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Instead of asking cerb why not go see a doctor and get a diagnosis instead of speculating? :) Could be anything from yeast, fungal, bacterial, or etc...

I've been following this case closely for years and just last night had a discussion about it with a constitutional lawyer with some great insight into the dynamics of US military motives, children soldiers and human rights. Trained soldier or not, his age is a key factor in deciding whether or not he is a danger to society. I've never met a 15 year old who had the mature awareness of insight regarding potential outcomes from an action taken. In his situation, I can't imagine what I would have done, a grenade may have seemed appropriate to ensure my survival if I had already learned how to use one. At 15, we process our situations mentally/emotionally very differently. Watching this young mans release, seeing his face after 10 years with a bag over his head (literally) showed me he "did" the time, the time didn't "do" him. He needs time to acclimate, heal and adjust. I feel he is entitled to enter society and screw it up or not, the right we all share as Canadians. As for the dichotomy of Harpers Captain Save a Ho legislation, it was the only option to keep the religious right somewhat appeased. He cares not for sex workers safety or quality of life and that position is mirrored for all citizens who don't fall into the Cons narrow guidelines of an upstanding citizen. There is no logic to it. Cat

That just makes him a trained soldier. It doesn't make him a terrorist. The worst accusation that I've seen aimed at Omar Khadr is that he killed an enemy soldier on a battlefield. That's not a crime; it's what happens during wars. To return to the original point... The problem is that you're looking for the consistent world-view. There isn't any; what matters is what's politically expedient. In Omar Khadr's case, it's trying to demonize him and scare everyone into permitting more power for the government to "keep us safe" (have a look at the abomination that is C-51 and has just passed the Commons). In the case of sex workers it's the expediency of throwing a bone to the base on an issue that a lot of voters won't remember and punish them for at the ballot-box. Sad, but there it is...

You don't shower daily!!!...????? You ever think maybe ummm.....sweat You know, that section where your arms meet your upper torso...aka armpits.....they develop a smell too if not washed daily Now if you properly wash daily and have good hygiene practices and it still happens then see a doctor Smelling your fingers after shoving them down there, sometimes some people have just way too much information to "share" RG

TMI man! TMI! You probably have yeast infection or even smega. Look it up and don`t book with anyone until it`s cleared up. Go see a doctor and maybe get some monistat at the pharmacy while you`re at it to stop the itching. Now you know what we ladies have to deal with at times. I feel like I want to puke now.

It can probably be cleared up with paint thinner or oven cleaner. I doubt it a big deal otherwise it would smell like stale beer or bread. Now that the warmer weather is here it will probably just go away on its own anyway. I really doubt the increase in temperature and sweating will exasperate it either. If you find that you can't stop sticking your finger down there maybe get a pair of hip waders and seal them at the waist with duct tape. Avoid the medical profession like the plague. Although if you have the plague already just go see a doctor because you didn't avoid the plague so you won't lose style points. Good luck and switch fingers often.

The term open-minded plays into the fantasy that advertisers using it are more experienced and therefore more comfortable offering a wider variety of options and activities, from couples, to accommodating fetishes, etc. This is not necessarily true, however, at minimum it should mean that any topic of concern, any desire one might like to explore, can be broached with the provider in a tolerant and understanding environment, without being judged for having that particular bent. Far more than not, I believe that to be the case. Beyond that, the term is used too widely to be useful as a predictor of outcomes, the correlation may be fairly non-germane. What matters today, as before, is still communication, communication, and communication. What it definitely does NOT mean is that personal safety boundaries can be negotiated away with someone that claims to have an attitude more "open to suggestion". Dangerous or undesirable activities can still be discussed without judgment, but it is still at the discretion of the provider whether a particular activity will be permitted. A segment of the client population will always try to get maximum mileage and I don't purport to be able to change their behaviour or to speak for anyone else. If you do the proper research, as has been outlined in many forums on this board, and look for a provider that appeals to you by looks, body type, style of advertising (or whatever factors it is for you), and you get that initial chemistry on contact , then you're likely to have a very satisfying experience, regardless of any specific terms used. Just my nickle's worth.

Geez lol Are you trying to win the best award for the most discussing sarcastic advice given in this thread? lol If so, hats off to you! You've done a mighty fine job at turning my stomach!

This is a joke right???? I don't mean to be rude but its the last part about the fingers and smelling it Ill be honest I LOL'ed. If not, Hunny this is definitely a case of TMI!!!

Also, as with any unknown condition, please do not book with any provider until a diagnosis has been made and it is cleared up.

The site is designed to send traffic to Adult Friend Finder a site known for using other peoples images for false profiles. Ladies contacting escortbusts.com to have their images removed will find the process difficult and challenging, most give up, in the end they will attempt to extort a fee from you to have your image removed. I would think that most gentlemen would be smart enough to see through this set up.

I'm kind of curious if the the OP is being serious here because he has other posts on other threads that indicate he has some health issues and may or may not be on medications. Bottom line though is that your body has some pretty sophisticated chemistry. Throw that out of whack and it does strange stuff like break out with rashes and smell bad. It's pretty much common sense and if you are involved in this lifestyle you need to pay extra attention to those kinds of things. Generally if your finger can't pass the sniff test you need to get some professional advice. But I kind of thought we all knew that already?

Being open minded is something I will always be. If someone introduces something new to me, I can't flat out say no. If I haven't tried it or experienced it I can't find myself saying no to something. Just because someone asks about something I've never tried, I would be 100% open to it. I might do a bit of research and ask questions so I know what it is all about. Only time I say no to something is if I've tried or experienced it and I didn't enjoy it, I usually give a brief explanation to the person so they understand why. Being asked to be honest about things in this field of work I am comfortable doing. Better to be informed and straight than not and run into communication issues down the road with clients.

Do not send me a message asking me to negotiate my rate because there is not enough sufficient funds for hobbying. It`s not my problem! This is very insulting and makes me disinterested very quickly. Seeing me is not a service that is a necessity so don`t try to bargain with me like I`m a commodity!

Oy, isn't that just a little like giving yourself a Dirty Sanchez?

Landing a seat next to a real hottie on the train today....its like I won the lotto :) as I always get stuck next to the most annoying people

Reading/replying to emails, surfing/posting on Lyla, and smelled my computer, its clean (private joke) RG

MsManda is in Alberta at this very moment...look up her Schedule http://msmanda.com/calendar/ Beautiful, smart and fun :) Bianca :)

Use reputable independents and spas and you shouldn't have any trouble. The police have enough trouble keeping up with their real targets, the underage, the pimped, and the illegals.

Well they're not all 'friends' - two of the three simply thanked Nutbust for visiting their profile: basically another of the many 'non-participants' among the membership who don't visit enough to find the answers to their own questions. Back on track: All the cerb/lyla ladies are fun and welcome respectful mutual touching and appreciation.

In my opinion, you're over thinking it. Go to a reputable spa, that has been reccomended on this board by many people. Relax and enjoy! Last word advice, be discrete until in private room setting. Cheers

By deciding to participate in this industry I think we all have to be aware that there is some Risk associated with most of the activities. Is that risk high or low well from my perspective that all comes down to an individuals risk tolerance levels ... if you have a low tolerance for risk than you may need to be very careful with your involvement in this industry. If you have a more realistic tolerance for some risk and you ensure that you take appropriate precautions such as ensuring you only visit reputable providers and that you restrict your conversations during booking to discussions of time and companionship then the risks are in my opinion extremely manageable. Risk in this industry comes in many many forms ... of course there is the risk of arrest if you are engaging in activities currently considered illegal but there is also other inherent risks for example if you are married and your spouse is not aware of your activities there is the risk of this discovery and its impacts on you and your family... there is the risks associated with colleagues and friends becoming aware of your activities in a world where while acceptance is increasing you will still most likely be seen as a pervert. Of course the ladies who provide the services must manage all kinds of risks including physical danger. In your particular case you refer to your love of Massage but your concern with the risks related to LE... Well from my perspective if you are visiting a well established reputable Massage establishment and you conduct yourself appropriately then the risk is very very very very low. As I mentioned earlier of course when booking the visit you should not discuss any activities that could be considered communication related to the purchasing of sexual services ... discussions regarding the level of massage services the lady provides should be done in the privacy of the room with just the lady. Just my Opinion

No, well at least at a "licensed" spa... HOWEVER, unless there are elements of human trafficking, the LE tend to leave them alone. OR there has been a specific complaint made... Heck I've don't recall any Indies being bothered either. I've been going to spas for OVER 15 years fairly regularly (and throughout the city) and have yet to even think that LE had any interest in me. LOL You're safe... go enjoy the GREAT ladies of our City's Spas!!!

I guess I'll go against the grain here. I'm not trying to offend anyone here, but... It sickens me that our government released a convicted terrorist. He was not a child when he killed Sgt. Christopher Speers, if I recall correctly, at the time he threw the grenade he was 3 months shy from being able to serve as a full time soldier in the Canadian Forces. During WW1 and WW2 there were many teens who lied to sign up and serve and fight in the wars. On all sides. If he was perhaps 12 or younger I can understand where you all are coming from. As he was almost 16, you're easily able to decide your actions. Look at the worlds history, there have been some brutal murders by minors. Do these individuals deserve to be free? As someone with experience, it takes training to be able to effectively throw a grenade. I can guarantee you that if you've never touched a grenade you would not be able to successfully arm it. Especially in a situation as hectic as combat. This tells me that he put in the effort to learn how to kill, this tells me that h rehearsed these drills over and over until it became second nature. Now, saying that. I'm not saying that what happened to him at Gitmo was ok. Before anyone accuses me of being a Harper lackey, I do not support Harper and his bullshit. If anything I went from someone who voted Conservative to someone who is tired of seeing his freedom and basic rights being slowly taken away. The bill that deals with sex workers is absolute garbage. C-51 is way to broad and it gives the government far too much space to be sketchy. Ontario is voting this month to ban the sale of flavoured Tobacco....basic things an adult should be able to choose if they want to do or not. Additional Comments: I just want to say that despite my feelings on this topic. I do truly appreciate the opinions people have on this. Most people I've spoken to have no clue who he is or what the situation around him was like.

Here's an interesting discussion on the subject... What does "Open Minded" mean to you

Why not just ask "Who does things that can get themselves fired from an Agency or get a visit from LE?" Your motives are suspect.

Just because the ladies didn't have the proper visas doesn't necessarily mean they were trafficked or being forced to work. It stands to reason that they were just working illegally like they might in any other profession. Hopefully they give follow up information

Stephen Harper and Peter MacKay are an embarrassment to humanity. They can't imagine being a 13 yo boy growing up in the circumstances he did and at 15 having his family under attack from US soldiers. I'm sure I know many 15 yo's who would have responded in exactly the same way. The parallel between our government's approach to sex workers and to Omar Khadr are truly terrifying.

Hey all! Hope everyone is having a good day So I've been away from the hobby for about 1 year and a half, before the bill had passed So of course I'm kind of timid to dive back in What should I do differently now? Any tips or pointers would be very appreciative Kyser

I'm not sure if this has been discussed before, but a lot of people will ask an SP if they are 'open minded', and a majority seem to think that the meaning is that she will do basically anything and everything. Most of the times for the girls I know in this business and myself, when the first question asked 'are you open minded?' that usually leads to a list of graphic questions....Not always, but most of the time :P This is the actual definition on google "open-minded" [oh-puh n-mahyn-did] Spell Syllables Examples Word Origin adjective 1. having or showing a mind receptive to new ideas or arguments. 2. unprejudiced; unbigoted; impartial. So to the ladies and gents on here, what is the definition for having an open mind in this industry? Would love to hear your feedback :D Also, I would like to add that being asked for a 'menu' is a huge turn off! I'm not a restaurant and everyone is different! I always go with the flow and everything should happen naturally :D xoxoxo

Watching Omar Khadr on the news last night, I saw an odd connection between his case and the Harper Government's attitude towards sex workers. With regard to Khadr, we have this from the public record. As a young man, younger than 15, he was taken to Pakistan and Afghanistan by his father who brought him up in an environment of radical Islam. When he was 15, according to a confession he agreed to in exchange for his release from Guantanamo Bay, he threw a hand grenade during a fire-fight with American troops. One American was killed, others were wounded. So, to me, what we have here is a child soldier indoctrinated into a way of life that led him into a fire-fight with US troops. According to every action taken by the Harper Government with regard to Omar Khadr, including statements made yesterday by Harper and MacKay, Khadr is evil and should serve every second of his sentence and too bad he wasn't given a longer one. He is beyond redemption. There is no way he can be other than the bad person he was when he chucked the grenade. The government will spend however many millions of dollars fighting this person. Got that. Now to the other half of this thought. According to the narrative that the Government sold us during the passage of the recent legislation dealing with such things, sex workers are these poor, enslaved beings who, if only they had a chance at a better life, would immediately and forever leave the trade and be done with it. There is redemption. There is a new, good, formerly (through no fault of her own) bad person. Here is where I get confused. An apparent guiding principle in Khadr's case is that a person cannot be saved. There is no hope. But with the sex workers, the guiding thought is that everyone CAN be saved, can be redeemed, if only given a chance. Maybe I need to take some more of that time I have too much of at the moment to work this out.

Perhaps the OP is posting this as a joke, but the smelly finger test is just a sampling of perhaps a client/providers hygiene at the moment. I have had a few encounters with well reviewed ladies that have not passed this simple test.

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Cowboy posted something yesterday about this one

I don't live in Ottawa ,but tour there! I have a bush!

Oops, I never saw that thread! Thank you Gabriella, I will have to check that out! I completely agree with all the comments that have been said! I have had in the past the open minded question and then have the person shocked when I say no to something(it was something unsafe that no SP or anyone should do unless they are in a monogamous relationship) I agree with the menu question too, some guys will copy and paste the same question to every girl trying to get the most for the cheapest... No joke I had a guy who booked a time and everything after I already said the donations and at the very end of the conversation he said "well I hope you understand but I only can spend $40, I'm a student and don't want to spend a lot and you're so hot and sexy and seem very sweet and understanding.." I ignored him and he texted back saying he's 'really cute and fun' and I won't regret seeing him. hahahaha he must be a comedian :P

Planning some travel and posting here :)

If the gent is looking for mutual pleasure, then yes, I do my best to get off. If he's just looking to be spoiled, then obviously I don't. Depends on the client.

Go to your doctor or a clinic. It could be yeast, fungal, bacterial. It could be nothing, it could be an STI. Don't try to treat it yourself with weird home-made remedy or stuff you find on google or what people tell you on this forum as depending on what you have it could only aggravate it

Just get a cheap phone from 7 11

Finally opted for a Galaxy Note 4, like the big screen.

Open minded, as I use it, means that I am open to many different kinds of experiences and interactions. Even if I am not into said experiences or provide them, I offer a safe non judgmental environment in which to ask or discuss. It also means that if something does interest me, I'm willing to explore it and see where it leads. I have always seen "party girl" as the term for anything goes. I try to approach everyone and everything with an open mind and no prejudices or biases. I give people the benefit of the doubt. To me it means inviting someone to be themselves with few expectations or structures. One thing I find about those who ask about "menu" is that they seem to be more into whatever act they want than the person providing it which in itself can sometimes be a screening tool. I much prefer to have a conversation about likes, dislikes and boundaries in the context of life than be asked for a menu of services.

I have always felt that being and saying one is open minded meant that you were more liberal in ones thinking, non-judgemental and more accepting towards non-conventional ideas. As far as being asked about menu's. Some, I find are still not aware of the changes in the laws, believe it or not. Others just don't care and will ask whatever they choose, those are the ones that bother us the most and that most want to avoid. Little one can do to educate them as they live by their own rules and apparently don't read. Best to just hang up when those questions are asked. There will always be those clients who'll talk to you with respect, treat you like a whole person, who won't divide you into parts and those who'll treat you like a commodity or a piece of meat, this is just part of the business.

Well just my take on it...for Harper, MacKay et al they see sex workers as victims of exploitive johns. So with religious fervour they want to save sex workers, come down hard on johns, at least in press releases to appease their constituency...the religious right But Khadr has nothing to do with any principles. The government has to be seen, by the United States, as being tough on terrorism. That's why all the appeals trying to stop his bail, standing up in the House of Commons etc etc etc. If Khadr was instead, a juvenile delinquent who committed the crimes in Canada, instead of being in the middle of a conflict, it all would have been dealt with by some junior Crown Attorney, and maybe the local newspaper might have reported on it. Khadr is hated by the United States, became a hot potato for Canada, and given the choice, Canada would prefer to be on good terms with the United States rather than Khadr A thought RG

You can report PMs in much the same way that you report posts. Perhaps it'd be worth doing so, and then maybe troublesome members can be warned off, and if they don't improve they might feel the gentle caress of Mod's Banhammer....

I recently inquired about this -blocking certain members so I wouldn't receive PMs from them- and unfortunately, this function is not available. Even if they are on your ignore list, they can still send you a PM. "Member name is on your ignore list view message" will replace the subject title with their board handle under it. It would be nice if this function was available to prevent unwanted communication from reaching your PM inbox and not have to resort to Mod (if need be) to deal with some of the less than pleasant PMs.

It's the start of iceberg season here in NL and we all know the annual arrival of the Whales to the waters around NL is not far behind.... Ok you ask why even mention that here on this site??? What do Icebergs and Whales have to do with this hobby??? Well I am throwing it out there as another great reason for some of the amazing touring ladies of LYLA to consider putting St. John's on their schedule... just think you get to come see all the spectacular Icebergs and the Majestic Whales and well us guys from here get to meet amazing ladies. Sounds like a win-win to me :) Hey... just a thought. http://www.icebergfinder.com/

I absolutely agree and that is exactly what I have been doing and staying positive Misery does like company and I have totally reached that point in my life where I want nothing to do with it Just sad that we have to go through so much when all we want to do is provide some happiness into someone's life

One great thing about this site, is that it is not made for everyone. Not saying all isn't welcomed, but, it takes a certain amount of discipline, professionalism and courtesy that is not always found in just everyone. If this were made in a way that just anyone could fit in, well I suppose we would be CL in that case. We have a tight community that is a great tool to be able to rely on each other for information and support. But if everyone from CL came here, do you think we might have a lots of mis matched information, fudes, jealousy and so on? Once I introduced someone to the site. Thought she would really do well here, I helped her learn and well sadly I was wrong. She no longer is on this site due to her poor aptitude and unwillingness to get along. It was embarrassing for me, and now I will take extra caution on who I introduce. My suggestion is, when you find a gem, then introduce her to the site. Of course more gems we have here the brighter we shine:)