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HI: she will be travelling in NS soon...book asap..you won't regret it...trust me!!!...she will book fast.mmmm please no pm's...seen her once & wished I had booked previously with her when she had ad's posted..she's like the energizer bunny!!!

I am a fan of dry as they can lead to opportunity and safety 💋 The automated systems very well could become better with time, but that also very much depends on who is responsible for their tweaking. It is however very hard to compete with free. No matter what kind of SCR grips the wheel. I am a bit of a dreamer still 😉

The problem is that moderation becomes impossible at the scale of the big social media platforms. Automated systems don't work that well and getting humans to do it costs far too much money. Maybe if it were a paid service... but who's going to pay for these things now that we're all accustomed to having them for free (or at least, for a non-obvious price)? I'm glad someone likes the section 230 stuff... it's important, but rather dry for most folks' taste!

Ashley is in town (complying with Atlantic bubble, so no worries). She is amazing. Very easy to talk to and we hit it right away with our common interest in gaming. Very skilled and lovely personality. We had a good time together and looking forward to meeting her again. Don't miss out.

I have never considered it a fetishist but I have a compulsion to preform oral on a lady... I know... I know who doesn't lol. It blows my mind to see the effect just a tongue, lips and a few well placed fingers can have on a woman. I love to watch and listen to how the lady reacts ... that initial touch of the tongue... the feel of her hand on the back of my head.... the way you feel her body tense up.... her reaction to two well placed fingers that bend and extend....noticing how her breathing changes.... watching for her lower back to arch .... hearing that little gasp of air just before we are both rewarded. If that was a whole session I would be happy. Just my Opinion

What do you do when you fall in love with your SP? I mean, I was not expecting this! Does anyone else have this experience?

I can totally ditto that. Super friendly and very open minded. Makes you at ease. Very good service. Definitely recommend.

She’s most definitely real. I saw her in SJ many years ago as well and the experience was great. Not partaking on he hobby ATM, but I contacted her to say hello and can assure you, it’s really her and those pictures are all her.

Remember when we could go anywhere, at any time without having to wear a mask?

Even though chances were slim that she would feel the same way, I think it was brave of you to try. I’m glad she responded to you with compassion. It brings to mind @waterrat’s interview and his valuable insights on the topic.

Okay, so against popular opinion, I went out and saw Nadia. And although not as bad an experience as I was expecting. There was an unprofessional moment when I arrived, another service provider in the room but she was promptly asked to leave. Nadia seemed to really care about her service and she was very open minded to my requests (communicated in advance). I have my doubts about some of her ad pics and how recent they are but some are recent and really her. And her incall hotel certainly isn't one of Moncton's finer establishment and the room had the "lived in" look. I've never met with Lexus, so I can't confirm if they are the same girl. I am however leaning towards this not being true. They are no ties between the two accounts on LL (number, email, chat name, content, etc.). I've texted with both and one is open minded about my request and the other wants nothing to do with it, and their writing style via text are completely different. Certainly not the same category as some of the professional SP's out there. For a travelling girl, I would say it was a good experience.

Thanks for the input! I have had an open discussion with her. She was very sweet about the whole thing. Looks like this happens frequently for her so she was not shocked when I confessed how I feel but clearly asserted her policy of keeping professional life separate from personal. Pardon me if this was the wrong forum. I was simply hoping my fellows on lyla had experienced the same and could advise me. She suggested a dating site if I want a partner lol. Win some, loose some.

I have a thing for public sex. The risk of being caught is very exciting!

Is that her picture in the Ad

I believe a love relationship survives long term if both people are mature thinking people who are very compatible regardless of what their occupations are or have been. Do they fight fair and really listen to each other. Many ladies in the sex trade have fallen in love with their clients and worked out an arrangement with them that works for both of them. Those who marry and leave the business just don't report back to the public as a rule so gathering reliable stats on how well they work out is impossible and not really a yardstick to use anyway. If they didn't work out well, it likely has more to do with the characters and personalities of the people than it did with working in the sex trade. Leaving the sex trade would remove much possible conflict clearly, but it depends on what kind of love relationship the couple wants and needs for themselves that is the real bottom line. If you define love as "strong liking" as opposed to the more "forsaking all others" kind of devotion, a couple can still be in love long term and be happy if they have maturity no matter what they do for a living in my opinion. .

Try it you will enjoy... trust me.

Well I notice you said "when YOU fall in love" so the question I have is...is it mutual? If it's not.... remember you went into this as a business relationship so you don't have the right to decide it is something different now. If it's mutual then you need to be talking to her and not us. Just my Opinion.

Well, if you're in love. then I suggest living together, getting married, have an open relationship.... whatever turns your crank and both parties agree to and find fulfilling. Of course any of these options will be more expensive than the current situation. This is the voice of experience here.... to quote my dear friend Zorba the Greek: "Am I not a man? And is not a man stupid? I'm a man, so I'm married. Wife, children, house--everything. The full catastrophe."

Sorry @Jackrlx9691 I prefer the first statement that you said about joining them, I did this before and for them it was time for me to do it. I waited about 15 minutes to join because it was so sensual and they seemed to have fun, I didn't want to ruin that for them but when I did they took off my clothes real fast and I thought they were going to eat me alive. Luckily I'm still around to tell the story and would love to live it again. I do understand your point of view of just watching because women are so soft with each other and they love touching each other softly and firmly with lots of kissing of body parts, it's like they want to compare their own body to the partner that they are with. You understand what I mean?

Ashley's fantastic, as are all the French Ladies. Let's keep 'em coming!

It's not complicated, pretty simple actually. This industry is just like everything else between any two people should be in the realm of life, 'Mutual'. It really doesn't matter what mutual agreements are made, completely mutual (uncoerced in any manner), two adults are free to do as they wish with their time. When situations arise where feelings are formed by one person, either party, is when unpleasant issues can occur. Including Sugar Dating, I've experienced both sides of such a scenario and not one position is any easier than the other. Be real with yourself, be civilized, respect yourself as well as the other person involved at all times and in such a situation two caring humans can work out any differences in an amicable manner. Even if for one it leads to disappointment it still doesn't leave the other with a pleasant feeling.

I feel for you. There are some marvelous people on here, but there is also the odd deceptive one. I got taken by a deceptive one. Nobody to blame but myself. Like you, I should maybe have asked others. Likely wouldn't have listened anyways. Having said that, the majority here are straight up good folks. However, be very careful when approaching the line.

Keep in mind that the reason why you go and see all the wonderful ladies that help you realize that fantasy that you want, you let yourself be vulnerable and if you enjoyed her company you will want to return for more. The chances that she will quit this profession is small and will you have this in the back of your head for the length of time you 2 will share together? After a days work when you come home from a tough day you will need someone to vent to, someone neutral about their feelings, will you do the same with her? Take a look at the big picture for now and see if you fit in it.

Greenteal and DrLove made very good points. I have also met some wonderful ladies that I have seen many times and fantasized about what it might have been like to meet them outside of this hobby. And that's where I always stop. I met them in an environment where we are expected to keep the boundaries in mind, especially after many wonderful sessions. It has happened where feelings are mutual and a genuine relationship has developed, but I believe these instances to be very rare. Maybe you are lucky and have been able to find one of these special relationships. My one caution to you would be to consider that if you do express a desire to move beyond the client-SP relationship you may risk scaring her off. Or are you better off continuing within the confines of your current relationship where you have met someone you can feel comfortable with during the time you spend together? In the end, whatever you choose to do will be right for you but be aware there could be unanticipated consequences. Good luck!