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Don't let it get you down nor should you let someone else's stupidity(referring to c36) decide how you live and play. Lyla is a great resource for information and for selecting responsible and safe companions. There are many intelligent and well informed ladies and gentlemen here that often post as to what's new, changing and how to proceed since the new laws have come into effect. Peruse the site in full:) But as I posted in another thread, part of Harper and his squads scheme and hope is that they'll scare many respectful and unnoticeable consenting adults out of this industry, don't fall for it and let that happen to you. You'll be fine as long as you stick with legal aged non-drug using professional companions. As the two things I mentioned are illegal and will more likely attract law enforcement/complaints. We are all here, or we should be here , to protect, indulge, educate and help one another through this. Keep smiling it's still safe, fun, and your RIGHT to enjoy consensual adult companionship:)

wow, that is harsh to deal with. Some people will never learn. Not your fault at all. Do yourself a favor though, right-click disable any of your pictures. This way it prevents people from using your pictures for purposes like this. Some info, 'defamatory libel' under Canadian Tort Law http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Canadian_Criminal_Law/Offences/Defamatory_Libel Knowingly stating false accusations is libel. Don't let it get you down, we're all behind you :-)

From my point of view, no, nothing has really changed and I am no more concerned than I was before bill C-36 was proclaimed. If you practiced safe hobbying before, I think you are fine.

I can tell you that if you are seeing known and established independent providers, then you are fine. Law enforcement is not interested in escorts or their clients. Their focus is where it always was... The street. This isn't great for those who work on the street, but truthfully they are likely used to it. Just be smart about who you see, relax, and enjoy :)

the bp link is http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/beautiful-blonde-brionna/2106448 but tineye check shows South Carolina shemale escort Mistress Madison's pics. http://adultsearch.com/south-carolina/charleston/tstv-shemale-escorts/855706 it pays to do a little research

I feel yah Jenny! Cancellations are bad enough, but NO shows are the absolute worse! Very disrespectful, I waited an hour and a half, just today for a client, and that was even after a telephone confirmation! When I finally got ahold of him, he said he got lost, and decided to turn around and go back home! Ironically enough, I had given him Specific directions, and where I reside is maybe a population of 12,000! Excuses Excuses!! So I have now blocked his number! As for my cancellations, I am Thinking of implementing a fee, to add on to our next encounter, many of my clients are regulars, because I do live in a small area town,so I'm Thinking that's the best way to handle them! Oh, I loved your statement about burning the pay check!! Your so right girl,, so right!!! We just have to keep going, and figure out the best way for each of us to handle the cancellations!! Hugs girl

The answer to your question lies in the fact that there are still posts happening

When I met Eden at the recent Social and had a chance to chat with her, I knew immediately that I wanted to see her again. Eden/Nymphettt has a good website and contacting her by email was straightforward. Eden is such a beautiful young woman - a lovely face, big brown eyes, a gorgeous mouth and luscious lips that call out to be kissed. Soft, brown skin, full, well-proportioned natural breasts, a narrow waist and a lovely round bum. Eden is a sensual woman who loves to be caressed. Touching and caressing her is pure pleasure! I reserved two hours with Eden because I wanted us to have time to talk and get to know each other a bit. So we talked, and we laughed, a lot - about life and love and travel. And we had some very warm moments together that I will never forget! It was wonderful to hold Eden in my arms. She is so much more than a pretty face and a beautiful body - the presence of a woman - the warmth of the sun - oh my sweet lord! I'm sure you know what I mean ;) I loved my time with Eden and look forward to being with her again! I highly recommend Eden/Nymphettt to anyone who is looking for a companion who is beautiful, sexy, sensual, smart and fun! A very classy young woman! Respect, of course, is a must. bellafan

Being rushed...nothing s worse than paying for an hour and feeling she just wants you to leave and when you do realize your hour service was actually 35 minutes. Another huge turnoff...blatantly obvious disinterest and no conversation, trash talking other MA's/S ' s etc

Just one word of caution, when a lady books a client and gives the building address, only give the guy the buzz code. Do not give them the apartment number and tell them when they do buzz up to NOT address you by your working name as others may be coming through the front door. If your real name is on the buzzer list, ask the building management to change it to "occupied" because of privacy reasons or a former relationship gone bad. And if you have a monitor on the t.v. to watch people come in, even better. This way you can see if they come through the front door when you buzz them in. Anyone can claim to be in the area but if you want to take it one step further a landmark like a strip mall, gas station close to your place with a payphone will suffice. There are gentlemen out there who jumped through my hoops because they respected my safety. And I appreciate that. :)

I am sorry to hear that and I understand your frustration. But Unfortunately there is only that much you can do about it. It is impossible to discern if someone is cancelling because of a genuine reason or not. Some really good ideas have already been mentioned. I would recommend the following:- - Repeat offenders or last minute cancellations: after two or more last minute cancellation or reschedule, Just stop booking them. if they don't respect your time, they don't deserve it. - 24 hour cancellation notice policy where applicable, otherwise a small "cancellation fee" gets added to your next time. Now you can be a little lax with your regular clients vs new clients. But I would let you decide that. But this is the nature of any service providing profession. Don't take it too hard and like cristycurves mentioned look at the good times :)

Disrespect is disrespect... I see nothing wrong with asking repeat canceling client to either pay a deposit or pay full in advance. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

It pisses me off EACH time I hear of stories like this, but there is always rotten apples in a basket. I truly hope this did'nt scared you off the hobby, since we are far more well reviewed ladies out here... But one thing I REALLY appreciate is the calm and respectuous tone you used. No names, no details... If you see somebody asking for details about this girl, you can always help by sending a PM to whom is asking, and yes the B&S section would be a way to go. CK is a very good refferal aswell, but if it was a VERY dangerous encounter, you can always ask MOD about it... I would host you with great pleasure (if I was around), since you have a true gent behaviour... I'm sorry this happened to you.

Slight hijack... for those guys who don't feel inclined to leave extra in the envelope for whatever reason, writing a reco usually seems to be appreciated. It helps the rest of us out, too :)

One of the pics doesn't pass tineye. If one doesn't I would be doubtful of the rest.

I just saw Kelly on Friday and she told me she has to go back to China to look after her dad for a year. But she is expecting to be back. So, if this is news to you, and you like her massages (if you've seen her this is likely), you might want to make sure you see her again before she goes. I think she plans to work until April 28 and then she's got to start packing things up. Normally I see her about once every 3-4 weeks but I'll be adjusting that so I get my proper fix. I'll definitely miss her.

Fellow members, I am new to hobbying and I am contemplating trying an SP that works for an agency - Mirage Entertainment. - Has anybody had experience dealing with Mirage? - What is the best way to find out the services that the particular SP offers. If its not mentioned on the webiste? Am I going to be talking to a booking agent or the sp directly? - Any advice that someone would like to share? Thanks

Gents (and Ladies) Here's another newbie question but probably everyone is interested to see what you think on this topic. Obviously all of us are aware of the notion of tipping for great service received, however tipping often has customary practices that are unique to the surrounding circumstances. What are the 'best practices' re: tipping in the SP space? For example... - always tip except in the face of worse possible service (like tipping in a restaurant) - only tip if the service was 'blow you away' good (Not a BJ pun!) - never tip because the donations are "all inclusive" (this would seem unlikely to me) And lastly, is tipping generally percentage based (like a waiter or a cab) or a fixed amount based, or whatever you think it was worth based? Sorry to bring up money when so many more fun topics are at hand, but these Ladies deserve Best Practice and personally, I definitely do not want to miss the mark on this important point. Thanks in advance for all of your thoughts.

Sitting in lovely restaurant having dinner and catching up on emails....

Good morning, Thank you for a lovely time, full of sunshine, warm weather and fantastic company. I look forward to visiting again soon, xoxo Emily

Happy Birthday Meaghan, hope you enjoyed your day !

"Short n Sweet" 11am till late 613-8l8-0993 [email protected] 140/200 Absolutely NO NEGOTIATIONS I am a very generous, delectable treat-not a measley piece of meat

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Happy birthday Meaghan, hope it was a great day... Cheers.

Happy Birthday Meaghan! Hope you have a wonderful day!

Being known for having a special talent that will not be mentioned and being associated with that. I know it comes with the territory but some people think I can just do that at the drop of a hat. I'm not there to perform like a circus act on command and it does bother me when I get text messages asking specifically about this. It could happen, it may not. It all depends so now when I'm put on the spot about it, I tell them there are no guarantees. I'm not a blow up doll and just expect me to do that on a whim. Nor do I want. Right time, right person, perhaps it will. My escorting activities have been limited because I mostly do massage now. Like I said, don't expect a freak show, porn show or the whole drive thru menu gammit b.s. I offer an experience and prefer to see gentlemen because they want to see me as as opposed to someone who has a checklist a mile long and doesn't care who it is as long as x,y and z are checked off their list. No thanks.

Hello HavingaLook: Welcome aboard to Lyla! As Ice4fun said, do your research and stay with well-established people. You may be interested the "FIRST Advocates" mailing list. It distributes articles and research about this industry from across the world. Subscribers run the gamut from researchers to activists. Please note this is a serious mailing list which is moderated and a first step is being approved to get on the list itself. Chances are very good at anything to do with the new law will appear here first. Here is the link for further information: http://www.firstadvocates.org/?q=about PatrickGC

No playoffs for me this year. The Bruins just couldn't get it done when they had to. It would be good to see Ottawa upset the Habs but that won't be easy. I feel a lot like a Leaf fan when I say this.... "wait until next year". Lol

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With a new client, I tell myself that I am going to corrupt him with my feminine wiles. Hehe. I can spot personalities right away and have a plan to conduct the session adjust to all different types. I am always myself without a put on but there are some guys who don't say much or are very shy so I basically adapt to their personality.Usually it takes a few minute to see if someone is going to be a d*ck whether they are attempting to be too grabby or pushy or ask inappropriate questions. My advice to guys is never walk in the door and give the lady the up and down look. We don't like that! With good long standing regulars, it's like seeing an old friend. I have this one regular and he so nice. He one of those happy people to be around and it carries over to me when I see him. I locked keys in car at store when I was supposed to be on my way at my location to meet him and he picked me up. We talk about everything and I do tarot cards for him and then he told me one of my predictions came true. lol.

not all that use bp are bad, I have had some very good clients through bp and other advertising, but you learn how to screen them and get a 'vibe' for the genuine ones. Don't be afraid to let them know that you will give the location 15-20 minutes before the appointed time. If they are truly serious, they will be there, but, there are a lot of timewasters out there. Try giving a location that you can perhaps see from your windows as an area for them to contact you in. Or if there is some kind of landmark that you can use,, and have them describe it to you once they reach it, preferably not too far from your actual location. I did this in one of my locations. I could see directly into a parking lot (where they could park their vehicle safely) but it also gave me the opportunity to see if they were indeed serious, lol The 'I'm in the area' bs, you have no way of knowing, especially if they do not know your location. If you haven't given out the location, even a general area, they could be anywhere. bp can be quite a lucrative marketing area, if we could get the scum of the earth to stop wasting time, lol. Don't be afraid to put in your ads that you are looking for serious inquiries. If it takes a lot of texting, calls or looks like timewasting, it probably is. Hopefully this helps a little, but hang in there, you will find a solution :-)

I don't want to steer the conversation in a different direction but I thought I would add to Kate's point about the address and location when giving it out to clients. Sometimes if I have doubts I will make the person call from a payphone to make sure they're in the area. Many ladies who used to escort years ago and before cell phones would make clients call from the nearest payphone to make sure they were in the area. In fact, I knew one gal who told me that she had a bird's eye view from her balcony apartment to the payphone she would get her clients to call from. With technology these days, spoofing numbers and texting apps, privacy is always a must but you still have to go with your gut instincts which is why I always make sure I speak with them on the phone and I ask to call them back. It's kind of like being a bloodhound sniffing them out so to speak and if my intuition is yelling "No!", I excuse myself and hang up without booking them. I know within 20 seconds whether I want to meet a person or not. They could sound like the nicest person in the world but if something really throws me off whether it's how they speak to me, the type of questions they ask, I listen to that inner voice, always! Same goes for text with the type of questions they ask. I will never book strictly by text or give out the address in text in case someone's wife were to find it or people who have no boundaries, etc.

It depends on if you're booking in advance such as hours in advance on the same day or days before. Personally I have given up on booking days in advance and I no longer use email because it's useless for me and just one extra step of going back and forth. I like direct contact with limited texting which allows me an more of an understanding of who I'm dealing with and a phone call to officially book. If they don't call to book, I know they're not serious and I end the texting conversation immediately. I have found a lot of men want to see someone when the mood strikes and I figure that's something you can't schedule. Unless of course they really do want to meet an escort if they are coming from out of town for example and are working around an itinerary. I will only book appointments in advance now if they are a regular I have been seeing for a long time. There are a few of my clients who do this but they are very consistent. If it's anyone else, I don't know them and I tell them if they want to meet me a certain day to call or text in the morning to schedule a time. This way I know they are half serious. The likelihood of a client cancelling on the day of meeting as opposed to days in advance is much slimmer. If the person doesn't schedule a time that morning, there will always be someone else who wants to book. If they do book a time the same day hours in advance, I will get them to confirm with me by text an hour before meeting and of course I tell them that if something comes up to please give me as much advanced notice as possible. If I don't hear back after they specifically asked for time then they are considered a waste of time to me and I will not bother to book with them again. My cancellations are very low because I like to schedule within the hour or two and if they cancel or no show it's not as great of a loss as if it was income that was anticipated in advance. I do mostly massage now and most of the men who visit me stop by on their lunch hour, after work on their way home or on a weekend when they're out running errands without their spouse. These are the type of clients who have been good because although it is short notice that is how I'm running my business now and it works for me with a lot less headaches. :)

Another thing I do, is I don't confirm on their first call. So if they call me, and just want to book without asking any questions, I ask them to call me back 15 minutes before our appointment for the details of my location. This way if they don't intend to actually come over, they don't have my location. For repeat offenders, I ignore or ask for a deposit. I very rarely get cancellation. Feel free to pm me for specifics on what you do to make sure you're not missing critical steps. Good luck.

My mom was into the late stages of Dimensia in 2007, and subsequently was put into a manor , mom loved it there, our family was very fortunate to have such a loving and caring staff. The times I went to visit mom, I noticed that many of the residents did not have family or friends visiting, and at Christmas time, especially it broke my heart! Mom passed away, in the summer of 2008, every Christmas since then, I make it a point, to buy gifts at random, for the residents that do not receive any, I sign the card " In Memory Of Mom"

1. Unnecessary moaning... 2. Inappropriate comments...

As I was about to get ready for my shower yesterday morning, I started playing with my phone and took some selfies I hope you like ;) I also want to thank those who contacted me showing concern for my situation, all I can say is I'm dealing with it one day at a time but I trust it'll all be fine and in the meantime I try to keep busy :) I'm a petite brunette with beautiful brown eyes and a respectful, discreet and well-spoken woman who carries herself with class and is bubbly and knows have to have good fun :smile: I host at my clean, discreet, smoke/pet free space located in Centretown West near Parkdale & Wellington. My schedule is somewhat flexible so the best way to book an appointment is to request the time and day more convenient for you and I'll do my best to accommodate. Please note I only see first time guests until 8PM. For more information visit my website and also become a member of my private site. For booking or questions, PM me or e-mail me at [email protected] or a text message at 613-400-2722 Isabella Gia

I am mature, tall and naturally VERY busty. I'm 50 yrs old, 5'11", 180lbs, 38-F (40DDD) Cup, tanned skin and have long brown hair. I have an hourglass figure measuring 44-34-44. If you don't already know me feel free to familiarize yourself with me on my site http://www.carriemoon.com or google me as I've done some naughty adult magazines and movies I'm very easy going, fun and friendly I'm available for 1/2 hr at $200 and for an hour at $320/hr.. and couples (male/female or male/male) at a rate of $450/hr. My general hrs of availability are 9 am til 10 pm. Contact by phone is preferred.. phone call over text. Email preferred over pm. 613+762+4551 [email protected] cheers, Carrie Moon See my reviews here http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthr...ht=carrie+moon http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthr...ht=carrie+moon If you have a blocked number unblock your number before calling or your call won't be successful

Very cute girl she's very similar to Bree from paradise as well. That's the best reference I can give for her, if your into the girl next door with a perfect chest and a spinners body..then you'd like summer. Which is pretty much any man with a pulse and vision lol

Definitely make sure you are clear with your arrangements. A few years ago, I was at a hotel bar waiting for some friends to met up for a night on the town. A very attractive young lady sat beside me at the bar and started chatting me up. Obviously, this is not a situation which normally happens to me. Luckily, for the young lady I knew what was happening and I quickly and politely told her that I think that must be a mix-up. I told her my name and pointed out another gentleman on the other side of the bar who was wearing a similar colour tie. Considering he seemed to be somewhat concerned that she was sitting beside me I was pretty sure he was the person she was to met. She laughed, thanked me for being so understanding and quickly walked over to her "friend". I will say her "friend" was a pretty classy guy. A few minutes later, the bartender showed up with a drink from "the couple in the corner".

Yeah, that 20 is not a 'tip', it is a sign you need to be more in control of your clients & sessions, to the point of actually telling them 'all good things must come to an end' at the half hour mark. Don't worry about being called a clockwatcher or getting a complaint, this is a guy who knew exactly what he was doing, and pushed to see what he could get away with. I had a friend who actually would stop and collect the extra $$ for extra time when a client seemed to need more or was at that point of going over, because she knew that there was a good chance he would not either have it, or pretend he didn't or 'forget' that he owed more for going over time. regarding a real tip, then repeat biz, being on time, not double booking, not going overtime unpaid, these things help get repeat biz. if you allow one to make you go overtime, and you are not being compensated for it, you get a sour feeling which can affect other client experiences with you. If you allow someone to make you go overtime when you have already set up another appt for a certain time, and this overtime guy didn't compensate you, you may also miss that 2nd appt and the 2nd guy thinks you are flakey. You get a poor reputation in his eyes as well, he doesn't repeat because he couldn't rely on you to be on time for prearranged appts. Those loser guys who make you go overtime then don't compensate do a lot of damage, being called a clockwatcher for allowing a guy to only stay the time paid for is just something to ignore. If someone asks when first contacting you and they use that term, just decline the appt. Anyone who mentions it or asks about it, to me, is a clockwatcher, who watches the clock in order to try to stay longer than the paid amount of time. All new sps get the predators. It would be better to not use any words in any of your ads that indicate you are new to the biz or young, because that is when they come out of the woodwork lol

I say: "Oh sweet! The penis picture exchange game! Here's mine"! Then I send the picture of a penis twice their size. Or I send a very nasty one, the medical record type of nasty one. I got this idea from a lady here, but I don't remember who. I just thought it was brilliant, hahaha! They see me trollin', they hatin'...

I decided to TOFTT. I met this girl today. Her pics are accurate. I decided not to write a recommendation because of multiple red flags. Overall, her pics are accurate and she's a nice young lady. These particular red flags aren't deal breakers for me, so I completed the visit. I know they would be deal breakers for a lot of other people. Basically, if you have a SO in your life, one of the red flags in particular would worry you. If you're a single bloke, you might not care. If you're still interested enough to want details, PM for info. Edit: Today is Tuesday, so evidently she does not work only weekends like Randyzak suspected.

I'm a feminist. Always have been and always will be. Do I agree with every statements other feminists say? No. That's what being a feminist is in my mind. Being able to hear others points of views, and deciding for yourself what you believe. Are women still being exploited and held back by a patriarchal society? Hell yes. Will I speak my mind about this? Of course. Society is constantly evolving. I still remember not being able to open a bank account without a husband's permission. We still have a long way to go.

The only turn off I've ever experienced was just a few weeks ago when a repeat SP had not freshened up. I could smell it on her and it was a total turn off. I won't three-peat with her!. Other than that one occasion, I have nothing to complain about.

I try to practice random acts of kindness everyday I always hold the door for others I smile at strangers I pass on the street I let others enter the elevator first I always say please and thank you I acknowledge the caretakers in the building where I live and thank them for the job they do I take the time to find out the name of my server in a restaurant & acknowledge them with please and thank you I take the time to ask the clerk at the store how his/her day is going I do not care if the person acknowledges it or not. I just hope it is contagious - even if the person only does it just once. Oh what a wonderful feeling....