New to this? Things you should know...

715 topics in this forum

1. Welcome to our new members! 1 2 3 4 199

   By Guest lydiahardwood, May 21, 2020
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   • Ryan stewart
   • May 2, 2025

2. Negotiating 1 2 3 4 14

   By Meg O'Ryan, July 12, 2013
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   • mod
   • July 28, 2013

3. The Importance of following Instructions.... 1 2 3

   By EmilyRushton, January 30, 2012
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   • Donnyboy
   • April 24, 2025

4. Pm'ing 1 2

   By Tiffany Amber, April 5, 2011
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   • Gruzzy
   • November 12, 2022

5. Posting etiquette on Lyla 1 2

   By mod, June 7, 2010
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   • Meaghan McLeod
   • October 29, 2025

6. Welcome new users and visitors - please read. 1 2 3 4 7

   By mod, April 6, 2009
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   • just_a_mcton_guy-4u
   • August 29, 2020

7. what not to ask an sp? 1 2 3 4 7

   By mysteryman6854840, April 1, 2009
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   • masterowls
   • August 9, 2010

8. Questions/subjects to avoid initiating with an SP 1 2 3 4 5

   By northerntantra, July 14, 2012
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   • Phaedrus
   • April 16, 2013

9. Newbie seeks advice! 1 2 3 4 5

   By Bobbb, December 28, 2008
   • 108 comments
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   • Guest
   • November 13, 2018

10. Why we ask for refferences... 1 2 3 4 5

    By Grass_Hopper, November 16, 2009
    • 103 comments
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    • etasman2000
    • August 25, 2012

11. How to post recomendation (New Moderated Member) 1 2 3 4 5

    By p_hodson, May 23, 2010
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    • Guest
    • June 29, 2019

12. Negotiating Rates??? 1 2 3 4

    By Cumquat, February 17, 2009
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    • abby_g
    • August 30, 2009

13. Bbfs 1 2 3 4

    By Meg O'Ryan, May 17, 2012
    • 92 comments
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    • BownChickaBown
    • September 12, 2012

14. Time-Wasting Opinions! 1 2 3 4

    By Wolf Knight, October 9, 2013   

    • time-waster
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    • Ice4fun
    • October 31, 2013

15. New Members' Introduction Thread 1 2 3 4

    By Mahadev, September 17, 2012
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    • Donnyboy
    • April 24, 2025

16. Slow Times in this business - Ever wonder what causes them?? 1 2 3 4

    By Chanel Reign, August 24, 2010
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    • timarchie
    • November 1, 2017

17. Loneliness? 1 2 3

    By carlosage, May 31, 2014
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    • CristyCurves
    • January 27, 2015

18. Reputation points 1 2 3

    By wellie, March 31, 2011
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    • Guest
    • January 16, 2020

19. what to do with your wallet 1 2 3

    By pussy_liquor, November 25, 2008
    • 61 comments
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    • baileydog
    • January 16, 2013

20. Rate structure 1 2 3

    By wellie, April 26, 2010
    • 55 comments
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    • etasman2000
    • August 17, 2012

21. Sending a text just saying 'hi' 1 2 3

    By Cleo Catra, January 24, 2013
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    • Fogsauce
    • July 5, 2013

22. Editing posts - 48 Hour timelimit. 1 2 3

    By mod, April 1, 2010
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    • Guest o*****a*****r
    • December 26, 2010

23. how do you keep from getting caught 1 2 3

    By pbb1066, November 6, 2011
    • 51 comments
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    • Goombata72
    • January 7, 2013

24. Willing to bargain... Are you? 1 2

    By Grass_Hopper, December 14, 2010
    • 50 comments
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    • JoyfulC
    • December 17, 2010

25. Treats and gifts for an SP on the first visit 1 2

    By RobX, April 23, 2010
    • 48 comments
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    • DukeSSk
    • May 18, 2012