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Another turn on this journey of chemo, puking and staying horny! So, today was a good day, doc's gave me two whole days off without chemo! YAY! A friend came in, and brought a water jug filled with French 75's! Champagne gin and orange juice to celebrate my having a full day without puking my eyeballs out of my head. It was shift change, and the young nurse with the wonderful camel toe, the big camel toe, the camel toe to end all camel toes......sorry I digress, to say bye, she is off for the next five days. She sees the water jug and asks what was in it. My friend tells her and offers her drink to taste....and their hands do this little dance. Nurse Bailey leaves and I think oh shit I am in trouble again, then Katie and I start laughing. Bailey comes back in, changed into street clothes, lulu lemon tights, and that camel toe is front and centre. We have another drink, and my smart ass friend says, Tom what are you looking at on your ipad? She knows damn well I was on cerb, and on the oral lovers page. Bailey grabs the iPad and starts scrolling down the pics and comments. She tells Katie how hot this was, rubbing her thighs up and down as she is looking at Katie's cleavage. Smiling, they pour and finish the French75's, both lean over the bed rails, give me a kiss goodbye, and walk out arm in arm!! WTF?! They could have at least closed the door and started playing with each other while I watched!! Oh well, I am sure Katie will give a lick by lick description if she comes in tomorrow, just hope I am well enough to enjoy the play by play! Hopefully out by Friday, Via1 on Saturday back to Ottawa assuming I don't puke a lung up tomorrow ! Tom The Liquor

The Senate's LCJC committee met on Thursday the 18th, but it dealt with a very different matter: not with bill C-36. There was no agenda previously published. I hope everyone did, however, see Alan Young's completely virtuoso testimony at LCJC concerning bill C-36 Wednesday afternoon. Astoundingly informative! (Entertaining, but not a very optimistic assessment.) http://senparlvu.parl.gc.ca/Guide.aspx?viewmode=4&categoryid=-1&currentdate=2014-09-17&languagecode=12298&eventid=9626 full video of 17 september http://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/confused-prostitution-bill-can-t-be-fixed-lawyer-alan-young-says-1.2769152 Print CBC summary

I am a proud and happily well adjusted 57. I joined the hobby game before it was called a hobby back in my twenties. Which means I've been hobbying longer than some providers have been alive.

Consistent with her position on C-36, Elizabeth May, leader of the Green Party, has just introduced to the House of Commons motions which would in effect get rid of the Bill as a whole: http://www.parl.gc.ca/HousePublications/Publication.aspx?Pub=NoticeOrder&Mode=1&Language=E&Parl=41&Ses=2&File=12 Anyone interested in following the progress of the Bill, can track it here: http://www.parl.gc.ca/LEGISInfo/BillDetails.aspx?Language=E&Mode=1&billId=6635303 Hamilton SIU to investigate Hamilton cop who preyed on sex workers Sept. 15/14 Ottawa Ottawa mayor candidate Darren Wood: legalize bordellos, tax sex workers Sept. 11/14

If you visit Bianca's website/FAQ page you will see that she has several links to reviews and recommendations available ;)

Further to what Malika said, I have endometriosis and struggled with heavy, prolonged bleeding. After BCP failed, and an IUD also failed... I bled for THREE MONTHS STRAIGHT!!! I bought my fair share of soft cups and worked anyway. It was no big deal. Should I have stayed home for three months with no income? Thankfully I had an ablation and it was the best decision I ever made. No. More. Period. Lol This is a normal part of life!!!

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I never had the pleasure of meeting Bianca on a personal level yet, but since you don't seem to believe what the ppl told you on the Mtl thread, why don't you send me her fee, I will go see her and send you a report afterwards. This way you will have a most current report and it will save you from asking the same question in every city she may travel to!!!

Belated best wishes, you ole dog you!

One more sleep til the social - can barely wait!

I've turned the corner at 60, a little over weight, and a libido that sometimes is a little bit erratic.

I shave every second day.. When I started I took a scissors cut everything very short. Then put shaving cream all over got a razor never looked back. No cuts no bleeding. Just smooth every where. Hence my handle shaved. And I like it too !! No Old Spice though. The ladies like it as well !!!!!!!!

Happy Birthday, have a wonderful day !

I think this is one of those things like age preference, body type, looks or whatever that we have discussed before. Different strokes for different folks (pun intended). For me, it is mostly GFE but that varies as well. Each time is something a little different, even when I repeat with a favorite lady. That's part of what keeps it interesting and fresh. I don't really have any particular service that's a "must have". As the other guys have said, it's more about just being in the company of this beautiful woman and letting things develop naturally. The really great ladies have a way of knowing exactly how to proceed and lead me to where I want to go, even if I don't know where that is.

I shave most of the time, since I shave my head anyways, but I do go get parts of me waxed once in a while, but I'm exactly like the video below when I do....:)

Happy belated someguy! Hope it was a great one. Mikey

Happy Birthday someguy, hope you enjoyed your day!

Wishing you a wonderful day! !!

Mine just falls out on its own. I use a vacuum for the removal part. :cry:

A very Happy Birthday to you!

Have you checked her recommendation thread for Ottawa? http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=B&t=137117

Hi Monique good luck with your duo images. For reference Pinterest has a good selection of Boudoir poses and some duo images as well that you may find some to your liking. Having shot both Single and duo ladies for cerb it always a fun session so enjoy....

Hmmm. MN2 cheers for the wrong hockey team, the wrong CFL team, DEFINATELY the wrong NFL team but you know what..... After all that I still like him. He is a remarkable fella and Cerb is lucky to have his upbeat presence here.

Happy birthday. Hope it's the best.

I am sure whatever poses they are they will be great

Happpppy birthday sumguy!!!!

Happy Birthday Someguy Have a Great Day RG

Not sure if this is the right section, if not please move it for me.... I am needing some legal advice pertaining to defamation of character and all that jazz that goes along with it. If there is anyone who is a member of the board who has legal expertise in this field I would greatly appreciate you contacting me, I will accept pm's for this matter for your privacy as well..... Thank you in advance and any help/advice is greatly appreciated. xoxo Emily

Excellent points Lilly! I recently posted this caution on another thread: I made the mistake of greeting a lady by her 'SP name' before the door had closed behind me. Gentlemen we need to not speak until we're behind closed doors. Ladies it doesn't hurt to give us a gentle reminder!

The same holds true of companions and prospective clients in this lifestyle. Yes, the client is ALWAYS right, but the companion decides who will be her clients. Just seemed appropriate for this thread RG :-)

It's not from ignoring you, it's an almost impossible question to answer. I've connected with a few, more than a few ladies, each one unique and individual. I would as a start if I were you look at the recommendation page for Ottawa, and book dates with a few ladies that are recommended. No shortcut to finding someone special, but the ladies you meet on the way, even if no special connection, can provide a fun escape Good Luck RG

This is what I enjoyed doing at the beach yesterday,,,,,

Hmmmm so to recap.... women have a period each month and if you have sex with them there is the possibility that it might impact you..... wow... i never would have guessed. OK I am making light of the topic but i am willing to bet every regular hobbiest has gas sex with a SP who was on their period... relax.... this is part of life. In regards to the health concerns.... hey if you want to perform DATY with out any protection then you should be willing to accept the risk. There have been several mentions of one week a month...and that perhaps SP'S should not work... well what about those ladies who experience longer periods or who have irregular periods.... to expect ladies to not work us unrealistic. Finally... i wonder if periods were something men had would we be having this duscussion...hmmmm Just my opinion.

Thank you guys for your input. " I believe that sometimes age can be understated and be compensated for, in my view, intelligence, experience and maturity." Personally, I try not to be too judgmental on people's age, but rather try to assess their level of maturity and them make a decision. I have been impressed many times with younger people that were mature beyond their years & not so impressed with older people that were acting like children. I understand some gents are comfortable with older ladies as they feel they can relate more to them and share life experiences. (That's exactly why I love meeting mature gents, I like learning through my and other people's experiences & enjoy stimulating conversations) This being said, sometimes we need to go out of our comfort zone. Who knows, you might find a delightful surprise.... ;)

For the first time in a very long time..... I started my "women time" just in the middle of a session. NEVER do I start mid day, is always early morn, it happen thankfully while condom was on, all covered. Now we did do daty, but he said there no sign of.... anyways...this was his first visit to any provider, and he took it with such grace and maturity. He was more then accommodating and understanding to say the least! Never was disgusted or ask for any money back, actually he says will return, hehehe Now for me, I will choose only "half service" so I am lucky whereas I do provide massage, and massage plus, I will offer oral ending till I know I am done. That is my choice at this time. But if I were the girl who bleed for 2 weeks straight, I would accept regular clients and explain is their choice.

Socials usually start at around 7 pm and keep going until there isn't anyone left (usually 11pm to midnight depending on the night).

Seems to me that some clients demand 100% satisfaction or else they consider they session a total failure and want their money back. These are the same goofs who waste time at the cashier because they want five cents off their potato or whatever. If you cannot allow that occasionally things don't work out then grow up. And if losing $200 or $300 is a financial disaster you shouldn't be seeing escorts.

I just wanted to jump in again to mention something, though I can't recall if anyone has already said this in earlier posts.. One thing to consider, since most of this SP's commenting on this thread are independent, is that if a woman is working for an agency, and not on her own, she does not always have the same luxury of having open communication with the client beforehand. While this may not always be the case, a few things to consider would be that, for the most part, agency SP's don't have any type of communication with their clients until their already in the door. At that point, if they do decide to explain to them that they are on their period, and allow the gentleman to decide whether to continue with the session or not, they run the risk of possibly having him become angry, for possibly paying for parking, wasting his time coming down there, possibly feeling set up, etc. It happens, so I'm not really being far-fetched by saying this, and just the thought of being in that position can intimidate a girl into just not saying anything at all. One other thing to consider with SP's working with an agency is that fact that they are not only supporting themselves with the money they make from their sessions. So if they come in to work, and try and keep and open dialogue with their clients and several of them decide to opt out of continuing with the session, they could potentially have other people losing out on calls, and possibly have others upset with them. The point I'm trying to make I suppose, is that it's not always so simple for many women as just being upfront about being on their period..many working women have many other factors, besides just "making money", to take into consideration. Posted via Mobile Device

The two things are not mutually exclusive. i think what cat was getting at was that some services are provided due to market demand, and her points (seemingly missed?) that it is FAR more successful with trust and some history with the client, makes her point bang on (to use the drum analogy). An sp can enjoy daty and yet still provide it as a required service due to being a GFE provider due to market demands, and primarily for the consideration of the client not herself. If he is successful at it, that is her personal bonus lol. But an expectation of multiple orgasms possibly a few times a day due to seeing more than a couple of clients, and all multiple daty orgasms, just really isn't going to be realistic. Having said that, the majority of sps want to provide services that they themselves do enjoy, and not provide the ones they do not. So does someone who provides bbbjs or greek truly sincerely enjoy them, all the time with every single client because she just loves it that much? Or after the 5th greek client of the day, still doing it for the pure pleasure and not also because it is a service provided on her menu and ads? It is important, very important, to remember that this is not a FWB or GF/BF relationship, it is a service provider/client relationship, and the sessions are meant to be all about you. Some guys like to spend 45 minutes in daty, and figure that means they should get a discount because it is 'all for her'./ But 'all for her' doesn't pay the bills. re: rep comment, Peachy 'we' aren't assuming sps see up to 5 clients, but being realistic, especially for those who are on a limited schedule or traveling, it is entirely possible that on at least one day or once in a while, someone somewhere is going to see 5 clients. It is simply an example. Would it be better to say 3, 2 ? it is still more than most people experience in a single day. or even several days in a row with 2 a day.

The unfortunate thing is ladies are often forced to keep their period private (mind you I stand by the adage everyone's sexual health is their own business). How many clients would cancel on a lady after booking a date, and thus deprive her of income (this is after all her livelihood) if he learned it was her time of the month Now not all ladies do this, but often on a lady's website it says, words to the effect "money is for time and companionship only, what happens is between two consenting adults" and some ladies do not even have any menu of any sort. So to me, just with that, there is no guarantee of anything in an encounter. Personally, if a lady told me she is having her period (and no, not obliged to do so) I'm open to other activities. An evening lying in bed (btw I have done this, and just because the encounter unfolded that way, not because it was the lady's time of the month) kissing, caressing, conversation and of course, snuggles:-) It was a very enjoyable, pleasurable and a memorable encounter. I guess my point is, if clients could be open to a date unfolding differently than planned, they might just find other activities equally enjoyable. But probably it's the worry a client isn't open to other activities because life happened that prevents ladies from disclosing (again I emphasize she isn't obligated to disclose) I look forward to my dates, and however they unfold is how they unfold. No preplanned scripts for this guy. But that's just my opinion A rambling RG

All I can say is that the ladies I see put up with my shortcomings so I can put up with theirs. Nobody's perfect.

OMG! I absolutely agree that you should have not taken the donation. She was probably more uncomfortable and humiliated than you. And she already provided service. You said her BJ was great. Surely her time and a BJ for you is worth more than $40.

Hi there. I can see where you would get turned off absolutely. Most women in this business will use a sponge that time of the month while working. Sometimes it is quite effective, other times not. It works great for some women and not so great for others. I, myself have tried this method before, and did not find it helpful. So now, I opt to take that week off. As I would recommend to other ladies. Native tradition, this is supposed to be a sacred time, your moon time. So, for the women that are regulated, and know when it's coming, plan to take a break. You deserve it and probably need it. If you are working regularly and budget properly, saving for that rainy day, than a week off won't affect you. It's not much fun working anyways if you are crampy, bloated and irritable. Although this is the one time a month women are most horny. God has a funny sense of humour. My comment to the men reading this, please go easy on the ladies. It's a natural part of life. Maybe your service provider just checked into a prime location and is out $200 or $300 in hotel fees, and surprise she got it early, and has to make the most of it. I do agree with the fact that perhaps she can offer other services than full. I have, myself, done this when in that predicament; offering oral or a nice tantric massage is a great alternative to full service. Another quick note; this is a fetish for a few men, a turn on, although some men are shy to admit it. I had an old boyfriend that absolutely loved going downtown on me that time of month. I was weird about it at first. But of course, I want to do anything to please my men. And sure enough, I loved it. And we connected really deeply. I am not suggesting this as a marketing strategy, messing around with blood is very risky. But keep an open mind. Different strokes for different folks. Thanks for reading, Sylvia Star

This lifestyle has a certain degree of risk. But as has been said before, everyone's sexual health is their own business. When you are intimate with someone in a poly amorous lifestyle, which this is, it is accepted that a risk exists. If a client chooses to proceed with an encounter with a lady, any lady, he is accepting a certain degree of risk. Likewise a lady, if she agrees to see a client, accepts a certain degree of risk too The argument of health risk here is a red herring. Each and every time a SP/Client engage in an encounter, irrespective of what menu items are performed, has a potential risk. Condoms and dental dams are risk reduction, not risk elimination. If a client truly, and truly believes in the risk of performing daty, simple solution, don't. Likewise, in the same vein, then show the same courtesy to a lady, and never ask for a bbbj. But really, if risk of STD/STI is a real concern, notwithstanding using condoms/dental dams, then perhaps one should re-think his/her participation in this lifestyle. Safer options are out there. Like an exclusive monogamous relationship with one partner. A partner who is willing to share her cycle with you. Or, and not being glib, masturbation This lifestyle is about risk/rewards. The risks, well for both lady and gentleman, STD/STI, being ripped off, assaults...well the bad side of this lifestyle has been discussed elsewhere on CERB. The rewards. For the ladies, a source of income, a livelihood for them. For the gentlemen, an escape, pleasure, companionship. So if you want to stay absolutely risk free, this isn't the lifestyle for it But if you want to reduce your risks, choose not to perform certain acts, or use dental dams But a lady, while it would be nice if she did let a client know, is under no obligation to let a client know her sexual health...because her sexual health, as is everyone's, ladies and gentlemen alike, is private and her own responsibility A rambling RG

I'm super excited! My first Ottawa social. I've heard many great things about them ;)

I guess I was just saddened by the fact that women can be so cruel to other women and to a point where now something that is natural and can be sexy is frowned upon. When you see women stick up for each regarding things like mummy tummys as we just saw in the news, how the opposite can be so predominate as well is just sad in my opinion.

Jessica - yes women are bitches to other women. I hate it and challenge those that say this type of shit. Don't care if they like it. I have no problem with camel toes or f ripples. I regularly sport both -proudly. No shame and no covering up. Went thru years of marriage to a guy who insisted I dress like an Amish. Once divorced I was free to wear what I like. Additional Comments: Jessica - yes women are bitches to other women. I hate it and challenge those that say this type of shit. Don't care if they like it. I have no problem with camel toes or f ripples. I regularly sport both -proudly. No shame and no covering up. Went thru years of marriage to a guy who insisted I dress like an Amish. Once divorced I was free to wear what I like.

How do we find this person? Google wasn't any help.