients. What it has involved, and only seen from this guy's vantage point, is providing a lady my real name, board handle confirmed by PM, email and phone number. You likely could ask a lady (or ladies) how screening/verification works. To this end there is a Verified Independent's Section (Ladies Only)...contact the Mod about how to gain access Second is you could insist on a deposit from a prospective client before booking. Someone is not going to be a no show if he has paid a deposit Just a couple thoughts A rambling RG

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I say: "Oh sweet! The penis picture exchange game! Here's mine"! Then I send the picture of a penis twice their size. Or I send a very nasty one, the medical record type of nasty one. I got this idea from a lady here, but I don't remember who. I just thought it was brilliant, hahaha! They see me trollin', they hatin'...

Richard and Jim sound like interesting fellas, I'm a lefty, if ever they'd want to hang with me;)

I once suggested to a gentleman that we share a bottle of a wine we both loved during our 10 o'clock appointment. He wrote back saying, "Really? Before lunch?" I hadn't seen that he said 10 AM and not PM! We laughed but that is SURE to turn off any hobbiest! Time for my wake-up bottle of wine, ha ha ha, it was pretty embarrassing.

My hit list: Majority of SP's call their client "Hun" or "Babe" real turn off. Drives me crazy Cigarette smoke...so much I won't stay as it gets into my clothes Perfume - most of us I assume have private lives to return to...who wants to be subjected to the questions?? How come yu smell like smoke? How come you smell like perfume? How come there is lipstick on your shirt collar? Rushed and rushed...pay for an hour and over and out the door. SP's who don't wash themselves afterwards...makes you wonder.... BAIT AND SWITCH. This is such a pain. I have turned SP's away at the door...and I have left an appointment. I only pay for what was promised. The pictures and description should match. Websites that list many girls but none are working that night.."but I have "Blank" available. Sorry no pictures up yet on the site, she's new Hun, really pretty , cute face, and I can send her right over"...RUN AWAY! Those that are promised in X time and take forever to arrive...lateness I really don't appreciate.

1-There is nothing worse than having her say "We only have a minute or two left." Instant boner killer. 2-Constant fiddling with cellphones. I don't think the ladies even realise they are doing it. I had one girl check her phone and text almost constantly through a one hour session. As I left she asked when she'd see me again and I said never, because of the texting. She insisted she had only looked at it once or twice. 3-Perfume. A one ounce bottle is not a single serving size. 4-Respect for my time. Sat in a lobby once for half an hour past the agreed-on start time. But she wanted me out at the agreed on endtime. Another off the list. 5-Photos that look like centrefolds and when you get there they are in sweatpants and dirty t-shirt. This was the same girl in #4 above. And we had agreed that she would wear a specific set of lingerie that were in her ad photos. Her defence was that she "hadn't had time to unpack". The ones who really need to tune up are likely the ones who would never read this thread. Kinda sad eh? But there are some fabulous and professional ladies out there! The fails only make me appreciate the good ones even more.

a turnoff for me is arriving and find that the SP or MA is either high as a kite, or drunk as a skunk. might just be me, but I don't find it professional to be doing that when your providing a service.

Well from reading another thread, and just common sense and common courtesy, I would imagine a client/potential client asking for services not offered must be a turn off. Read the lady's website, it'll let you know what a lady's boundaries are A rambling RG

I think the idea is very good. Maybe even important. Most of us learn through trial and error, which can be fun, and can also be embarrassing. We end up knowing what we know. But we do not know the things we don't know, a sort of sexual or relationship aphasia. Yes, the exploration with partners certainly helps. But that does not mean we cannot learn more. I would suggest that many of the members on this site (was that a pun?) have a wider range of experiences than those who do not explore. As an example, Berlin recently posted from an SP's perspective about the physical interaction during a date, explaining (to paraphrase) that the best cars have many gears other than race, and that includes park. That tells me that we can all continue to learn. I will state my bias, and suggest that information/instruction is certainly needed when we are young (in age or experience - whichever comes first). But as a hobbiest I would expect that like any "expert" there is a constant curiosity to develop one's skill and knowledge. Hmm, the next poly might turn into a hands-on workshop?