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Welcome to our world! Half these men can't even read a website for a providers info, and ask the same questions that would be clearly answered if they took five minutes to actually read. That's why i took down my number and only do email. Before, I liked being easy to reach, and the phone is the easiest way, however after time, the "rates, services, location" texts just turned me off the phone completely. I wonder sometimes why spend $ on a site and time to get it right (pictures, text, the right aesthetic) if its not even glanced at other than to get our number... as a result, many providers are just ignoring these communications. In the past i've tried pointing gents to my site, now i don't even respond to one liners. If you can't introduce yourself and/or form a proper sentence we probably won't connect well, which for me is the most important thing. If we can't even get guys to read our sites, good luck getting them to contribute meaningfully to this great resource. The expectation of extremely low rate with every service under the sun offered without any foundation is the new norm, these guys are all about getting as much as they can with the least amount of effort, why would they contribute meaningful info as it has no perceived benefit to them? I thank my lucky stars for the good men on this site, who read and contribute to meaningful discussions, its taught me a great deal about what *MY* type of client is seeking and how to provide them with that which they seek... Lyla has been an invaluable resource for me in learning how to perfect my chosen craft, and has introduced me to great friends that i cherish. I value your contributions and i'd be very sad to see this place turn into the cess pool state others are in...

My recommendation for Chloe at The Brass Club https://twitter.com/MissChloebrass In speaking to Ren and Winnie at Brass Club over the last few weeks they let me know their friend Chloe would be joining Brass - and I took the opportunity to get a training duo to welcome her as well as get to see the fabulous @MissRenBrass . Bear in mind this was my first ever duo, so I was nervous and didn't know quite what to expect. As usual booking was easy - I just DM'd @theBrassClub on twitter and Jess set it up for me in moments. I arrived quite a bit early and enjoyed a warm welcome from Jess and my choice of beverage. Then I was joined at the bar by Chloe and Ren for some conversation before the session. It turns out Chloe and I hail from the same area and we had a great conversation about that along with the three of us discussing Chloe's martial arts, running, and lots more. Then we moved into the fun part and went to a large room with a double massage table and a big leather love seat. Chloe is dynamite - she is fit and has lovely curves - brown hair and big brown eyes you can fall into. Chloe reminds me of a tigress - she is feminine and strong and crackling with sensual energy. You know those tentative few minutes where you gently kiss and touch as you build a connection? That happened almost instantly with Chloe and we moved on to fiery passionate making out. Chloe made feel more than wanted - needed is the right term. We were having such fun Ren got the shower going for us and had to almost drag us into it. The three of us went in for some slippery fun. After exploring each other's bodies the three of us moved to the massage table where Ren and Chloe expertly massage away my tension and moved on to some very sensual body slides. We took turns massaging each other, teasing, laughing, and had a very hot time. After an extremely rewarding conclusion we moved back to the shower with leisurely kissing, cuddling, and touching. It was a fabulous time. Chloe loves to be touched and she responds to it extremely well. Chloe went beyond a "girlfriend" massage experience in the sense that it addition to the intimacy and connection that I associate with GFE, Chloe made me feel like she was the girlfriend I hadn't seen in 2 weeks and the two of us were on fire for each other. She has incredible sensual energy and such passion it felt like she needed my touch, and she was going to take what she needed. Wow it was wonderful to feel desired like that. Some ladies make you feel like a king, and although Chloe can do that, she made me feel like the hot lover the queen takes on the side to give her what she needs. A note about the duo with Ren - Ren is gorgeous and a very sensual lady in her own right. These two are friends and they know and like each other shall we say - very interactive duo. They focused on me but it was very clear (and incredibly hot) that they really turn each other on too. I think it would be difficult to find a duo that have that level of chemistry with each other. That made for the most incredible duo that exceeded my expectations in every way. Try it gents, you owe it to yourself.

Just time for me to rant. Some of us members are getting really irritated by other members who come on here and ask info on sp's without providing information back or sharing their individual experiences. Personally I will not give out information to a member who has not contributed in any way to this site. Please do us all a favor, if your going to ask for help, make sure you leave reviews as well.

I've saw this question asked once before. My perspective remains the same and has served me well. I personally love the hour, I've been know to book 2 hours for duo's but, for first dates, I don't just book an hour with anyone. My hour is reserved for: -A well established (G F E) lady or agency with a good website, a good gallery, good reviews and that states GFE. This is because you are pretty much, based on my experience, going to get what you are hoping for both physically and service wise. Also, if they are a fairly established lyla member that's always a major +, but I need a gallery no matter what or where they advertise. My half hour is for: -Backpage unknown roll of the dice. I am very selective in which ads that I'm willing to risk my safety and money on but still the risk is so much higher when browsing on forms like BP. If you are a little bit unsure its better to book for the hh in my honest opinion. Now if you get there and you're like...wow....super happy, it's easier to ask if you can increase the session to the hour as that's actually a compliment But walking in and saying...um...can we just do the half hour instead is more than a bit awkward. Having said that, if ever you feel you were bait and switched...I feel it's our duty to turn around and leave even if it's awkward. Staying only perpetuates this sleezy behavior, contributes to the dark side of the industry and makes it more difficult for legit ladies because we as customers become jaded and paranoid. So in short, out side of a busy schedule, risk dictates session time. High risk, short session Likely bliss, long session

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I just experienced an escape with these two ladies and I must say that it was everything I had hoped for and more. You can quickly see that they are very good friends and fully interactive immediately. Our session was a sensory overload with no zone being left unattended yet the entire event just flowed along naturally. I highly recommend these two ladies to anyone who is looking for a sensuous and erotic session that will satisfy any desires you can imagine. Treat them well gents and you will be rewarded.

Well this could be interesting, but I am wondering if people have a favorite or recommended condom. Other than finding the right size (who knew), what is the best brand or type of condom you have used lately that has the best sensation, feel, heat transfer, etc? I am currently trying the Skyn products. No favorite yet.

Good morning all, I do agree with a deposit for a first-time encounter. But after that I do not think it should be required as there should be a trust and respect between both parties that has been formed, unless one requires something special and out of the ordinary that the other is willing to provide. If a person is willing to see a SP on multiple occasions you do not want to ruin that trust.

Thank you for defining what a community is NOT about!

And something to keep in mind as well. Despite others saying "I had a real nice sensual connection with XXXX", it doesn't guarantee that you will make one. Someone saying "I just couldn't connect with YYYY. She was great, but it felt too mechanical" doesn't mean that you won't connect well with them. Your mileage may vary. Different strokes for different folks Whatever rocks your boat All of those sayings apply. I had an appointment with one MA a couple of years ago that *everyone* else said was awesome at being sensual and making a connection. For me, nothing. Don't get me wrong, it was awesome, but it was sexy, not sensual and intimate. There is nothing wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with her. The sensual connection is not something you can determine over the phone or by email.

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"Making a deposit when booking with a Provider." This point was brought up by a fellow punter on another thread, "Disrespect and appointment times". It seems that not just a few, or many, but all Providers are having a long ongoing issue with no-shows, or late, and last minute cancellations. This is not just occurring with new but with long-time well established Providers. As a result of this it is, we, punters that are and will suffer the consequences of some peoples' actions. For instance, some Providers are double booking in order to try and alleviate a problem we, as punters, created. After being enlightened of what Providers do and go through for us, "Disrespect and appointment times", I was left feeling disappointed with perhaps how some people do not show or give them enough respect. After reading that thread I, for one, sympathized with them on this issue since I, for one, do appreciate all the joy and pleasure they bring me! The thread also made me realize that their weekly time in the industry is not just the weekly total time spent with punters. If we don't do anything about this issue maybe "deposit when booking" is in the future!?! Let's help alleviate the problem now! I don't know how you feel but does anyone in the industry want to start "deposit when booking", I know I don't!

TOFTT is not the easiest path for a hobbyist! Nikki, this angel of a woman, has helped to make up for the unpleasant experiences I have encountered. She has the tools, the looks and the mindset to become an established and elite provider. Nikki doesn't just have the power to seduce any man in her presence. She has the power to happily sedate any man in her presence. I saw her ad late Friday afternoon, contemplated for a while and decided to contact her after dinner. Around 9 pm I sent her a message in order to try and arrange to see her during the day on Saturday. Often, when trying to book on a later day with a fairly new provider you have never met before, you do not get a response. Not Nikki, she quickly responded with information on her rates and asking what time I would like to come see her in case she needed to set an alarm in order to be ready for me. This was my first clue that I was on the right path. I informed her to not set an alarm, enjoy her sleep and to contact me tomorrow. She replied with, "Thanks, I'll send you a message when I wake up." Needless to say what I thought of when I went to bed and when I woke in the middle of the night to get a glass of water. After being up for a couple of hours and anxiously awaiting her message, I was happy when my phone finally beeped. The message read, " I'm awake now. I'm going to eat, workout and shower. Ready in about 2 hours?" This was my second clue that I was on the right path. I informed her that all was well and I then prepared for my visit with Nikki. When I pulled up to a brand new building I contacted her so she could inform me on how to get into the building and find her door. (This is the most nervous time when TOFTT. You never know what will be on the other side of the door.) When the door opened, my instant thought was, "Wow!" Standing there in front of me was this beautiful woman with a beautiful face wearing a short black silk housecoat with black thigh-high stockings, I was impressed! This was my third clue that I was on the right path. We said hello, quickly hugged and I took off my coat. The apartment seemed new and very clean when I walked to the living room and sat down beside her. We chatted for a few minutes and I quickly felt at ease. She noticed this, and at one point when our eyes made contact, we both leaned in for what was a really great kiss. She stood up, grabbed my hand and led me to the bedroom. ???????????????????? Her touch and passion is next-level. We chatted for a short while about this and that and it was then that I realized I would have to see her again. It wasn't long before... ???????????????????? Oh what a marvelous path I chose! We both enjoyed each other very much. Talking with her afterwards came easy, like we were already friends and the conversation just flowed with ease. When I mentally realized that my hour had surely passed, I suggested I should get ready to leave. While at the door she kissed and hugged me goodbye and we agreed to see each other again. When TOFTT, you encounter those you know you will never see again. Sometimes you encounter those you know you would see again. So rarely do these happen, this time it did, when you encounter someone you "know" you will see again. Be kind with this unique special woman. Believe me now, thank me later! Gentlemen you already know what you need to do for yourselves, I won't even say it... It has been at least two years since I last discovered such a magnificent woman. I was so happy with the entire experience and that I had once again found a terrific TOFTT that on the walk back to my car I found myself singing... Had the pleasure of spending time with Nikki again tonight. It was another wonderful experience. She seems to get friskier every time I see her, which in turn makes the sessions better and better. I have always enjoyed seeing different providers. There have been very few that I have seen more than once. When I do it's usually many weeks or months apart. This woman simply does it for me. I contacted her to see her and we set a time. Just as I was leaving she sent me message asking me if there was anything in particular that I wanted her to be wearing when I arrived, I did have something in mind and she accommodated my request. I really enjoyed that. When being with this woman she truly makes you feel like you're her boyfriend. I think she comes in for kisses more often than I do, I enjoy that also. She has become more sensual, passionate and vocal which keeps making me more and more comfortable when being with her. This obviously, has all now lead to some real uninhibited fun. Have I finally found a regular? Me? Careful with this one, she's addictive. I'm already looking forward to my next visit. FYI-She sleeps in often, so if you contact her in the morning you may not get an immediate response. She is usually available during afternoons and evenings. She doesn't post often but feel free to send her a message if you wish to see her.

Hi guys, I TOFTT last week end with Lilly from Moncton/Riverveiw. After a few tentalizing messages form Lilly, we set up an early app. for Saturday morning. The morning after, no show and no answer to my texts. Finally, she answered back a couple of hours latter saying she was sorry and that she had overslept. She offered me to come to see her at her Grand parents's place! (First clue) Suposedly they were out west and she was taking care of the house. When I got to the house, I notice a lot of shoes at the entrance! (second clue). She invited me in a small room in the basement of the house. It was full of dolls!!!! (Third clue) (WTF???) BTW, her pictures are definitly not new. She carry an extra 50 to 75 lbs over and above what she looks like on her pics!!! (forth clue) I then gave her the agreed rate and sat on the bed. She asked me if I wanted a massage and I said ok. I then proceed to take of my watch and shirt then she freaked out. She told me that she was with the police (???) and that I should leave imediatly or she would call them. She then said that she would call her boyfried. I asked for for my money back, but she refused. Not knowing if there was anybody else in the house, I was now feeling that that my security could be in jeodardy. So I left immediatly. She is a thief , a crook and a con artist! Be very carefull guys. See her add and pic below. http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/fr-ca/FemaleEscorts/love-5068711028new-pics-horni-girl-special-kisscuddle-full-sweet-deals-lilly-5068711028-23/1615660

I wish I could read people. No, not their minds. I have never been able to tell when someone likes me or if they are just being polite. Or they are just taking advantage of my good nature and generosity. :(

I too, had a great opportunity to see the lovely Violet in Ottawa recently. Her incall hotel location is near the city center, easy to find, clean and with plenty of parking spots. Booking was easy by texting her no. on her website. She is everything what Slurp and others have described here and elsewhere. Sweet, gorgeous, friendly and with a will to please - she is very much a GFE. With her easy-going and fun-loving nature, it didn't take long for us to feel relaxed and be comfortable with each other. Lots of DFKs, hugging and caressing followed by us taking turn to pleasure one another. As her website says, she loves what she does and she's genuine, making our session so memorable. I will definitely repeat whenever she's in town. A true gem, a great find indeed.

to a certain extent Lyla is like all other forums I am a member of - which are mostly tech & music ones. 10% of members provide all the content and rest just benefit. I do think though quality of the content is the best vs other review sites though going the extra step and PMing people for info though is a bit irritating if done repeatedly LuxeMulvari - I have same basic problem as you and most other small businesses - people are too lazy to read website's content which makes no sense as its faster to do so vs contacting the business. Smart to take your phone number off

I agree with what the other poster have mostly said but sometimes it does take more than one visit to establish chemistry. Sometimes you know right away but when I first started seeing MA's over a year ago it was very much a miss and not what I was looking for. I guess my point is if you find someone that you see a fit with, it will likely get better with time spent with her. You can interact with the MA's you are interested in seeing on this board, but not all have accounts here. Many of the MA's have accounts on Twitter, it is a lot of more interactive. I hate to generalize but I have to say that in my experience the younger MA's are more youthful and playful (i.e. what toine said), and more experienced women more sensual. OP asked about touching, most MA's don't like you going south without asking, YMMV with this. As for myself going south is not that important to me with an MA and I generally don't go there. OP may be best looking for an SP. Exclusively Mia is amazing, Kelly @ CMJ is fantastic, Amanda and Kimberly @ Vibe youthful/playful, I have heard nice things about Blake @ CMJ from another MA (Adele). However I would think these ladies would not appreciate being touched in the nether regions on meeting them.

Exactly my sentiments WhereIRoam! Without members sharing reviews and/or participating on the board in other ways, there would be no community. You wouldn't keep asking for help from your neighbour without being willing to help them in your turn? And there are a few members who have shared an extraordinary amount of information and experience with members in an unselfish way over many years. These exceptional members should be the examples we aspire to vs. the others who do not share.

I agree with Daisy. I've never booked less than an hour myself but for a first meeting, I expect there is some initial get to know each type conversation even if we've previously communicated by text or email. I do know some MA's might not do pre & post shower if booking less than an hour, although for some the cut-off is 45

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Slightly in contrary to what's WhereIRoam is saying, it's probably best to book an hour for the first time with an SP if you intend to do more frequent half hour visits- gives you a chance to get to know her well, (instead of a quick wham van thank you ma'am) and then helps set the mood for future appointments. Though I doubt there's much of a difference in service... likely less intimate/lying around time, but the fun for sure still happens. Don't fret too much on it :-)

Personally I have never experienced a difference in service. I usually only book a half hour on my first visit with a provider I have never seen before and if I choose to see them again I usually book for an hour.

When that moment comes while you're having an amazing session with someone and you realize it's time for you to go.

Right on the money ZugZug, I had a similar experience. This is what I like about Twitter, CMJ parties, and having lunch at the bar at Brass after a session. All are ways of meeting and connecting with these wonderful ladies and you'll soon see who you feel a little spark with. Case in point today - lunch at Brass after my session (mind blowing duo with Chloe and Ren) and I got chatting with Holly and Lilith. Lilith and I were swapping music recommendations and then in chatting the topic of running and yoga came up - and I wind up on the floor with Lilith showing her pigeon pose (my fave, so good on the glutes). So we are both there stretching, looking into each other's eyes and smiling. It was a silly little thing yet so intimate. I feel like we have a great connection and I am looking forward to a session with her as soon as it's feasible for me. With sweet Lola that connection started on Twitter. With the amazing Mya it was Twitter as well. Interact with these wonderful women any way you can, you will soon get a sense of who you have a connection with. :)

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Hi guys , I've meet Jade she's 20 years old and from Halifax . She will be visiting on occasion so look out for her . She's amazing !

Maybe disappointing but better here than at the incall location and light one donation!!!

Midnight snack...

Something to look forward to...

tuesday, thursday friday 12-6 pm

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Very small stature girl. She is quite nice and hosts in a local hotel. She replies to texts quite quickly and has very reasonable rates.

I've been to see Leila twice now, pictures are legit. She has always given good service and had a good sense of humor as well. I have not met her friend but when I was there last she did mention she had a friend coming from Montreal. Location is out of the way nice condo complex. Cheers, V

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I can attest to that. I've followed Sandy from other spas just to get her awesome touch. You would be well served by looking her up at ALO!

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This is really very enlightening. If all of these "guidelines" were explicitly and rigourously adhered to, there would be scant cause for concern. If. I note particularly the admonition that "[t]he recorded images must be stored in a secure location...". Wondering if a smartphone qualifies. Also notable is the statement that the guidelines do not "apply to the surveillance of employees." This seems to be the purpose of the surveillance in this case.

From a personal point of view, if I'm going on a trip with a regular, only then will I ask for a deposit. As for multiple hours, I don't offer that on a first date anymore because I want to see how reliable they are for an hour. In the past multiple hour appointments even just for 2 hours were the worst type of cancellations and I never count on someone unless they are there in my presence. Once I get an idea of how reliable they are for an hour after a few visits, I may or not ask for a deposit for multiple hours. If someone books other appointments for a half hour or an hour and I've met them just once or not at all and they have a tendency to keep cancelling more than once, I will not bother asking for a deposit. The way I see it is they are not someone I'm acquainted with or barely at all so I will write them off and not see them again. I give them two chances with cancellations and then I'm done. I don't have time to fool around with that and while there are good reasons for cancellations, if the client has any respect for someone else's time, they will reach out to make amends. The provider shouldn't have to. It's the people who act shocked and insulted when you bring up the issue and ask for a deposit are the type who will throw it back on the provider and just disappear so it's an exercise in futility with the chronic ones. I see them as waste of timers. Why even bother? Their actions speak louder than words. I don't want to deal with unreliable people. It's no different than an SP double booking or constantly no showing on a client. They are not going to put up with that behaviour no matter how good looking or how good her services are. We all have our threshold point where it becomes too much. There are many more guys out there who aren't chronic canceller types so I don't think there is a need for deposits upfront unless it's for multiple hours, overnighters or trips. That's a no brainer to get a deposit for those types of appointments. I don't forsee ladies asking for deposits up front for any length of time such as an hour or under. That will never happen because trust has to first be established and that can't be done with virtual strangers. The SP takes her chances with a 2 hour appointment from someone she has never met. It's happened a few times to me so I stopped offering it to people I don't know. The ones who really annoy the providers with their waste of time horse and pony show are the ones who won't pay that deposit so really give them a chance but not too many where they have to only then be viewed as a wot. As the saying goes "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." I really take appointment bookings with a grain of salt which is why I love same day, last minute appointments because this sort of thing rarely happens within an hour or if they want to visit right away.

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Yella, there are so many great options, it is hard to recommend one more than another. Still, as one must: Blake at CMJ is approaching perfection, in terms of sensuality... Brittney and Hope at Brass Club have a great touch, and youthful spirit. And the list goes on and on.... You'll have great time with them, and so many others... toine

I can second the recommendation for Lola at The Brass Club. In the fall I had my first (and only) session with her. It was lots of fun, very intimate, and there was lots of kissing and intimacy. I really, really enjoyed my session with her. Of course, YMMV.

If you feel that your bra or braless choice might be inappropriate for a given situation, just shoot me a quick picture and I'll give you my honest opinion. I won't even charge for this useful service. Hey, being a member has to have some benefit, right ladies? I'm here to help. Call me.

It depends on who the guest is for me exactly how the process transpires. I haven't found it awkward with regular/repeat guests or new guests. That is why I depart to the ladies room so they can place my donation in the wallet privately. It's reusable and very durable, I enjoy that factor and it cuts down on trash regardless if envelopes are recyclable. Kind of the same concept as the reusable grocery store bags. Regular and repeat guests usually just have the donation in their pocket/wallet/personal card or and unsealed envelope and place it on my table, when they arrive the donation wallet is there for them to place it in (not sealed). I depart to take the donation wallet and put it away and get us a beverage. If it's in a personal card the donation wallet is not needed. I know which regular and repeat guests bring personal cards. Out bookings if I have it I place it on the table/desk and my donation is placed inside unsealed and I take it go in the ladies room to place my safety call, count and put my wallet away. I have only ever been shorted may be twice so I as well as many companions I know always receive upon arrival and count the donation first and then proceed with the encounter. It's up to the companion how they handle that and what they are comfortable with. It's a new process/procedure that I am testing out and so far so good. I have only gotten positive feedback with regards to not having to get an envelope or just placing the donation on the table. I haven't experienced a guest/client having their own yet. So what comes to mind is if the guest/client was to have their own, they would just place it on the table/desk, the guest/client would excuse themselves to the facilities while the companion retrieves, counts and puts the donation away. Upon their return the guest/client retrieves their donation wallet and place it back in their pocket/jacket/brief case. It boils down to who your guest/client is and the location. If you count the donation in front of them if you're comfortable with that or take it to another room to count and put away and if you receive your donation upfront upon arrival and get that out of the way so the encounter flows naturally with the donation aspect dealt and done with it. So far this has worked for me and I like it. I never have to ask for my donation or bring it up. The donation wallet is in plain view for use upon arrival. I find asking uncomfortable as well as some of the guests/clients I see find asking where to put it uncomfortable. With the donation wallet in plain view they know and just deal with that part, no discussion needed. I hope that helps a bit as to how I've been using it. I know sometimes when I write or reply back, I write as if I'm speaking directly to you because I am but if you'd like I can call you on the phone tomorrow and we can have a chat. Hugs, Lexy

I always place the donation in an unmarked unsealed envelope on the bedside table where she has her stuff... (purse, condoms, cell phone, or whatever)... a couple times I've place the envelop on the bed, but one girl didn't like that. Either way I never give it to her directly, but put it where she can see it... I give her the envelope either before my shower or immediately after. The gal I see currently regularly I've seen so often she never looks at it (she trusts me). I also try to be a little early so that I can relax a little before I call her. I find something discrete to do near the location (not right at the door). Typically I find a nearby store and take my time buying breathe mints or gum until the appointed time... I never call right at the door, because I don't want to draw attention to either of us. So I'm usually call from a couple doors down or across the street (depending on where it is). I've only even done a no show once and that was because there was a police car in front of the condo entrance, and in that case I sent an apology as soon as I could (about 15 minutes later). I've had to cancel appointments three times (in 8 years) due to having a cold, but gave the lady in question advanced notice of more then a day (in two cases because I had to change my hotel reservation as well). Additional Comments: Considering what the gals are doing for us, they're really not charging that much... If they work for an escort agency they give half to the agency (for booking, accommodation, advertising, transportation etc.), if they are independent they have to take care of all those cost themselves which takes time and money. A hotel can run anywhere from $100 to $200 a night (that's what I pay when I meet my favourite lady); cheaper places are available, but yuck. Given the preparation time, transportation time, advertising costs, and also the potential danger, the gal isn't really making all that much. For the most part its a bargain at the prices they charge. As for not being able to eat, no, but the gal I see the most did run into financial difficulty last year when she was injured in a traffic accident and couldn't work for a while.

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I haven't been on Lyla in quite a while, feels good to be back, just saying a little hello to all of my friends xoxo -Scarlett

The first thing to do is communicate well during the appointment. Maybe she's forgotten some of your favourite details. No problem; bring up the topic of the missing bits with a smile and a laugh, and guide her and the session on the course you had discussed. If you haven't established friendly, positive back-and-forth communication with your provider, then that's your first problem right there. Then again maybe there's some reason why, now that the moment is upon you both, she doesn't really feel comfortable following through. Again, communication during the session is key. Raise the subject in a friendly way to make sure she hasn't forgotten, and if she's not comfortable with X, work together to find another way to have fun that works for both of you. But ultimately, if all of your discussions to resolve the problem fail, then you need to remember that the contract between the client and provider is solely for time spent together in which things will probably happen, but there's never a guarantee. She's a human being, not a vending machine; your money gives you no claim over her body. So all of those details you discussed are requests, but there's never an ironclad guarantee they'll be fulfilled. If you ultimately aren't satisfied with a session, and your conversation with the provider hasn't resolved that to your satisfaction, then just don't go back. Chasing after your money with "but you didn't do X! Give me Y dollars back!" is crass and fruitless. And, last of all: don't compare sex work to other industries. The comparison is always misleading when it comes to these types of up-close human interactions. Your SP is not your mechanic.

I'm wondering if there is or will be an introduction thread for new members to introduce themselves, either before or after they have passed through moderation? I introduced myself in one of the social groups I joined but now I feel that wasn't the greatest choice of placement (it was also a bit wordy, lol). Hope this is an appropriate spot to ask this question. Thank you, Jane