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I just finished watching the Bruce Jenner interview with Dianne Sawyer, and I have to say, I have a new found respect for him, coming out to society about transgender! As he spoke, I could relate to his feelings of not being able to "come out", to family and friends, in fear of their reaction, being an SP, I felt the same way, just recently I started posting face pics, which have given me a sense of freedom, just because I am an SP doesn't mean there aren't many more areas to my life, but at the end of the day, for myself I am glad I made that decision! Throughout the interview he discussed feelings of how others would look at him, but he new this is who he is, and society be damned! I learned from his interview, that no matter who or what people see us as, I am still me, and proud to be who I am, so Bruce Jenner I thank you for coming out to the world, you have my highest respect!!

Yes, presumably. Backpage is moderated, just not enough. You can't post explicit pics and you can report issues. Perhaps that could be a resolve. If more would report those who b&s perhaps less would be able to get away with it.

I'm not even going to touch your gross overgeneralization of male patrons, but I've been dancing since 2009 and have known many dancers who have been around longer than that, and that is absolutely not standard. Stage tipping in general isn't standard around here, so to expect a new dancer to stage tip every dancer is just mind-boggling. Perhaps a more seasoned dancer told her that as a joke or just to see if she could get away with it? Not all dancers are friendly to newbies. Alternatively, maybe she just wanted to tip all the dancers to get on their good side but felt the need to give you an excuse for it. Or, if she came from the USA, I could see where she might think that was expected -- they have a far stronger stage tipping culture down there. Of course, there's never much sense in trying to figure out why dancers do anything as sometimes there's no rhyme or reason to it. ;)

Arkaine: Free at last! Liberation is on the horizon. Bunker down and wait her out.

This thread underwent the interesting transformation starting from the discussion of reliability of information on BP and ending on discussion if participation in BP is good or bad. Actually, I don't see how using some website can make someone or something better or worth. Let me put it this way. As a client, I go to BP from time to time. Does this change my personality or makes me worth client? I don't think so. If I come to the escort companion from BP, will she treat me in a different way then the guy who came from Eros or personal website directly? I hope not. Or am I wrong Ladies? If I found companion on BP, will I treat her differently than Lady from Lyla? - no way, with the same respect and high expectations. It does not depend on website, it depends on person. Being general commercial site, BP is just less reliable source of information than some special sites for escort advertising - that is all. This means that a little bit more efforts are required on both sides. Clients should do some search and verification, Ladies are expected to do smart advertizing to save us some time on that search and verification. (BTW, Mia's ad is the perfect example how it can be done right on BP - no doubts about person authenticity or service quality - IMHO.)

Yesterday was a very sad day for our family. Our dog, or specifically my daughter's dog which was 12 years old and had been my daughter's faithful companion passed away. He was a great faithful dog that wouldn't hurt a flea. We've had many animals at home during the 20 years. At times we had a mini zoo at home. He's had cat's, rabbits and snakes put on him. And he was kind of them all. The last couple of month's had been rough, as he was having troubles walking and had to be lifted up so that he could limp outside to go for a pee. But the last couple months, he had to go outside every 2 hours for a pee :(. I think his kidneys had been failing. My daughter had recently moved out and he was faithfully waiting each day at the front door to wait for her. She did come home every couple of days for dinner and to see him. He was happy each time he saw her. But my daughter was sad as she could see that he was getting worst each day. She is an animal fanatic and loved her dog very much. It was her that suggested that maybe it was time for him to be put to sleep. She was in tears when she said this, but she didn't want him to suffer. She has been coming home each night to spend time with him and to sleep in the family room with him each night, She woke up 3 to 4 times each night to let him out. Last night she felt he was going soon, and bought him a Mac Donald's burger and fries. When we got home he was lying on his side panting. But when he saw the burger and fries, he perked up and gobbled down his meal. Soon afterwards he lied down on his side and starting convulsing and breathing hard and his eye's were rolling back. We thought that he was going to pass soon. The family and her best friend sat with him for several hours, petting and talking too him. We then decided to call a vet that does home visit's to put him to sleep. We did not want to suffer more. We found a vet that could come within 30 minutes. While waiting we surrounded him with love and kept petting him. When the vet arrive. She apologized for being late. She was nice french woman that is serious about her job. She was very caring and compassionate. She kept us informed as to his health status and kept reinforcing to my daughter that she was doing the right thing. His kidneys had failed and he was dying and could be in this conditions for hours before he passed. We told her to put him to sleep. She explained to us what would happen at each state and asked for permission to go ahead. She told us to keep petting him and talking to him as she prepared the needles. First injection was to put him to sleep and relax him. This would take about 15 minutes she said. Meanwhile my daughter is crying and telling her dog that it was okay for him to go, and that he was a good dog. We were all crying as we sat around him. And we were telling stories about him as a puppy. the vet said that it was good that we did not bring him to a vet hospital as it is stressful for the dogs, as they get stressed going to the vet as they have memories about previous visit's to the vet. It is too clinical and cold. It is better for him to pass at his home with his loved ones around him. After 15 minutes, he was sleeping, she administered the final injection that would stop his heart, this would take about 30 seconds. After 30 seconds he stopped breathing and looked at peace. My daughter then cried for a while. The vet was very soothing and tried to comfort my daughter. After giving us time to say goodbye to our loyal family member. We wrapped his body in his favourite blanket and she promised that she would respect the body and bring it home with her until the people came tomorrow to take the body for cremation. She said that would bring back his ashes when they were ready. I was very much impressed with the vet's attention to detail and how compassionate and understanding she was. There was no rush and she kept us informed at all times at what to expect. She even gave us each a big hug before she left. This at home visit was the best way for us to say goodbye to our loving pet. He passed away with his family and friends around him. Our other dog laid on his body after he passed, I think she knew what happen and was looking for him today. He is at peace now and his memory will stay with us forever. My daughter is now compiling all her pictures of him and making a digital album. Just wanted to share this experience with you and if you have to say bye to your pet a at home visit from one of these loving vet's is a great way to do so. May he Rest in Peace :)

I came across a video the other day and I decided to share here because while watching it, although I felt so happy that I am aware of what I'm worth (my inner value, not looks) I also realized that it wasn't always the case and that it took a lot of self-work to get there and also I was blessed with great people and circumstances to walk into my life to learn to appreciate myself because I know my value and I don't need anyone to say it to me. The video is directed to women but I really want to share this with both men and women, although I'm sure the women here will give it a different perspective because another thing that clicked me while watching it was how in this profession we can sometimes be put up on a pedestal and others not very appreciated however thinking about it on the men's side of this business, some also stereotype those who pay to spend time with a lady ... Bullshit! I've met some wonderful men through this, nicer than some jerks I've met in my personal life, same way I know many ladies here are better people that women who aren't escorts. So here's this video for all of us to remember that our worth is based on our actions which make us a better or not so better person but being on cerb and what it involves is not one of them :)

This is EXACTLY why I started this thread.... to show you guys what it's like to be compared to unrealistic photoshopped images. I know you guys probably don't think we care, but we do. Guess what? We feel inadequate too, daily. We see all kinds of threads about "best bum" and other similar things... Most of us will NEVER live up to these expectations, and it can be detrimental to our self esteems to see it all over the site all the time. As far as I am concerned, this thread is for us ladies to enjoy, and for you guys to have to try and force down your own medicine. Sorry.

Woke up to a sunny day! :)

I don't want to seem harsh or blame you, but you dog will only learn if you teach him and teach him right. Every dog is different and will respond to training differently. He is chewing, likely because he's bored. You need to tire him out, exercise him more. He is most likely teething as well and could be stressed at being left(separation anxiety) by you his pack leader. Find him a favorite chew and kennel(crate) him with it. Training a dog to be comfortable in a crate is important. The easiest way of doing that is putting him in there with his favorite food/chewy or toy and leaving the door open, praising him, then in time close the door, leaving him for short intervals and praise him for being good in it. Make it a place he'll want to go. Crate training can prevent separation anxiety, which is the hardest issue to solve with a dog and give you peace of mind when the dog is left. Most dogs are given over to pounds, shelters and rescue orgs because of behavioral issues and more often than not, they are caused by the owners themselves. Good luck, I know it can be frustrating and time consuming but owning and raising a dog isn't easy, cheap or uncomplicated, they are intelligent social beings after all:)

I feel your pain, but it's a great way to keep the boards moderated and to stop all of the spam. You should embrace it!

BP- raising their AD rates! Pretty soon there going to want a percentage of our encounters

this thread is making me feel inadequate :( lol! .

From the moment I first called her agency, I felt welcomed and assured I was doing the right thing. The phone operator was very enthusiastic about all his ladies; but this one imparticular. I now know why..and you will aswell :) Her location is REALLY easy to find and gorgeous to behold. (despite the surrounding construction) A sight I soon found belittled in the presence of this exquisite and winsome lady. Watching her very grabbable bum walk me to her "office", as she calls it, I immediatly knew she was going to be something special. 8) Her place is nicely furnished and completely IMMACULATE! WOW! She offered me some wine she'd received from Italy, a delicious treat even for someone like me who is not a connoisseur of alcohol, as we talked for a bit. This lady is incredibly easy to talk with and really knows how to make you feel welcome. She is genuine, with the right amount of playfulness. She's also very knowledgable about other places, as she visits a fair number of places/countries each year. She also LOVES guitars. She has a few in her place, doesn't know how to play them, but she loves the shape of them. (like a womens sexy form she says. Maybe there is something there ladies? duos perhaps? I never asked) Once we finished our wine, into the shower/jaccuzi for a quick clean up I went. The surprises kept on comming (no pun intended) When I opened the door to exit the bathroom she was standing outside in the sexiest little outfit. As she stood with that gorgeous smile on her face and the poise of a godess, I felt like that toon from the Bugs Bunny show who's tongue falls out of his mouth and unravels for like 50 feet! UNBELIEVABLE! How did she hide all that underneath those clothes?!?! The image above is 100% real and when you see her in her birthday suit you will not believe your eyes! As I believe what happens between myself and any of my ladies is only for us to cherish, I won't get into the sweaty, passionate, exhausting details themselves; and YMMV of course. However I feel justice can't be given to this lady by mere words in any combination anyways. Her skin, soft and sensuous.. her breasts, enthralling and enticing... the view from behind is ass-tounding and her whispers are like an angel crying into your ear...

Saw her. Awesome. She said she would be back in a couple weeks.

I had 2 phones before and I'm using a text app so i dont need 2 phones anymore...

Im on my way back to the Yukon :) where it is warmer than here :)

Then they should have just asked Isabella. I would have happily obliged them with a hug, I have the build for it after all :) .

Ma is short for Massage attendant, like Sp is short for Service provider. There is a list to review....I cant seem to find it now, maybe removed with all the censorship ? Google can likely help... Not quite understanding your last sentence..."parting with a prized 7" " My point was that a less than scrupulous attendant/provider could've really fleeced me in the early going as I was completely naive and just thought if I felt this way, then she must too. It could've been bad...and there have been many stories about just that. She wasn't like that...and life is good!

Back in 1995 I was in Montreal on business. After a particularly draining day, I decided to indulge in a little company. Now remember, this was before internet, so the "search" consisted of looking at the ads in the local newspapers. One ad caught my eye. Blonde quebecoise, 21yrs old, blue eyes. Sounded good. I called the number and arranged for a one-hour date. "Kim" arrives at my hotel room. Yup, she was gorgeous, but something was adrift. She walks in, calls the agency and the date begins. She undresses and lays on the bed. I was massaging her back when it hit me.. she fell asleep!! Wow, someone else had a worse day than me! Then the snoring started. Wonderful. I tried to shake her a bit to wake her up, but she was sound asleep. A bit of panic set in. I didn't know what to do. I am still dressed, so I decide to sit on the chair and have a smoke. Kim was on her stomach, naked and sound asleep, in a pose that reminded me of Jill Masterson covered in gold in the James Bond movie "Goldfinger". After about an hour, a woman calls the hotel room, says she is calling for Kim. I explained the situation and the woman on the phone yells out "merde!". Another 15-20 minutes go by and there's a knock on my door. The person identifies herself as the woman from the agency. She enters and proceeds to wake up Kim. Kim is groggy but starts to put her clothes on. The other woman checks Kim's purse and makes sure she is dressed ok. The woman returns my envelope and apologizes. Both women left my room a few moments later. Thus ended my first experience. It would be another two years before I even thought of entertaining another encounter. CM

Amelia is a good friend of mine, has gorgeous pictures and contributed to the Lyla community for quite some time, your time with her, will be one you will Not forget, she is gorgeous inside and out!

It was a very valid inquiry and one I hope which will be beneficial for you and Miss Amelia and I hope you'll meet her. Of course this is a recommendation board, which I thought meant, it gives a hobbyists an opportunity to reco a companion should he/she choose and for members to view them. I didn't think it meant in order to meet, someone has to have them or one had to rely solely on them, but to each their own:)

In the technical sense, the big difference is that Lyla is moderated and BP isn't. If you're into that sort of thing, BP is to Lyla what 4Chan is to something like Reddit. It isn't that one is BETTER per se but the barrier to entry and rules of Lyla are more challenging so you're more likely to have quality postings. From the client standpoint, you need to be LESS careful on Lyla because presumably everyone here is legit. Not to say a Lyla date is a sure thing but there's less of the wild west up in here.

Congratulations and thanks to Royalfun for his 3000 great contributions! A keen eye and good taste. Raising the aesthetic level! Well done!

Congratulations you lovely beast. I have very much enjoyed many of your posts and comments. Thank you for all you do and looking forward to more *muah*

Congrats Royalfun always great pics you post, cheers.

Congratulations Royalfun on your 3000th post!

Congrats Royalfun on reaching 3000 posts, I like the pictures that you post, keep them coming !

Don't worry Johnnybird, you are quite a cute birdy. And women love cute birdies ;-)

Carley Chase and Maraena!!!

Time for 2. Start with my "unique touch" massage, soft & slow, or a combination of hard and furious. Let's progress with a huggable, kissabe ... Fill in the blanks time, in my private, quiet and convenient oasis, downtown near the Bell Building and City Hall. Always creative, and open minded individual. Loves to wear sexy lingerie. In lieu of my time for "unique massage" and true adult companionship 100 hh 150/45 mins 180/h Please no blocked calls/ text (unless you mention this ad, or we've had the pleasure of time spent before). It's best to reach me by phone for short notice. I'm available most days between 8:30 am - 10 pm. I do realize some people have time constraints, please give me 20/30 mins notice and I will always try to accommodate you. Thank you, and have a wonderful, sexy day! Let this mature Italian show you the way. Lorraina@ 613-404-7437

Most often, not always, the "100% real pics", "24/7" and "want to party" are red flags. I suggest you do your due diligence before taking the plunge.

As much as I like Ottawa, I can't see anybody beating Carey Price four times in a row. Anderson will need to stand on his head for the next two games if they have any shot of advancing to the next round. But hey, the Kings did it recently coming back when down three games.. Why not this year?!

I think you misunderstood what I meant. A lot of women ages 20-35 will specifically go searching for books about this business because they may be interested into getting into it and may have a skewed vision of what they think it is all about. Others may read this type of book on the beach somewhere as just something interesting to read. I wasn't suggesting a "how to" book rather a book that is real and not depicting this business as very glamorous because a lot of times it isn't. Women who aren't in this business may be blind sighted by all the fluffy type books that are sold on Amazon that focus on dream type clients and lots of money. It doesn't work that way. They need an accurate version from someone who has witnessed and experienced it firsthand. If someone in the above demographics gains of idea of what is real, they then can make an informed decision IF they want to get into the business and only IF that's why they are reading the book in the first place. Other women may fantasize about this business, buy the books and continue about their regular life. IMO that age demographic will probably be the most popular. I once read a book 10 years ago about a woman who was a Harvard Professor by day and an escort by night. She had her own share of trials and tribulations which made the book that much better. Keep the book pointed in a "real" direction and you will have multiple demographics as your audience. Posted via Mobile Device

Sierra at CMJ is a passionate kisser and very good at it! She really enjoys it and ensures you will too. I've seen her a couple of times since the most recent spring social and it just keeps getting better. She gave me a lovely kiss at the social and that sealed the deal to make me a regular!

As a true hockey fan I have to give credit to the Sens especially Anderson giving him full credit, he is playing outstanding. Yip all Hab fans are very nervous after watching that game tonight. As Gabby mentioned we got our ass kicked royally in our own barn. A stat tonight has our top six forwards at a -3 so far, they have to show up on Sunday and bring their A game or there will a game 7.

I guess it's been postponed for another game hehe.

Great game, only got to watch the tail end of it... But 5 goals, wow... Back in our barn now so lets see what happens... Rally caps are still on.

The Sens played great, Anderson was superb and they had a bit of luck on their side too..:wink:

I have missed all the fine handsome gentlemen in Fredericton, so I am coming back, not only am I packing my sexy dresses and surprises, but I am bringing along a friend, Amelia Fox! This will be my first visit to St John, and Moncton! I am excited to meet new gentlemen! I am the complete package, from a lady that can accompany you to a diner engagement, or quality time, just the two of us, the possibilities are endless! I am able to see you alone or with my beautiful energetic friend, please call or text 902 432 9036 Fredericton Wednesday April 29(one day only) St John Thursday April 30-Sun May 3 (noon) Moncton Sunday May 3 (times to be announced Follow me on Twitter @ victoriaphenix1,, announcements and candid pictures

I've always been a fan of Simon and Garfunkel. Wait...what kind of duo are we talking about? Hmm...if I'm in the realm of dreams I'll go with Christina Hendricks and Jennifer Lawrence. Beauty, wit, and fun! (plus I actually found it easier to narrow down my celebrity crushes than pick from amongst the ladies of Lyla).

I saw that on twitter and as appalled at what they put that poor man through. Some people need to be kicked in the ass and kicked over again. Very sad. I want to hug that poor soul.

Lol, I'm glad I'm not the only one and will Farrell the weather guy on Canada am Daniel boone;), lol and a few more I'll think of later :)

Thanks everyone for an entertaining read... Of course the bottom line here, as has already been pointed out a few times, is that you are either okay giving more detailed personal information or you aren't. Yea or Nay Arguing the reasons why a companion chooses to have certain specifications in order to spend time with her is not accomplishing anything. A lady chooses her rules and what she's okay with and that's that. I'm not even going to go into reasons why saying shit like "if she wants your real info you should have hers, too" is skewed logic at it's best. If you don't understand why you're being obtuse, me adding yet another explanation is hardly going to enlighten you. I get that guys want to protect their privacy just as much as the ladies do. But again: if you don't like the way a lady handles her business, then find someone who is more suited to you. No need to try to use weird logic to justify your stance. Move on to another companion whose expectations and requirements are at a level you are willing to meet. Wow! Rocket science! Okay kids, let's all make nice and go about our lives.

I actually do meditations or guided sleep hypnosis that I find on youtube. I like going into that deep trance which leads to an uninterrupted deep sleep and wake up feeling more refreshed than ever. https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=sleep+hypnosis

This is such a beautiful video Isabella, I cried watching it. I know so many women out there that don't think they make a difference in the world but they do. This message goes out to all the ladies of Lyla, you all make a difference in our lives, YOU ARE ENOUGH!! and we love you all. "big hugs to you all".

Do two parties have to have something to offer in a negotiation? It appears the ladies hold the cards on this one. Begging comes to mind here. I don't think the ladies should be making the donation to the monetarily challenged. I hope the ladies don't feel bad when this happens. Its sad but it always will. Hopefully it just helps with your screening so you know right away not to invest time. You have to shake your head a little though when you think about it. I spend so much money renovating, vacations, fancy meals etc. Etc trying to create memories so when you look back it feels like you lived a good one. Well all I know is when you can trade a few hundred roses for an hour of time from an angel there should be no begging, you should just pay the rate if she accepts you because you will be lucky to have a life memory. They are by far my most vivid and happiest. Ask a girl to turn a dream into reality and if she can knock 20 bucks off cmon....do u want fries with that?

I disagree. Lots of us use BP as another way to advertise. However, if BP is the ONLY site, then I would be concerned. That's why using cerb AND Google helps to weed out the fly by nights. Do your research when visiting anyone.

Gabrielle Union Jessica Simpson Both gorgeous girls!!!!