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I agree that posting a public request that someone PM you is ridiculous. Just send that person a PM yourself. I have refused numerous requests from newbies and lurkers for info on ladies, MPs, etc. If they don't have a posting history that enables me to evaluate them, I refuse politely. I have no idea if they're LE, a stalker, a pain in the ass, or whatever. Just last week, a lurker who has been a member for six and a half years with zero posts asked me for info! I told him he had no right to expect any help if he had never seen fit to post useful information publicly first.

I have followed this discussion and told myself I was not going to get involved in it simply to be on the safe side of the board. I understand what mister_crufty is going through in his marriage because I am also in the same boat, I love my wife very much and we are totally compatible except for sex. Let me try to explain a bit more without going into details. Something in our relationship happened over 10 years ago and she became depressed (its not something I did) and refused sex completely. I figured I would give her time to get back to normal but as time went by every thing stayed the same. We had a great sex life, 2-3 times a day anywhere in the house, outside, in the pool, in the car, public park etc. When all of this stopped for me I tried my best to cope with it without leaving her and this "hobby" gave me the solution to my dilemma. Nothing about her changed except for the sex, she is a very very attractive women and it HURTS me not being able to have her to myself like I used to. She is starting to give me intimacy now but it took forever to get here. There is more but those are confidential things I don't want to share with all of you. We love each other and I know I would have a difficult time to find someone to give me has much as she does, we have a long time relationship and that is worth so much to me. Sorry if I made this a long story for you all to read. Don't be judging anyone and if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. That's the rules here. To finish I just want to say to answer the OP's question, Yes I feel bad but I have needs like everyone here and I cope with it and take in the best from what I do in my life. My decision I have to live with the consequences if she finds out.

And if anyone asks for locations, even general area can put the lady at risk. This is something they can inquire with the lady in question, for very obvious reasons. If he can't ask her that, ask yourself the many reasons WHY THAT MAY BE. Our DISCRETION is very important, dont think for a second that LE doesnt use these boards to find out info. Other reasons a guy may ask a guy for location are safety related, remember not all clients understand the sp/client dynamic. Or simply wish to drum up trouble if he was declined an encounter.

Welcome to our world (the sp's that is :boobies:) lol

I love the era of the 50's. Although this probably isn't true but things seemed a lot easier back then. Women dressed nicely even to clean the house and alot of it was about family. There was an optimistic drive among people to succeed and knowing through opportunity and hard work could acheive what they wanted to. I have always been drawn to the music ( i'm a big Elvis Presley fan), colors, cars, diners and those God awful pink plastic flamingos.

I'm all for being helpful but I detest laziness. It's just lazy not to do your research and I also don't respond to this kind of inquiry. For people I know, because of posting history or from chat whom I've gotten to know a little, with educated questions I'll answer. If you clearly haven't bothered to look at her website or her reviews....sorry but you're out of luck. I do my own research...do yours!

You ask a worthy question zorobaby. These are the factors and experience that influence my decision when deciding to see a younger than 40 guest... 1. Unrealistic expectations of what the session will entail. Porn has skewed manys perceptions as to what is genuine sex and what is done strictly to feed a visual desire. For the younger set it seems to be about how many sog's they are going to get or they have a list of activities that need to be completed in order for them to feel they got their moneys worth. For me this approach is exhausting in the playroom, both mentally and physically and when they leave I often reflect that the money wasn't worth the energy spent for me. This trait is not exclusive to younger clients, just more prevalent. 2. Contact. Many younger men contact us with little to no respect shown for us as people. One line text and emails are an instant red flag as are the phone calls that start with "How much for a blow job?" without even introducing yourself. The civil niceties are seldom present and they do not have the awareness or understanding of what it takes to be a sex worker and that we are living, breathing human beings with feelings that need to be treated as such the same as everyone else. Their inherent attitudes of youth often mislable us as disposable or less than and that is unacceptable to us. 3. Money. If I had a nickle for every time I've heard "Is your pussy made of gold?" from a not yet grown man cub, I'd be rich. My prices aren't and never have been in the upper price range of this industry. I provide outstanding service and take pride and care in ensuring my guests are cared for above and beyond the industry norm but younger men don't understand the cost of doing business for us. Indulging in women is like any other hobby, it takes money and the younger they are the less saved pennies they have to spend on the intangibles unlike their older counterparts. All that said, I have some younger guests on my dance card who I absolutely adore. They are mature beyond their years and we are a good fit so it works. They contacted me with well articulated emails and engaged in an exchange with me that showed they were indeed the kind of client I enjoy. At that point, the age became a non issue. The younger providers often have personal reasons for staying away from their peers and that should be respected but most providers will make an exception if you approach them with the right attitude... cat

My favorite era is always the next one. I get to build on everything I've seen, heard, learned from the "old" ones and guide myself into the next. Oh, it also means I make it to the next :) Remember every day you get up, is a good one.

It all depends on the mood I'm in. My personal decorating style is turn of the century exotic Victorian, I love the art deco of the 30's as is reflected in my advertising with their clean, bold lines and often my personal dress with hats and accessories. It feels so civilized. There are times where I will channel the Hollywood glamour of the 40's with the formal elegance of satin and pearls. Then there are times I feel like a Pink Lady and wear skin tight pencil skirts with sweaters and heels. I do the 60's-70's Boho look well when I'm feeling a little constricted and need to connect with my inner tree hugging, flower child but I cannot do the 80's. It was a horrendous time for fashion, attitude and music. When I get in mood, I will delve online in an era just to clear my head and I will fall in love with it all over again. I did this thru books as a child and now in our golden time, it's so much easier to explore. If I had a choice to go back and live an era tho, it would be when North America was being settled. Before governments had their hands in complicating everything and one didn't need a degree to get a job. A time when things moved slower and weren't so complex. A person could build a life with just common sense, hard work, sweat and tears... cat

Sort of reads like a bad episode of Oprah..... It's all about taking personal responsibility for one's actions. Peace MG

40s and 50s; basically the Cary Grant years. Mostly because there was a whole social layer people had to navigate which is absent today. You wore a suit and a hat, but they weren't prisons; more like scaffolds for self-expression. There were elaborate constraints of social manners, but (like Cary Grant) once you'd mastered them you could play within them and convey an ocean of subversive meaning with a well-timed quip. I guess it was that cusp in time when what had been a crushing conformity of the first half of the century was eroding and setting the stage for the revolution that came in the 60s, but the trappings of the older social order were still there to have fun with in their twilight. Plus, you know, the underwear. Because c'mon, the 50s are the Bettie Paige years too! :)

I have a huge old farmhouse, like really, way too large for me here alone. There was a time when four of the five bedrooms were used every night, but those days are long in the past. I use one bedroom and when family visits the others are used and when family and friends visit it just expand outwards. I believe that the record is fifteen people here sleeping in beds with an additional eight or ten finding comfortable quarters. Not too shabby. So yes, a big old farmhouse. There is an issue however with this big old farmhouse. When it was built there was little need for closet space or storage space so in the entire house are only three very tiny closets. I suppose a hundred plus years ago everyone had only their daily work clothes and a good Sunday Go To Meetin outfit, and hey they don't take a lot of space do they. So, feeling rather bored after Christmas I thought that I might do a little renovation. You know, something to keep me occupied and perhaps even a useful something. The thought came to me - why not make a door from my bedroom into that small bedroom right beside me that is always empty and convert it into a walk in closet. Great idea I thought and the saws and hammers came out. As I approach the end of the project I find myself in a major dilemma. Isn't it odd how every single project I undertake seems to just lead into something else? The dilemma you ask? Well it is the fact that I now have a walk in closet - but how can that be a dilemma? A walk in closet, to me, means a large area in which one can hang their clothes, organize their shoes, and keep ones wearing apparel in a somewhat organized fashion. However when I look at reality, I have two pairs of shoes that I rotate and replace as they wear out, both kept in the porch by the door downstairs. I have about a half dozen sports shirts that I rotate through daily until my weekly laundry day comes around, so for a good part of the time they are stored in the laundry basket. I have two pairs of cords and a pair of jeans. I do have a pretty classy suit which only comes out for weddings. That's all folks. I am a simple man. No walk in closet needed by me! I have come to the perfect answer to my dilemma and really such a simple answer it is. A woman, I need a woman! A woman who needs a place to organize her shoes, hang her dresses, place every blouse on a hanger, have ample shelf room and still have the space to put in a full length mirror as she tries on her various choices of apparel. Oh, I have a pretty nice bathroom too. Resumes and CV's eagerly anticipated. :)

I was inspired in the sexy abc's thread and posted this. I was pretty pleased with myself and didn't want it to get buried so here it is in it's entirety. Hope it's good for a chuckle. A is for Anal...right in your bum. B is for BJ...a great way to cum! C is for cock...one eye but can't see D is for doggy-style...we can both watch TV E is erogenous...the zone some men can't find F is for fetish...you want WHAT in your behind? G is for G-Spot...If you want her to go fast H is for hymen...they're far in our past I is for implants...if you don't like how you're born J is for Japan...weird-ass tentacle porn K is for KY...slippery and wet L is my libido...as strong as they get M is for masturbate...when I play with my stem N is my nuts...so please don't neglect them O is for orgasm...the main point of this vice P is for penis...yes, I listed it twice Q is for queef...sometimes kitties burp R is for redheads...sexy firecrotch! slurp! S is for sex...it makes me a fool. T is for tongue...the most useful tool. U is for uterus...couldn't find a 'U' word V is for vulva...both hairless and furred W is wet...how my rhymes make the ladies X is my rating...this shit ain't for babies! Y is for yoni...look it up...it means beaver Z is zoophilia...Hey! That's my retriever! :-D

The 70's were my decade. Disco, drugs and experimental sex (well it was for me) were the order of the day.

I agree women were so feminine back then. Very sexy and glamorous looking at least in the movies. No one has yet to surpass Elvis- in my opinion that is. He will always be king.

EMail money transfers simplify things when otherwise you would have to carry a large sum of money to the encounter. Not only do I not like carrying big wads of money, the lady probably prefers not having to carry a large sum too. As for trust, well trust isn't an issue for me with the ladies I see, so I can pay in advance if preferred by a lady RG

For some men, it takes an hour or more. For others, it can work in 20-30 minutes. The difference may be partly the "placebo effect" where we believe so strongly that we're receiving a benefit from the medication that we actually get the hoped-for result even if the medication isn't working or was just a sugar pill. The difference may also be attributed to the differences between individuals. Similarly, the effect of the medication may vary. Two of my clients have lasting, positive results from Viagra for about 12 hours. Most men find that the drug is best for a couple of hours and ineffective beyond that. Cialis seems to be helpful for a day or two, depending on one's vascular health in general, but isn't so helpful if diabetic neuropathy is the cause of his erectile difficulties. Levitra is helpful for many men when diabetes is involved. Sometimes none of these medications works or works reliably, however. There are operations that can help--installing implants, pumps, etc. These are invasive procedures, to say the least, and while they have good outcomes, they're more commonly performed on--and sought by--young men in their 20s and 30s who have lost erectile function because of injury or illness. What I would like men to recognize, though, is that the inability to have or maintain a firm and lasting erection doesn't have to mean the end of one's sex life. Yes, intercourse may no longer be on the menu. However, satisfying orgasms are still possible from manual and oral stimulation and the emotional satisfaction that's part of sexual engagement can be achieved in many, many, many ways that are not limited to intercourse. If men are honest with themselves and with one another, they could recognize that penises are notoriously unreliable appendages. Cultivating a full-body sensuality is often much more satisfying emotionally, physically and spiritually than focusing excessively on one organ or sensation.

I always suggest that you call or contact the sp a good 24 hours in advance, and definitely call between 'normal' day time hours to find out. You might have to visit one time at what people might call a reasonable hour, but depending on what time of day you are into, it should work out. I have to say I'd recommend against contacting the ones whose ads say 24/7 the main thing is don't wait until midnight for a first contact.

My friends, It is with great sadness that I must report that our esteemed friend, mrrnice2, was horribly injured earlier in what appears to have been a crowd-related incident. Most of his wounds appear to have been inflicted by multiple objects of about the size of a stiletto heel, possibly caused as he lay prone after being caught unawares in the initial crush. Investigations continue as to how he managed to become swamped by a stampeding swarm of sexy seductresses. Please join me in wishing him well for his recuperation. Phaedrus P.S. Does anyone know why he has a room full of ladies' underwear? Is there something we should be told?

I have always been a fan of the 30's and 40's. For some reason I love the style of their clothes, hair, makeup, interior design, cars and the way people talked back then. Do you have a favorite era and why?

It might be related to my current obsession with Mad Men, but I love the idea of the late 50's and the 60's, especially when it comes to fashion. Men in suits, women in gorgeous curve-hugging dresses, and everyone with classic drinks. I also love that there was so much change in that time in the West - the civil rights movement, the women's movement, the beginning of the sex-positive/free-love movement. I think it would have been amazing to be able to play a part in those. But I don't think I would have been in to being barred from university and many jobs,among other things, so I'm happy to continue in this era with my nostalgic longing fully intact, able to wear "pin-up" style dresses whenever I want ;).

I visited Graceland once. That was interesting! Elvis was a complicated character but that's one of the reasons why people were so drawn to him.

This is an awesome reply Emily. Very nice. Many ladies set out baseline standards in their age requirements and advertise as such...and as Emily stated maturity and respect is a huge part of that reason. I do not believe however that it will be written in stone in many cases that you must be "35 plus" for example. The ladies need to feel comfortable and feel safe and hopefully excited to open that door. How us fella's correspond and also come across as genuine no matter of age determines that comfort level. As was stated odds are you will never be asked. As a hobbyist...age doesn't remotely matter to me or your life experiences because of your age. It about maturity, respect and fun genuine personalities. How you come across in your ads, posts and most importantly our correspondence over time. I also have a comfort level as well. Perhaps off topic there. Summed up...IMO...if a young fella is respectful, courteous and comes across as wanting to have a genuine intimate encounter and enjoy the moment you will get a date easily and quickly......If you come across as a young fella who wants to strictly have sex "as fast as you can and as many times as you can" then you may have to look a little longer for a date.

And I'm just the opposite. In fact, "drive by" sex might very well describe my favourite kind of offering. These days, I find myself entertaining from home, a quick hop off and back on the 417 for those travelling through. It works well for them because they don't have to block out a half a day for a session. If they jump off the highway and spend a half hour with me, it's unlikely to raise too many questions about where they were. And it works well for me too! My family may be all the 4-legged furry kinds, but they demand a lot of my attention. Plus I have a life to live. I've always got books on the go, some project in the kitchen, something I'm in the middle of studying. A half hour break is refreshing for both of us, and we can each get back to our previously scheduled programming with renewed vigour and big smiles on our faces. I find an hour to be more than enough time for most people. Some enjoy longer, but two hours is simply the most I can do here at home because it's not just my home. The natives get restless if they're ignored much longer than that.

Yes, that sounds much better! ;) Additional Comments: I respectfully disagree. :P

It is indeed a fetish and there are those that seek it out. Years ago I had a client that was a master at making girls expel. It made me nuts because the entire session was just a long series of queefs and I would giggle throughout it which kills the mood for me. I finally offloaded him to an agency because having my uterus filled with air once a week was a little much and my instinct said it wasn't healthy. I'm not sure if that's a medical fact but when my little voice says something I listen; even if the medical community doesn't back her up. I don't worry about it happening as it is unavoidable in some positions and if a playmate gets offended if I do it, then he's in the wrong place with the wrong person! I look at queefs like I do burps, gas and hiccups. They happen to everyone at some point and can be a catalyst for a good giggle break. If you can't laugh at these things, then you are way too serious to play at my house... cat

Indeed it is! Which reminds me, I have to get myself pegged while I still have a prostate and before my hips get all seized up with arthritis (gotta be able to spread those legs for missionary!). LOL Additional Comments: I have a fetish for booger porn! I love the snotshots, where the guy holds one of his nostrils and blows fiercely, expelling all the booger from the other nostril into the eager mouth of an awaiting hottie. I am especially fond of boogake, where a lady takes multiple snotshots on her face and then tantalizingly plays with the glistening green ooze before gulping it all down! That Japanese boogake is the best! Oh God, I think I just made myself ill. :P

This all depends on the provider. Obviously the ladies that advertise half hour rates are open to the time frame. I for one, haven't decided if I want to see you in the first 15 minutes you are here. I haven't collected my fee and we are getting to know each other. I only offer 2 hour appointments because chemistry is about the exchange of energy, not just the sexual lava boiling but the essence of my guests. I want to want them the way they want me before we get naked because if I'm not going to enjoy the experience, I'd rather not participate. At my age, I'm not wasting 30 minutes on drive thru sex with someone I don't connect with, life is too short. Once I know a client I can accommodate time restrictions with packages that are more than reasonable but that takes time and trust. If I find the shorter sessions aren't working for me then I will nix arrangement. I do have a 1 hour introduction package but very few take advantage of, most book for 2 hours out of the gate. I find even the hour is a little short for me. So the best thing to do is look at the providers advertising, it will tell you if booking for a half hour is appropriate and if she doesn't advertise a rate for that time frame; don't ask because you will most likely receive a gentle decline for the appointment. It isn't personal, it is just a personal choice on how a woman likes to do business... cat

I'm a fan of this era myself. ;-) I kind of like the Depression era as it's kind of repeating itself these days, and it's interesting to see the similarities between now and then. Back then, there were people and businesses which were debt-free and thriving during tough economic times, so it's nice to learn from their experiences and apply the same principles to my life and business, which is part of the reason I'm not hobbying as much these days! LOL. I like how they dressed in the 30s too.

I think that a photography/art group is a very good idea, I bet that there are a lot of people out there who would agree with me as well as have a lot of good pictures to post. This would also give my erotic photographer a chance to get his name out by taking my pictures as well as me being able to take some awesome pictures of things myself like I love to do :) I cant wait till you get the group up and running :)

Ooh..cool. Didn't look so I didn't know. Thanks Jessie. You've got something for everyone. Great post.

Yes my X did the same. The first time it happened I went what's going on down there. We laughed than it became the norm. She too said it tickled. That's not why she is my X. HA! HA!

Best luck, I hope this is the fix ....I want to see you live a pain free and happy long life my friend!!

the video is made for man

I hear the closet is complete and I have seen the finished results. Serious contenders will be receiving thier photo in the next few days, stand by ladies and prepare to be amazed.

Definitely the late 60's and 70's!! :biggrin: Sex, drugs, and rock n roll baby!! :motion: Peace, love and free will! Long hair and bellbottoms... lava lamps and shag rugs... tree hugging and flower power!!! And everything was so colourful!!! :biggrin:

Sometimes if very noticeable. It makes for a good laugh relax any situation :)

Living life in an authentic manner Summer or Winter?

My meeting with a cerb MA was cancelled at the last minute. So, I called ALLD to see if ShaSha was available. Fortunately and quite surprisingly, she was and I was at their westend location in a jiffy - well, in less than 20 min! ShaSha is a slim, pretty girl with a very sweet face and super smooth and pale skin. She is indeed a true-blue spinner!. The photos in the ad are hers but they do not do her justice (She was wearing the same body-hugging pink dress when I saw her). She is actually much better looking in real life than the photos portrayed her to be. One of the photos seems distorted and makes her head look unproportionately big. She was very safety-conscious in that she would not hug or kiss you when you entered the room. Only after the shower would she let you touch her. ShaSha has a pair of nice-looking, firm and responsive natural boobs. She is only slightly trimmed, so one can call her natural in that area as well. Spending time with her today was extremely satisfying and pleasurable for both of us. As the ad indicates, only lfk, bbbj, bls, daty, mpos and massage are on the menu and these were exactly what I received. Her English was not very good, but good enough for me to understand what she was trying to communicate. I must add that her massage skills were surprisingly good and IMHO, rivalled some RMTs that I had before with her strong fingers and hands. In summary, I enjoyed my hour with her and found her to be a very pleasant girl so much so that I promised her I would go back to see her again - and I will.

I'm a bit surprised when people say they don't "believe" in the flu shot. I get that scientists and doctors have gotten stuff wrong on occasion in the past, but every reason I've read so far to not take it has been anecdotal as opposed to anything scientific. This is one of those moments where I still feel like a foreigner. I grew up in the East thinking that citizens of first world countries didn't follow old wives tales and what not, seeking remedies through passed down stories. Truth be told, I've taken the shot a couple of times over the last 10 years, and the honest fact is that I've been completely lazy about it. I do realize I'm in my prime age, where the flu is less likely to affect me, but I know that I'm just lucky so far. But to those who don't "believe" in the flu shot, I'm genuinely curious, do you think the government is willfully blind that pharma companies are using this once a year moment to peddle additional drugs? Or that the pharmaceutical companies have tricked all government health organizations around the world? Or some other reason why they are still provided. And since someone brought up that a few decades ago we had less immunization shots and what not. But consider this, in Canada, from 1920 to 1960, the average life expectancy rose from 59 to 66. Considering that Canada moved to become a properly middle class nation, it would make sense. Since them however, the life expectancy has gone up to 79. I know that there are many variables in this rise, but I would credit some of this to immunization. (Speaking as someone who has absolutely no knowledge of molecular level biology, or anything of that sort mind you)

And re-posting a favourite :) And one more favourite :)

She's a new member who posted in the NS section recently. Also saw her on --------, sent an email, received pics and they are not her. All 7 images sent were cropped pictures from various sites. At least 2 of the full images are different girls. The response email was more than enough to tell its not a real escort. Reads the same as a Nigerian email. Hope this helps someone

One would like to believe that bbfs is not on anyone's menu, but the fact is that it is. And how can one not make the obvious link between what used to be unavailable 10 years ago to the point of laugh in face if requested, is now so 'common'. And all that in spite of the fact that testing is easier, and information is really easier considering majority of advertising is done on the internet, so is the information about stds and yet they still do it. But what we also see from one decade to the next are a lot of foreign workers in the system, bringing their 'style' so to speak. and their style is based on a different level of acceptability. Then new but local sps get into the biz, they read ads to see what to do or not do, and they see all that stuff on the table and assume that is what they have to do. Which is fine because they also have no idea where to find std risk charts like this one either. http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/stdchart.asp Greek and duos and dato also never used to be even considered appealing, let alone offered, and yet there they are :) No matter what the sp provides, there is always someone going to ask for somethng she doesn't. And those influence what ends up on the menu down the road I think. I am all for decrim and regulation because believe me there is NO way Occupational health and safety commissions are going to allow bbbjs with or without CIM.

Wow, Murphy and his law need to screw off!! I have had a HORRIBLE day (with other server techies) trying to get this darn webserver back online after a automated security update last night. The server updated some software (suppose to do that) but while doing it maybe the server rebooted or something cause it failed and and basically shut everything off. It's back and with any luck it stays online. If you find any problems PLEASE let me know as I suspect other stuff will need fixing after this one. (Think we are getting the entire years worth of server crashes all this month so with any luck the rest of the year is golden!)

Absolutely, and a critical point about lots of things other than sex. It takes a lot of work, confidence, and a fundamentally open mind to examine yourself and find what YOU want. If you don't do that work, or simply aren't capable of it, you end up just being what the prevailing culture tells you you should be. Sometimes you really do want the same things the culture expects of you. But other times... no so much. You make the point well here about our sexual lives Audrey but it's true of other things too. Should we buy cars? Get married? Have kids? Buy houses in the suburbs? Go to a church and do what it tells us? Lots of people genuinely want these things, and more power to them. Lots of others, though, just do them because they've simply absorbed the expectations of the culture around them, or of the people who have social sway over them. Tragic.

I went to get what will be my last tub of drywall plaster to finish the seam filling in the room that I am renovating. Upon getting it home and opening it all ready to go to work I find that it is frozen solid. It obviously was just brought in from the warehouse or off of a truck. Well, that sets me back a day. So instead I changed out of my work clothes and opened an early beer. Sure am glad that I have this wood furnace!!!

You got a massage good enough to make you return, yet it's not open for business? What does that mean? :confused0024:

Posted this pic as a Treat of the Day on my page, but she needs to go here, too. :) Awesome, eh?