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http://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/parliament-hill-attacked-soldier-shot-at-national-war-memorial-in-ottawa-1.2808710 I can't beleive this is happening!

I don't understand what the issue is in regards to someone inquiring about specials...I see a lot of this on this site; women who seem quite bothered by every little question posed to them, even when the question was not aimed at them personally (as in this case). Yes, we get asked a lot of questions... yes, some of them are repetitive and get annoying... No, we should not jump down someone's throat for asking. Why does the "IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY, DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL" not work both ways? Why is client-bashing OK? You see a question that you don't like seeing, simple: DON'T ANSWER. Move to the next thread... Why do we need to publicly humiliate people who don't see things the way we do? On a more related note, I do not offer "birthday specials", but if I did you can rest assured I would be asking for I.D. to prove it otherwise it would just be everyone's birthday everyday. If a regular client were to inform me it was his birthday, sure I would do something special for him, cake/cupcake or wine or maybe an extra sexy outfit, whatever. Even though I do not offer such specials, I'd like to high-five the OP for asking and not shame him into lurking but encourage him to post more, ask away my friend! I'm not one of those girls who blacklists people for asking my rates (yes, they are posted on my ads, god forbid someone ask me *eye roll* ) /endrant

I keep a client list too! Lee Richards: nickname "yah Baby", still needs to be shagged. RG: nickname "Virtual Hubby #1", honeymoon consumed. Repeat, yes! Magician: nickname "Hunny Bunny" and "Virtual Hubby #2", honeymoon consumed and a second one on the way! ETC... ;) Edit: I should add that my comment above was made tongue in cheek!

I keep a client list. It includes the bare minimum of info--phone number, first name and how the session went. It's not on my phone. I also keep accounting records, which include the date, a first name, the duration of the appointment and the donation given. I'd never release any of this info. I also like to think that most clients are able to distinguish individuals (eg. Terri Jean Bedford) from the community as a whole. What I mean is, if TJB releases her list, this is her individual action, not one that everyone agrees with. It also doesn't mean that the rest of us are about to follow in her footsteps if she does.

It doesn't surprise me at all. Given our foreign policy, treatment of Military Veterans, our track record with our Indigenous people, Palestine ... really ALL the bad decisions that our government has made is bound to come home to roost at some point. People are tired and those who feel it the hardest will eventually lash out. I'll be interested to see who takes responsibility and understand what has happened to them to bring it to this. There is always a reason, whether it is comprehensible or not by the general public. At least we know it wasn't the Pimp Lobby. There wasn't a pair of fishnets or a fedora in sight... cat

I keep a client list ......That's just how I roll. it's quite rather ridiculously short actually. 1 - 1 = ?

What I am confused about is why all the emphasis on not being able to advertise your services anymore? Who cares! Clients are booking us for our time and for who we are. Words and phrases like sensual and romantic or wild and adventurous can direct a client to the right lady as easy as listing a menu. I have never had a menu in the last 5 years(except when working with an agency in the past on occasion years back) nor will I discuss any services with anyone. Good clients don't care what burger toppings are awaiting them. They want to spend time with the lady who caught their attention. Call me naive but when people contact me to spend time with me, the email exchange is more on us getting to know one another and rarely if ever on can I get xxx and does yhc include ccc. (and yes 90% of those dates are declined and on my blog) Give it time, educate people and enjoy what comes from it. It will be a learning process for all of us.

OMG, the shit that we put in our bodies! For many it is a realistic hope that this will cure the bastard known as cancer. For most, it is a painful, exhausting way to "live". If you know someone going thru treatment, give them an unexpected hug, call, kiss. If you know someone REALLY well, give them a blow job, or offer to provide DATY until you both pass out. It is all really, really appreciated Tom TheLiquor

If you are worried about outing: unless you are Harper or MacKay, nobody cares about you (Note: This isn't an endorsement to out clients. But that's the reality. Who was the Alberta MP arrested for prostitution in the states again? If you remember his name, I congratulate you). Thank you Nicole for calling out the fear mongering. Just remember to be polite and nice before, during, and after your encounters and you won't have to worry about being on a bad date list! Besides, these are safety tools and if the police force a sex worker to hand over this information to avoid arrest, it just speaks volumes to the dangers involved with c-36 and it doesn't help the argument supporting the Bill. It provides support AGAINST the Bill. As I like to say, do good and be good!

Thanks for the post. Sky looks and sounds lovely.

My list mainly is nicknames, but do have Mike's, Bob's and Dan's. Whether or not that is their real name, I would not know. But that is the name they give me so I go with that. Even if it is their real name, no worries because our txt or email history is " hello are you free at noon today" No way of knowing what that means... free for a dog grooming( my other job), or free for a coffee, etc.. Obviously these are my regulars so not many notes are needed to remember the what and who's. For new clients, I only use a nick name after I have spent time with them, that way I know they have visited me at least once and do not need to screen them all over again. Nicknames will contain certain details, much like we have already read here in this thread " guy with beard" " nice guy, see again!" ..." very bad breath, no kiss but nice" lol But when screening a new client, I do have certain questions that need to be answered first, for my safety. Besides, doesn't make you feel more appreciated when we remember the fine details?

Of course some of the ladies have client lists! I don't write out a list on parchment with a broken crayon and nail it to the wall, vowing to ruin the lives of these clients but I do have an e-list: *to remember what I wore so I don't wear the same thing again the next time *Little details about the client if the client has a very common name (like Mike or Steve) *Some conversation/interaction with the client that we both really enjoyed. *To make dorky notes like 'great fun!' or 'loves history too!' or 'very proud of his daughter who just got into law school'. A few notes like this can bring back the whole experience when I next hear from this man. I like to think that TJ Bedford made that statement out of desperation because she wasn't being heard, and not out of real intent. If her plan was in fact to reveal the names publicly, I would not support that.

I only use cerb and merb so I can't comment on the others. Seeing as how out east we're limited in options cerb is the only real place where we can learn about new visits from touring ladies. I just learned about merb because I travel to Montreal frequently these days. I see that merb opened up an Atlantic Canada section in the last year, but it doesn't see much use. I honestly see cerb as more of a community board where clients and providers can congregate and discuss the issues of the business. I, unfortunately, personally do not trust cerb recommendations anymore, I've been burned too many times. Vagueness and limited information are the enemy of an informed client and that's all they seem to be. And only seeing one side of the coin (good vs. bad reviews) can be incredibly misleading. I'm also at the point in my hobbying career were sexual exploration is one of my primary objectives and this means I need to know what the lady is comfortable with. Asking her isn't enough, because you often just get a "maybe" or "if I'm up to it" so a detailed review can be a godsend to help me know what I can expect (easy example: almost every lady says she does DFK, but very few really do, and yes, I brush and mouth wash before every encounter ;)). I also find that some people embellish in their recommendations, for what reason I have no idea, but I can venture a guess. I also, don't feel comfortable expressing my opinion on certain topics here if it goes against the grain. I welcome spirited debate, but some you are just mean :sadomaso:. Now, don't take all of this as an attack on cerb. To be fair, merb has it's own problems. Some reviews can be just brutal, the issue with allowing negative comments is that some people don't know where to draw the line. There's a way to criticize properly and most people should have learned it in high school writing classes. But as always, anonymity + an audience can turn some people in raving keyboard warrior lunatics. There's also blatant and rampant favoritism among some of the senior members with regards to certain agencies. Which on it's face I have no issue with it, everyone has their go to agency, but when someone so obviously does and claims he doesn't when debating a related issue, it's laughable. And finally, the flame wars, debate can turn to horror in the blink of an eye. There are known rivalries and hatreds among certain members and it's painful to read through the mud they sling. Ultimately though, for me, it comes down to what am I looking for in an escort forum? For information about a lady I'm thinking of seeing, my preference is merb. To find out what's happening in the hobby world, cerb. As far as reviews vs. recommendations, I think it's best summed up by this, out of 40 or so meetings my current top 3 encounters are from ladies I researched on merb. My absolute two worst encounters (and these were laughably bad, if I had a few more I could write an erotic comedy novel) were unfortunately through cerb.

I can say from being with her that her pussy is very neat & tidy. It is always neatly trim. She is very accommodating and enjoys spending time with people. I enjoy the time we spend together. The truth is she is great person to spend a few hrs with and I enjoy that. All the ladies I've spent time with are more then just an SP they are people who I have become friends with and enjoy there company. I hope they also enjoy spending that time with me. :-)

Sarah, you keep saying this all over the place... do I really need to go into details on every single page? Ok, fine so hear goes... Signing the petition is only a small part of the big picture. As someone who is experienced with social media and how to promote a cause, whether signatures are recognized through the senate or not has little to do with it. When a person signs the petition and perhaps shares it, we continue to educate people. I haven't worked on this enough because I need to work to pay the bills as well. Someone who says they are retired and could be utilizing their time to help, seems to insist on doing what they can to avert people from signing the petition. I have always supported you in your endeavour to update us on Bill C-36; why you behave the way you do is beyond me. So YES, you should send in a letter, but as we all know, not many related to the industry are going to be willing to do that. That is what the Conservative Government is counting on. So the fact that I give a venue for ANYONE to say something and protest, is a GOOD thing, not a NEGATIVE thing. If we actually got the number of signatures that were possible if people actually spoke their mind, it may capture media attention.... I know the Bill will pass, but I encourage you to keep signing, as I am taking this all the way to the next election. It takes time to get people involved, it takes time to educate people on what is really happening, and it will take time to overturn this bill... that is why every step of the way we need to network and stick together. Evangline

Cancellation and no shows are never ok by either the provider or hobbyist. If there was a final confirmation was done, and then she no showed, this is unfortunate. Sorry if this happened. However, I have a concern with your comments about deposits and information. Any REPUTABLE provider would never keep a deposit if she has to cancel. She stands to loose more by doing this. Because you had a bad experience, please do not tar every provider with the same brush. Many of us strive to maintain a reputation of integrity. I once had a client who transfered the entire fee. Shortly after, I had to cancel for reasons out of my control. I immediately refunded the money back. We eventually did get to meet and had a wonderful time together. If your encounter was with someone who has no reputation, then maybe you need to explore those that strive to maintain a stellar reputation. I certainly hope this is not an attempt to air dirty laundry. Sometimes things happen, and hope she was able to make this up to you.

Hey ladies what is a major turn off when someone is looking to book a time with you ? One thing I absolutely hate is when someone texts me and says....What's up? Like really lol that will not grab my attention First impressions mean everything and I prefer a gentlemen being respectful and courteous when inquiring about my ......... For an example; Hello how are you or Hi I am .... and I am interested in knowing more about you and your ........!......so much better

After being on Cerb for over 3 years now. I've met many women from Cerb, of all sizes and races and ages. I've become on-line friends with many of them thou chat and PM's. I've also read most of the threads here and have come to the conclusion that the women that are the most successful and that I have had the best sessions with are women who truly love their work. I've learnt that some of these women started being an SP or MA due to personal circumstances. But have learnt that they actually enjoy doing this type of work and planned on doing it for as long as they can. These women enjoy giving and receiving pleasure and companionship. And as long as you are a gentleman and have good hygiene they welcome with you with open arms. And for the allocated time, they focus their attention on giving you companionship and pleasure. And if the chemistry is there and connection made. a friendship may be form where repeat encounters may occur with each one getting better and better as the comfort level and trust level form between two consenting adults. I have been lucky and have many encounters with kind loving women that I have continued contact with. Like any other job. If you truly love your work, and are good at it, success will come to you. This is a job where you can offer companionship and pleasure to men that are lonely or just lack the physical intimacy that humans need due to unfortunate circumstances. I am truly grateful to have met so many women that love their work and hope to meet many more. It really has changed my life. xoxoxox to all of you.

So here is my problem and any advice on how to handle it would be most appreciated. I go and see a new SP and have an intimate time. However that intimate time is missing a real sense of intimacy. So then another time I go back and see that same SP and by that time we are talking more and opening up about each others lives and then when the intimate time comes around I feel like I am using the lady. I know this is not real and realize without the exchange we do, this would not happen. However the most intimate time I am sharing is when we are not being intimate. I guess I just miss what it would be like to have a real girl friend/lover. I just miss making love. And yes I do think to much and I care about people. I need to figure out how I can do this, be fully satisfied and not just physically (because that part is easy) and not feel like the lady is doing this just because of the exchange we do. Knowing full well it is because of that exchange we are doing what we do. And please the problem is mine. Its certainly not a reflection on the beautiful lovely ladies I have met. Perhaps if they where all not so amazing in many ways this would be easier. Perhaps this is just not for me. Maybe I am looking to get to much out of this and should just keep things physical. But that is just not who I am. And because of personal circumstances beyond my control its either figure this out or be alone for the next several years.

Hello, I am a brand new, independent SP, not yet advertised. I am looking for some advice regarding screening and keeping myself, and my partners safe. I would love to know your experiences, good and bad, and how you learned from them in regards to staying safe. What are the precautions you take before accepting a new partner? What's the advantages / disadvantages of incall vs outcall? Which do you prefer and why? What are some safety strategies you use? Have you ever found yourself in an undesirable situation? How do you handle it? As someone new, I would appreciate everything that you have to offer... Even if you think it's pretty basic. Cheers Carrie

What? My regular SP only charges me $80 and I can get it for $100 in Dream Land city. Why should I pay $200 US for the same thing with you?? And I can even get it for free anytime I want from non-escort women! Come on, gimme a good deal, RG! ;)

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That's an interesting point. I definitely agree it makes sense to generally confirm ahead of time, and from my experience that seems to be pretty common (and I tend to be someone who arranges things at least a week in advance, so a follow-up confirmation a little before makes sense). Luckily it's never happened to me, but I have to admit if I sent the confirmation text as requested and didn't get one back, I'd probably still try my luck and show up (assuming I'd already been given the address of course). As you say, I'd do so knowing it's possible there may be no answer, but I guess I'd figure the most likely reason for not hearing back was that the lady's phone had simply died. Seems like a pity for everything to go down the drain due to a dead battery. But now you have me thinking maybe I'm wrong, and should assume that no text back means everything is off for some reason or another (which hopefully would get cleared up afterwards).

Nothing wrong about keeping contact information on your friends and wives (ok wife) is there? ;-) And nothing wrong with getting together with your friends or wife is there? When seeing ladies I have already met, scheduling the date has nothing to do with services or donation or anything like that. It has to do with setting a date, place and time to get together again Frankly even with new ladies, booking an encounter is just about setting a date, place and time...with the addition I'll also provide screening/verification information too (btw that won't change, if a lady I want to see requires verification info it will still be provided) A quick rambling RG

There's no question those pics are all of Bella French , now the question is is Milan actually here or is some girl ripping off her pics. I think it may be her using an alias to keep a low profile in Halifax. Maybe we'll find out

What??? My booking protocols always has been one hour ( or 30 min )before arriving to call to make sure nothing has gone wrong. Getting a blown out tire is not something I could control, as well as my phone going dead while waiting for my tow truck. I didn't BLAM him for anything, and HE certainly agrees that the one hour confirmation is wise as this case in point shows! YES when a person books 1-2 weeks in advanced, I also like to touch base again before the day, especially if traveling. That way he knows he still going to be in the clear and that nothing went wrong in my travels. He did not have to pay a deposit, so that is not a concern. But if he had, then I would send him his deposit back! Plus I sent him a PM as soon as I got home. He was concerned for me, and was worried as he knew I never normally do that. He was happy that I never got hurt or in accident. Frankly, I feel you have no need to put me down the way you have in your post. I think your anger is misplaced. As for your outrageous break down of my confirmation methods, my dentist, hair salon, eye doctors and all other professional business will confirm with me the day before when the appointment has been made weeks in advanced...hmmmm, seems like a good idea! Lots can change in 2 weeks or a months time. Just an added thought: without his final confirmation being answered, and taking the chance to just arrive, who knows what he is walking into? There could have been an ambulance call, or I had to make a call to police ...or anything. Would you want to arrive into a situation like that?

That's not necessarily true at all. I've seen some great clients that have only seen a lady one time. Not every client is a regular in this hobby, some see ladies very infrequently. And just as not taking references it all comes with an inherent risk. As a general comment I would also like to say that just because a lady does not partake on review boards does not mean you should devalue her worth as a provider either or her judgement with clients. There are many reasons why some providers partake very minimally or not at all and I happen to be one of those providers. My posts are very and always have been minimal because I run other businesses, this past year I was also in school, travelling and had a lot of things going on in my life, so boards were not a priority for me. I've been a member of this board for a few years and just started posting on it and it's basically because of Bill C-36. I'm a very private person for the most part despite that I know a lot of providers, pooners in the industry and have rave reviews, I just like doing my own thing. I'm also very old school and we never had review boards, let alone internet when I first started. I also would not recommend using an untraceable number to contact the reference either as someone suggested, in my opinion it will devalue you as a provider and they may not give you the information that you require. Being honest is always the best policy.

Only the hard-copy petition on Elizabeth May's website can be presented in Parliament. You have to print it out and get actual signatures. I'm not saying don't sign the change.org one, but just know that she can't present that in parliament.

This one was probably mentioned but here it comes again. What can I get for 100$?

I have to disagree with first impressions. They're are not everything. Some men just don't know what to say. I do agree with what's up, yo, babe, is all really a " crappy "way to introduce yourself, however I've met amazing men who have sent me an initial Yo. Lol. I speak for myself when I say keep in mind some men are new to this industry and aren't sure how to present themselves in our " required" commerce. Yourself, I and all of us Sps started out fresh, with no knowledge to wording, abbreviations etc, so shouldn't we give that benefit of the doubt to our prospective clients? (Pls don't gimme hostility for this post) as I'm purely stating my opinion. I'd feel sadly of anyone rejecting an amazing advanced client solely based on his initial hellos. Yet I truly get annoyed with the hey, or hi where are you emails and texts. Isn't that apart of our business?!?

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With all due respect, this is contributing to the fear mongering. My apologies if anyone disagree with me. It's interesting that only these types of threads are coming up now since Ms. Bedford had decided to threaten politicians who she may have had dealings with. This could happen at any point with some unsavory SP and make things worse by wrecking your home life which is just as bad as a criminal record. Why is it that much different now? It now sets a bad precedent for us especially now when we have to in a way almost defend ourselves because of the actions of someone else who has nothing to lose because she has retired. Many ladies have built a solid reputation that may be viewed as questionable now and if she can be trusted because someone decided to use these threats in front of the media towards people in powerful and influential postions. I guess there is no other way to really try to grab a man by the balls is there? Imo, these types of threads contribute to this sort of thing.

The fellow who pointed out that the balance of power shifts on to the SP's side (excessively) had it absolutely right--and this is what will make things difficult for SPs in general and new SPs in particular. Any SP with whom one is unfamiliar is a potential honey trap, or a blackmailer, as far as the less sophisticated punter is concerned (those who don't read these boards and have very little to go on but internet searches or ads in the phone book and the papers). I don't know what our entrapment laws are like but I am sure we have all seen honey traps at one time or another in the North End or the West End. And speaking of the netherworld which is Winnipeg's "low track", I was once approached by a sleazy guy literally dragging an unwilling lady along Ellice Avenue and it quite literally made my skin crawl. (I had stopped my car to take a call and my windows were open, so I guess he thought he saw his moment.) It burns me up to see so much energy wasted by both LE and the media's chatterboxes on all-but non-existent trafficking networks in presumably expensive city hotels or condos when the real thing, in all its ugliness, is going on under their very noses the way it always has. I draw two things from this. The fact is, there is no incentive to traffick women from countries where there is either high unemployment, a very low cost of living (where our dollars go so much further), limited freedom of choice, or an entrenched glass ceiling (how else does one explain the number of educated Korean women working here now?)--no need, because the incentive to make some real money makes the use of force redundant. Organized crime may well be involved with some such agencies (they may be easy targets), but most probably in the form of skimming ("protection" services) or buying them out on occasion. As has also been pointed out, when people think of the hobby and its SPs, they think of the sad plight of the addict or the very poor, at the mercy of whomever they choose to join in a car (conversely, he may also be at her mercy if she threatens him with a knife or calling LE on her phone). Sadly, these women (and a few men, mostly transgendered) exist and they exist in very large numbers. Anyone who has driven our city's mean streets without the rose-coloured glasses will notice them--in broad daylight, not just after dark. I am certain that on any given night in Winnipeg they outnumber the ads on Backpage by a factor of 100:1. This is what people think of, and they are not wrong in wanting "something" to be done about it. The problem is, of course, the laws do nothing but make a bad situation worse. All well and good for us to complain. We won't be heard unless we offer an alternative. Mine is simple enough: ok, society acknowledges that the women on the street are in danger and should not be criminalized for either supporting themselves, their kids, or their habits, but it still wants to "help" them. Fine. So put your money where your mouth is and help them instead of making it worse. If they really are doing this for drugs (and many are, no one disputes it, from oxycontin and Tylenol all the way up to meth and crack), supply them with the drugs they want until they are ready to enter rehab of their own free will--which may be never. For those who are not on drugs, but are having trouble making ends meet--make it easier for them: affordable housing, zero red tape for basic living benefits, and teach them how to balance a budget if they don't know how. Help them find a job that pays. After you've done all that, you know what? You will STILL have some left over who refuse to be "good". There will still be some who want more things and the money that buys those things than you can ever give--or they just don't do nine to five. You'll never stamp it out entirely, but you can at least keep the numbers low enough that you can manage this social illness instead of making it worse, as you are now. Worried now about all the "johns" who find fewer girls on the street? They will begin to save up so they can see the ladies online thereby making the invisible market online the new norm. That's not shuffling one problem from one area to another (which is what crackdowns in neighbourhoods achieves), it's making a dangerous activity that much safer. This, or something like it, is how it's done in places where it's legal. Would we were so enlightened.

Have you considered stating on your blog that you are simply an author and this blog is for fantasy purposes only and not based on real events? That would probably cover you. I mean it isn't illegal to write adult pornographic material.

For the most part, that is me as well. The first contact is through the email link in the website or sometimes via pm on boards (provided the SP has that option posted in her ad). In that initial contact is the phone # I will be contacting from as well to save confusion. One thing I would add is that in that first text, my first words are always, "Hello, my name is (insert first name), I am 54 yrs old and live in the area and saw your ad on CERB (or whatever). My handle there is "peacectryguy" Then the other pertinent stuff that was mentioned. I believe it is important to make an effort to show the lady you are on the level and a name and brief description does help in that. If they require more info, they can and will ask but it shows you are placing some trust in them and usually they feel better trusting you. It is a 2 way street.

I am a little slow in doing this recommendation, in early September I had the opportunity to travel to Halifax for work, I used this trip also to visit Maraena in Truro, after missing her when she visited Charlottetown I was looking forward to finally meeting the charming lady who was highly thought of from another lady that I have the pleasure of visiting when she is in Charlottetown. All correspondence with Maraena setting up my visit was very easy all I had to do now was wait two weeks, it was fun flirting with her before my visit, it sort of set a great sexual chemistry between us before we even met. When I arrived it showed she really was looking forward to my visit as much as I was, dressed very attractively, candles lite in her livingroom and bedroom set the perfect sexual atmosphere. After some get to know you kisses, hugs and conversation, we moved into her bedroom for the fun part of removing each others clothes, you can admire a ladies pictures but there is nothing like the sexual anticipation of removing her clothes and then very slowly remove her lingerie it creates such a sensual atmosphere for both, looking back removing her stockings was the most fun I love to tease. For what happened in the bedroom in my two hour visit all I can say Maraena is very talented, she loves to please and to be pleased, we got along great in that aspect, she is an excellent kisser with a very sexy responsive body, I will say this I enjoy watching the woman enjoying herself on top and Mareana definitely set the bar high in her ability in this position. As mentioned by others she is a very genuine young lady, very easy to talk to, I enjoyed being with her very much, she is definitely a lady I will see again hopefully very soon.:) Magician

I think with C36 it'll be dangerous to start talking/texting/emailing about money for services. Keep talk/texts/emails to money is for time and companionship, nothing about sex for money A rambling RG

That happens with pretty much every petition site, so change is not the exception to the rule at all. It also happens with fundraising sites like kickstarter, gofundme etc. It's not an ideal facet, but at the same time a lot of the people that sign petitions as a general rule are those whom are activists on a lot of levels and that's why they do that. Lot's of sites have pre checked boxes when you submit your info for their newsletters etc. it was the standard procedure for a number of years. Anyway Evangeline is just trying to do her part and who knows what can happen with it. Awareness is always the key. Sad part is the general population has no idea this law affects them too, despite whether they partake in this industry or not and nobody seems to be talking about that at all.

Oh my goodness, the difference is huge. I tried with merb because I'm in Montreal but the hostility is palpable- between the men and the ladies, and between the men themselves. I never felt like a human being on there. It is very graphic and cold. Cerb is simply this: warmth in my heart. It is so lovely and encouraging and we treat each other with humanity and respect. I have to say that the men on cerb are some of the best men I've ever met, even outside the business. These are men I wish existed more in the real world :) Yay cerb! Thank you for bringing heart, happiness and fun to this industry.

I've seen other hobbyists make reference to sps telling authorities who their clients are and really don't understand where this is coming from. Where is the logic of this? She makes no money from this, looses her clients and can't make new clients. Why would she do this? I sure as hell would never "help" the authorities get prosecutions under this law.

Every provider has different policies, and with my policies, if I have a deposit or pre-pay and I cannot show for some reason, a full refund goes to the client. If an appointment is pre-paid and the client doesn't show, and there is no notice whatsoever, he therefore forfeits the payment. Circumstances do come up either way. Clients spouse/family member suddenly drops in at the worst possible moment, has car trouble, can't get out of a meeting in time to make it, there are lots of reasons. Providers have outside influences also, a client that went overtime and I can't find a gracious way to ask him to leave (in this case I've gone to the ladies room and texted I am going to be late would you like to reschedule or cancel, hence the importance of a contact number), car trouble, a host of problems. We providers tend to look at all the problems that may arise, and find a way around them. I would never just not show up for someone without a damn good excuse as to why. We providers do receive a lot of no shows, its part of this business, and we have to accept it. If the lady in question did take a prepayment, or deposit, from you, then you are entitled (in my opinion) to compensation for the no show. if it was just a pre-booking, then neither of you are obligated to the other for anything, except perhaps her reputation. If it was just a few hours of her not showing up, give her the benefit of the doubt. Contact her to find out if she is ok, and if you can reschedule, then you may find out what happened.

Six Feet Under - I watched it a few years ago when it first came out. I find myself watching it again now in re-runs.

Congrats on making it to the 500 milestone!

I am writing here because I realized some gentlemen are asking questions about me so I will give you the information. I just transformed a room in my house in a Tantra Temple ( big fire place, exotic decorations, warm atmosphere, candles everywhere. I offer a moment of pure pleasure and kindness. My massage is inspired from the Kama Sutra book of love (exotic technics) and the quality and cares I provide are VIP. I know how to give a good tantric massage because I have 10 years of experience and I learned from Masters in India 10 years ago. What is Tantric? In the beginning it was a movement of protestation from a group of person who believed the divine could be reach by the sexuality. Like we all know, back those days, sex was banned and people were considering it as impure. Tantric is there to prove us that the divine can be reach by the sensual touch and the goal is to get the most powerful orgasm possible (by the lingam and the kundalini). Feel free to ask me questions, I am very friendly and humanist. I am a nice girl, I treat my costumers just like kings. I will make you very happy. I know I am not supposed to write here because it s a review site, but I saw how many people were asking about me. So kindly I answer to you Gentlemen. With love, Liberty

I am going to repeat the obvious which is SOP: always get paid upfront, and remove the $$ from the view of the client. No exceptions. it is especially simple in a spa setting, the attendant makes the agreement, then takes the $$ out to the front desk attendant for safe keeping. Other than that, there are dbs out there, like this guy, and once they know they can get away with it, they continue to try to do the same thing at other places with the same policies of post payment. Which is why it is never good for clients to brag or mention seeing any MA or SP who accepts payment after session, this kind of guy is looking for that kind of provider.

The OP is asking if a provider has birthday specials. He's not asking for a freebie. He has only 4 posts to his credit, so some allowance could be considered for the "newbie" factor. The beauty of this industry, is that each provider can choose to run his / her business exactly as it best suits him / her. Be it rates, screening requirements, services provided...or anything else. Consider for a moment, that the OP has perused the ads from our wonderful ladies, and is simply looking to save himself some time...because after all: We have ladies with long weekend specials http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191654&highlight=special We have ladies with special allowances for later bookings or overnight rendezvous http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191648&highlight=special We have ladies with specials of the day http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191639&highlight=special We have early bird specials, and specials for bringing wine http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191629&highlight=special We have month end specials http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191629&highlight=special We have specials to help pay for taxes http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191446&highlight=special We have pre-booking specials http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191045&highlight=special We have specials for "$50 reduction for a rendez-vous confirmed before " deadline http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=190144 Clearly, specials are a common thing. So my question is this...why is it ok for providers to have specials, but frowned upon when men inquire about specials? IMO, the OP is not looking to negotiate a ladies rates, he is inquiring if a provider has a birthday special...nothing more. Either a lady has one, or she doesn't. I don't see why it needs to be more complicated than that. After all, cut him some slack...it's his birthday ;)

Without a doubt I am and always will be a cat lover. I've got a soft spot for adopted kittens. My sassy side kick is a feisty Calico, would like to adopt another one in the near future. Jas.

You should see Clarissa Delight and I eat crab legs ;)

I get different fantasies every week but I guess right now it would be a threesome but starting off as a twosome. Here is what i mean by that, me in a room with a lady and we are kissing and caressing each other and another lady could be watching us and she would get aroused by seeing us. She would eventually join us and there would be lots of kissing and helping one an other into mind blowing sex.

Assuming different options are available with GFE or PSE will only make you mad when you find out these are not available from some ladies. GFE and PSE are "STYLES of SERVICE" and not actual services!! You CAN NOT assume PSE or GFE include any specific services. STYLES.... Mechanical Style: This means no chemistry and just what it is (Sex) no illusion of lust or passion. GFE: Girl friend experience (Does not include specific services) this is a style of date where chemistry is tried to be created, feelings of lust and passion. Usually includes kissing and a more intimate fantasy. The lady appears (and often is) genuinely interested in pleasing you and often enjoys being pleasured as well. PSE: Porn star experience (Does not include specific services) this is also a style of date. It is not a romantic/passion/chemistry type encounter it is like what you see in the porn movies (A little dirty and hardcore) SAFE PSE/GFE: means condoms are used for oral sex (and possibly DATY protection is used) - Some girlfriends and porn stars insist on condoms for everything too guys! CONDOMS are used IN ALL STYLES (Some people assume condoms are not used with these styles as often real girl friends and porn stars do not use condoms). DO NOT ASSUME THIS AS YOU WOULD BE VERY WRONG - IT IS UNSAFE TO HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX! You guys who assume services are included in these styles are setting yourself up to be let down. Just because one lady offers specific services (and possibly markets it as GFE/PSE does not mean the next lady will offer the same services. They are usually similar as a really good GFE would include kissing, bbbj and some touching and rubbing to build chemistry and fantasy. If you feel she is actually attracted to you and into the encounter she may be (or she may be VERY good at her job - just go with it!) Don't EXPECT any services - always ask or research first and if you show up with bad breath, rotten teeth, bad hygiene or dressed like a bum chances are you are going to be even more disappointed. In Addition: One of the ladies PM'd me to mention that one of the reasons ladies may not kiss is from being unshaven. A lot of stubble can do a girl some major damage. I would assume this to be true with DATY as well with some.